Please, what should I do as a christian when every single lady I employ keeps saying I should sleep with her even after knowing I'm married with 4kids? Most times, not even christians. Almost everyone of them follow this trend and I can't do without employing about 20 workers of mixed genders,religion(bcs of the location) and culture. Most go diabolic and wouldn't be afraid to walk to me,"oga, I luv you. marry me " or "...be my lover". It has led to the sacking of about six of them but any replacement acts same. It isn't funny any longer but scary to myself and my wife.Please,help if you have a solution. Thanks.

Wow. Is this real or fables.


Consider dissociation in every form and start considering replacing female workers with young males who can though be inexperienced but groomed into the position

healthserve:
Wow. Is this real or fables.

I can't lie in God's name.It is absolutely real.

Seems there's a lot of indiscipline.

healthserve:
Wow. Is this real or fables.


Consider dissociation in every form and start considering replacing female workers with young males who can though be inexperienced but groomed into the position

most positions fit female workers. Most customers also prefer female to attend to their needs.

seeyou:
most positions fit female workers. Most customers also prefer female to attend to their needs.

You've conditioned/trained them to think that way. Replace with younger males who are respectable and you'll get service devoid of drama. Those ladies are not after sex, money, beauty, position , they've gone diabolical and know more than you think they know about you, so you're a target a victim of a war they declared against you. Even without sex they'll begin to dig into your life spiritually for vulnerabilities to take advantage of. You don't need such workers when you can get beta without drama

What you described shows a huge amount of disrespect for you.

How do you carry yourself around workers? Do you prefer informal methods of interaction that dont emphasize personal boundaries?

nlPoster:
Seems there's a lot of indiscipline.

Most of them say I don't talk with them and many professional workers in the environment go to other places 4this reason.I even talked to a pastor who advised I reduced seriousness even then,anyone u talked to one day would come the next with either a gift or a text"...oga,I felt at home today...I luv u".Infact u need to witness this urself.

healthserve:



You've conditioned/trained them to think that way. Replace with younger males who are respectable and you'll get service devoid of drama. Those ladies are not after sex, money, beauty, position , they've gone diabolical and know more than you think they know about you, so you're a target a victim of a war they declared against you. Even without sex they'll begin to dig into your life spiritually for vulnerabilities to take advantage of. You don't need such workers when you can get beta without drama

As if you were there. The one I have told my PA to sack on monday don't even care about money from her actions. When we sack them,they go about tarnishing the organisation's image about how we treat workers.They even try to divert customers to any new place they get.I want u turn explain more abt. the victim of war u mentioned please.

Commit your life and family to the power released on the Cross by Jesus Christ Crucified when he paid the ultimate price of sin, fleshly lust, death, evil-world-systems and satan...."now judgment has come upon this world, now the prince of this world; satan is *cast-out*...when I am lifted up into death on the Cross of Calvary" (John 12:30-33), "It is finished/settled/destroyed/established" (John 19:30)
Introduce the sharing of the gospel of the Cross of Jesus Christ by *every member of your staff* each morning and prayers may be 15-30-45 minutes even at the close of work each day.
Then watch out for the Victory of Jesus Christ Crucified over your life and their lives as you bring yourself and everybody around you to *complete freedom/victory* over *sin, flesh, death, evil-world-systems, demons and satan* and in exchange *receive the new life/flesh of Jesus Christ Crucified*.
You might need to download any of these videos from YouTube *4-videos Not I But Christ*, *discipleship*, *preaching Christ Jesus Crucified* e.t.c by "Gbile Akanni"
It is a test of your faith and only those who have encountered the Crucified Jesus Christ *genuinely* can deal decisively with such situations; it is not by sacking everybody who misbehaves around you just like those expelling disobedient students to go into the world and become more involved in evil rather *using the gospel of Jesus Christ Crucified which can correct and save any human soul to eternal life as well as consistent righteous lifestyle*
Great Grace Brethren!!!

