For eight years Natasha lived in constant terror from the man she should have been able to trust more than anyone in the world - her own husband.

She was just 17 when she met the man who would "break her a little more every day" - both mentally and physically.

At one point the abuse was so sickening Natasha was raped by her own husband just hours after giving birth to their second child.

She is one of the brave women who have inspired OK! to team up with the domestic violence charity, Refuge, to launch the OK! Closet Clear Out to help those vulnerable during the coronavirus lockdown.

Natasha explains how she was first trapped by her abusive husband.

She said: "It seemed like he really had his life together but in truth, he was a controlling monster. For eight years, I lived with a campaign of abuse and with every abusive act; I was broken a little bit more.

“Under the guise of love, he made manipulation and isolation seem like normal behaviour."

Natasha was banned from working because her husband wanted to be the only one to support her.

He told his terrified wife it was because he ‘loved me so much, I didn’t need to spend time with anyone else'.

One night she was even made to feel guilty for him taking an overdose.

The 31-year-old said: "I was at a party when he called and told me he’d taken an overdose. Apparently, it was my fault because I wasn’t at home with him."

As well as violence, Natasha was also subjected to mental torture, which destroyed her confidence and made her think she was unable to leave her abusive partner.

She explained: "I walked on eggshells and changed my behaviour to appease his anger.

"It took me a long time to realise that my husband was degrading, hurting and manipulating me as a form of control and abuse.

"He would rape me and the next morning, he would act like what he’d done was completely normal.

"When my children were born, my survival instinct kicked in. I wanted to leave but I didn’t know how to do it safely – my husband had threatened to kill the kids if I tried."

Source: https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/my-husband-raped-just-hours-21972886

Sorry woman, white skin is not a guarantee to sanity. Sometimes, the creatures that live in those white skins are more uncultured than agberos.





solmus, I remember you were saying something about rape the other time, how white women derive involuntary pleasure from it. Here's a white woman. She's trying to prove you and your mentors on quora wrong. Bunch of clowns.

This one strong ooo...che she use kanyamatta ni?...

Na wa

sorry let's hear his side of the STORY too.

That man must be mentally retarded

Male perpetrated violence has no colour......
Violence has no gender or colour.

Rape is terrible. Let's join hand against it

Let's bring the lockdown to your site.

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How did she meet the monster of a man?

Seems too twisted to hide his characteristics.

Cuddlebugie:
Male perpetrated violence has no colour.

What da hell you wrote up here


Hear the husband's side of the story before the say

lets hear from them man also, scorned women can say just about anything to get sympathy

Kylekent59:

What da hell you wrote up here


Hear the husband's side of the story before the blame.

klbakare:
Rape is terrible. Let's join hand against it

Let's bring the lockdown to your site.

We fabricate trusses, stanchions, rafters, burglaries, handrails, Polycarbonate shelters, rebar, overhead tank stands. Right on your site.

Flexible and zero-risk payment options
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Some people on NL say there is nothing called marital rape.
If it's not madness, I don't know what else to call it

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eyinjuege:


Some people on NL say there is nothing called marital rape.
If it's not madness, I don't know what else to call it

Oh yes there is. Especially for people in abusive relationships

try this with my daughter or sister and see what ebola beatin is like , God will not save you, I'll will deliver justice myself

Kylekent59:
What da hell you wrote up here

Hear the husband's side of the story before the say

shut up jor see dis stori still dae wait 4 husband own

Cuddlebugie:
Male perpetrated violence has no colour......
Violence has no gender or colour.

Are you sure that's not a Nigerian man in the report?

I can’t begin to imagine the pain she went through during this rough ordeal Rapist deserve the capital punishment

Randy100:
There is nothing like rape in marriage. It is just like saying I stole something that belongs to me.

Here’s another one. Hopefully all these threads serve to help someone/s going through abuse to advocate for themselves.

You don’t have to share your problems with the viewers but what’s described in the OP applies to many marriages. I hope they can read both posts and responses , take what applies to them and make a solution out of it to suit their own situation.
Otherwise it would have been for nothing.

