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People Please Did I Do Wrong? by Nobody: 8:40am On Nov 25, 2010
Am dating a guy currently and we' ve been on for 10 months now, but there's this other guy who asked me out but i told him i cant have a relationship with him because i already have a man in my life, he met my boyfriend once and since then he stopped talking about dating me and we've been friends ever since.
After close of work yesterday he said he was going my way and that he would drop me, i declined but later changed my mind cause he was actually going my way, immediately i entered his car i sent a text to my boyfriend to tell him that guy was dropping me off just incase some olofofos see me in his car and tell him before i do.
On our way he said he wanted to get some stuffs at E centre, Alas, my boyfriend called and asked where i was, I told him we had a stop over at E centre. He hanged up on me and has refused to pick my calls, i sent him a text and he replied with a very nasty text and right now hes not talking to me.

Please people did i do wrong? I had no bad intentions.
Re: People Please Did I Do Wrong? by MrCork26: 8:43am On Nov 25, 2010
hmmm, suspect. madam so u r sayin the guy didnt Nyansh u an E- centre, wotever that is? tongue dont lie! angry

Nigerian women, all the same, can they ever be truussted? angry
Re: People Please Did I Do Wrong? by Nobody: 8:45am On Nov 25, 2010
Poster, i dont tink u ve bin to E centre before, its not a hotel. Pls be reasonable with your comment.
Re: People Please Did I Do Wrong? by iyatrustee(f): 8:47am On Nov 25, 2010
you did no wrong [s]except if you are keeping back on some other information[/s] at least you text him. what if you didnt tell him and someone else told him nko? your man should learn to trust you and take your words for its worth. Try calling him again and if he refuses, make u sef form anger. grin grin grin grin
Re: People Please Did I Do Wrong? by Nobody: 8:51am On Nov 25, 2010
Fstranger, am not IBO am yoruba, i tink u av somtins against Ibo girls. Any way ow did i do bad? By telling him the truth i guess.
Re: People Please Did I Do Wrong? by Tinksh(f): 8:53am On Nov 25, 2010
You did the right thing and should be applauded for it! Your bf is being unreasonable but what do you expect from a man, if you hadnt texted you would be screwed and you did the right thing and your still in trouble. Unbelievable!!! I hope it works out for you and he comes to his stupid senses.
Re: People Please Did I Do Wrong? by Nobody: 8:53am On Nov 25, 2010
Iyatrustee honestly am not keeping back any information. Dat was wat happened.

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Re: People Please Did I Do Wrong? by iyatrustee(f): 8:57am On Nov 25, 2010
jumman:

Iyatrustee honestly am not keeping back any information. Dat was wat happened.

Go and sin no more kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss all the charges against you have been dropped.
Re: People Please Did I Do Wrong? by MrCork26: 8:59am On Nov 25, 2010
fstranger:

Yes, you did bad
Now, go hang yourself
You are now a bad person.
A very bad person IMO.

If I were your bf, i would kill you.
You are bad
Are you Ibo?
Cos only Ibos behave like you did, very bad people.


Mr.Cork, do you agree with me?


bro we think alike, are we cousins?  Hell yeaaaa I agree with you. Nigerian womens shuld NEVER be trusted,

she said she got a lift just becoz the guy wanted to buy her Chicken n Chips at E- Centre. , can u imagine? just becoz of food angry
Re: People Please Did I Do Wrong? by MrCork26: 9:00am On Nov 25, 2010
and am sure the guy didnt even own the car, he must have beeeen a driver (no oofeinse)
Re: People Please Did I Do Wrong? by Phate07(m): 9:12am On Nov 25, 2010

Forget the guy. He probably does not deserve you, esp if he's as callous as you said.
angry
Re: People Please Did I Do Wrong? by duchess4: 9:25am On Nov 25, 2010
Any previous trust issues?
Re: People Please Did I Do Wrong? by Nobody: 9:40am On Nov 25, 2010
Nope. Somtin like dis has neva happened b4.
Re: People Please Did I Do Wrong? by Akinagirl(f): 9:50am On Nov 25, 2010
hes got trust issues. Did you do anything before to him that made him have trust issues with you?
Re: People Please Did I Do Wrong? by Akinagirl(f): 9:51am On Nov 25, 2010
Oh ok, Someone just posted the same thing I was asking. Well wonder why hes being so unreasonable. undecided
Re: People Please Did I Do Wrong? by Nobody: 10:13am On Nov 25, 2010
@op
although your bf has serious trust issues, you didnt make any effort to help him deal with it.
you should have stuck to your guns and DECLINE further, instead of getting into the car of some guy that we all know is just waiting for the right time to "attack".

