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I Got Pregnant 9 Years Ago, We Have 3 Three Kids:the Law Of Karma Is A Bastard by crackclap: 12:09pm On May 08, 2019
I got pregnant 9 years ago while dating my current husband and then the issue of marriage came up. I wasn’t working then. He told my family and me that he does not want a court marriage for no reason.

My parents tried talking to him, I cried and begged him severally to legalize the marriage with me but he stood his grounds not to wed me in the court.

I involved his family members to help me beg him but they said he is old enough to make his own decisions.

He even refused to do a white wedding either because my church requested a court certificate, so we ended up doing only traditional marriage.

I later got tired and gave up on the matter. I was hurt and broken but I resolved to marry him like that just to save myself and my family the shame of having a baby outside wedlock.

My dad was angry and disappointed in him but he didn’t care and because of that, my dad vowed to see me as a successful and an independent woman with or without him.

After I gave birth to baby, my dad helped me secure a job with a multinational company and things started to turn around for me. I could now take care of myself and secure a good future.

Though I married my husband, I never forgave him from my heart and it made me not to do anything in my husband’s name.

We currently have three (3) kids together but all my properties are in the name of my children. I never used him as my Next of Kin either.

Just last month my company decided to transfer me to a branch in Texas and the company is willing to pay for my entire family to relocate with me.

My husband’s business is not doing well and he is willing to relocate also but we have no legal certificate to show that we are married.

Now, he wants us to go to the court to legalize our marriage and I have said “NO”. My dad has threatened to disown me if I ever go to court with him.

He’s been tagging me everywhere as a bad wife who is not loyal to her husband, spoiling my family also.

His family members have been calling me trying to persuade me but I told them I am old enough to make my own decisions also and I have stood my grounds just like h did to me 9 years ago.


Also - How long should Sex LAST?


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Please, what is your advice for this mother of three? Are they lessons to learn like, not marrying due to circumstances?

https://crackclap.com/law-of-karma/

Re: I Got Pregnant 9 Years Ago, We Have 3 Three Kids:the Law Of Karma Is A Bastard by Amanee(f): 12:13pm On May 08, 2019
Old story

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Re: I Got Pregnant 9 Years Ago, We Have 3 Three Kids:the Law Of Karma Is A Bastard by leokid866: 12:14pm On May 08, 2019
crackclap:

I got pregnant 9 years ago while dating my current husband and then the issue of marriage came up. I wasn’t working then. He told my family and me that he does not want a court marriage for no reason.

My parents tried talking to him, I cried and begged him severally to legalize the marriage with me but he stood his grounds not to wed me in the court.

I involved his family members to help me beg him but they said he is old enough to make his own decisions.

He even refused to do a white wedding either because my church requested a court certificate, so we ended up doing only traditional marriage.

I later got tired and gave up on the matter. I was hurt and broken but I resolved to marry him like that just to save myself and my family the shame of having a baby outside wedlock.

My dad was angry and disappointed in him but he didn’t care and because of that, my dad vowed to see me as a successful and an independent woman with or without him.

After I gave birth to baby, my dad helped me secure a job with a multinational company and things started to turn around for me. I could now take care of myself and secure a good future.

Though I married my husband, I never forgave him from my heart and it made me not to do anything in my husband’s name.

We currently have three (3) kids together but all my properties are in the name of my children. I never used him as my Next of Kin either.

Just last month my company decided to transfer me to a branch in Texas and the company is willing to pay for my entire family to relocate with me.

My husband’s business is not doing well and he is willing to relocate also but we have no legal certificate to show that we are married.

Now, he wants us to go to the court to legalize our marriage and I have said “NO”. My dad has threatened to disown me if I ever go to court with him.

He’s been tagging me everywhere as a bad wife who is not loyal to her husband, spoiling my family also.

His family members have been calling me trying to persuade me but I told them I am old enough to make my own decisions also and I have stood my grounds just like h did to me 9 years ago.


The end.

