zed7:

Rubbish. Only a rapist will write this nonsense.

You must be a product of rape to know how rapists write.

crackkhaus:



The OP is definitely a female, but one with a super active imagination.
Probably someone who longs to be devoured by force after drowning in hardcore porn videos.

It's a well written piece, but no matter how hard I tried to believe it was a true story, I kept seeing someone who is secretly into BDSM exploring her sexual fetish by writing.

I didn't even explore this option but the op may not be a female but a male.
Men have more open imagination and action to bdsm than females. Most females don't know they are into bondage except a capable man introduces her to it.
Nairaland will not kii me

spongeisback:
Please can the sane humans on this forum report dupalmer's comment? Thanks.

Mods, that comment breaks rule 3.

Who's this cheap attention seeker?

sassysure:

I didn't even explore this option but the op may not be a female but a male.
Men have more open imagination and action to bdsm than females. Most females don't know they are into bondage except a capable man introduces her to it.
Nairaland will not kii me

Well male or female, although I'm leaning more towards female (e get why ), it's at best imaginative writing.

Someone who was raped will hardly be so detailed.

Bad of him , but I will blame u small for going there and even making out to him as u said.

If u domt like smoke don't go to the kitchen for its he who the river sees the leg e dey swallow .

luminouz:



Lol...I don hear you mama

Let me use half heart and believe that you've heard

crackkhaus:

Well male or female, although I'm leaning more towards female (e get why ), it's at best imaginative writing.

Someone who was raped will hardly be so detailed.

U are right here in imaginative writing.
The best bdsm bestsellers are females
Claire Thompson and E. L James comes to mind
So many of them

soulbroken761:
I'm extremely introverted. It has always affected my relationships with people; family, colleagues, and lovers. I've not been in a real relationship before because of my communication issues. So I thought at 24 years, I need to learn how to be in relationship if I get a good guy. My female classmates are married or engaged and I felt left behind
I met my guy and started staying days in his house at a go. I thought it was for the best. He is a good guy even though very broke. Honestly I put myself in this situation.
We would make out but because I was a virgin, coupled with the fact that I have extremely low sex drive, I always told him to stop when it gets to that point. Even his finger hurt like crazy. It caused little quarells but he always told me he would never force it because he loves me.
So this afternoon we were making out as usual and he started touching me down there. It was so dry and it hurt like crazy, as if the skin was peeling off. I think the fan contributed to the dry ess. Anyway I begged him to stop but he wouldn't and I was almost crying. He started trying to force his dickk in but it didn't enter. All the while, I was begging him while trying not to attract neighbors. It got so painful that I bit his arm very hard and that was when he stopped.

He was very very angry, asking what I did that for. I told him he put me through a lot of pain. He went out and came back at night. I saw he was still angry so I slept in the living room, trying to be understanding and not piss him off further. He came and lovingly moved me to the bedroom. I thought all was well and dozed off.

Only to feel my mouth being gagged all of a sudden. I was still confused because I never expected such a thing. He said he had been thinking of what to do to me for biting him. He put clothes in my mouth and tied my mouth very tight, bound my arms together at the back, forced my legs open. I was crying and begging not to let it be like that but he slapped my face.

He grabbed oil and poured it and began forcing his dick inside until it entered and he rapedd me. I just waited helplessly for it to be over. I bled so much. I cried in the bathroom and came out to leave. He started begging, saying he loves me, etc.

I wanted to WhatsApp my dad to tell him something terrible just happened to me but my heart broke when I saw his picture. My parents really tried.

I just wanted to pour out my feelings in this post. I already know it was my fault even though I feel robbed. I would have given it to him if he had been patient. I hope to get over it soon. Typing with tears. I will shamefully get something at the pharmacy in the morning so that I don't get pregnant

People like that f00l shouldn't get away, otherwise another girl will suffer same fate. Please you need to talk to a lawyer and get him arrested.

A rapist is evil and should not roam free.

as innnnn e enter well well

0KNM:


He don vex

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oluwadabira111:
Chai don't even know what to type!just that God will heal you!

Better you didn't type.

40secondsMan:
So sorry about your ordeal. I can only imagine how pained nd betrayed u must feel rn.

Pls do get the drugs as uv said, u will surely get past this.

No, she won't get past it. Her future husband will suffer it.


The only respite is JUSTICE!!!

lalasticlala
mynd44
puskin
dominique
seun

Injury to one is injury to all!!

A Nairalander has been raped!

Let's get justice.

Front Page.


We need lawyers to volunteer. We know she can't afford your services but do this for Humanity.

Thanks!!!

crackkhaus:

Well male or female, although I'm leaning more towards female (e get why ), it's at best imaginative writing.

Someone who was raped will hardly be so detailed.

