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We Agreed On Friends With Benefits, But Now She Wanted More. by bayocute(m): 6:11pm On Dec 29, 2019
Good evening Nairalanders.
I actually met this babe around July this year. i initially asked her out but she turned down my proposal cos she is/was in a serious relationship. Then, we proceeded been a good friend and everything is cool. I stayed in Lagos while she school in Ibadan. We've never seen each other oo, we met on Facebook. We became so close that she literally tells me everything about her relationship etc. I traveled to Ibadan to do somethings and I called her. She requested for us to see. When I got there, we talked and we actually had sex. After the sex, I asked if we can start dating but she said NO, that she loves her bf. I stayed for 2 weeks at Ibadan and we had sex throughout my stay. She told me we should maintain it that way. She came to Lagos around Sept and she visited me, something happened, no strings attached as she said.
Now, I have a girl I am dating and I love her real hard. I can't joke with her, I met her around Sept also.
This my friend (the girl) now called me around DEC 9 around 6pm that she wanted to talk to me about something serious. I even thought it was money.. She told me she fell in love with me and she can't control it anymore. That she wanted a real relationship. That I'm a very gentleman,I'm very caring and always getting in touch with her. ( I do all this things to make the bound stronger so as not to lose the spot of the friends with benefits ish)
And me, I can't do that cos she's going to become a burden and I can't hurt my babe. I love her badly.
I don't know what to do as I have zero feelings for this girl. And again, I can't cheat on my babe by dating her too.
Pls, your advice is welcome. Thank you all!
Re: We Agreed On Friends With Benefits, But Now She Wanted More. by Cutehector(m): 6:14pm On Dec 29, 2019
There is nothing to discuss, just tell her falling in love will spoil the business between you both and you have a serious girlfriend as she does have a boyfriend. Why is it so difficult?

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Re: We Agreed On Friends With Benefits, But Now She Wanted More. by Skillzystick(m): 6:16pm On Dec 29, 2019
op which advice do you need again.
tell d girl you're not interested..
you have a loml
simple as that..
did she seek for advice when she said no to you then..
why is it difficult for you guys to turn down a lady.. smh

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Re: We Agreed On Friends With Benefits, But Now She Wanted More. by Atlanticfire: 6:17pm On Dec 29, 2019
bayocute:
Good evening Nairalanders.
I actually met this babe around July this year. i initially asked her out but she turned down my proposal cos she is/was in a serious relationship. Then, we proceeded been a good friend and everything is cool. I stayed in Lagos while she school in Ibadan. We've never seen each other oo, we met on Facebook. We became so close that she literally tells me everything about her relationship etc. I traveled to Ibadan to do somethings and I called her. She requested for us to see. When I got there, we talked and we actually had sex. After the sex, I asked if we can start dating but she said NO, that she loves her bf. I stayed for 2 weeks at Ibadan and we had sex throughout my stay. She told me we should maintain it that way. She came to Lagos around Sept and she visited me, something happened, no strings attached as she said.
Now, I have a girl I am dating and I love her real hard. I can't joke with her, I met her around Sept also.
This my friend (the girl) now called me around DEC 9 around 6pm that she wanted to talk to me about something serious. I even thought it was money.. She told me she fell in love with me and she can't control it anymore. That she wanted a real relationship. That I'm a very gentleman,I'm very caring and always getting in touch with her. ( I do all this things to make the bound stronger so as not to lose the spot of the friends with benefits ish)
And me, I can't do that cos she's going to become a burden and I can't hurt my babe. I love her badly.
I don't know what to do as I have zero feelings for this girl. And again, I can't cheat on my babe by dating her too.
Pls, your advice is welcome. Thank you all!

Did you just say that you can not cheat on your babe by dating the other babe that you are fucking?

Is fucking a babe under friends with benefit status not cheating on your babe?

I can not advice you since your reasoning has k- leg

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Re: We Agreed On Friends With Benefits, But Now She Wanted More. by pocohantas(f): 6:28pm On Dec 29, 2019
After the sex, I asked if we can start dating but she said NO, that she loves her bf.

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Re: We Agreed On Friends With Benefits, But Now She Wanted More. by bayocute(m): 6:32pm On Dec 29, 2019
Atlanticfire:


Did you just say that you can not cheat on your babe by dating the other babe that you are fucking?

Is fucking a babe under friends with benefit status not cheating on your babe?

