I have been dating this girl for a year and 2 months now, i love this girl and i think she loves me, and i intend to marry her very soon.The issue is, she is planning for a big wedding, which i cant afford, and i have try to make her understand that i cant afford it,but she is not ready to listen to me. i dont want to get marry and become broke. DO I QUIT THIS RELATIONSHIP PLEASE ADVICE ME

friend i do advice you to explaine to her that marriage is meant for the guy and the woman,let her understand you both could contribute some money together and get a great wedding as she want because marriage is for both and it should be sharing not only the guy,.

@poster
IMHO if ANY of you guys knew anything about what it takes to MARRY someone and make it work/last, then this issue would not arise.
you guys are definitely not ready for marriage.

- if you've told her that you are broke and she still insist on big wedding then you guys have different ideas of whats right for this union.
- if you've been pretending to be wealthy just to get her while broke then this marriage is bound to fail because of deceit.
- make her understand that if she is ready to pay for it all then all is good with the big wedding et voila!!!