his first son out of 6 kids , i belive he was conceived during honey moon, D guy is on fire now as am writing dis, guys whats ur advice. if u r my neighbor will u kill ur wife? funny thing is sh said it was d devil but no wan say who b d children papa. DEVIL MAY ASS

still no comment nah wah ooo, so NL romanc hate m dis extent.

Kill His Wife? mba noo. However Filing for Divorce is another issue altogether. That depends on whether he is willing to forgive her.

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@poster
it all depends on how old the kids are.
if they are over 10/12yrs old then that guy IS the father (whether biological or not) because he has been there for them all that time. he will always have some affinity for them in the future (although "some" turn against the kids in hatred for their mother).

this lady has to GO, there is no two ways to look at it! killing her will only make HIS life more miserable than it already is.

@op,How long is there relationship.

tales by moonlight.

This is marital betrayal of the highest order.   killing her shld not be an option. having confirmed the paternity of the kids  to be contrary ,he shld deal with the situation in such a way that she will live to regret her betrayal !!

@ inkked nerd>
at this stage of the relationship, there's nothing to work on
and i take offence at ur statement that ( ., or separate if its too much for him to bare)
which reasonable man in the right frame of mind will not find such "too much to bear"
you make it sounds as if the man shld just shrug it off, ohh darling, sweeti, no problem its just one of those things. abi?

^^^^^unfortunately some men WOULD shrug it off for the greater goods of the kids. . . . . . . . . . that wouldnt mean forgiving the rat he's been calling "a wife".
imagine learning that the 15yr old kid you raised, play ball with, loved/cherished and drove to school every morning for the last 15yr is not yours. do you think you will be able to just turn that love OFF, at the flick of a switch (or walk away)?!

whatever happens between you and the mother, this kid will be YOURS regardless!

which kind story be this one?

Actually this happened to a family friend. He had 6 grown up daughters. One day after an argument his wife told him that none of the girls were his, at this time the youngest was 19. Apart from the slaps he gave the woman, what surprised me the most was the fact that when he told the girls they went to her office and beat up their mother.
Anyway the guy never recovered from the episode and the daughters stopped talking to their mother.

^^^^did they stop having a relationship with their "dad" too?

MRbrownJAY:

^^^^did they stop having a relationship with their "dad" too?

No they talk to him, I was never able to find out who the"real" dad was. Whenever I tried to bring up the topic the girls would get upset.

Nawaaoooooo

johndoe200:

Actually this happened to a family friend. He had 6 grown up daughters. One day after an argument his wife told him that none of the girls were his, at this time the youngest was 19. Apart from the slaps he gave the woman, what surprised me the most was the fact that when he told the girls they went to her office and beat up their mother.
Anyway the guy never recovered from the episode and the daughters stopped talking to their mother.

bloody lie.

Actually this happened to a family friend. He had 6 grown up daughters. One day after an argument his wife told him that none of the girls were his, at this time the youngest was 19. Apart from the slaps he gave the woman, what surprised me the most was the fact that when he told the girls they went to her office and beat up their mother.
Anyway the guy never recovered from the episode and the daughters stopped talking to their mother.

BLOODY TRUE

liars full this place.

tpiah:

liars full this place.

is tru

Keep the kids, Can't loose the love, but get rid of the wife.

Get child support from the wife as well. Keep the family together and get a lot of support from extended family. Was not the kids fault, can't just stop loving some innocent kid.