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Why Don't Fake "Feminists" Complain About Female Privilege? (NO BASHING!!) by Nobody: 9:56am On May 21, 2020
I really find it funny when the bitter man-hating hens that cluck all about nairaland calling themselves feminists with barely a clue what it really means don't complain when a woman is offered an opportunity or given benefits solely based on gender?
I was in a professional meeting on zoom yesterday, all programmers were men. A fake feminist would come and shout marginalization, we need equality, but yet here (pic below) is a programming job only open to women. I have never seen one only open to men.
You guys truly believe a woman's body is of more economic value than a man's own and defend to the point of absurdity your right to be paid for looking pretty and spreading your legs?? ?? And then turn around to scream misogyny and patriarchy when men treat you like that's the only thing of worth you have?
Male patriarchs only flourish when there are women who subscribe to the idea of men being providers. It doesn't matter if you scream feminist in his ear from dusk till dawn, he has provided, he is superior. To take away his power, simply take away his opportunity and privilege to provide, is that so hard to figure out?
Reverse psychology is truly the most effective way of dealing with most human conflicts. Why don't you try taking away your feminine benefits and then coming back with that as concrete proof that you truly want equality?
P.S yes I know I am broke and should go and make money, pls let's hear something intelligent this time round.
My final question to you fake "feminists" is Do you want an equal world or a world where the only inequality is when a woman is treated favourably? Because one is feasible with a lot of sacrifices and self-education by both genders but the other is only in your dreams it will happen
Love... A NON FEMINIST PRO-FEMINISTS

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Re: Why Don't Fake "Feminists" Complain About Female Privilege? (NO BASHING!!) by kamikaze01(m): 10:07am On May 21, 2020
Feminist in Nig are only fighting for equality in areas where it is lucrative and not risky. Have u ever heard that a feminist group agitated for more women to be enlisted into the Nig Army recruit? The would tell you its a man's job. But when it comes to the officer cadre, the want to be at the fore fore front.

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Re: Why Don't Fake "Feminists" Complain About Female Privilege? (NO BASHING!!) by Nobody: 10:09am On May 21, 2020
kamikaze01:
Feminist in Nig are only fighting for equality in areas where it is lucrative and not risky. Have u ever heard that a feminist group agitated for more women to be enlisted into the Nig Army recruit? The would tell you its a man's job. But when it comes to the officer cadre, the want to be at the fore fore front.
My sister actually made me create this thread. She has never called herself a feminist to my hearing, but in reality has MUCH more core feminist values than these things disturbing our eyes on nairaland
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Re: Why Don't Fake "Feminists" Complain About Female Privilege? (NO BASHING!!) by donbachi(m): 10:12am On May 21, 2020
Feminism is defined as the act of a woman,after having sex with a man.goes home without collecting a dime from the man.

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Re: Why Don't Fake "Feminists" Complain About Female Privilege? (NO BASHING!!) by Nobody: 10:16am On May 21, 2020
donbachi:
Feminism is defined as the act of a woman,after having sex with a man.goes home without collecting a dime from the man.
Dude come on don't be myopic. What kind of a definition is that? The bar needs to be raised by both genders my man
Re: Why Don't Fake "Feminists" Complain About Female Privilege? (NO BASHING!!) by Ningen(m): 10:18am On May 21, 2020
Do you want an equal world or a world where the only inequality is when a woman is treated favourably?

What feminism want is for women to be treated like HUMANS. They want to express their rights as Humans beings. That is what they are after.
Re: Why Don't Fake "Feminists" Complain About Female Privilege? (NO BASHING!!) by Tripitaka: 10:19am On May 21, 2020
Quite interesting
Re: Why Don't Fake "Feminists" Complain About Female Privilege? (NO BASHING!!) by Nobody: 10:21am On May 21, 2020
Ningen:

What feminism want is for women to be treated like HUMANS. They want to express their rights as Humans beings. That is what they are after.
And in being HUMANS, also retain the FEMININE benefits that gives rise to PATRIARCHY?

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Re: Why Don't Fake "Feminists" Complain About Female Privilege? (NO BASHING!!) by Ningen(m): 10:32am On May 21, 2020
crownedrookie:

And in being HUMANS, also retain the FEMININE benefits that gives rise to PATRIARCHY?

