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Finally Leaving An Abusive Forum by queenice7(f): 6:57pm On Feb 28, 2019
it amazes me the kinda people we av here in nairaland. I mean their thinking faculty is so poor and backward it baffles me... few times I av posted stuffs and seek for their advice's, but wot I get from u guys are mean, abusive, thoughtless, insensitive... like wtf, it make matters worst. do u guys know there's sth like depression?? u guys comments fuels it, insensitive most of de times.
the last straw that broke the camel's back was de last story I posted, few hours ago... almost non of the people that commented understood my story, ion know if dey read upside down even as I modified some parts several times and I tried to correct some people, yet you were so in a hurry to hurl abusive words @ me, u were so biased even when its obvious that its de guy I went out with that lacks good conduct, the guy that bulged me by calling me from time to time, asking me wen we'll see, nothing more...maybe coz am a girl in this part of the world... with my experience so far, I think this will be the last time am gona be posting anything here... and I'll advice that you don't av to use abusive words to make a point, you can still sound mature and yet make sense, moreover try to read and understand, and yes, respect the ladies and be equal in judgement...

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Re: Finally Leaving An Abusive Forum by karli4nia(m): 7:05pm On Feb 28, 2019
There are great people in all the street corners of Nairaland...

Maybe you could try other sections like literature, food etc..

Romance section is hot like Jalapeños.. With bunch of nice guys and ladies here..
Maybe its your
karma for now to meet bad ass ones...
Relax... Don't go oh! grin
Re: Finally Leaving An Abusive Forum by CosmicPhoenix: 7:09pm On Feb 28, 2019
dont even try and pull the gender card,even guys receive intense bashing on this forum

queenice7:
it amazes me the kinda people we av here in nairaland. I mean their thinking faculty is so poor and backward it baffles me... few times I av posted stuffs and seek for their advice's, but wot I get from u guys are mean, abusive, thoughtless, insensitive... like wtf, it make matters worst. do u guys know there's sth like depression?? u guys comments fuels it, insensitive most of de times.
the last straw that broke the camel's back was de last story I posted, few hours ago... almost non of the people that commented understood my story, ion know if dey read upside down even as I modified some parts several times and I tried to correct some people, yet you were so in a hurry to hurl abusive words @ me, u were so biased even when its obvious that its de guy I went out with that lacks good conduct, the guy that bulged me by calling me from time to time, asking me wen we'll see, nothing more...maybe coz am a girl in this part of the world... with my experience so far, I think this will be the last time am gona be posting anything here... and I'll advice that you don't av to use abusive words to make a point, you can still sound mature and yet make sense, moreover try to read and understand, and yes, respect the ladies and be equal in judgement...

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Re: Finally Leaving An Abusive Forum by Headlesschicken(m): 7:13pm On Feb 28, 2019
grin Dix gals never like hearing d truth,buh wake up my daughter most folks here tell u d truth u don't wanna admit to urself, although dey might go to d extreme at times,wia u not d chick dat was hungry n went to meet a d!ck in a foreign city,babe calm down cos u got what u deserved...

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Re: Finally Leaving An Abusive Forum by ggrin(f): 7:14pm On Feb 28, 2019
This one never see anything grin
You go deactivate tire grin grin grin

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Re: Finally Leaving An Abusive Forum by Ziel20: 7:30pm On Feb 28, 2019
Sorry dear. I understand it from your direction but most social media forums in Nigeria won't give u definite answers ur question or problem. In this part of the world, people have fun abusing other people.

You ask for advice, they give u insult.
You ask for insult, they give you more insult.

Just very few people are bent on giving the answers u need.

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Re: Finally Leaving An Abusive Forum by Nobody: 7:35pm On Feb 28, 2019
U wont be missed or noticed

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Re: Finally Leaving An Abusive Forum by Nobody: 7:37pm On Feb 28, 2019
dont mind the alpha males and the online narcassists/bullies here, they are pussies in real life

anyway, social media everywhere in the world is not for the weak
Re: Finally Leaving An Abusive Forum by DanDeeBoss(m): 7:45pm On Feb 28, 2019
Like seriously?? undecidedundecided....We have nice people on here na...

Please try to develop a thick skin... smiley

Concerning your other thread, Check for the meaningful comments and move on

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Re: Finally Leaving An Abusive Forum by zolajpower: 7:47pm On Feb 28, 2019
Nairaland is like oyingbo market ,it doesn't know if a single person doesn't come all it knows is there's traffic . Ask seun and lala grin

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Re: Finally Leaving An Abusive Forum by CAPSLOCKED: 7:49pm On Feb 28, 2019
queenice7:
it amazes me the kinda people we av here in nairaland. I mean their thinking faculty is so poor and backward it baffles me... few times I av posted stuffs and seek for their advice's, but wot I get from u guys are mean, abusive, thoughtless, insensitive... like wtf, it make matters worst. do u guys know there's sth like depression?? u guys comments fuels it, insensitive most of de times.
the last straw that broke the camel's back was de last story I posted, few hours ago... almost non of the people that commented understood my story, ion know if dey read upside down even as I modified some parts several times and I tried to correct some people, yet you were so in a hurry to hurl abusive words @ me, u were so biased even when its obvious that its de guy I went out with that lacks good conduct, the guy that bulged me by calling me from time to time, asking me wen we'll see, nothing more...maybe coz am a girl in this part of the world... with my experience so far, I think this will be the last time am gona be posting anything here... and I'll advice that you don't av to use abusive words to make a point, you can still sound mature and yet make sense, moreover try to read and understand, and yes, respect the ladies and be equal in judgement...