ochibuogwu5:
Commit your life and family to the power released on the Cross by Jesus Christ Crucified when he paid the ultimate price of sin, fleshly lust, death, evil-world-systems and satan...."now judgment has come upon this world, now the prince of this world; satan is *cast-out*...when I am lifted up into death on the Cross of Calvary" (John 12:30-33), "It is finished/settled/destroyed/established" (John 19:30)
Introduce the sharing of the gospel of the Cross of Jesus Christ by *every member of your staff* each morning and prayers may be 15-30-45 minutes even at the close of work each day.
Then watch out for the Victory of Jesus Christ Crucified over your life and their lives as you bring yourself and everybody around you to *complete freedom/victory* over *sin, flesh, death, evil-world-systems, demons and satan* and in exchange *receive the new life/flesh of Jesus Christ Crucified*.
You might need to download any of these videos from YouTube *4-videos Not I But Christ*, *discipleship*, *preaching Christ Jesus Crucified* e.t.c by "Gbile Akanni"
It is a test of your faith and only those who have encountered the Crucified Jesus Christ *genuinely* can deal decisively with such situations; it is not by sacking everybody who misbehaves around you just like those expelling disobedient students to go into the world and become more involved in evil rather *using the gospel of Jesus Christ Crucified which can correct and save any human soul to eternal life as well as consistent righteous lifestyle*
Great Grace Brethren!!!

Thank you but I want you to understand this:
a) most ppl involved in this are not of the same faith.
b)My case has bn taken and discussed at the meeting of strangers in my environment that I refused being in the association and most of them are christians but thrice I attended d meeting,I found out it is not good for me as a christian to be in their company bcs of sm unholy practices there.So, it becomes difficult for the strangers they know to come to my organisations for work. The few that come,I accept them but they come as devils.
c)Apart from the sales of cars and consultancy,I own one of the biggest schools and my wife has hers too.So,it becomes more difficult to do away with the ppl in the vicinity.

seeyou:
Most of them say I don't talk with them and many professional workers in the environment go to other places 4this reason.I even talked to a pastor who advised I reduced seriousness even then,anyone u talked to one day would come the next with either a gift or a text"...oga,I felt at home today...I luv u".Infact u need to witness this urself.

Put space and distance between yourself and them so they can respect you better.

If women are the ones invading your space all the time (as opposed to you being the one mostly running after them) then it shows they dont consider you as having strong morals. Or even sense for that matter.

Hire single young men they can also notice, stop making excuses to have women around you (your customers could also be sending some of them). You come across as a bit narcissistic, ie needing attention and this is what they capitalize on.

Just saying, you've identified a problem, check for why there is an issue.

I've worked with an extremely good looking guy, the type every woman wants, yet he kept practically all women away and maintained his personal space. Everybody respected that once he set the boundary. I really dont understand how Nigerian men in particular almost never get tired of excessive female attention. Note the word excessive.

nlPoster:


Put space and distance between yourself and them so they can respect you better.

If women are the ones invading your space all the time (as opposed to you being the one mostly running after them) then it shows they dont consider you as having strong morals.

Hire single young men they can also notice, stop making excuses to have women around you. You come across as a bit narcissistic, ie needing attention and this is what they capitalize on.

Just saying, you've identified a problem, check for why there is an issue.

thank you.

seeyou:
thank you.

You're welcome.

Need more contributions. I don't want to wear so much sad looks in my own organisations as if God is not praise in my possessions.

seeyou:
Thank you but I want you to understand this:
a) most ppl involved in this are not of the same faith.
b)My case has bn taken and discussed at the meeting of strangers in my environment that I refused being in the association and most of them are christians but thrice I attended d meeting,I found out it is not good for me as a christian to be in their company bcs of sm unholy practices there.So, it becomes difficult for the strangers they know to come to my organisations for work. The few that come,I accept them but they come as devils.
c)Apart from the sales of cars and consultancy,I own one of the biggest schools and my wife has hers too.So,it becomes more difficult to do away with the ppl in the vicinity.