I can not advice you since your reasoning has k- leg
Good evening, I never take the relationship serious since I knew we're just playing game and having fun. This is different from me lying and chopping another girl in disguise of a relationship. I hope you understand the "cheating" I meant from my own perspective.
Re: We Agreed On Friends With Benefits, But Now She Wanted More. by Nobody: 6:33pm On Dec 29, 2019
You are bound to two ladies called soulties through fornication. You are spiritually a polygamous man that's why your "paje friend" is lustingly in imaginative-love with you due to the lust-bond. The advice you need is, break free from the bond by maning up, your new "paje gf" inclusive lol...
Re: We Agreed On Friends With Benefits, But Now She Wanted More. by ambassadorgozie(m): 6:33pm On Dec 29, 2019
pocohantas:



notin poco no go see 4 nairaland ashewo thread

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Re: We Agreed On Friends With Benefits, But Now She Wanted More. by makydebbie(f): 6:43pm On Dec 29, 2019
Atlanticfire:


Did you just say that you can not cheat on your babe by dating the other babe that you are fucking?

Is fucking a babe under friends with benefit status not cheating on your babe?

I can not advice you since your reasoning has k- leg

You just brought the words out of my mouth.

This op should be 15 years old or something.
Re: We Agreed On Friends With Benefits, But Now She Wanted More. by loadedvibes: 6:52pm On Dec 29, 2019
Nothing Musa no go see for gate .. so you are not cheating on your gf by fuhhcking another girl.. anyway this FWB girl is not inlove with you but inlove with your dickkkk just assure her that you can be knackings her steady and you are good
Re: We Agreed On Friends With Benefits, But Now She Wanted More. by YungMillionaire: 7:16pm On Dec 29, 2019
For the first time in your pathetic life grow some balls. If you have an agreement and its broken by the other party THEN stop doing business with the guilty party. Its that simple.
Re: We Agreed On Friends With Benefits, But Now She Wanted More. by Stanweezy(m): 7:53pm On Dec 29, 2019
bayocute:
Good evening Nairalanders.
I actually met this babe around July this year. i initially asked her out but she turned down my proposal cos she is/was in a serious relationship. Then, we proceeded been a good friend and everything is cool. I stayed in Lagos while she school in Ibadan. We've never seen each other oo, we met on Facebook. We became so close that she literally tells me everything about her relationship etc. I traveled to Ibadan to do somethings and I called her. She requested for us to see. When I got there, we talked and we actually had sex. After the sex, I asked if we can start dating but she said NO, that she loves her bf. I stayed for 2 weeks at Ibadan and we had sex throughout my stay. She told me we should maintain it that way. She came to Lagos around Sept and she visited me, something happened, no strings attached as she said.
Now, I have a girl I am dating and I love her real hard. I can't joke with her, I met her around Sept also.
This my friend (the girl) now called me around DEC 9 around 6pm that she wanted to talk to me about something serious. I even thought it was money.. She told me she fell in love with me and she can't control it anymore. That she wanted a real relationship. That I'm a very gentleman,I'm very caring and always getting in touch with her. ( I do all this things to make the bound stronger so as not to lose the spot of the friends with benefits ish)
And me, I can't do that cos she's going to become a burden and I can't hurt my babe. I love her badly.
I don't know what to do as I have zero feelings for this girl. And again, I can't cheat on my babe by dating her too.
Pls, your advice is welcome. Thank you all!

Wetin carry u go Ibadan if not to chop kpekus, abeg finish what you started. If na marriage marry the two
Re: We Agreed On Friends With Benefits, But Now She Wanted More. by mechanics(m): 7:53pm On Dec 29, 2019
You shouldn't have started what you can finish o, don't know what to even say, just change your sim and caught any ties of relationship with her.
Re: We Agreed On Friends With Benefits, But Now She Wanted More. by Korllami007: 8:14pm On Dec 29, 2019
You no wan date her because you don't want to cheat or hurt your girlfriend, but you had sex with her and you don't see that as cheating or hurting your girlfriend.


This is result of grinding tramadol into powder, mix it with weed, put it inside risler and then smoke it.

When your brain don balance, pls edit your post.
Re: We Agreed On Friends With Benefits, But Now She Wanted More. by samso247(m): 11:05pm On Dec 30, 2019
After u have bleeped her raw, what do u expect? Dnt u knw, sex is a bond, and wen it Is done frequently, it tends to tighten the bond btw partners. Why do u think couples are advised to have sex frequently?
Re: We Agreed On Friends With Benefits, But Now She Wanted More. by Miravik900(m): 7:07am On Jun 24, 2023
bayocute:

Good evening, I never take the relationship serious since I knew we're just playing game and having fun. This is different from me lying and chopping another girl in disguise of a relationship. I hope you understand the "cheating" I meant from my own perspective.


Is she sweet?

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