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Our Women Are Allowing These Men Of God To Use Them? by Nobody: 12:26pm On Jul 21, 2019
My step brothers wife left her matrimonial home because her pastor told her he’ll take her back to school. Not sure if the said pastor was sleeping with her or not. But all her actions were instructed and directed by this pastor. She doesn’t sleep her home anymore all in the name of vigil and whatever. Her husband was powerless and had to stop going to the church, he even told his wife to stop going to the church but she refused. She finally left her home, all plea for her to come back proved abortive. For the first time I saw a grown man(my brother) begging his wife and his wife’s family to beg her to come back home when he’s not the one at fault. The wife has no tangible reason for packing out.

Months later she got married to another man.

Reason why I even brought it here is that I saw her a while ago ontop bike with her kids(kids for the new man).

Bro is doing very well, moved to a new apartment in Lekki but scared of getting married again.

Why allow a mere man all in the name of being a man of God manipulate you and destroy your home?

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Re: Our Women Are Allowing These Men Of God To Use Them? by SLAP44: 12:30pm On Jul 21, 2019
Your brother committed two crimes

1. Being poor

2. Not knowing how to use his prick to send a woman to cloud 9

You need at least one of those skills to be called A MAN

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Re: Our Women Are Allowing These Men Of God To Use Them? by Nobody: 12:35pm On Jul 21, 2019
SLAP44:
Your brother committed two crimes

1. Being poor

2. Not knowing how to use his prick to send a woman to cloud 9

You need at least one of those skills to be called A MAN
lol. You didn’t make sense. I was expecting this.

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Re: Our Women Are Allowing These Men Of God To Use Them? by johndwayy(m): 12:36pm On Jul 21, 2019
How foolish of you to still think it's either dick or money that makes a woman stay in a marriage... You neva knw anything
SLAP44:
Your brother committed two crimes

1. Being poor

2. Not knowing how to use his prick to send a woman to cloud 9

You need at least one of those skills to be called A MAN

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Re: Our Women Are Allowing These Men Of God To Use Them? by Nobody: 12:36pm On Jul 21, 2019
Austinfixed023:
Read carefully.....
i hope you know you’ll not make it in life with the way you are doing?
Re: Our Women Are Allowing These Men Of God To Use Them? by Nobody: 12:38pm On Jul 21, 2019
johndwayy:
How foolish of you to still think it's either dick or money that makes a woman stay in a marriage... You neva knw anything
dont mind him. He thinks even 40inches dlck can keep a woman.

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Re: Our Women Are Allowing These Men Of God To Use Them? by SLAP44: 12:40pm On Jul 21, 2019
stupidity:
lol. You didn’t make sense. I was expecting this.

You want your brother to bring a girl into his house when he cannot send her to university, is that not wickedness?

And he could have masked his penury with the gift of the 'konkobilow' , but he chose to do nothing and lose the girl to another smart person and now your crying and blaming pastor who has rescued the poor girl from a lifetime of poverty? grin
Re: Our Women Are Allowing These Men Of God To Use Them? by SLAP44: 12:40pm On Jul 21, 2019
johndwayy:
How foolish of you to still think it's either dick or money that makes a woman stay in a marriage... You neva knw anything

What makes a woman stay in a marriage? Tell us?
Re: Our Women Are Allowing These Men Of God To Use Them? by GOFRONT(m): 12:42pm On Jul 21, 2019
Marriage is overrated Nowadays!!!
Re: Our Women Are Allowing These Men Of God To Use Them? by SLAP44: 12:43pm On Jul 21, 2019
stupidity:
dont mind him. He thinks even 40inches dlck can keep a woman.

It actually does. So many poor men has kept their women and snatched a few from rich folks with their gift of the garb. Anyone who loses their women is deficient .