Do you mean if you were robbed at gun point, you can't give detailed explanation after the event?
Though, she may not think of nairaland as soon as she was raped in such violent manner.

Dupalmer:
The truth is that rape is barbaric. Gagging you is another thing altogether.
So sorry for the sad encounter. But waito:
1. I really don't understand how a nun should be living with a Hot oversexed groin and be expecting a monk treatment.
2. Forget about going to the police. There's a whole lot of burden of proof to look into especially considering the fact that you are living with him. Also you MAYBE robbing yourself of a great RELATIONSHIP and Happy MARRIAGE.
O yes some blessing come in disguise. Hard fact.

3. It hurts to have your treasured virginity taken away in a way you didn't bargain for. GAGGING YOU IS THE MOST WORRISOME, it shows he has violent and CRIMINAL Tendencies.
4. You may reconsider taking it as one of those things. try and match his good qualities and make up for his weakness. There's no perfect person anywhere.
5. Most girls lost theirs in a more horrible way only to later become sex champions.
6. Pondering over the pain of what happened may cause you depression and unnecessary mood swings.
7. Console yourself with the fact that virginity and balloon has one thing in common. "A pick and it's all history"
8. If you see genuine remorse in him forgive him, get the both of you go for medical checkups, free your mind and continue with him. You'd see he will treasure you forever.
9. If you have made up your mind to forgive him then close your ears from sorry loser feminists. Their counsel will bring you more horrible pains.
9. You implied that you guys loves/loved each other. Well, love endures and there's no love without pain. Love heals.

I spit on your moronic head.

So if she was your daughter, this is what your fatherly advice would be?

This girl you are just a huge PICKME!!! The girl who wants to be the "cool girl" on the guys's table. This approval you desperately seek from men would backfire on you on day. A girl might want to make out with a man and it doesn't mean she wants to be penetrated. The man was wrong and the girl did absolutely nothing wrong. No woman deserves to be sexually assaulted under no circumstance. Do away with your archaic and obsolete reasoning. It's very revolting.

bukatyne:
How does a girl who doesn't want sex camp in the house of a sexually active young man and make out with him regularly?

Some things will never make sense to me.

Who did this to this generation of women?

Women ran no-sex courtship successfully with sexually active men by creating boundaries.

What you will not eat, you don't smell it.

Simple as ABC.

Vyolet:

Do you mean if you are robbed at gun point, you can't give detailed explanation after the event?
Though, she may not think of nairaland as soon as she was raped in such violent manner.

If I was robbed at gun point and the magnitude of the event was so great that it left me in shock, I would definitely not be able to recall details just few hours after it happened.

You wouldn't either, because your brain will work to shield you from memories that will cause your body to go into more distress.

Note that it's not about the event itself (rape or robbery), but rather the magnitude of the event on the senses.

sassysure:

U are right here in imaginative writing.
The best bdsm bestsellers are females
Claire Thompson and E. L James comes to mind
So many of them

Sassy, do you have a BDSM sexual fetish?

It's absolutely disgusting that it is mostly females that are making that dumb statement. The men are showing more empathy. Nah the female gender is cursed. One would think they would be more sympathetic but the fools are like "why would you make out if you don't want sex". As if that makes it okay for the animal to have his way with the girl. I'm disgusted.

peacefulhome:
We all knew she went there, yes we do. But do we need to keep reminding her that she went to the guy place ? I think it better we all keep our opinion to ourselves , rather than hurting the lady the more.
Will you have said same if it were to be your blood sister ?

Sixfeetbelle:


Let me use half heart and believe that you've heard

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donpata:
I hope this is true story. If it is, I hope you find healing soon enough. However, I do wonder how one man will rape a woman without her letting him. Except when weapons are involved, it's almost impossible for one man to rape a woman when she is fully conscious. Imagine having that thoughts for the rest of your life. That's emotional torture and you were unfair to yourself. Tried protecting him from shame and now you gonna carry this for as long as..... Hmmm.

That is why the law of God is written for our safe walk in this world. You went to his house, slept over and was "making out". Now, it's you feeling the pain, and not really God whom you disobeyed. Wish you healing.

Some people's thought processes just baffle me...

...you just have to laugh sometimes

crackkhaus:

Sassy, do you have a BDSM sexual fetish?