What FEMININE benefits?

There isn't ANY feminine benefit in patriarchy.
Re: Why Don't Fake "Feminists" Complain About Female Privilege? (NO BASHING!!) by Nobody: 10:35am On May 21, 2020
Ningen:


What FEMININE benefits?

There isn't ANY feminine benefit in patriarchy.
Alright then. We can continue this conversation when you have better comprehensive abilities/grasp on reality

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Re: Why Don't Fake "Feminists" Complain About Female Privilege? (NO BASHING!!) by Nobody: 10:45am On May 21, 2020
Bojack... Like the horseman? LMFAOO grin grin
Re: Why Don't Fake "Feminists" Complain About Female Privilege? (NO BASHING!!) by Ningen(m): 10:50am On May 21, 2020
crownedrookie:

Alright then. We can continue this conversation when you have better comprehensive abilities/grasp on reality.

Go on, sheath your sword.
I understand your 'ignorance' is being expose.
Re: Why Don't Fake "Feminists" Complain About Female Privilege? (NO BASHING!!) by Nobody: 10:55am On May 21, 2020
Ningen:


Go on, sheath your sword.
I understand your 'ignorance' is being expose.
What I've forgotten is more than you've ever learnt
I sheath my sword because I can't use it against a bread knife.
Look at the pics attached to my previous reply to you. That should be the beginning of a much needed education for you. When you have a bit more content upstairs come back and mention me let's have a discourse. There is no intellectual common ground between me and someone ignorant enough to say "there is no feminine benefit of patriarchy". Read up

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Re: Why Don't Fake "Feminists" Complain About Female Privilege? (NO BASHING!!) by Ningen(m): 10:59am On May 21, 2020
crownedrookie:

What I've forgotten is more than you've ever learnt
I sheath my sword because I can't use it against a bread knife.
Look at the pics attached to my previous reply to you. That should be the beginning of a much needed education for you. When you have a bit more content upstairs come back and mention me let's have a discourse

What is the BENEFIT of patriarchy to women?
Re: Why Don't Fake "Feminists" Complain About Female Privilege? (NO BASHING!!) by Lionessza6(f): 10:59am On May 21, 2020
What if the company has a quota system in place & they are short of females in that field wink?

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Re: Why Don't Fake "Feminists" Complain About Female Privilege? (NO BASHING!!) by Bojack(m): 11:00am On May 21, 2020
crownedrookie:
Bojack... Like the horseman? LMFAOO grin grin
From the 90s show horsing around grin

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Re: Why Don't Fake "Feminists" Complain About Female Privilege? (NO BASHING!!) by Nobody: 11:01am On May 21, 2020
Ningen:

What is the BENEFIT of patriarchy to women?
I can't be responsible for your education. If you want to have a discourse with me, do your research and get a little content upstairs first.
I repeat, the screenshots attached to my second reply to you should send you on the right path.
Else shift with your ignorance. I won't banter words with an empty vessel
Re: Why Don't Fake "Feminists" Complain About Female Privilege? (NO BASHING!!) by Nobody: 11:02am On May 21, 2020
Bojack:
From the 90s show horsing around grin
Back in the nineties I was in a very famous TEEEEEEEVEEEEEEEE show! grin grin grin grin grin grin
Re: Why Don't Fake "Feminists" Complain About Female Privilege? (NO BASHING!!) by Martinez39s(m): 11:19am On May 21, 2020
Lol. This resonates a bit with a topic of mine. Not sure if it's well written.

https://www.nairaland.com/5104898/hypocrisy-society-when-it-comes

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Re: Why Don't Fake "Feminists" Complain About Female Privilege? (NO BASHING!!) by Ningen(m): 11:21am On May 21, 2020
crownedrookie:

I can't be responsible for your education. If you want to have a discourse with me, do your research and get a little content upstairs first.
I repeat, the screenshots attached to my second reply to you should send you on the right path.
Else shift with your ignorance. I won't banter words with an empty vessel

You don't know shít enough to educate anyone.

All it took to expose your deep ignorance was a simple question; one which your best effort at answering was uploading a screenshot of a ‘borrowed’ idea. An empty vessel indeed make the loudest sound. Choke on your ignorance.

