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Re: A Friend Is Dying In Delta State Due To Domestic Voilence- PLEASE READ by mysticwarrior(m): 1:42pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
Biglittlelois:I least expected this to be coming from a woman, if you think women who are in abusive marriage and couldn't leave because of their children deserve no pity, then I really hope you will never one day find out how very wrong you are. |
Re: A Friend Is Dying In Delta State Due To Domestic Voilence- PLEASE READ by frozen70(f): 1:46pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
Richy4: You are right about improper ways of people living as couple's without family commitments or marriage commitments My stand is that women should work harder to provide for themselves incase the man turns to a monster Many have died that way The moment your troubles a woman's emotion you have killed her slowly |
Re: A Friend Is Dying In Delta State Due To Domestic Voilence- PLEASE READ by Richy4(m): 1:49pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
frozen70: You are right |
Re: A Friend Is Dying In Delta State Due To Domestic Voilence- PLEASE READ by Biglittlelois(f): 1:50pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
mysticwarrior: Yes it is coming from a woman, deal with it, will my pity make the husband to stop beating her? Will my pity make the woman walk away from an evil husband, knowing she can be killed real soon? I do not understand what you mean by @bolded, but if you mean the woman should continue to stay and receive continuous severe beating till she dies, because of the children, then you are the evil, wicked one who lack human sympathy. 1 Like |
Re: A Friend Is Dying In Delta State Due To Domestic Voilence- PLEASE READ by mysticwarrior(m): 2:12pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
Biglittlelois:you are talking nothing but the height of absolute balderdash... You must be a jazebel seeing your fellow woman suffers and mock her in that kind of situation, and you sound childish as well. |
Re: A Friend Is Dying In Delta State Due To Domestic Voilence- PLEASE READ by Biglittlelois(f): 2:14pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
mysticwarrior: No she is not suffering but she CHOOSE to suffer-big difference, and pls know the difference between mock and no pity, it will do you some good. 1 Like |
Re: A Friend Is Dying In Delta State Due To Domestic Voilence- PLEASE READ by mysticwarrior(m): 2:30pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
Biglittlelois:judging from your comments evidence suggests you are not married, if you think the process of walking out from a marriage is as easy as throwing away an old fashion clothes then you need to visit court proceedings of couple fighting for divorce, an Abusive marriage is wrong and its clear that the problem is coming from somewhere, it could be from the man, it could be from the woman and it could also be from both sides. Walking out of marriage is not as easy as you think and I strongly believe you have not be taken to the altar yet to exchange marital vow of " FOR BETTER AND FOR WORST UNTILL DEATH DO YOU PATH". |
Re: A Friend Is Dying In Delta State Due To Domestic Voilence- PLEASE READ by Biglittlelois(f): 2:42pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
mysticwarrior: Pls I will not exchange words with an archaic, traditional, cold, devoid of human feelings individual like you, see the way you wrote that vow in capital letters, do you think the WORST there means she should endure beatings till she dies? So because I'm not married, means I can't air my view on common sense? Are married people the only knowledgeable ones in the universe? How old are you? Who raised you? I want to believe I am replying a sane person. 1 Like |
Re: A Friend Is Dying In Delta State Due To Domestic Voilence- PLEASE READ by UjuJoan2: 2:50pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
Amijos: Why a woman will allow a man to beat on her, and still stay with him is beyond me. Now an innocent child has been brought into this chain of abuse. I wish someone would take those kids away from those two. They don't deserve to be parents. |
Re: A Friend Is Dying In Delta State Due To Domestic Voilence- PLEASE READ by mysticwarrior(m): 2:52pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
Biglittlelois:atleast my instinct is very active and accurate to be able to detect that your are not married judging from the way you write, and sure you are speaking to a very sane person because its only sane people that could ascertain your marital status from your write up. |
Re: A Friend Is Dying In Delta State Due To Domestic Voilence- PLEASE READ by UjuJoan2: 2:52pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
mysticwarrior: So because she swore that only death will keep them apart, she needs to stay there and die? Just so she can keep being a 'Mrs' And if she dies, who will raise those children she brought into this world. People are just selfish, I tell you. |
Re: A Friend Is Dying In Delta State Due To Domestic Voilence- PLEASE READ by Biglittlelois(f): 2:53pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
mysticwarrior: What is wrong with you? Pls stop quoting me.... 2 Likes |