Nope. U are not well .
I have tried to watch bondage porn, the thing no make sense to me.
I only read 50 shades last yr. The 4 books. Bought them in one pound shop.Not really that sweet. Watched the movies last yr too. Wack actors.
I'm a paranormal animal fiction lover. Christine feehan is my kind of girl. If I should read anything outside paranormal it's something like THIS MAN SERIES. Hawt and sizzling
I want to see that in movie

soulbroken761:
I'm extremely introverted. It has always affected my relationships with people; family, colleagues, and lovers. I've not been in a real relationship before because of my communication issues. So I thought at 24 years, I need to learn how to be in relationship if I get a good guy. My female classmates are married or engaged and I felt left behind
I met my guy and started staying days in his house at a go. I thought it was for the best. He is a good guy even though very broke. Honestly I put myself in this situation.
We would make out but because I was a virgin, coupled with the fact that I have extremely low sex drive, I always told him to stop when it gets to that point. Even his finger hurt like crazy. It caused little quarells but he always told me he would never force it because he loves me.
So this afternoon we were making out as usual and he started touching me down there. It was so dry and it hurt like crazy, as if the skin was peeling off. I think the fan contributed to the dry ess. Anyway I begged him to stop but he wouldn't and I was almost crying. He started trying to force his dickk in but it didn't enter. All the while, I was begging him while trying not to attract neighbors. It got so painful that I bit his arm very hard and that was when he stopped.

He was very very angry, asking what I did that for. I told him he put me through a lot of pain. He went out and came back at night. I saw he was still angry so I slept in the living room, trying to be understanding and not piss him off further. He came and lovingly moved me to the bedroom. I thought all was well and dozed off.

Only to feel my mouth being gagged all of a sudden. I was still confused because I never expected such a thing. He said he had been thinking of what to do to me for biting him. He put clothes in my mouth and tied my mouth very tight, bound my arms together at the back, forced my legs open. I was crying and begging not to let it be like that but he slapped my face.

He grabbed oil and poured it and began forcing his dick inside until it entered and he rapedd me. I just waited helplessly for it to be over. I bled so much. I cried in the bathroom and came out to leave. He started begging, saying he loves me, etc.

I wanted to WhatsApp my dad to tell him something terrible just happened to me but my heart broke when I saw his picture. My parents really tried.

I just wanted to pour out my feelings in this post. I already know it was my fault even though I feel robbed. I would have given it to him if he had been patient. I hope to get over it soon. Typing with tears. I will shamefully get something at the pharmacy in the morning so that I don't get pregnant

Go to the police and also inform your Dad.

Good evening nairalanders. I did reach out to a nairalander rïyàgódess and she can confirm this is not a made up story. Also the mofo will definitely lose his job and may go to jail if his employers want, not for rapê, but I have fücked him up well with evidence.

Apologies if I'm ignoring any well wishers. I'm not reading any comments or mentions because I'm moving on very fast and don't want to be dragged down by insensitive posts. I didn't do anything that has never been done and some people here have made worse decisions. Thanks.

Sixfeetbelle:

Stop parading rape as a good thing. A man who cannot control himself is a ticking time bomb. Listing all those things up there as prerequisite for his action is weak and clearly shows the kind of person you are.
I'm not the Op by the way.

Hardly parading anything. Just try to be more critical, less emotional.

I know you're not the OP, only object to your 'men have little to no self control coming to sex' opinion. Theres a context or perception to every situation even in court and my first statement took to clear that out with little success.

Personally, in my view, I object the use 'RAPE' in certain situations. For example between spouses or boy/girlfriends as opposed to total strangers. For starters, I don't think a man can rape his wife! Rape here meaning actual penetration. THIS DOES NOT MEAN ITS FINE, but that he didn't have his wife/girlfriends CONSENT this particular time AS OPPOSED TO ANOTHER TIME should not -in my view- COUNT same as some deviant who snatches a girl off the street into the corner/bush!

At best Forced Penetration, Abuse, Battery or Molestation should suffice, anything but RAPE. The WORDING HERE matters and should be preserved for the more severe side of these cases.

With your 'weak' line of reasoning on my personality all I can say is like it or not, not everybody will follow herd mentality. Most will (overwhelmingly), but some will be more rational than others.

soulbroken761:
I'm extremely introverted. It has always affected my relationships with people; family, colleagues, and lovers. I've not been in a real relationship before because of my communication issues. So I thought at 24 years, I need to learn how to be in relationship if I get a good guy. My female classmates are married or engaged and I felt left behind
I met my guy and started staying days in his house at a go. I thought it was for the best. He is a good guy even though very broke. Honestly I put myself in this situation.
We would make out but because I was a virgin, coupled with the fact that I have extremely low sex drive, I always told him to stop when it gets to that point. Even his finger hurt like crazy. It caused little quarells but he always told me he would never force it because he loves me.
So this afternoon we were making out as usual and he started touching me down there. It was so dry and it hurt like crazy, as if the skin was peeling off. I think the fan contributed to the dry ess. Anyway I begged him to stop but he wouldn't and I was almost crying. He started trying to force his dickk in but it didn't enter. All the while, I was begging him while trying not to attract neighbors. It got so painful that I bit his arm very hard and that was when he stopped.

He was very very angry, asking what I did that for. I told him he put me through a lot of pain. He went out and came back at night. I saw he was still angry so I slept in the living room, trying to be understanding and not piss him off further. He came and lovingly moved me to the bedroom. I thought all was well and dozed off.