You cannot be deficient in the two areas and be successful in love or marriage.
Re: Our Women Are Allowing These Men Of God To Use Them? by Pavore9: 12:44pm On Jul 21, 2019
SLAP44:
Your brother committed two crimes

1. Being poor

2. Not knowing how to use his prick to send a woman to cloud 9

You need at least one of those skills to be called A MAN

You deserve 44 slaps!
Re: Our Women Are Allowing These Men Of God To Use Them? by Chubhie: 12:45pm On Jul 21, 2019
SLAP44:
Your brother committed two crimes

1. Being poor

2. Not knowing how to use his prick to send a woman to cloud 9

You need at least one of those skills to be called A MAN
An enabler.
Re: Our Women Are Allowing These Men Of God To Use Them? by SLAP44: 12:46pm On Jul 21, 2019
GOFRONT:
Marriage is overrated Nowadays!!!

It's not. Marriage is sweet and good. But only the smart succeed in it. Marriage success comes from investing in the relationship.

Time

Money

Se$ skills

Protection

Gentleness


Are only some of the things that will make you keep your woman. But the most important is money and "better koboko" grin
Re: Our Women Are Allowing These Men Of God To Use Them? by Chubhie: 12:46pm On Jul 21, 2019
SLAP44:


It actually does. So many poor men has kept their women and snatched a few from rich folks with their gift of the garb. Anyone who loses their women is deficient .

You cannot be deficient in the two areas and be successful in love or marriage.

Re: Our Women Are Allowing These Men Of God To Use Them? by SLAP44: 12:47pm On Jul 21, 2019
Pavore9:


You deserve 44 slaps!

Why not discuss instead of threatening slaps, what makes men keep a tight hold on their women?
Re: Our Women Are Allowing These Men Of God To Use Them? by Nobody: 12:48pm On Jul 21, 2019
SLAP44:


You want your brother to bring a girl into his house when he cannot send her to university, is that not wickedness?

And he could have masked his penury with the gift of the 'konkobilow' , but he chose to do nothing and lose the girl to another smart person and now your crying and blaming pastor who has rescued the poor girl from a lifetime of poverty? grin
can you shut it please. I didn’t even go into details for you to conclude he was poor and couldn’t send her to the university. Someone paying rent of 3million plus, bought a car for the wife. How rich do you want him to be to keep a woman? The part where I mentioned he moved into a new apartment is actually a house he bought. she had to sell the car bro bought for her to survive after she left the marriage. I saw her jumping bike with her kids that’s why I brought the topic here. So shut it and let matured minds to comment.

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Re: Our Women Are Allowing These Men Of God To Use Them? by Nobody: 12:51pm On Jul 21, 2019
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Re: Our Women Are Allowing These Men Of God To Use Them? by Pavore9: 12:52pm On Jul 21, 2019
SLAP44:


Why not discuss instead of threatening slaps, what makes men keep a tight hold on their women?

Addressing your username.
Re: Our Women Are Allowing These Men Of God To Use Them? by SLAP44: 12:59pm On Jul 21, 2019
stupidity:
can you shut it please. I didn’t even go into details for you to conclude he was poor and couldn’t send her to the university. Someone paying rent of 3million plus, bought a car for the wife. How rich do you want him to be to keep a woman? The part where I mentioned he moved into a new apartment is actually a house he bought. she had to sell the car bro bought for her to survive after she left the marriage. I actually saw her jumping bike with her kids that’s why I brought the topic here. So shut it and let matured minds to comment.

My own brother married a girl of 17, a beauty queen fresh from WAEC exams. He quickly enrolled her for UTME, bought her everything and made sure she lacked nothing. All his friends kept telling him the girl will leave him if she finds out what she's worth but my bro is the serious type who holds tight. The girl has two kids now and a grown woman in our house.