as much as you didnt do anything WRONG, you didnt do anything RIGHT either!
Re: People Please Did I Do Wrong? by Nobody: 10:18am On Nov 25, 2010
jumman:

Am dating a guy currently and we' ve been on for 10 months now, but there's this other guy who asked me out but i told him i cant have a relationship with him because i already have a man in my life, he met my boyfriend once and since then he stopped talking about dating me and we've been friends ever since.
After close of work yesterday he said he was going my way and that he would drop me, i declined but later changed my mind cause he was actually going my way, immediately i entered his car i sent a text to my boyfriend to tell him that guy was dropping me off just incase some olofofos see me in his car and tell him before i do.
On our way he said he wanted to get some stuffs at E centre, Alas, my boyfriend called and asked where i was, I told him we had a stop over at E centre. He hanged up on me and has refused to pick my calls, i sent him a text and he replied with a very nasty text and right now hes not talking to me.

Please people did i do wrong? I had no bad intentions.

Your boyfriend is an insecure jerk . . (no offience) cool cool
Re: People Please Did I Do Wrong? by Nobody: 10:19am On Nov 25, 2010
MRbrownJAY:

@op
although your bf has serious trust issues, you didnt make any effort to help him deal with it.
you should have stuck to your guns and DECLINE further, instead of getting into the car of some guy that we all know is just waiting for the right time to "attack".

as much as you didnt do anything WRONG, you didnt do anything RIGHT either!

So because I have a boyfriend I shouldn't enter any other person's vehicle? Hmmmmmn!  undecided  undecided

She entered his car for a ride home . . . not his house for a sleep over . .  Duh!
Re: People Please Did I Do Wrong? by Specialist900(m): 10:22am On Nov 25, 2010
You did no wrong, your bf is just acting silly. I think he was ruing the fact that a rat just presented itself before a cat.
Re: People Please Did I Do Wrong? by kay177(m): 10:25am On Nov 25, 2010
@ OP Whatever^^^ you put yourself in that tight positon=== Since he was your former toaster turned to new friend == Do you think he is still not interested and looking for slighted opportunity to bounce back== So i dont blame your guy for his action== and you got it wrong to have aceepted the lift after you have successfully declined the offer== Devil knows how to create opportunity to destroy every good things in own life,  You need to explain yourself better to your boyfriend and be watchful,
Re: People Please Did I Do Wrong? by MrCork26: 10:25am On Nov 25, 2010
rubbish!!!  the chick is a Playa, all becoz she wanted to eat chicken n CHips at E centre, she betrayed his trust, WOMEN!! angry
Re: People Please Did I Do Wrong? by MrCork26: 10:28am On Nov 25, 2010
anyways, my main man (MOBO444) said it best, beware of Nigeroan womens!

, erm people,,am only tryin to help, cheers! wink
Re: People Please Did I Do Wrong? by kay177(m): 10:28am On Nov 25, 2010
It surprises me when some ladies claim not to know when traps are been set for them== you need to tightened your seat belt girl undecided embarassed
Re: People Please Did I Do Wrong? by Nobody: 10:33am On Nov 25, 2010
kay177:

@ OP Whatever^^^ you put yourself in that tight positon=== Since he was your former toaster turned to new friend == Do you think he is still not interested and looking for slighted opportunity to bounce back== So i dont blame your guy for his action== and you got it wrong to have aceepted the lift after you have successfully declined the offer== Devil knows how to create opportunity to destroy every good things in own life, You need to explain yourself better to your boyfriend and be watchful,

ROTFLMAO grin grin grin

You guys really do have an inflated opinion of yourselves. The guy is her bf, not her husband . . . Jeez!

My boss hit on me when I started working, should I quit my job?
My neigbour 'likes' me . . . should I move out?