Only to feel my mouth being gagged all of a sudden. I was still confused because I never expected such a thing. He said he had been thinking of what to do to me for biting him. He put clothes in my mouth and tied my mouth very tight, bound my arms together at the back, forced my legs open. I was crying and begging not to let it be like that but he slapped my face.

He grabbed oil and poured it and began forcing his dick inside until it entered and he rapedd me. I just waited helplessly for it to be over. I bled so much. I cried in the bathroom and came out to leave. He started begging, saying he loves me, etc.

I wanted to WhatsApp my dad to tell him something terrible just happened to me but my heart broke when I saw his picture. My parents really tried.

I just wanted to pour out my feelings in this post. I already know it was my fault even though I feel robbed. I would have given it to him if he had been patient. I hope to get over it soon. Typing with tears. I will shamefully get something at the pharmacy in the morning so that I don't get pregnant

I'm not sure if the story is true aboutyou, but I'd like to know, what were your thoughts before now, about living a life that pleases God, a life that's into God alone, a life lived according to the dictates of the word of God, a life of purity, a life that flees from every appearance of evil and iniquity.

Did all these ever come to your mind?

If not, give it a strong thought now.

I know that if you spent time with God, the way you spent with the Young Man, the Almighty will not allow that shameful experience happen to you, he would prepare the best of men for you, he will glorify you, beautify you and satisfy you.

You'd have the best of sex, that you'd be proud of at the right time, you be at peace at all times, you'd feel his love and presence Everytime. There's sweet reward for faithfulness. Pure spirit and angels would protect you at all times.

These good things are what the devil doesn't want, so he tricked you, by magnifying illicit relationships, make it seem right, make the path of glory that God planned for you seem boring.

That's the devil's strategy, deceit!

If this story is true, or even for anyone who reads this, whatever you do, ensure you go back to God, in repentance and ask that he heals you and restore your glory!

He'll send an angel to comfort you and heal you.

Thanks and be blessed.

You should have just posted this in the diary section, too many insensitive peeps around here.

Good thing you are ignoring some comments and healing gradually.

bukatyne:
How does a girl who doesn't want sex camp in the house of a sexually active young man and make out with him regularly?

Some things will never make sense to me.

Who did this to this generation of women?

Women ran no-sex courtship successfully with sexually active men by creating boundaries.

What you will not eat, you don't smell it.

Simple as ABC.

Mtscheeww

What do you mean by who did this to this generation of women? Can you read?
Did you not see other women ask her why she was spending days in the man's house and putting herself at risk? Or your self hatred for being female and hatred for other women didn't let you think before rushing to insult an entire generation of women?

in just one post you successfully ran women down generally and displayed gross insensitivity to the victims plight.

What a very annoying men pleaser. God forbid that I will be a married woman but still coming online everyday to seek Male praise by insulting my fellow women. God forbid

What kind of tense is that " I was raped tonight "
Is it past future tense or what?
" I was " obviously past
"Tonight" certainly future....
Am just wondering

ladyGKilaBCrueD:
It's absolutely disgusting that it is mostly females that are making that dumb statement. The men are showing more empathy. Nah the female gender is cursed. One would think they would be more sympathetic but the fools are like "why would you make out if you don't want sex". As if that makes it okay for the animal to have his way with the girl. I'm disgusted.

You dey mind them. Over Sabi fellow. Am sure they will say same if it were their younger sister such had happened to. That is to tell how wicked some ladies could be. They are too judgemental, instead of them to keep their silly opinions to theirselve , they came typing what I don't know.

She's what I call a "pickmeisha" You know that girl that desperately wants to be seen as the only "cool girl" at the guy's table, the same men that'd not hesitate to shut you down after licking their asses. Awon "I'm not like the other girls". Very irritating bunch. She's suffering from internalized misogyny and I honestly pity her daughters, if she has any. How would the first thing that comes to your mind after hearing about a rape case is to find a way to make it the victim's fault, talking about "I'm ashamed of the women of my generation?" I am ashamed she had to say that nonsense and I am even doubting she's truly a woman. I can go to a guy's house and want to make out with him all night without having sex and that gives him no rights to rape me just because he couldn't control his urges. Honestly, I am just tired.

fuzzywuzzy:


Mtscheeww

What do you mean by who did this to this generation of women? Can you read?
Did you not see other women ask her why she was spending days in the man's house and putting herself at risk? Or your self hatred for being female and hatred for other women didn't let you think before rushing to insult an entire generation of women?

in just one post you successfully ran women down generally and displayed gross insensitivity to the victims plight.

What a very annoying men pleaser. God forbid that I will be a married woman but still coming online everyday to seek Male praise by insulting my fellow women. God forbid