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Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by Kinikini: 3:12pm On Feb 24, 2020
Wahala dey o. Even an uncircumcised girl at times do not get wet. It really has nothing to do with circumcision but hormonal. Your wife should see a gynecologist. I do not defend female circumcision though.

thalpy:
I have a wife, and newly married. But my challenge is that she hardly get wets. She once told me that she was circumcised but I didn’t understand the disadvantage, thought it is same effect like a man.

We do have premarital sex (romance and pre-intimacy) for some time long enough to make her wet. But immediately we start having sex she dries up easily which makes it painful and somewhat not enjoyable to her after some time.

If she were to be a random girl, I won't care much. But she is my wife and I feel her pain. So I stop immediately and calm her down.

When we were dating we do fore play a lot but no sex until marriage now. I know you might say eating her p.... that works but saliva doesn't last and dries up. And am thinking what if she gives birth, giving a head might reduce too.

I know am not the only man in this trend. Many beautiful ladies out there are still in this shoe. I never knew cutting a girls clitoris has a big negative effect. Sex looks like war to them. Yes not the same to all but their sex life is not enjoyable to the fullest.

So I ask, to those that might have had this experience, is there anyway I can make her enjoy sex the more? Please not any rough discussion is accepted. I just don’t have that mind of seeing myself enjoy it alone when she isn’t. Now I have learnt my lesson, girl circumcision is bad. That's why most circumcised girls can stay without a bf, is not always self discipline is just lack of urge.

Please help. If you know anyone about it. And I browsed too i read they have difficulty too during child birth and they are prone to disease easily so how true is that? Just want to know all I need to know so precaution will be taken. Want to make her safe and happy. Thank you.
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by carinmom(f): 3:13pm On Feb 24, 2020
Legitdimple:
Hahahaha!!! Don't worry he doesn't mean that way,it won't dehydrate her of course but it really works,there's also "dabino" I can't remember the English name when mixed with coconut and blended together works wonders,these are all healthy natural aphrodisiac. Lubricant shouldn't be left out too. @ thalpy,I'm still laughing at the dehydration part though!

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Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by godliman: 3:13pm On Feb 24, 2020
money121:
When we were dating we do fore play alot but no sex. Until marriage now.

Disadvantage of no s ex b4 marriage suppose u already have s ex with her am sure by now u should have look for solution if u truely love her
But am 100% sure u will find solution here...
To be sincere is very painful and hurt

For that birth just gather Money for CS don't take risk ooo

May Almighty God protect and guide ur union...

My regard to madam
sex after marriage is still the best bros. The op should get water based sex lubricants they will help. Dont blame it on not having sex before marriage blame it on the babaric practice of female genital mutilation
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by kellybently(m): 3:15pm On Feb 24, 2020
thalpy:
I have a wife, and newly married. But my challenge is that she hardly get wets. She once told me that she was circumcised but I didn’t understand the disadvantage, thought it is same effect like a man.

We do have premarital sex (romance and pre-intimacy) for some time long enough to make her wet. But immediately we start having sex she dries up easily which makes it painful and somewhat not enjoyable to her after some time.

If she were to be a random girl, I won't care much. But she is my wife and I feel her pain. So I stop immediately and calm her down.

When we were dating we do fore play a lot but no sex until marriage now. I know you might say eating her p.... that works but saliva doesn't last and dries up. And am thinking what if she gives birth, giving a head might reduce too.

I know am not the only man in this trend. Many beautiful ladies out there are still in this shoe. I never knew cutting a girls clitoris has a big negative effect. Sex looks like war to them. Yes not the same to all but their sex life is not enjoyable to the fullest.

So I ask, to those that might have had this experience, is there anyway I can make her enjoy sex the more? Please not any rough discussion is accepted. I just don’t have that mind of seeing myself enjoy it alone when she isn’t. Now I have learnt my lesson, girl circumcision is bad. That's why most circumcised girls can stay without a bf, is not always self discipline is just lack of urge.

Please help. If you know anyone about it. And I browsed too i read they have difficulty too during child birth and they are prone to disease easily so how true is that? Just want to know all I need to know so precaution will be taken. Want to make her safe and happy. Thank you.



Go buy water base lubricant. apply it before sex. she ll ejoy it and last longer.
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by CyberWolf: 3:16pm On Feb 24, 2020
You have to learn how to hit the gspot very hard since the clit is no longer there. Also try playing with the breasts/nipples while trusting. Stop female circumcision, they won’t hear.
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by grandstar(m): 3:17pm On Feb 24, 2020
Ever heard of clitoris reconstruction surgery? It might be a good suggestion. It might work. That's the best advice I can presently give.

thalpy

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Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by Denique(f): 3:18pm On Feb 24, 2020
money121:
When we were dating we do fore play alot but no sex. Until marriage now.