Your own brother failed.
Re: Our Women Are Allowing These Men Of God To Use Them? by Efewestern: 1:08pm On Jul 21, 2019
stupidity:
can you shut it please. I didn’t even go into details for you to conclude he was poor and couldn’t send her to the university. Someone paying rent of 3million plus, bought a car for the wife. How rich do you want him to be to keep a woman? The part where I mentioned he moved into a new apartment is actually a house he bought. she had to sell the car bro bought for her to survive after she left the marriage. I saw her jumping bike with her kids that’s why I brought the topic here. So shut it and let matured minds to comment.

He thinks life is all about SEX & MONEY, while these things are very vital in a relationship, they aren't what keep a woman in a relationship.

I think women are quite gullible when it comes to religion, most hardly think for themselves, so these pastors prey on their ignorance. I have met so many ladies like your brother's ex-wife, I just flee the moment I know you are over-religious. I love my sanity.

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Re: Our Women Are Allowing These Men Of God To Use Them? by Nobody: 1:09pm On Jul 21, 2019
SLAP44:


My own brother married a girl of 17, a beauty queen fresh from WAEC exams. He quickly enrolled her for UTME, bought her everything and made sure she lacked nothing. All his friends kept telling him the girl will leave him if she finds out what she's worth but my bro is the serious type who holds tight. The girl has two kids now and a grown woman in our house

Your own brother failed.
grin so she’s not working and no business to her name? She’s a grown woman in your family house not even your brothers house.

grin idiotic element.
Re: Our Women Are Allowing These Men Of God To Use Them? by Nobody: 1:14pm On Jul 21, 2019
Efewestern:


He thinks life is all about SEX & MONEY, while these things are very vital in a relationship, they aren't what keep a woman in a relationship.

I think women are quite gullible when it comes to religion, most hardly think for themselves, so these pastors prey on their ignorance. I have met so many ladies like your brother's ex-wife, I just flee the moment I know you are over-religious. I love my sanity.

this said woman had her own car and a shop she pays millions as annual rent where she sells baby stuffs. The school wasn’t even the problem, she and bro already concluded when her business gets the much needed recognition to succeed she’ll go enrol in school. It was from her very good friend that expressed displeasure in her acts that opened up about how the pastor had been brainwashing her and planned on sending her to school abroad.
Re: Our Women Are Allowing These Men Of God To Use Them? by Efewestern: 1:25pm On Jul 21, 2019
stupidity:
this said woman had her own car and a shop she pays millions as annual rent where she sells baby stuffs. The school wasn’t even the problem, she and bro already concluded when her business gets the much needed recognition to succeed she’ll go enrol in school. It was from her very good friend that expressed displeasure in her acts that opened up about how the pastor had been brainwashing her and planned on sending her to school abroad.

Damn, she wasn't even lacking anything, what then was her problem? this is what religion does to someone brain, it makes them act funny.

The pastor might even had an affair with her, it's very easily to brainwash some of these ladies, your brother wasn't proactive enough, when he noticed the pastor had some negative impact on his wife, he would have disgraced him or report the pastor to everyone, do something to make the man forget about your family, else they won't rest till they destroy your home with their false and evil prophesies.
Re: Our Women Are Allowing These Men Of God To Use Them? by SLAP44: 1:33pm On Jul 21, 2019
stupidity:
grin so she’s not working and no business to her name? She’s a grown woman in your family house not even your brothers house.

grin idiotic element.

What can I explain to a person whose elder brother cannot pin down a woman grin

Your user name runs in your family history , and you may lose your own girl to a guy with sharp priks if you keep thinking like this, send your babe number to me, because your family lineage may never know how to tickle a babe hence your losing streak grin
Re: Our Women Are Allowing These Men Of God To Use Them? by SLAP44: 1:38pm On Jul 21, 2019
Efewestern:


Damn, she wasn't even lacking anything, what then was her problem? this is what religion does to someone brain, it makes them act funny.

The pastor might even had an affair with her, it's very easily to brainwash some of these ladies, your brother wasn't proactive enough, when he noticed the pastor had some negative impact on his wife, he would have disgraced him or report the pastor to everyone, do something to make the man forget about your family, else they won't rest till they destroy your home with their false and evil prophesies.


