Angela62:


So if his write-ups are opinions without ''concrete facts or evidence'', what are your ''facts and evidence'' to prove that all the rubbish you wrote about him is true and that his perspectives are gotten from youtube? you are going around labeling people's ideas as lacking in evidence, but will not support yours with evidence as well? can you see how you are contradicting yourself? Besides, what exactly is wrong with learning from youtube, assuming he actually did get his points from youtube?

Also, as I wrote before, why don't you challenge him with your ''facts and evidence'' and highlight his ''pseudoscience? if he then fails to justify his stance duly, then it will be clear that you may have a point. That is dignifying and something someone with an ounce of true education, common sense and civility will do. Otherwise, you are engaging in ad-hominem, and anyone with common sense can see through you.

Beverlyjean:



No need engaging her...not everyone has the capacity to be intelligent on this forum

sexylassie2:


why do you take it on yourself to defend a man, does the man not have hands to write, to counter an opinion, why do you think i will take you seriously, it seems you are the same person, i guess your female moniker,

i still dont understand why you have to take medicine for another person's problem.

let the man counter my opinion, until then, pls do not mention me..thanks

Angela62:


All you keep doing is dribbling away from the main point at hand, without actually saying anything that resembles reasoning. Even if I defend him, and so what? that is what anyone with a sense of morals should do. I am also speaking up, so nairalanders will not think that every woman here is like you, without common sense, toxic, who unashamedly displays her lack of reasoning. You can go ahead and think I am him, after all, I will not expect common sense from someone that cant defends her position when challenged.

sexylassie2:


your plan is show your dirty linen in public but i got no time for lowlives and roadside little bitches.

Angela62:


You just described yourself. Farewell. You are busted.

sexylassie2:


then men should wear makeups, high heels shoes, wears wigs and all feminine style just because each sexes borrow styles from each other.

basically you are trying to write that masculinity in men is a social construct. masculinity or manliness are attributes and characteristics of men, manliness in men are biologically and environmentally influenced. strength, courage, independence, leadership, and assertiveness are attributes of men,

environmental factors like economical issues or lack of opportunities can reduce this attributes, a man who has his life together will likely see an increase in his ability to provide,his assertiveness, become independent than a man who hasnt gotten his life together.

okonkwo killed himself because he could not stand to watch his culture die out under the weight of colonialism. He is a role model every man should imitate.

i think you are looking for the perfect role model, there are no perfect role models in this world, role models are human like us filled with negative and positive attributes, as humans, you can either imitate what ever attributes you feel is the best for you.

Research says We women use snapchat filters more because it appeals to us more than men and also it makes us look better and attractive to men, i personally think a man using filters to enhance his look his distasteful, shows he has self esteem issues.

instead of bringing up others cultures, let me write about the culture i am familiar with which is the Nigerian culture. we dont consider it attractive when a man wears makeup and earrings, being a feminine man isnt a standard for men to attain in our culture, feminine men are considered weak.

yes they are personality traits but research have showed and proven that these trait are more common in men than in women.

i think, you have gotten everything wrong, because men are assertive and independent does not mean they do not have to developed that attributes, a child who is musically gifted might lose that gift, if he or she do not practise or improve on him or herself, nothing is built on a platter of gold, most men still have to prove themselves worthy that they can use their natural attributes to do things and bring results

Strength and other manly attributes needed in the wild habitat back then are still needed today, in today's world a man still needs strength to protect his country against invading troops, to protect we women and our offspring, to provide and also build shelters and other necessary tools for our survival.

I have noticed that most men take pride in defending what they believe his their traditions and way of life, that is why in some cultures they are against inter-marriages so that they can protect their culture and heritage. any interference can lead to disown, honour killings or sucide. Okonwo did what any man who loves and take pride in his culture did.

Okonkwo did kill people, one because he was following his traditions and the other by mistake, because of that he was exiled for 7 years, he paid for his sin. btw, i haven't read anywhere in african culture, where suicide was feminine, suicide was an abomination but not feminine, kings in some african culture commit suicide for disobeying laws. The loss of identity most men are suffering today, isnt loss of identity of cultures but loss of identity due to lack of jobs, lack of opportunities, economy problems, societal problems are making men loss their sense of identity, the battle for men is different from the days of okonkwo, i dont believe providing is only what men offers to society, inventing of things, building of things, protecting we women and our offsprings, and lot more.

men need strength, courage independence, for survival, are these not the trait in we women like in men, we feel save when a man have this traits.