Disadvantage of no s ex b4 marriage suppose u already have s ex with her am sure by now u should have look for solution if u truely love her
But am 100% sure u will find solution here...
To be sincere is very painful and hurt

For that birth just gather Money for CS don't take risk ooo

May Almighty God protect and guide ur union...

My regard to madam

My mom and her siblings all had natural births. Most of my cousins too, so, I don't think CS is a circumcision factor...
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by fartkay(m): 3:19pm On Feb 24, 2020
thalpy:
I have a wife, and newly married. But my challenge is that she hardly get wets. She once told me that she was circumcised but I didn’t understand the disadvantage, thought it is same effect like a man.

We do have premarital sex (romance and pre-intimacy) for some time long enough to make her wet. But immediately we start having sex she dries up easily which makes it painful and somewhat not enjoyable to her after some time.

If she were to be a random girl, I won't care much. But she is my wife and I feel her pain. So I stop immediately and calm her down.

When we were dating we do fore play a lot but no sex until marriage now. I know you might say eating her p.... that works but saliva doesn't last and dries up. And am thinking what if she gives birth, giving a head might reduce too.

I know am not the only man in this trend. Many beautiful ladies out there are still in this shoe. I never knew cutting a girls clitoris has a big negative effect. Sex looks like war to them. Yes not the same to all but their sex life is not enjoyable to the fullest.

So I ask, to those that might have had this experience, is there anyway I can make her enjoy sex the more? Please not any rough discussion is accepted. I just don’t have that mind of seeing myself enjoy it alone when she isn’t. Now I have learnt my lesson, girl circumcision is bad. That's why most circumcised girls can stay without a bf, is not always self discipline is just lack of urge.

Please help. If you know anyone about it. And I browsed too i read they have difficulty too during child birth and they are prone to disease easily so how true is that? Just want to know all I need to know so precaution will be taken. Want to make her safe and happy. Thank you.





for drying up so quickly during sex
try YK JELLY

thank me later
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by 989900: 3:21pm On Feb 24, 2020
BareFacedLies:
[s]How can you say you did not know she was circumcised till she told you?

If you're experienced enough you should be able to find out yourself.

There are some flaps that should be on the outer part of her pûssy, if they're not there then she's circumsided[/s]
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by peculiardamsel: 3:21pm On Feb 24, 2020
[quote author=thalpy post=86880999]

Firstly i commend you for being an understanding Husband, always ensure you have lots of pre-intimacy with her before action, and get her tiger nut milk to be drinking, also water melon helps a lot to put her in the mood,and in case of the dryness you can get her pre seed lubricant
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by grandstar(m): 3:21pm On Feb 24, 2020
nasirope:
No doubt female circumcision is totally bad and condemnable. Thankfully, it is now outlawed and only being practiced illegally by some uninformed part of the population. It is our duty to educate this people and also expose them to law enforcement agencies since the now recognizes it as acre against the girl child.
However, I think that we should be careful to make sure that we give only factual information even while trying to pass correct message. I mean we should avoid some myths if we want all part of the poppulation to take us serious.
For example the saying that if a lady is circumcised she would have to prepare for CS during child birth is not exactly accurate. Most people above the age of 30 including many of us, our sisters and relatives were circumcised and they give birth normally.
Complcatioms during child birth can be due to several unrelated factors.

HOWEVER WHAT IS BAD IS BAD!!!
NO TO FEMALE GENITAL MUTILATION!!!
BUT SPREAD THE MESSAGE IN A WAY THAT WILL APPEAR REAL .
THANK YOU!!!

Female circumcision is still very rampant.
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by Fountainofyouth(f): 3:21pm On Feb 24, 2020
Tweiker:


I call it the root of the clitoris.

The center of gravity is located exactly where the clit should be but inside the vagina. It's 3 times more sensitive than the clit but most men don't even know it's there.

Cut your fingernails to ensure they are blunt. Insert your first two fingers into her. Curve the tips and scratch that area where the clit root should be... the ceiling of the Vivian.
Watch go insane with pleasure.

The best sex position to get that Gspot is doggy style... two kinds. Either dig her with waist bent well, face and breasts flat on the bed, ass high in the air. or dig her standing. . Let her stand only half bend like one arm of the letter Y.

Either way, you dick will be gazing against that sensitive spot with each thrust and before long, orgasm!


Good luck!



You are very correct!!!