They do not need to be of the same faith; Jesus Christ Crucified is the *need of every human being and center of every faith*
I am a Roman Catholic and have lived people from different faith in my own house and having them as subordinate networking business team members however we pray collectively every morning with them even sleeping on the same bed with them as much as it could contain us even the female persons yet such attitude never occurred because the Spirit of Jesus Christ Crucified was *in-charge*....
It is only through the gospel of Jesus Christ Crucified that you can *subject every fowl spirit, demonic manipulations and satanism* to *complete destruction*
If you stand on the gospel of Jesus Christ Crucified; He will bring anybody and everybody you need for effective business to fruition.
I just pray you take time to listen to any of those videos on youtube...
Great Grace Brethren!!!

100 percent true..... totally correct. As a female I can't dare try such a thing with a single guy, how much more a married man. The fault is from him. Irresponsible ladies only flock around or make moves at married men who they feel are players/ easy going men.

nlPoster:


Put space and distance between yourself and them so they can respect you better.

If women are the ones invading your space all the time (as opposed to you being the one mostly running after them) then it shows they dont consider you as having strong morals. Or even sense for that matter.

Hire single young men they can also notice, stop making excuses to have women around you (your customers could also be sending some of them). You come across as a bit narcissistic, ie needing attention and this is what they capitalize on.

Just saying, you've identified a problem, check for why there is an issue.

I've worked with an extremely good looking guy, the type every woman wants, yet he kept practically all women away and maintained his personal space. Everybody respected that once he set the boundary. I really dont understand how Nigerian men in particular almost never get tired of excessive female attention. Note the word excessive.

I understand everyone's point of view but we have to know that:
a)the more you grow in faith,the more you are tempted. A person who hasn't bn in my shoes can only give shallow ideas.Jesus was seen mingling with ladies but never failed.He talk with a woman(a Gentile ) by the well of Jacob.Mary anointed his him with costly oil also,he did went to the other mary's house at leisure. When anyone talks from the spirit, you will know. Telling me to discard all female workers is like solving a spiritual proplem with a physical one. Sometime ago, I was going for a deliverance with a group of ppl.It was a long journey from the north to warri in delta so,we happened to lodge in a hotel.A sister among us-a married woman started making advances to one of us-a single man.When he reported to me,I told him to begin prayer immediately against the spirit of the place we were going to not against the woman.U know that some of us claim how sound we are morally but when we watch it,we are d first to fall when satan remembers us.In 2015 when I was building another house in my town,I had a dream and satan was shouting at his angels he sent against me why they couldn't succeed. Later, he called my name and said he will be coming by himself to fight me. I opened this topic with the aim of receiving suggestions from highly spiritual ppl but unfortunately,most of us need more spiritual classes. Joseph had a strong moral but what happened to him at Potipher's house.I use to tell my family not to solve a problem with a problem. You can't run from temptation but u pray for grace to overcome.I dress neatly, buys costly wears,ride cars at will because God blessed me with those things and I must be his glory as long as I live.ppl call me to come and preach here and there because of God's grace in my life and God bless some thru me.I give to the poor etc but those shouldn't warrant satan to come after through sexual harassment.
b) Pls,for my brother that talked about prayer,thank you but for the others and the sister with high moral pls,u need to go back to spiritual school.Things are not done that way most times so that u don't get into deeper troubles. GOD BLESS YOU.

Assuming a woman had this problem you described, what would you say about her?

When lodging in a hotel, have women stay in one and the men in another, if there is likely to be unapproved interaction. Help the women help themselves. Many of these issues are because people would rather go for the easiest option, than inconvenience themselves in order to do the right thing. Deny yourself in order to follow Christ.



It is easy to say the flesh is weak but the fact is we are very undisciplined as a people because we dont know better. And you dont have to be spiritual to get work done, if all the women in your organization are demanding sex and marriage from you, dont you think this shows a bad work ethic? Why do they assume that's what they are there for?

Just saying, nobody is condemning you but placing all the blame on the females wont solve the matter.

Prayer is important and so is discipline.

The issue Joseph had with Potiphar's wife was the same one he had with his brothers, namely his naivete .



God clearly had great plans for him but unfortunately, he always had to begin from the bottom before climbing to the top. Learning experience, and also character builder.