Re: A Friend Is Dying In Delta State Due To Domestic Voilence- PLEASE READ by mysticwarrior(m): 2:58pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
UjuJoan2:she will not die but she would go on living, there people who have experience worst and still go on to build a stronger marriage, shits happens, a chronic sickness could be cured if the cause is identified and treated and so is any marriage. |
Re: A Friend Is Dying In Delta State Due To Domestic Voilence- PLEASE READ by mysticwarrior(m): 2:58pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
Biglittlelois:yes ma |
Re: A Friend Is Dying In Delta State Due To Domestic Voilence- PLEASE READ by UjuJoan2: 3:00pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
mysticwarrior: I bet those who are rotting in the grave didn't think they were going to die either. I really don't care about her, or the pycho husband. My concern is for the kids. They didn't ask to be born into a toxic environment. 1 Like |
Re: A Friend Is Dying In Delta State Due To Domestic Voilence- PLEASE READ by mysticwarrior(m): 3:05pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
UjuJoan2:I feel for those children as well, SAY NO TO DOMESTIC VIOLENCE |
Re: A Friend Is Dying In Delta State Due To Domestic Voilence- PLEASE READ by foreveryoung1515(f): 3:19pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
mysticwarrior:Whether she runs back or not is her problem, stop discouraging the op from helping. So, she should stay there ccuz of the children's school ffee. If she later dies, you would be among those who would ask why she didn't leave when she had the chance. 2 Likes |
Re: A Friend Is Dying In Delta State Due To Domestic Voilence- PLEASE READ by mysticwarrior(m): 3:29pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
foreveryoung1515:oya you join collabo with the op to separate the marriage na, am sure the op needs the support of people like you. |
Re: A Friend Is Dying In Delta State Due To Domestic Voilence- PLEASE READ by bukatyne(f): 3:42pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
mysticwarrior: What really do you want? OP wants to help, you questioned it. Another poster said she doesn't feel pity for the woman as she has made her bed, you fight her. What do you want people to do in this case? 1 Like |
Re: A Friend Is Dying In Delta State Due To Domestic Voilence- PLEASE READ by mysticwarrior(m): 4:27pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
bukatyne:look for people the man fears and respects, his friend, pastor, business colleague, boss, look for a wise elderly man that would stand for the woman, call the family of the man for a meeting. Let both parties narrate his/her own side of the story from there the problems would be identify, " a problem known is a problem half solved" look for a concrete solution to the problem, the op could also help here by giving the woman money to start up a business and that would go along with to help. Compel the man to stop beating the woman and make him know that women are fragile and should be treated with care and respect at all times. He should be told to think about how is actions could affect his children psychologically and how the children may end up hating him for treating their mother badly. If he is angry he should leave the house and allow temperature to cool down before returning. Work on his temper and look for a way to calm himself to avoid aggression and confrontations with his wife. "A jobless man is an angry man" If he doesn't have a well paying job they should try and help him to get a better paying job. If the woman is insultive and disrespectful to the man she should be told to stop it because men hate that. She should try and recognised when he is in a bad mood and avoid aggrevating it, she should encourage by telling him that tomorrow is better and remind him of how they both started and the funny things he use to do. She shouldn't argue with him in the area of decision making but she could coaxed him to follow her better advice. Men can easily be manipulated by soft persuasion and be subjected with ease (its a powerful gift from God to all women) a woman should know how and when to use it, Sarah used it on Abraham and it worked, Delilah used it on samson and it also worked, it was also used against solomon, Esther used it on her husband, Miriam Babangida used it on her husband and Delta state capital was given to her home town Asaba. Harsh words or high tone of voice should be avoided when dealing with the husband. Give them hope of a better tomorrow After settlement they should see a marriage counselor. Am not and would never be in support of domestic violence, same as I will never encourage separation and divorce, no man or woman goes into marriage with the intention of getting divorce someday. |
Re: A Friend Is Dying In Delta State Due To Domestic Voilence- PLEASE READ by foreveryoung1515(f): 10:18pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
bukatyne:God bless you for this question cuz when i saw him fighting the other lady that felt no pity, i had to go back to check his moniker to be sure who i wanted to quote, he's just everywhere. 1 Like |
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