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Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by BigIyanga: 3:26pm On Feb 24, 2020
Stop looking for clitonani... just chop her kitten till she says MUSHIN.. you’re the headmaster of your intimate life. Good luck

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Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by noisy45(m): 3:26pm On Feb 24, 2020
Try anal sex with her. I'm currently dating a girl from Akwa Ibom she was circumcised and see with her causes her pain, until we opted to anal sex now she enjoys sex, cums like mad.. Female gential mutilation is common with Akwa ibom and cross river women.

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Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by Bria234: 3:28pm On Feb 24, 2020
Nice post. All d best wit ur wife. This can be worrying bro cos it makes u feel like ur wife isn't attracted to u
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by Hipsymoi: 3:29pm On Feb 24, 2020
It's not all women that's circumcised that gives birth through CS, I know of some of my family members including siblings and cousins numbering about 8 or more that is circumcised, none of them gave birth through CS. Some even gave birth to 6 children, some 4, 5 etc.
thalpy:




No difference. We just got married. And its like we are dating too. Its just that its now made known formally in chirch. So what would i have done if we were dating? is it not same thing i can still do now. Or you are saying breakup and even if i broke up someone will still marry her. So breakup is not a solution. And mind you she told me earlier and i confirmed when we started making love and no sex. Since i didn't see clitoris but didnt know it has huge potential effect. And for the childbirth you mean every circumcised lady gove birth through CS. Mehn that’s saddening.
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by Princesscutes1(f): 3:30pm On Feb 24, 2020
thalpy:




No difference. We just got married. And its like we are dating too. Its just that its now made known formally in chirch. So what would i have done if we were dating? is it not same thing i can still do now. Or you are saying breakup and even if i broke up someone will still marry her. So breakup is not a solution. And mind you she told me earlier and i confirmed when we started making love and no sex. Since i didn't see clitoris but didnt know it has huge potential effect. And for the childbirth you mean every circumcised lady gove birth through CS. Mehn that’s saddening.



pls sir,nothing like cs she can give birth as easy as ABC
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by Navofedbm: 3:30pm On Feb 24, 2020
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Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by freemi(m): 3:30pm On Feb 24, 2020
thalpy:




No difference. We just got married. And its like we are dating too. Its just that its now made known formally in chirch. So what would i have done if we were dating? is it not same thing i can still do now. Or you are saying breakup and even if i broke up someone will still marry her. So breakup is not a solution. And mind you she told me earlier and i confirmed when we started making love and no sex. Since i didn't see clitoris but didnt know it has huge potential effect. And for the childbirth you mean every circumcised lady gove birth through CS. Mehn that’s saddening.
pls don't make m emotional for u. God will see u thru. Hmmmm
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by freemi(m): 3:31pm On Feb 24, 2020
Tunagee:


Bro, you be wizard o! You just described my wife. She had a CS birth also, and gets dried easily. I don dey find the clitoris for more than 6 yrs now. Does it mean she was circumcized?
lols.
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by Dollabiz: 3:32pm On Feb 24, 2020
Really
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by freemi(m): 3:33pm On Feb 24, 2020
noisy45:
Try anal sex with her. I'm currently dating a girl from Akwa Ibom she was circumcised and see with her causes her pain, until we opted to anal sex now she enjoys sex, cums like mad.. Female gential mutilation is common with Akwa ibom and cross river women.
chei
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by waaclef(m): 3:36pm On Feb 24, 2020
it requires a lot of patience with deep pre-intimacy .you might also need to vary sex positions with different intensity and trusts in the act(sorry about the words).
I am talking from a point of experience with a lady i once dated few years back who had the same issue. You have to give head, flip her like pancake ,do doggy and all that and she kept cumming over and over and she actually started getting wet . At last it was worth it and she was always looking forward to the next one. (please pardon my use of words above). You will overcome with time, let her just relax and forget the fact she is circumcised . Good luck

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Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by Tweiker: 3:39pm On Feb 24, 2020
Fountainofyouth:



You are very correct!!!

grin

Thank you, babe. Nice to meet you again.

Don't remember?

I'm the guy that kicked the ass of tat emptycontenthead guy that was striking out your comments last year and bullying you from thread. I was using a different account then.

You never said thank you, though.
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by Jugo88: 3:39pm On Feb 24, 2020
Dude doesn’t know the meaning of pre-marital sex. grin grin
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by kellybently(m): 3:40pm On Feb 24, 2020
thalpy:
I have a wife, and newly married. But my challenge is that she hardly get wets. She once told me that she was circumcised but I didn’t understand the disadvantage, thought it is same effect like a man.

We do have premarital sex (romance and pre-intimacy) for some time long enough to make her wet. But immediately we start having sex she dries up easily which makes it painful and somewhat not enjoyable to her after some time.