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Re: Why Don't Fake "Feminists" Complain About Female Privilege? (NO BASHING!!) by Nobody: 11:23am On May 21, 2020
Lionessza6:
What if the company has a quota system in place & they are short of females in that field wink?
Let's try to apply logic to our statements and logically analyse them from the fundamentals.
Why should they be short of females in the first place? All their previous non-gender job adverts were open to both male and female weren't they? If women were empowering themselves as equals to men they would have acquired the skills to allow them compete with men on equal terms and there would be no imbalance that requires a quota system. Therefore a true feministic approach would be to criticize a job opening that favours only women for a job that women always had the opportunity to get in the first place wink

Re: Why Don't Fake "Feminists" Complain About Female Privilege? (NO BASHING!!) by Nobody: 11:24am On May 21, 2020
Ningen:


[s]You don't know shít enough to educate anyone.

All it took to expose your deep ignorance was a simple question; one which your best effort at answering was uploading a screenshot of a ‘borrowed’ idea.[/s] An empty vessel indeed make the loudest sound. Choke on your ignorance.
I can see why you're so loud.
Re: Why Don't Fake "Feminists" Complain About Female Privilege? (NO BASHING!!) by Lionessza6(f): 11:32am On May 21, 2020
crownedrookie:

Why should they be short of females in the first place?

because historically women have been less empowered ,not only in this specific field but in many others. That's why there are quota systems around the world; whether racial or gender- based ,this is a way of bridging the gap between the empowered and those whose potential has been suppressed. Now whether that works or not & why,that's besides the point.

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Re: Why Don't Fake "Feminists" Complain About Female Privilege? (NO BASHING!!) by Nobody: 11:39am On May 21, 2020
Lionessza6:


because historically women have been less empowered ,not only in this specific field but in many others. That's why there are quota systems around the world; whether racial or gender- based ,this is a way of bridging the gap between the empowered and those whose potential has been suppressed. Now whether that works or not & why,that's besides the point.
Yes you're very right. But we don't live in history anymore do we? We live in the present where the majority of software engineers and web developers are self taught. Where there are scholarships (of course for both genders) and self-learn materials flying every which way. Don't you think its rather demeaning and self-indulgent for females to still cling to this excuse of suppression in this society? I absolutely appreciate a racial quota system because development hasn't reached some PARTS of some places. EG I might allocate a slot for two northern developers in my team knowing fully well that they don't get as informed as the south. Can a woman claim the same in 2020?
Re: Why Don't Fake "Feminists" Complain About Female Privilege? (NO BASHING!!) by Lionessza6(f): 11:54am On May 21, 2020
crownedrookie:

Yes you're very right. But we don't live in history anymore do we?

Yes,but the legacy of the past still affects our today, and many of the beliefs that caused the girl child to be left behind are still in place . For instance in many families, if they have a chance to take one kid to school,they will send the boy. Boys from a young age are empowered & groomed to be self confident & self reliant whereas the girls are still taught how to be good servants to everyone else but themselves. In some societies boys are challenged & expected to excel academically ,while no-one does that much encouraging or investing in the future of the female kids.

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Re: Why Don't Fake "Feminists" Complain About Female Privilege? (NO BASHING!!) by Nobody: 12:03pm On May 21, 2020
Lionessza6:


Yes,but the legacy of the past still affects our today, and many of the beliefs that caused the girl child to be left behind are still in place . For instance in many families, if they have a chance to take one kid to school,they will send the boy. Boys from a young age are empowered & groomed to be self confident & self reliant whereas the girls are still taught how to be good servants to everyone else but themselves. In some societies boys are challenged & expected to excel academically ,while no-one does that much encouraging or investing in the future of the female kids.
So in other words a female is just an empty being with no personal drive and no will to become something except society "makes" her?
And I can see you left the meat of my reply to you and switched course to focus on stressing about how good the boy child has it and how helpless and ostracized the female child is, citing a lot of for instances and exaggerated societal trends. That's cool, but so we can get more factual..
In HOW many societies do girls not get as tasked academically as boys? Like can you give me the name of a school that if a girl gets 3/10 they say that's ok, you're just a girl and if a boy scores the same, he gets flogged?
When last did you see a family that sent only a boy to school for whatever reason(Except that he was doing better academically previously and therefore was a more practical choice. Because female entitlement mentality hates the word "MERIT" )? Real life scenarios please.
Please stop going into the late 80's to justify female entitlement
Re: Why Don't Fake "Feminists" Complain About Female Privilege? (NO BASHING!!) by CAPSLOCKED: 12:25pm On May 21, 2020
kamikaze01:
Feminist in Nig are only fighting for equality in areas where it is lucrative and not risky. Have u ever heard that a feminist group agitated for more women to be enlisted into the Nig Army recruit? The would tell you its a man's job. But when it comes to the officer cadre, the want to be at the fore fore front.

