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Why Do Some Men Say Marriage Is A Scam, But Insults Ladies Who Are Not Married ? by Biancah(f): 10:39am On May 05, 2020
I just don't understand, I have seen a number of threads where a lady would say she doesn't want to get married and the males would call her a lesbian, she wants to continue sleeping with her sugar daddies, she is a prostitute. Even married women who wants to leave their marriage also get labeled as a prostitutes who wants to keep sleeping around with different men.
I mean if marriage is a scam to the males, why do they keep calling unmarried ladies evening newspaper, why do they keep insulting women who says they don't want to get married ? Shouldn't the males be happy that some females
don't want to get married and some men won't finally get scammed.

I have seen a lot of threads where some men tell their gender not to get married and they were hailed for preaching the gospel, but once a lady says she is not getting married or leaving her marriage she suddenly becomes a prostitute.

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Re: Why Do Some Men Say Marriage Is A Scam, But Insults Ladies Who Are Not Married ? by nifton(m): 10:46am On May 05, 2020
Hypocrisy is the norm now.

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Re: Why Do Some Men Say Marriage Is A Scam, But Insults Ladies Who Are Not Married ? by Sundrus: 10:47am On May 05, 2020
U wan shake table abi undecided

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Re: Why Do Some Men Say Marriage Is A Scam, But Insults Ladies Who Are Not Married ? by Tozic: 11:15am On May 05, 2020
sad

Men ain't the problem, women are...

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Re: Why Do Some Men Say Marriage Is A Scam, But Insults Ladies Who Are Not Married ? by Mindlog: 11:43am On May 05, 2020
Make your own informed decisions, live your own life and ignore the rants of people who have fixations they yet to deal with but opt to use displacement as their defence mechanism.

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Re: Why Do Some Men Say Marriage Is A Scam, But Insults Ladies Who Are Not Married ? by Mstick: 11:53am On May 05, 2020
They're just confused, they're the ones that will say they want working class ladies in the same breath they claim working class ladies aren't good for marriage. That's what happens when you talk too much without thinking, just saying everything and anything your fellow "men" say so you will look cool.

cheesy

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Re: Why Do Some Men Say Marriage Is A Scam, But Insults Ladies Who Are Not Married ? by kalufelix(m): 12:04pm On May 05, 2020
The main reason is not prost!tution or sleeping around.. Men don't care about that... The real issue is feminism.. Many women carry this ideology are are just looking for men to source power from to her greater advantage..they end up destroying the man and the marriage in order to break loose cos they weren't built for the institution from the word go... Men have become aware of this trick and decided to thread very carefully with marriage... Now this has lead to increase in single women above marriageable age...hence the frustration from both sexes... I can confidently tell you that many men who say marriage is a scam will stick out their neck and spend their last dime once they think they have met the "proper" womanly woman..which has become extremely scarce ...The bottom line of all of this is that the quest for gender equality has truncated the convension... We all can't eat our cakes and have it.

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Re: Why Do Some Men Say Marriage Is A Scam, But Insults Ladies Who Are Not Married ? by Kaamisha: 12:06pm On May 05, 2020
Maybe because the men who say marriage is a scam are not the same men who insult ladies who are not married?

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Re: Why Do Some Men Say Marriage Is A Scam, But Insults Ladies Who Are Not Married ? by Saintmary(f): 3:15pm On May 05, 2020
I don't care what anybody calls me, I'm here chopping the life of my head in my extended holiday.

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Re: Why Do Some Men Say Marriage Is A Scam, But Insults Ladies Who Are Not Married ? by LilMissFavvy(f): 3:26pm On May 05, 2020
Then it's left for the ladies to ignore such derogatory comments, stand their grounds, and make their choices and decisions in life. We aren't living to please anyone.

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Re: Why Do Some Men Say Marriage Is A Scam, But Insults Ladies Who Are Not Married ? by genq(m): 4:32pm On May 05, 2020
crackkhaus:
@Titi03, @Kuns84

What happened with my comment on that biased moderators thread? cheesy

I just came online now and noticed the thread has reached multiple pages and has been locked, but I can't even find my very expository comment about their malevolent ways... grin

Yo, that thread is wiild!

Looks like there were several versions of the same thread which got deleted - the one posted in Politics Section is what morphed into this major one:

https://www.nairaland.com/5836678/biased-moderators

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Re: Why Do Some Men Say Marriage Is A Scam, But Insults Ladies Who Are Not Married ? by crackkhaus: 4:43pm On May 05, 2020
genq:


Yo, that thread is wiild!

Looks like there were several versions of the same thread which got deleted - the one posted in Politics Section is what morphed into this major one:

https://www.nairaland.com/5836678/biased-moderators
Ohh okay, I must have commented in one of the other versions then.
Re: Why Do Some Men Say Marriage Is A Scam, But Insults Ladies Who Are Not Married ? by cococandy(f): 9:59pm On May 05, 2020
@OP, Because do or don’t, it doesn’t matter .
Long as the misogyny exists, you can’t do anything right.

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