Please, what is your advice for this mother of three? Are they lessons to learn like, not marrying due to circumstances?

https://crackclap.com/law-of-karma/

She should ask herself if she is ready to seperate her kids from their father, if yes then carry on.
Re: I Got Pregnant 9 Years Ago, We Have 3 Three Kids:the Law Of Karma Is A Bastard by DonGtoG1(m): 12:26pm On May 08, 2019
MORAL OF IT ALL, always try to see beyond now!.

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Re: I Got Pregnant 9 Years Ago, We Have 3 Three Kids:the Law Of Karma Is A Bastard by Malcolm28(m): 3:49pm On May 08, 2019
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Re: I Got Pregnant 9 Years Ago, We Have 3 Three Kids:the Law Of Karma Is A Bastard by egojeny1(f): 5:04pm On May 08, 2019
crackclap:

I got pregnant 9 years ago while dating my current husband and then the issue of marriage came up. I wasn’t working then. He told my family and me that he does not want a court marriage for no reason.

My parents tried talking to him, I cried and begged him severally to legalize the marriage with me but he stood his grounds not to wed me in the court.

I involved his family members to help me beg him but they said he is old enough to make his own decisions.

He even refused to do a white wedding either because my church requested a court certificate, so we ended up doing only traditional marriage.

I later got tired and gave up on the matter. I was hurt and broken but I resolved to marry him like that just to save myself and my family the shame of having a baby outside wedlock.

My dad was angry and disappointed in him but he didn’t care and because of that, my dad vowed to see me as a successful and an independent woman with or without him.

After I gave birth to baby, my dad helped me secure a job with a multinational company and things started to turn around for me. I could now take care of myself and secure a good future.

Though I married my husband, I never forgave him from my heart and it made me not to do anything in my husband’s name.

We currently have three (3) kids together but all my properties are in the name of my children. I never used him as my Next of Kin either.

Just last month my company decided to transfer me to a branch in Texas and the company is willing to pay for my entire family to relocate with me.

My husband’s business is not doing well and he is willing to relocate also but we have no legal certificate to show that we are married.

Now, he wants us to go to the court to legalize our marriage and I have said “NO”. My dad has threatened to disown me if I ever go to court with him.

He’s been tagging me everywhere as a bad wife who is not loyal to her husband, spoiling my family also.

His family members have been calling me trying to persuade me but I told them I am old enough to make my own decisions also and I have stood my grounds just like h did to me 9 years ago.


The end.

Please, what is your advice for this mother of three? Are they lessons to learn like, not marrying due to circumstances?



https://crackclap.com/law-of-karma/

I like this hahahaha

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Re: I Got Pregnant 9 Years Ago, We Have 3 Three Kids:the Law Of Karma Is A Bastard by babyfaceafrica: 6:03pm On May 08, 2019
made up story..bloggers and lies

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Re: I Got Pregnant 9 Years Ago, We Have 3 Three Kids:the Law Of Karma Is A Bastard by 004gist: 11:28pm On May 08, 2019
grin cheesy anywhere u see link run away
Re: I Got Pregnant 9 Years Ago, We Have 3 Three Kids:the Law Of Karma Is A Bastard by sparog(m): 11:59pm On May 08, 2019
So what do you want us to do for you now?

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Re: I Got Pregnant 9 Years Ago, We Have 3 Three Kids:the Law Of Karma Is A Bastard by crackclap: 5:43pm On May 13, 2019
babyfaceafrica:
made up story..bloggers and lies

HAHAHAHAHAHA. It's incredible when we have to sit down and crack these stories na.
Re: I Got Pregnant 9 Years Ago, We Have 3 Three Kids:the Law Of Karma Is A Bastard by aanuoluwami14(f): 6:02pm On May 13, 2019
Please go with your kids, don't allow him to follow you. He is a mumu, he thought you wouldn't make it in life. Thief
Re: I Got Pregnant 9 Years Ago, We Have 3 Three Kids:the Law Of Karma Is A Bastard by Yodexy: 8:33pm On May 13, 2019
So fake
Re: I Got Pregnant 9 Years Ago, We Have 3 Three Kids:the Law Of Karma Is A Bastard by blinkz4real: 10:16pm On May 13, 2019
What would jesus do?

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