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Why Do Girls Feel Guilty After The First Sex, Most Especially? by Ecstacy21(m): 4:02pm On Jan 19, 2020
I have a girlfriend, who understands what is involve in a relationship. She came to visit me at my place twice, and each time she visits,we get involved in pre-intimacy( she would want me to kiss her,suck her but not to penetrate) so on the third time she visits, after eatin, watched a movie and talked about life, boom, we got in another pre-intimacy and she said she wants to remove her panties before it got stained after removing it, she told me to lock the door( the door was closed before- i.e, i should drive the bolt in) boom sucked hear breast, performed cunninlingus to the fact i wanted to penetrate her she held me and asked me to go wear a co*d*m. Boom i rushed and we had great sex. But after the sex, she became so angry with me, accusing me of forcing her. Immediately i flared up and ask her what does she mean? Because i respect women and i can't force myself on any woman. Ah, i started reminding her that i didnt force her that she was the one that pulled off her panties and asked me to go wear a condom. So where's the force? She couldn't say anything again until she slept off.
Another incidence, this one happened before the first sha. A girl, we met on facebbook, though i invited her over cos our location was close. She obliged but dont know when. On a very good day i got a call from her-we exchanged number but i didnt bother to save it cos i am not so sure of the relationship we we'll build. Then after several months she called that she's in my location, that she wants to come visit me( she introduce herself but i can't place the name immediately) so i played along. Then after the call ended, i now searched her number with true caller. Boom, i remembered. So she came to my place @ 8pm. So we got talking again,re introducing ourselves, then after making her dinner, we got into romantic talks and before we knew it, we began doing physical gymnastic and boom after we went through oblivion, she got so angry- she covered her face and refused me of cuddling her. I knew the signs so i let her be that moment. Even though, we still went into more 4 rounds before she left the next day afternoon. Initially she said in the morning but ended up leaving my place that afternoon.
So back to my question; why do go girls, feel guilty after the first sex with a guy?
Re: Why Do Girls Feel Guilty After The First Sex, Most Especially? by TheEnygma(m): 4:10pm On Jan 19, 2020
Most naija girls are like that.....they like Pretending a lot, most times is so that You won't think they are Cheap since You've already had your way with them.....but as For You O.P.

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Re: Why Do Girls Feel Guilty After The First Sex, Most Especially? by IDEMMIRI: 4:15pm On Jan 19, 2020
Ecstacy21:
I have a girlfriend, who understands what is involve in a relationship. She came to visit me at my place twice, and each time she visits,we get involved in pre-intimacy( she would want me to kiss her,suck her but not to penetrate) so on the third time she visits, after eatin, watched a movie and talked about life, boom, we got in another pre-intimacy and she said she wants to remove her panties before it got stained after removing it, she told me to lock the door( the door was closed before- i.e, i should drive the bolt in) boom sucked hear breast, performed cunninlingus to the fact i wanted to penetrate her she held me and asked me to go wear a co*d*m. Boom i rushed and we had great sex. But after the sex, she became so angry with me, accusing me of forcing her. Immediately i flared up and ask her what does she mean? Because i respect women and i can't force myself on any woman. Ah, i started reminding her that i didnt force her that she was the one that pulled off her panties and asked me to go wear a condom. So where's the force? She couldn't say anything again until she slept off.
Another incidence, this one happened before the first sha. A girl, we met on facebbook, though i invited her over cos our location was close. She obliged but dont know when. On a very good day i got a call from her-we exchanged number but i didnt bother to save it cos i am not so sure of the relationship we we'll build. Then after several months she called that she's in my location, that she wants to come visit me( she introduce herself but i can't place the name immediately) so i played along. Then after the call ended, i now searched her number with true caller. Boom, i remembered. So she came to my place @ 8pm. So we got talking again,re introducing ourselves, then after making her dinner, we got into romantic talks and before we knew it, we began doing physical gymnastic and boom after we went through oblivion, she got so angry- she covered her face and refused me of cuddling her. I knew the signs so i let her be that moment. Even though, we still went into more 4 rounds before she left the next day afternoon. Initially she said in the morning but ended up leaving my place that afternoon.
So back to my question; why do go girls, feel guilty after the first sex with a guy?


At the bolded, you be sharp guy so you no wan let opportunity pass you by. cheesy cheesy cheesy

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Re: Why Do Girls Feel Guilty After The First Sex, Most Especially? by mumumugu(m): 5:25pm On Jan 19, 2020
she just lost the feminine power

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Re: Why Do Girls Feel Guilty After The First Sex, Most Especially? by Cutehector(m): 5:52pm On Jan 19, 2020
Mchew.. When you see a kitty, you'd be like, so it is this ugly flesh men are killing themselves for..

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Re: Why Do Girls Feel Guilty After The First Sex, Most Especially? by psalmsmiles(m): 5:56pm On Jan 19, 2020
no be chaise

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Re: Why Do Girls Feel Guilty After The First Sex, Most Especially? by Charleys: 5:59pm On Jan 19, 2020
Cutehector:
Mchew.. When you see a kitty, you'd be like, so it is this ugly flesh men are killing themselves for..


