It's is a matter of choice not force not every guy wants to be a player it's a good choice to abstain from womanizing but trust me like everything womanizing has its advantages if only you play the game wisely without harming yourself below are the reasons why a guy should womanize at least a bit.

1)Emotional strength

the world of women is not for the emotionally weak, if you are a crybaby stay out of women it is not for you for they will test you heavily.
A womanizer has seen it all, heartbreaks ,disappointments, rejection e.t.c he has become emotionally tough if any of the above happens again he will easily move on without breaking a sweat.but an average guy who has not experienced much of the above will get badly depressed if he experienced any of the above because he is inexperienced that's why some commit suicide ,sink into depression, resent heartbreak and finally hates women as for me i have seen it all and I don't give a Bleep anymore.

2)Control and power
women want to be controlled forget all these feminist talk. and a man who is not experienced with women cannot do it.a woman cannot feel attraction for a man that she orders around or a man that says yes to all her request without questioning.that is the reason why they play with your heart despite how nice you are to them I mean you reading this article. a retired womanizer will handle his wife better than an average man who shy away from women

3)sexual experience
women love sex don't be deceived,depriving your partner of mind blowing orgasms is the same as planting a time bomb she is very likely to cheat not because she is a LovePeddler but because everyone wants to experience crazy sexual pleasure both male and female.no matter the amount of money you give her if you don't satisfy her sexually you are on your own.

4)preselection

women are naturally attracted to men who are loved by other women.which woman doesn't want to marry Davido, wizkid, kizzdaniel , burnaBoy it's not really because they are rich and famous but because millions of women want them a woman wants a man she will feel lucky to have .when a woman comes across a man that has many options she will know instantly from his body language.an average guy cannot display this body language he will be shaky,why and less confident.when a woman sees you with other beautiful women she will feel she has a prize as a man.

U are correct

@op....... U be guy. Women generally don't like simple calm guys, they like guys with a tough heart that's why they always run after guys wey no send them.