Thanks to an episode in the Nigerian TV show "skinny girl in transit" I finally have something to actually talk about today, lol, not like I'm out of topics or anything, but...yeah let's just move on.
The problem of young women dating married men is something that has continued to stick around for over a long time now, it's a societal disease that sticks like gum and no matter how much you try to pull it out, it doesn't go out.
Well,i was made to understand that these young women with promising future who have refused to do good to themselves are constantly being told lies by these men that they refuse to hear otherwise. I mean, it takes a really powerful lie to make a woman want to destroy another woman's home right?..right?...oh well!
In this blog post, I'll be taking my time to bring to light some of these lies so our young ladies would know what it is they're really getting themselves into.
1.I'm not happy in/with my marriage
Ok!, Before I go any further , ask yourself this question, "am I a therapist?"...no really, I bet there would be less young women dating married men if they actually ask themselves that question.An unhappy man would not keep staying ona marriage and comes out to announce it like a news on NTA, an unhappy man would leave a marriage not find outside distraction. A married man walks up to you and tells you he's not happy anymore with his marriage, his wife nags always, his wife is this and that and you believe him?..even if it's true, are you a cup or a plate of ice cream and shawarma that somehow magically brings smile on someone's face?, No right?..so why entertain such lie?. If a married man comes up to you with that 'bs' , look him in the face and point him to the nearest fast-food to go get himself a plate of ice cream and shawarma to make himself happy. Better still, recommend a therapist he can go to with his wife, don't make yourself another flavour of ice cream.




2.we are still together just for the kids!
Some really senseless ladies would be happy over this and even praise him for sacrificing his happiness for his children, but wait a sec, did you hear?, He has kids!. Kids he'll never leave for you. Don't you realize that this is like an appeal to pity?. This married man telling you he's still in his marriage because of his kids certainly doesn't have plans of leaving the marriage and I'm sure your parents raised you better with hopes to be something more than a married man's girlfriend

Click on https://www.sarahkaysblog.com/2019/02/lies-married-men-tell-single-ladies.html?m=1 to finish up!

Ftc

U shud only date a married man wit d intention of making u d second wife and during d period of courtship,dere shud b no body contact even of d slightest betwn u guys,wear hijab,wear gloves e.t.c most especially in ur pre-weddin photo