Randy100:
There is nothing like rape in marriage. It is just like saying I stole something that belongs to me.

Please, I'm your father who gave birth to you, carters for you, and nurture you to be an obedient and a submissive son to me. Can I just end your life now afterall you belong to me as my obedient and submissive son?? Should I as your father do what I like to you as my obedient and submissive son without sanity, sense, and fruit of love?

Wolgrace:



Please, I'm your father who gave birth to you, carters for you, and nurture you to be an obedient and a submissive son to me. Can I just end your life now afterall you belong to me as my obedient and submissive son?? Should I as your father do what I like to you as my obedient and submissive son without sanity, sense, and fruit of love?

This your example is grossly exaggerated. First of all, nobody is talking about killing here. Secondly, it is not about father and son relationship. Thirdly, I was careful to only talk about rape, I didn't mention about beating the woman might be receiving from the man. It is even wrong for a man to hit a woman who didn't attack him.

My point is that a sex a man got from his wife is not a rape. A man and woman who enters into marriage become one, the question is can you rape yourself? I am waiting for your answer.

Randy100:
This your example is grossly exaggerated. First of all, nobody is talking about killing here. Secondly, it is not about father and son relationship. Thirdly, I was careful to only talk about rape, I didn't mention about beating the woman might be receiving from the man. It is even wrong for a man to hit a woman who didn't attack him.

My point is that a sex a man got from his wife is not a rape. A man and woman who enters into marriage become one, the question is can you rape yourself? I am waiting for your answer.

You failed logically & critically. Will you give me the "CONSENT" to kill you because you belong to me? Have you witness woman giving birth in the labour room? I doubt because of your secondary school bf & gf reasoning. The wife's stomach, private part & blood circulation are still under process of healings, she needs some rest. Forceful sex with her without "CONSENT" is marital rape.

Should I force you to do chores when recovering from sickness?

Randy100:
This your example is grossly exaggerated. First of all, nobody is talking about killing here. Secondly, it is not about father and son relationship. Thirdly, I was careful to only talk about rape, I didn't mention about beating the woman might be receiving from the man. It is even wrong for a man to hit a woman who didn't attack him.

My point is that a sex a man got from his wife is not a rape. A man and woman who enters into marriage become one, the question is can you rape yourself? I am waiting for your answer.

I pity whoever that's going to marry you. SMH

cococandy:
Here’s another one. Hopefully all these threads serve to help someone/s going through abuse to advocate for themselves.

You don’t have to share your problems with the viewers but what’s described in the OP applies to many marriages. I hope they can read both posts and responses , take what applies to them and make a solution out of it to suit their own situation.
Otherwise it would have been for nothing.

According to Nigerian customary law, a husband can’t rape his wife....

Courtesy ; bride price.

Try going to the police station and tell them that you were raped by your husband...

Wolgrace:


You failed logically & critically. Will you give me the "CONSENT" to kill you because you belong to me? Have you witness woman giving birth in the labour room? I doubt because of your secondary school bf & gf reasoning. The wife's stomach, private part & blood circulation are still under process of healings, she needs some rest. Forceful sex with her without "CONSENT" is marital rape.

Should I force you to do chores when recovering from sickness?

You still missed the point. Who is talking about killing here? Attempting suicide which is killing of oneself is a crime. A wife owes his man what we call conjugal right brother. The woman who gave birth can still sexually satisfy the husband in other ways, it is all about understanding that is not even my point. My point is that there is nothing like rape in marriage or what you termed marital rape. I have never heard that a man was convicted of marital rape before in Nigeria. Stop blackmailing me emotionally by saying that I have not seen a woman give birth before.

Plead:


According to Nigerian customary law, a husband can’t rape his wife....

Courtesy ; bride price.

Try going to the police station and tell them that you were raped by your husband...

wolgrace come and hear what I have been trying to tell you.

nazablossom:
I pity whoever that's going to marry you. SMH

Stop pitying whoever that is going to marry me, pity the man that will marry you.