Men will alwyas like and admire women, it's natural . . . that's no reason whatsoever to alienate yourself from people, just because your bf is a tad insecure! *roooooolz eyez*
Re: People Please Did I Do Wrong? by Nobody: 10:36am On Nov 25, 2010
Ujujoan:

So because I have a boyfriend I shouldn't enter any other person's vehicle? Hmmmmmn!  undecided  undecided

She entered his car for a ride home . . . not his house for a sleep over . .  Duh!

if you are living in the real world where people trust each other YEAH but with all them insecure brothas in 9ja HELL NO!!!
she knew that it may have put her into trouble and thats why she called to inform him of the deed (mistake number one) when that guy decided to stop for whatever BS then she should have gotten out of the car and gone on her way.
whats the point of taking a ride by car if its to stop at some shopping mall and waste the "supposed" gained time?!
her trip by bus/okada would have made her get home earlier (mistake number two)
Re: People Please Did I Do Wrong? by no1madman(m): 10:36am On Nov 25, 2010
kay177:

It surprises me when some ladies claim not to know when traps are been set for them== you need to tightened your seat belt girl undecided embarassed
Right. . .and jumman,avoid free ride from d other guy. . .(na so e dey start)
Re: People Please Did I Do Wrong? by MrCork26: 10:37am On Nov 25, 2010
Ujujoan:

ROTFLMAO  grin   grin  grin

You guys really do have an inflated opinion of yourselves. The guy is her bf, not her husband . . . Jeez!

My boss hit on me when I started working, should I quit my job?
My neigbour 'likes' me . . . should I move out?


Men will alwyas like and admire women, it's natural . . . that's no reason whatsoever to alienate yourself from people, just because your bf is a tad insecure! *roooooolz eyez*


WELL SAID, UJUjoan  <<<<<my kinda of babe  (((((((mwaaaaaaaaaah)))))))
Re: People Please Did I Do Wrong? by kay177(m): 10:44am On Nov 25, 2010
MRbrownJAY:

if you are living in the real world where people trust each other YEAH but with all them insecure brothas in 9ja HELL NO!!!
she knew that it may have put her into trouble and thats why she called to inform him of the deed (mistake number one) when that guy decided to stop for whatever BS then she should have gotten out of the car and gone on her way.
whats the point of taking a ride by car if its to stop at some shopping mall and waste the "supposed" gained time?!
her trip by bus/okada would have made her get home earlier (mistake number two)


Either the boy friend is secure or not==  That is not the issue the issue is when you have something and you dont want to loose that thing you guide it with all deligence== Am a man and I know what I can do == the tricks at my disposal,  those cards i can play === so dont say he is  just a boyfriend and not her husband== Some guys are just too good in playin the game== She needs to guide the relationship well if she needs it most especially from your former toester== Do you even think men accept no== The toaster is seriously strategising on way forward.
Re: People Please Did I Do Wrong? by belamour(m): 10:46am On Nov 25, 2010
jumman:

i declined but later changed my mind cause he was actually going my way, immediately i entered his car i sent a text to my boyfriend to tell him that guy was dropping me off just incase some olofofos see me in his car and tell him before i do.
 On our way he said he wanted to get some stuffs at E centre, Alas, my boyfriend called and asked where i was, I told him we had a stop over at E centre. He hanged up on me and has refused to pick my calls, i sent him a text and he replied with a very nasty text and right now hes not talking to me.

Please people did i do wrong? I had no bad intentions.
 

@poster, Mchew Olojukokoro Sorry i mean why didn't you inform your bf about having a stop over @ E-center atleast he wasn't mad when you told him he plan to give you a lift home not E-center. Woman with there dubious character. I am not convince with the words on d screen. Have a nice time with your new relationship.
Re: People Please Did I Do Wrong? by kay177(m): 10:49am On Nov 25, 2010
^^^^NEw relationship  shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked embarassed embarassed
Re: People Please Did I Do Wrong? by Nobody: 10:52am On Nov 25, 2010
MRbrownJAY:

if you are living in the real world where people trust each other YEAH but with all them insecure brothas in 9ja HELL NO!!!
she knew that it may have put her into trouble and thats why she called to inform him of the deed (mistake number one) when that guy decided to stop for whatever BS then she should have gotten out of the car and gone on her way.
whats the point of taking a ride by car if its to stop at some shopping mall and waste the "supposed" gained time?!
her trip by bus/okada would have made her get home earlier (mistake number two)

What she's supposed to be doing is showing him how baseless his insecuritie are, not feeding them! This is just one incident, there will be numerous more. Is she going to spend the rest of her time with him walking on her toes around ALL the men in her life?

Entering a lift is not about the 'gained' time, it's about the convenience. Would you rather your GF entered a bike (which in lagos is very dangerous) or jumped molue after a hard day's work, than an AC-tight car? If you ask me, the little time 'wasted' is worth every second!
Re: People Please Did I Do Wrong? by belamour(m): 10:54am On Nov 25, 2010
kay177:

^^^^NEw relationship  shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked embarassed embarassed

Kay abeg no tell me say u self no know say Junman don start new relationship,

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