Lostz:
the fathers are dying early because of too much hardwork in their quest to earn the real man title

Ardar:


Excuses, excuses, excuses. Women do all these are more without complaining while you men complain all through. Talk about the real naggers.

It's no wonder why people celebrate mother's day more or give it more recognition but barely care about father's day.

Lostz:
that is why fathers decided that they are going to be okay with just being men. no one want the real man title again.


fathers pay all the bills but even their kids forget to celebrate them

Lostz:
the fathers are dying early because of too much hardwork in their quest to earn the real man title

funmisticqueen2:
they are dying early because of poor lifestyle choices. They drink, smoke,eat like there's no tomorrow.Barely exercise and think a pot belly is cute. They cheat on their wives and bring home diseases

Of course diseases will pick them off.

Lostz:
who said barely exercise? there are more overweight women in this country.

they die because of hardwork to provide. men have always die early since the founding of the world.

some are dying in their youth fighting Boko Haram

Ardar:


Not all fathers do but the ones that do it forget that bonding with your child is also important.

Women who are the breadwinners do it, they support their kids not just financially but also emotionally. While the man wallow away in his false sense of been a man because he feels been a man is been cold hearted and a monster who doesn't give two sh..it's about all that loving touchy stuff.

funmisticqueen2:
Women are naturally predisposed to have more weight than the average man.

Do these women, smoke or drink, or refuse to work since they are overweight?

Angela62:


All you keep doing is dribbling away from the main point at hand, without actually saying anything that resembles reasoning. Even if I defend him, and so what? that is what anyone with a sense of morals should do. I am also speaking up, so nairalanders will not think that every woman here is like you, without common sense, toxic, who unashamedly displays her lack of reasoning. You can go ahead and think I am him, after all, I will not expect common sense from someone that cant defends her position when challenged.

Angela62:


So if his write-ups are opinions without ''concrete facts or evidence'', what are your ''facts and evidence'' to prove that all the rubbish you wrote about him is true and that his perspectives are gotten from youtube? you are going around labeling people's ideas as lacking in evidence, but will not support yours with evidence as well? can you see how you are contradicting yourself? Besides, what exactly is wrong with learning from youtube, assuming he actually did get his points from youtube?

Also, as I wrote before, why don't you challenge him with your ''facts and evidence'' and highlight his ''pseudoscience? if he then fails to justify his stance duly, then it will be clear that you may have a point. That is dignifying and something someone with an ounce of true education, common sense and civility will do. Otherwise, you are engaging in ad-hominem, and anyone with common sense can see through you.

sexylassie2:
any man who goes about writing redpill here has nothing new to write down except coping and pasting whatever he watches on youtube or reads on reddit...

anyway, redpill or whatever it is call doesnt have its foundation on science rather on heresays, pseudoscience and assumptions

some of you might find it inspiring to read but to me they are pure garbage, no new information, nothing interesting to learn from it

evidences can be seen here, they keep recycling the same old stories all in the name of redpill ideology

i have never read anything new and exciting from this so called redpill ideology rather than all women are hoes and gold diggers

then some moniker called pansophist with his female alternative moniker and another roadside bitch are talking about women and freedom of speech.

sexylassie2:
For all those men that don't work, if a working woman marry you, accept her name as your surname

Because I don't see the reason why I should be bearing the surname of a lazy man


Only working men are entitled to give a woman their surname

snitchbitch:
Why are they (women)/getting bitter because the redpill movement is growing and booming? I toast a girl, she said no, I got depressed, Mr redpill came, gave me some pills, that I shouldn't worry, that I shouldn't kill myself, that I shouldn't jump from third mainland bridge, that I should move on. So what is their (ladies) bitterness about that.

So because I have toasted you and you said no, I should go and die?

Let's show some love here please? A lot of problems in this world are because of too much hate!!!!!

