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Age 30 And Blessed by nicekid4u(m): 8:45pm On Jul 29, 2019
Many women who spend their 20’s becoming powerful and independent (education, salary, etc.) often end up unhappy in their 30s. This is because when they finally achieve independence and look for men who have done the same, the realize they’re not looking for powerful, independent women in their 30s; they’re looking for attractive women in their 20s that will make them feel powerful.
Men pursue beauty while women pursue capability. And as such, women largely focus on how to appear attractive, while men largely focus on how to appear powerful. This makes it natural for there to be an inversion in marketability around age 30, since that’s generally when men becoming more capable (attractive), and women becoming less beautiful (attractive).
Most powerful men don’t want a powerful woman; they want a feminine magnifier for themselves, i.e., someone who makes them feel successful, and loved, and respectable. To most men, this is best achieved through a young, attractive, and kind/positive woman who focuses on him—not on herself.
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Re: Age 30 And Blessed by Nobody: 8:48pm On Jul 29, 2019
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Re: Age 30 And Blessed by Nobody: 8:54pm On Jul 29, 2019
There are different type of men

those that want powerful women,
those that want trophy wives,
those that want submissive wife,
those that want young women,
those that want older women,
and lastly those that want only thier hands

you can go for whatever you want, the choice is yours.

It is a free world.

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Re: Age 30 And Blessed by meobizy(f): 10:11am On Jul 30, 2019
It’s a good thing I abandoned dating in my early 20s. As the years have passed I have become more attractive and accomplished. Make women carry their distraction go one side.

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