You're missing the point, my attack on his brother was well though out. The brother was there in the same church and couldn't notice when the pastor started to influence his wife? Which nonsense gullibility, na only the brother wife dey the church? When the pastor was having an affair with the wife as you seem to suggest, was the man gullible too or blind? He couldn't even counter the moves and you want me to respect him as a man?

Water moves from the area with least resistance, his brother's wife happened to be the girl with the most indolent husband who didn't understand that life is a battle, even the church is a battle field where you lose out if your not careful.

The brother messed up big time mehn!
Re: Our Women Are Allowing These Men Of God To Use Them? by Nobody: 1:42pm On Jul 21, 2019
Efewestern:


Damn, she wasn't even lacking anything, what then was her problem? this is what religion does to someone brain, it makes them act funny.

The pastor might even had an affair with her, it's very easily to brainwash some of these ladies, your brother wasn't proactive enough, when he noticed the pastor had some negative impact on his wife, he would have disgraced him or report the pastor to everyone, do something to make the man forget about your family, else they won't rest till they destroy your home with their false and evil prophesies.

that is the issue. Who will you report a man of God to? Talkmore of accusing the pastor of having an affair with his wife. He didn’t want to jump into conclusions because he didn’t have any evidence apart from her changed attitudes and sleeping out for vigils. All he did was stopped going to the church and stopped the wife from going to the church.
Re: Our Women Are Allowing These Men Of God To Use Them? by sisisioge: 1:44pm On Jul 21, 2019
The brain washed lot! I have just plain lose respect for men and women who allow their pastors control them. My own is to go to church, worship God in my heart, use my God's given brain to filter what is correct from wrong and move on with my life. Ndi wereys gbogbo!

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Re: Our Women Are Allowing These Men Of God To Use Them? by Nobody: 1:45pm On Jul 21, 2019
SLAP44:


What can I explain to a person whose elder brother cannot pin down a woman grin

Your user name runs in your family history , and you may lose your own girl to a guy with sharp priks if you keep thinking like this, send your babe number to me, because your family lineage may never know how to tickle a babe hence your losing streak grin
tell me more bro, so your brother married a 17 years old girl while he’s still in your fathers house. Lemme guess, you and your brother still eats mummy’s food. I can accommodate you should Incase you and your brother starts fighting over food because I know very soon it will result to that. He shouldn’t have gotten married when he knows y’all still lives in your family house. Can you tell me what happens when bro leaves to hustle for the day and it’s just you and his 17 year old beauty queen that’s left at home?
Re: Our Women Are Allowing These Men Of God To Use Them? by Nobody: 1:48pm On Jul 21, 2019
Hmmmm
Re: Our Women Are Allowing These Men Of God To Use Them? by SLAP44: 1:49pm On Jul 21, 2019
stupidity:
that is the issue. Who will you report a man of God to? Talkmore of accusing the pastor of having an affair with his wife. He didn’t want to jump into conclusions because he didn’t have any evidence apart from her changed attitudes and sleeping out for vigils.

Stop blaming the man of God for God's sake!

Any other man could have brainwashed a lady who is feeling insecure because her husband refused to assure her emotionally or financially. A mai guard, truck pusher, bus conductor or banker could have done same if she came in contact with the same woman.

Your brother left his gate open.
Re: Our Women Are Allowing These Men Of God To Use Them? by SLAP44: 1:50pm On Jul 21, 2019
stupidity:
tell me more bro, so your brother married a 17 years old girl while he’s still in your fathers house. Lemme guess, you and your brother still eats mummy’s food. I can accommodate you should Incase you and your brother starts fighting over food because I know very soon it will result to that. He shouldn’t have gotten married when he knows y’all still lives in your family house. Can you tell me what happens when bro leaves to hustle for the day and it’s just you and his 17 year old wife that’s left at home?

At least nobody can snatch a wife from our family tongue grin

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