Lolz guy if our deeck should tell us what it sees.

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Re: Why Do Girls Feel Guilty After The First Sex, Most Especially? by Cutehector(m): 6:01pm On Jan 19, 2020
Na small children dey like do all that nonsense

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Re: Why Do Girls Feel Guilty After The First Sex, Most Especially? by cosobi(m): 6:07pm On Jan 19, 2020
Angry or no angry,Stop committing fornication.U will not end up well...The more u commit,the more it create a sure way to hell fire...Amend ur ways and accept Jesus..

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Re: Why Do Girls Feel Guilty After The First Sex, Most Especially? by Blexino(f): 6:08pm On Jan 19, 2020
It's natural
Re: Why Do Girls Feel Guilty After The First Sex, Most Especially? by lilmax(m): 6:12pm On Jan 19, 2020
It's to make you look stupid

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Re: Why Do Girls Feel Guilty After The First Sex, Most Especially? by Auntyesther(f): 6:22pm On Jan 19, 2020
Its to make you look stupid and also feel guilty. They want you to think they ain't cheap by giving it to you on the first day whilst some wee be claiming semi virgin "ayam shy" but you sha fit drown inside there o

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Re: Why Do Girls Feel Guilty After The First Sex, Most Especially? by Akanoaaa(m): 6:48pm On Jan 19, 2020
Na their way

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Re: Why Do Girls Feel Guilty After The First Sex, Most Especially? by Countersam(m): 7:15pm On Jan 19, 2020
Ecstacy21:
I have a girlfriend, who understands what is involve in a relationship. She came to visit me at my place twice, and each time she visits,we get involved in pre-intimacy( she would want me to kiss her,suck her but not to penetrate) so on the third time she visits, after eatin, watched a movie and talked about life, boom, we got in another pre-intimacy and she said she wants to remove her panties before it got stained after removing it, she told me to lock the door( the door was closed before- i.e, i should drive the bolt in) boom sucked hear breast, performed cunninlingus to the fact i wanted to penetrate her she held me and asked me to go wear a co*d*m. Boom i rushed and we had great sex. But after the sex, she became so angry with me, accusing me of forcing her. Immediately i flared up and ask her what does she mean? Because i respect women and i can't force myself on any woman. Ah, i started reminding her that i didnt force her that she was the one that pulled off her panties and asked me to go wear a condom. So where's the force? She couldn't say anything again until she slept off.
Another incidence, this one happened before the first sha. A girl, we met on facebbook, though i invited her over cos our location was close. She obliged but dont know when. On a very good day i got a call from her-we exchanged number but i didnt bother to save it cos i am not so sure of the relationship we we'll build. Then after several months she called that she's in my location, that she wants to come visit me( she introduce herself but i can't place the name immediately) so i played along. Then after the call ended, i now searched her number with true caller. Boom, i remembered. So she came to my place @ 8pm. So we got talking again,re introducing ourselves, then after making her dinner, we got into romantic talks and before we knew it, we began doing physical gymnastic and boom after we went through oblivion, she got so angry- she covered her face and refused me of cuddling her. I knew the signs so i let her be that moment. Even though, we still went into more 4 rounds before she left the next day afternoon. Initially she said in the morning but ended up leaving my place that afternoon.
So back to my question; why do go girls, feel guilty after the first sex with a guy?

Na lie. All Na wash, Na forming. They even want more...

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Re: Why Do Girls Feel Guilty After The First Sex, Most Especially? by Anneka101(f): 7:18pm On Jan 19, 2020
I think most of us think we just lost our pride immediately after sex, most especially how most of these guys behave if they have sex, reverse would be the case.


No more constant calls

No more frequently chat


Attention would just be a thing of the past.

Most guys are scum.

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Re: Why Do Girls Feel Guilty After The First Sex, Most Especially? by Nobody: 7:42pm On Jan 19, 2020
I’d try this thing out one of these day.

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Re: Why Do Girls Feel Guilty After The First Sex, Most Especially? by eddycliff(m): 7:45pm On Jan 19, 2020
I like the way op says boom like that "crazy Russian hacks" guy

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Re: Why Do Girls Feel Guilty After The First Sex, Most Especially? by Emodeee: 7:50pm On Jan 19, 2020
All the females that have commented on this thread so far, are malescheesy. Their comments are not lady like.