If she were to be a random girl, I won't care much. But she is my wife and I feel her pain. So I stop immediately and calm her down.

When we were dating we do fore play a lot but no sex until marriage now. I know you might say eating her p.... that works but saliva doesn't last and dries up. And am thinking what if she gives birth, giving a head might reduce too.

I know am not the only man in this trend. Many beautiful ladies out there are still in this shoe. I never knew cutting a girls clitoris has a big negative effect. Sex looks like war to them. Yes not the same to all but their sex life is not enjoyable to the fullest.

So I ask, to those that might have had this experience, is there anyway I can make her enjoy sex the more? Please not any rough discussion is accepted. I just don’t have that mind of seeing myself enjoy it alone when she isn’t. Now I have learnt my lesson, girl circumcision is bad. That's why most circumcised girls can stay without a bf, is not always self discipline is just lack of urge.

Please help. If you know anyone about it. And I browsed too i read they have difficulty too during child birth and they are prone to disease easily so how true is that? Just want to know all I need to know so precaution will be taken. Want to make her safe and happy. Thank you.
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by shobam1410(m): 3:41pm On Feb 24, 2020
thalpy:




No difference. We just got married. And its like we are dating too. Its just that its now made known formally in chirch. So what would i have done if we were dating? is it not same thing i can still do now. Or you are saying breakup and even if i broke up someone will still marry her. So breakup is not a solution. And mind you she told me earlier and i confirmed when we started making love and no sex. Since i didn't see clitoris but didnt know it has huge potential effect. And for the childbirth you mean every circumcised lady gove birth through CS. Mehn that’s saddening.
That CS thing is not totally true. I know one of my wife's friend with this condition that gave birth naturally without stress to 4 kids.
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by kellybently(m): 3:41pm On Feb 24, 2020
thalpy:
I have a wife, and newly married. But my challenge is that she hardly get wets. She once told me that she was circumcised but I didn’t understand the disadvantage, thought it is same effect like a man.

We do have premarital sex (romance and pre-intimacy) for some time long enough to make her wet. But immediately we start having sex she dries up easily which makes it painful and somewhat not enjoyable to her after some time.

If she were to be a random girl, I won't care much. But she is my wife and I feel her pain. So I stop immediately and calm her down.

When we were dating we do fore play a lot but no sex until marriage now. I know you might say eating her p.... that works but saliva doesn't last and dries up. And am thinking what if she gives birth, giving a head might reduce too.

I know am not the only man in this trend. Many beautiful ladies out there are still in this shoe. I never knew cutting a girls clitoris has a big negative effect. Sex looks like war to them. Yes not the same to all but their sex life is not enjoyable to the fullest.

So I ask, to those that might have had this experience, is there anyway I can make her enjoy sex the more? Please not any rough discussion is accepted. I just don’t have that mind of seeing myself enjoy it alone when she isn’t. Now I have learnt my lesson, girl circumcision is bad. That's why most circumcised girls can stay without a bf, is not always self discipline is just lack of urge.

Please help. If you know anyone about it. And I browsed too i read they have difficulty too during child birth and they are prone to disease easily so how true is that? Just want to know all I need to know so precaution will be taken. Want to make her safe and happy. Thank you.
Go buy water base lubricant and use it during sex, she ll enjoy it and last longer
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by bettyLad(f): 3:42pm On Feb 24, 2020
this is a small matter now, I do not think being circumcized has anything to do with vaginal wetness or not , sometimes its hormonal .. just buy your wife dates from those abokis around ,just #100 dates will get her pussy dripping all wetness .. secondly do not mind the people talking about circumcized women delivering through cs , that's a big fat lie ,i was circumcized, I deliver three kids via vagina birth and I enjoy sex to the fullest ...keyanmata products will help out too .
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by Oludon20: 3:43pm On Feb 24, 2020
Bros I am also married to a circumcised woman and I had many circumcised girlfriends(not proud of that anyway). They enjoy sex Bro,I have started giving my wifey Squirting O' as well. Bro give her serious mouth action for a long time,also use your hand to touch the clitoris area during penetration.......she go take. Moreover,experience has shown me that such people have times that they enjoy sex and they get wet late most times. The rule is don't start if she is not wet and try to understand her system,it helps. It took me time to know these n get here,keep trying u will succeed Bro. Cheers!

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Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by obiekunie2: 3:43pm On Feb 24, 2020
DaudaTheSexyGuy:
Do you need someone to help you bang her very well? grin

if you know you know cheesy

Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by ehmmy11(m): 3:44pm On Feb 24, 2020
angry i stopped reading when i saw "no sex till marriage"

Op chop your "L" in peace


You deserve it..

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