Even the devil loves his disciples, may be Nigerian women should learn from him!!!!!

RisenPhoenix:


You are a rare example of a sensible, mature lady. I rarely ever find women worthy of compliment on NL, but you are one. If I was not married, you would have been a serious consideration for my attentions.

For the serious single men; in my very expert opinion; this lady right here is a confirmed, guaranteed keeper; ceteris paribus. She exhibits all the signs that she will be a real asset to her husband rather than the soul-depleting, wealth-sucking liability that most women are. Here's your chance; such opportunities are not easy to find.

Angela62:


You would have made sense if you actually point out where p.ansophist is wrong in any of his statements, instead of attacking him. I have been on this forum for long, reads silently and does come across his writeup periodically, and if anything, he justifies his stance sufficiently, and does not go around directly insulting people like you are doing. Disagreeing with his writeup doesn't make it garbage, there are lots of sensible people on this forum that read without attaching emotions to it, with common sense, and appreciates his views and his uniqueness in delivery. I do.

Everything you wrote up there doesn't represent him, or his message. If you think otherwise, again, can you point it out? not insult, but point out where he is biased and challenge him on that. Hopefully, your next reply won't be an insult, and if it is, then you proved my point.

Ariza:
The truth is both genders these days are nothing to write home about. What we have nowadays are slay queens and slay Kings who fit each other perfectly.

As a 56 years old Lady who will be celebrating her 57th birthday soon, I can confidently say I have seen more than enough to come to a conclusion that The coming generation has lost it. You see them fighting each other everyday, evolving against one another with movements, tags, ideologies and other inhumane tactics. Men slut shame women, women broke shame Men, Women are fast turning to loose who.ores and gold digging bunch while Men are trading their pride for cunt juice and money. All of you have gone mad!

I am specifically annoyed by how much importance Nigerians (both Men and Women) put on Sex. The average Nigerian only survive on Sex! Of all the problems Nigerian have the only one focus on it is Sex. Sex !Sex !sex! . When you ask how a Nigerian feels cheated? He or she will reply if my partner have sex with another. Look into Nigerian relationship,it is based on Sex. Sex is monitized and paid for all in the name of relationship. Ask a Nigerian man what he wants in ha woman? Sex. Ask a woman what she has to offer? Sex. Nigerians can not even form platonic relationships with themselves without thinking of Sex along the line. Bunch of sex starved entities!


This generation has lost it! And it leaves no gender out. With their level of education, they are still ruled by brainless grannies who are busy looting their future away. But you will see them online fighting each other over Sex! Stupid lots! Nonsense generation! Awon omo ale jatijati. Shior!

pansophist:


Wow captain save a bro. I'm proud of you, and admire your stance against toxicity. I'm also particularly delighted that it was a female that called her out, because even though many of my message are appreciated by varieties of audience predominantly men, it is refreshing and assuring that there are women who can still think with their minds and have not been captured by the unnatural mainstream narrative that renders its followers incapable of reasoning and a human android.

Sexylassie2 is the poster child of toxic femininity, and for that exact reason, I choosed not to engage her when she threw her first jab. You can't reason with someone that deliberately wants to be stupid, as evident by her replies to you, so why try? I do not wanna step down to her low frequency of bitterness, and exchange of insults, I'm above that. I'm here for reasoning and debates, not insults.

You're mouthed.

Genset:
Could not have said it better. The current crop of men are extremely lazy not all though . The last set of graduands in my deoartment produced six female first class and no male. Can you imagine? Even in my class, all the possible first class graduands are females. The only some of the stupid males think about is sex, boobs and ass. Chatting with most of them has made me realise that a lot of them are very lazy and not purpose-driven . A lot of them are waiting for 'internship' money that is yet to come while me, on the otherhand, is trying hard to develop my youtube channel and some other things

pansophist:

You're almost 57? why you de whine us na?

sexylassie2:


but you know that money worship is common among Nigerian men

i have seen Nigerian men sell their brothers and sisters for cash,

kill their brother for cash.

i watched a video of davido telling a man to bark like a dog for cash and he did it, atleast, we women still have self respect unlike many men who will do anything for cash