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Re: Why Do Girls Feel Guilty After The First Sex, Most Especially? by Nobody: 8:19pm On Jan 19, 2020
Blexino:
It's natural
what makes it natural when it is not as if he was the one that deflower her

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Re: Why Do Girls Feel Guilty After The First Sex, Most Especially? by iceybux(m): 8:20pm On Jan 19, 2020
Had One Like That O,she Intiated The Move O,gave Me A Bj Sef,hunty Pull Jeans,pulld Panty Make I Start Work O Na So She Begin Cry Seriously Cover Face,i Just Jejely Free Her O, She Was In Her Mid Or Mid 20's . Just Dnt Understand Few Weeks Later Calld That We Should Makeout Tha She's Sori..Told Her Nt Interestd

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Re: Why Do Girls Feel Guilty After The First Sex, Most Especially? by Randy100: 8:52pm On Jan 19, 2020
It is normal.
Re: Why Do Girls Feel Guilty After The First Sex, Most Especially? by Kazeemakeem(m): 9:25pm On Jan 19, 2020
Anneka101:
I think most of us think we just lost our pride immediately after sex, most especially how most of these guys behave if they have sex, reverse would be the case.


No more constant calls

No more frequently chat


Attention would just be a thing of the past.

Most guys are scum.




No na,urr Right But u ladies are blind to see Nice guys, u fall into Wrong guys on the basis of clean handsome guys Who always chop and clean mouth
Re: Why Do Girls Feel Guilty After The First Sex, Most Especially? by Lamanii22(f): 9:44pm On Jan 19, 2020
Anneka101:
I think most of us think we just lost our pride immediately after sex, most especially how most of these guys behave if they have sex, reverse would be the case.


No more constant calls

No more frequently chat


Attention would just be a thing of the past.

Most guys are scum.



Exactly... You'd now feel used.. You'd now be like why couldn't I have controlled myself... And all of those attitude from guys need to stop...

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Re: Why Do Girls Feel Guilty After The First Sex, Most Especially? by VIRGINlabia(m): 10:24pm On Jan 19, 2020
Lamanii22:




Exactly... You'd now feel used.. You'd now be like why couldn't I have controlled myself... And all of those attitude from guys need to stop...


After you don enjoy am finish with all the scream and moans that escaped your mouth......una dey try......me I even felt the same way

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Re: Why Do Girls Feel Guilty After The First Sex, Most Especially? by Bahddo(m): 11:40pm On Jan 19, 2020
They don't feel guilty (they are drama queens), it's actually meant to make you feel guilty so that you'd be eager to make up for it. Also, it's a convenient way to transfer responsibility for their actions to you.

It's one of the many ways women manipulate men, some act naive/stupid so that you'd feel you made her do stuff that she actually left her house to come do.

Give her some time and she'd schedule another dick appointment.

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Re: Why Do Girls Feel Guilty After The First Sex, Most Especially? by maak400: 12:35am On Jan 20, 2020
Anneka101:
I think most of us think we just lost our pride immediately after sex, most especially how most of these guys behave if they have sex, reverse would be the case.


No more constant calls

No more frequently chat


Attention would just be a thing of the past.

Most guys are scum.
You display your phone number on your profile page, you ain’t scared of scammers abi.
Re: Why Do Girls Feel Guilty After The First Sex, Most Especially? by wizdomnzube(m): 12:55am On Jan 20, 2020
Anneka101:
I think most of us think we just lost our pride immediately after sex, most especially how most of these guys behave if they have sex, reverse would be the case.


No more constant calls

No more frequently chat


Attention would just be a thing of the past.

Most guys are scum.
Madam "Most guys are scum" who break your heart? The guy nor try oh
Re: Why Do Girls Feel Guilty After The First Sex, Most Especially? by BusolaDakolo: 8:25am On Jan 20, 2020
cosobi:
Angry or no angry,Stop committing fornication.U will not end up well...The more u commit,the more it create a sure way to hell fire...Amend ur ways and accept Jesus..
Which of the "hells"?
Muslim own? Xtian own? another religion own?
All these religions have the same way of deceiving their gullible followers.
Re: Why Do Girls Feel Guilty After The First Sex, Most Especially? by Heroclitus(m): 9:15am On Jan 20, 2020
BusolaDakolo:

Which of the "hells"?
Muslim own? Xtian own? another religion own?
All these religions have the same way of deceiving their gullible followers.

Must you choose any religion, were you asked to to comment by force,is it constitutional to belong to a particular religion... people sef


If you don't believe in religion kindly just read or watch and pass whenever they're preaching

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Re: Why Do Girls Feel Guilty After The First Sex, Most Especially? by Beeron: 10:48am On Jan 20, 2020
mumumugu:
she just lost the feminine power
Can we just like this guy's answer till it gets to 10,000.

This is the correct answer universally. It applies to all girls worldwide.

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Re: Why Do Girls Feel Guilty After The First Sex, Most Especially? by Funkyswagzz(m): 11:13am On Jan 20, 2020
Anneka101:
I think most of us think we just lost our pride immediately after sex, most especially how most of these guys behave if they have sex, reverse would be the case.


No more constant calls

No more frequently chat


Attention would just be a thing of the past.

Most guys are scum.

How come white girls don't feel used after a one night stand?.. y do our girls feel used after sex?.. does it mean u guys don't enjoy sex?

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