I GET IT THAT YOU WANT TO GET A FREE PASS EVEN WHEN YOU'RE NOT MAKING SENSE BECAUSE YOU'RE A WOMAN. GENDER CARD DOESN'T WORK ON THE INTERNET. TAKE YOUR PETTINESS TO YOUR HOUSE AND CRY TO YOUR LOVERS. THERE'S NO TIME PEOPLE LIKE YOU ARE NOT CLAIMING VICTIM.

MAYBE MANY PEOPLE ON THIS FORUM ALSO INSULT SEUN NO MATTER HOW GOOD HE IS BECAUSE HE'S A WOMAN.

THE INTERNET IS BENEFICIAL AT THE SAME TIME TOXIC BECAUSE OF THE KIND OF PEOPLE YOU MEET ONLINE. IT DOESN'T MEAN PEOPLE HAVE TO CHANGE TO ACCOMMODATE YOU AND YOUR FEELINGS, WHO ARE YOU, THE DAUGHTER OF ATHENA??

IF YOU CAN'T DEAL STAY AWAY. I CAN'T OVER EMPHASIZE THAT.

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Re: Finally Leaving An Abusive Forum by kollinzgee(m): 8:21pm On Feb 28, 2019
i read your story too some people dont know the meaning of cheap .to me you are not cheap becoz you didnt give in to his sexual advances if you did that it is the apex of being cheap.but you shouldnt have smelled wat you wouldnt eat thats where you went wrong the guy felt you used him like many girls do.
Re: Finally Leaving An Abusive Forum by Martinez39(m): 8:22pm On Feb 28, 2019
I understand. You have to know that in life, there are all sorts of people with all sorts of things to say. If you can't accept that and ignore "useless" opinions, you are weak indeed. Besides, people's opinions and validation are not something you should get attached to if you are really mature in mind. Would you commit suicide if the whole world bully you on the Internet?
Re: Finally Leaving An Abusive Forum by Alariiwo: 8:25pm On Feb 28, 2019
You must learn to adapt, it's a jungle out here

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Re: Finally Leaving An Abusive Forum by 21Bandit: 8:25pm On Feb 28, 2019
CAPSLOCKED:



I GET IT THAT YOU WANT TO GET A FREE PASS EVEN WHEN YOU'RE NOT MAKING SENSE BECAUSE YOU'RE A WOMAN. GENDER CARD DOESN'T WORK ON THE INTERNET. TAKE YOUR PETTINESS TO YOUR HOUSE AND CRY TO YOUR LOVERS. THERE'S NO TIME PEOPLE LIKE YOU ARE NOT CLAIMING VICTIM.

MAYBE MANY PEOPLE ON THIS FORUM ALSO INSULT SEUN NO MATTER HOW GOOD HE IS BECAUSE HE'S A WOMAN.

THE INTERNET IS BENEFICIAL AT THE SAME TIME TOXIC BECAUSE OF THE KIND OF PEOPLE YOU MEET ONLINE. IT DOESN'T MEAN PEOPLE HAVE TO CHANGE TO ACCOMMODATE YOU AND YOUR FEELINGS, WHO ARE YOU, THE DAUGHTER OF ATHENA??

IF YOU CAN'T DEAL STAY AWAY. I CAN'T OVER EMPHASIZE THAT.

This are the ones that will commit suicide because the internet was harsh to them.....

All these children of now.... seeking approval from social media to live their life....no body give a Bleep about you..

Life Na per head

But they never understand till they drink sniper due to depression from social media.

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Re: Finally Leaving An Abusive Forum by Nobody: 8:27pm On Feb 28, 2019
Op. Do not expect people to treat you nicely because you are a nice person, it's just like expecting a lion not to eat you because you don't eat lion. So fucck it

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Re: Finally Leaving An Abusive Forum by Alariiwo: 8:30pm On Feb 28, 2019
kollinzgee:
i read your story too some people dont know the meaning of cheap .to me you are not cheap becoz you didnt give in to his sexual advances if you did that it is the apex of being cheap.but you shouldnt have smelled wat you wouldnt eat thats where you went wrong the guy felt you used him like many girls do.

I read the story too.. she is the hangout and friendly type.