FEMALE SOCCER PLAYERS ASKING FOR EQUAL PAY WITH MEN, AND ALSO FURTHER REDUCTION OF THEIR ALREADY LOW NUMBER OF GAMES.

NIGERIAN FEMALE SOLDIERS DOING THIS AND THAT INSTAGRAM CHALLENGES IN OFFICES AND NAGGING THAT THE MEN IN SAMBISA ARE EARNING MORE THAN THEM.

EVEN GOOGLE KNOWS.

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Re: Why Don't Fake "Feminists" Complain About Female Privilege? (NO BASHING!!) by Nobody: 12:32pm On May 21, 2020
CAPSLOCKED:


FEMALE SOCCER PLAYERS ASKING FOR EQUAL PAY WITH MEN, AND ALSO FURTHER REDUCTION OF THEIR ALREADY LOW NUMBER OF GAMES.

NIGERIAN FEMALE SOLDIERS DOING THIS AND THAT INSTAGRAM CHALLENGES IN OFFICES AND NAGGING THAT THE MEN IN SAMBISA ARE EARNING MORE THAN THEM.

EVEN GOOGLE KNOWS.
The term feminist isnt what these half wits in nairaland and nigeria make it seem. Let's not bash a perfectly reasonable movement because of them
Re: Why Don't Fake "Feminists" Complain About Female Privilege? (NO BASHING!!) by lightangel65i(m): 1:04pm On May 21, 2020
Well for me I believe in gender equality totally.

If females want to have same rights as men they should loose their privilegeds.

Like no going easy on them cause they are girls, and a right to beat them up like I can do my fellow guys if they Bleep up. And stopping all only female scholarships and so on
Re: Why Don't Fake "Feminists" Complain About Female Privilege? (NO BASHING!!) by Lionessza6(f): 1:10pm On May 21, 2020
crownedrookie:

So in other words a female is just an empty being with no personal drive and no will to become something except society "makes" her?

If success was dependent on how hard one works ,& their drive, most people would achieve their goals or most people would be rich in this world,but that's not how the world works.You heard what you wanted to hear from my post& not what I said. If women had no will & drive to succeed then they wouldn't be pushing for change ;level playing field(where they are willing & ready to fight for their positions).

I dont know where you got the impression that I'm defending female entitlement grin,but that's your own. All I did was to offer a possible reason behind the advert you were complaining about .
Re: Why Don't Fake "Feminists" Complain About Female Privilege? (NO BASHING!!) by UncleJJ(m): 1:13pm On May 21, 2020
CAPSLOCKED:


FEMALE SOCCER PLAYERS ASKING FOR EQUAL PAY WITH MEN, AND ALSO FURTHER REDUCTION OF THEIR ALREADY LOW NUMBER OF GAMES.

NIGERIAN FEMALE SOLDIERS DOING THIS AND THAT INSTAGRAM CHALLENGES IN OFFICES AND NAGGING THAT THE MEN IN SAMBISA ARE EARNING MORE THAN THEM.

EVEN GOOGLE KNOWS.

Women; they just can't figure out logic. No matter how brilliant a woman is - Logic is a very difficult topic.
It's no wonder INTJ's have an insignificant nos of females.

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Re: Why Don't Fake "Feminists" Complain About Female Privilege? (NO BASHING!!) by Nobody: 1:15pm On May 21, 2020
All them hoes on this forum who already know themselves so I don't have to mention them

Una well done ooo grin

You guys only cry equality equality equality
When you want it

That for me is the simple truth

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