Attimes guys get wrong signal from that and see it as invitation for sex. It's a funny world we live in.
Re: Finally Leaving An Abusive Forum by Nobody: 9:28pm On Feb 28, 2019
Babe forget all this nairaland people joor cool
Regarding your post I feel you should call your boyfriend, sit down and talk to him let him understand you very well
From what I read you're not cheap
And please don't really talk about boys to your bf again
Most boys never understand and they always feel we ladies are cheap
Re: Finally Leaving An Abusive Forum by Nobody: 9:44pm On Feb 28, 2019
kollinzgee:
i read your story too some people dont know the meaning of cheap .to me you are not cheap becoz you didnt give in to his sexual advances if you did that it is the apex of being cheap.but you shouldnt have smelled wat you wouldnt eat thats where you went wrong the guy felt you used him like many girls do.
Please when a lady decides to hangout with you, that doesn't mean she wanna give herself to u. Men and their kpekus entitlement is annoying.
Re: Finally Leaving An Abusive Forum by mrblessed(m): 9:50pm On Feb 28, 2019
I had a big grin when I read part of your scribble that blames your lack of support on this platform on the basis of your gender. I am very happy you have decided to deactivate. At least, nairaland will lose a member who has no capacity to embrace and accept divergent but truthful opinion, and someone who does not have the faintest idea that English language is written according to rules. To me, it is a win-win situation.

I hereby wish you a heartfelt, happy deactivation.

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Re: Finally Leaving An Abusive Forum by dollytino4real(f): 9:50pm On Feb 28, 2019
wen am depressed I come to laff out my ribs. I will post and people will bash, beat, slap me it will make me laff aloud my neighbours dat saw me will even wonder just n.a. u carry ur phone u are laffing like dis! just enjoy ur stay here dont go

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Re: Finally Leaving An Abusive Forum by JONNYSPUTE(m): 10:02pm On Feb 28, 2019
So you are leaving the forum because you were told the simple truth. Hope you will also leave your boo because he also told you the truth? Funny.

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Re: Finally Leaving An Abusive Forum by Nobody: 10:05pm On Feb 28, 2019
JONNYSPUTE:
So you are leaving the forum because you were told the simple truth. Hope you will also leave your boo because he also told you the truth? Funny.
Y do I feel you are actually a mean person
Re: Finally Leaving An Abusive Forum by JONNYSPUTE(m): 10:06pm On Feb 28, 2019
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Y do I feel you are actually a mean person
..My dear I'm not mean but a realist.
Re: Finally Leaving An Abusive Forum by faithfull18(f): 10:07pm On Feb 28, 2019
Comprehension is a problem in this part of the world. The OP clearly stated and I emphasize, people should learn to be objective and make comments without garnishing with insults. It is childish and uncalled for.

Here on Nairaland, it's fun bashing people especially the female folks. That needs to change.

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Re: Finally Leaving An Abusive Forum by lilmax(m): 10:08pm On Feb 28, 2019
abeg go jor undecided....people they cannot play with
Re: Finally Leaving An Abusive Forum by mrblessed(m): 10:10pm On Feb 28, 2019
I read the tread that inspired this knee-jerk decision to deactivate, and I am in agreement with most members who said/wrote you are CHEAP. Although they almost nearly focused on material cheapness, I see an extension of "cheapness" to your reasoning ability. After all, what sane person makes valid decision on an empty stomach?

I think your notice of deactivation is pleasing, because nairaland will lose a member who loathes the truth and can't accommodate divergent but unsettling opinion, and someone who does not have the faintest idea that English language is written according to rules.

I hereby wish you a heartfelt, happy deactivation.

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Re: Finally Leaving An Abusive Forum by Savagedawg: 10:13pm On Feb 28, 2019
Madam if you wan leave, leave... Who go miss you
You went to a guy who dey bulge you and collect free food without giving him kpekus.. U come here dey complain undecided undecided
Anyway make i gbe my body

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Re: Finally Leaving An Abusive Forum by Nobody: 10:15pm On Feb 28, 2019
JONNYSPUTE:
..My dear I'm not mean but a realist.
Being a realist isn't an excuse to b insensitive

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Re: Finally Leaving An Abusive Forum by Undertaker001: 10:16pm On Feb 28, 2019
faithfull18:
Comprehension is a problem in this part of the world. The OP clearly stated and I emphasize, people should learn to be objective and make comments without garnishing with insults. It is childish and uncalled for.

Here on Nairaland, it's fun bashing people especially the female folks. That needs to change.
here on NL the female folks type like mental patients.. No respect for anybody..

Until you people develop common sense.. Nothing is gon change

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Re: Finally Leaving An Abusive Forum by Undertaker001: 10:17pm On Feb 28, 2019
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Please when a lady decides to hangout with you, that doesn't mean she wanna give herself to u. Men and their kpekus entitlement is annoying.
same way women and their money entitlement mentality is annoying.
Deal with it

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Re: Finally Leaving An Abusive Forum by JONNYSPUTE(m): 10:19pm On Feb 28, 2019
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Being a realist isn't an excuse to b insensitive
..So by telling her the truth means I'm insensitive? I will say it again. Her boo called her cheap because she behaved cheaply. So if she is going to leave the forum because people here told her the exact thing her boo said,she should also leave him.Simple.Seems you can also call a guy that has been bugging you for sex anytime you are hungry to buy you food?

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