s humans, we are always striving towards a better life and better versions of ourselves. It is easy to lose sight of what is important in our lives simply cause we haven't gotten our priorities right. But one of the most important thing you can for yourself is to gain perspective on what can enhance your growth.

Here are a few lessons that can help you to know what is really important to your sanity and wellbeing.

1. Know what you really want, not what society says you should want. Most of our needs aren't necessarily ours, they picked up around us.

2. If you have to beg too much for a thing, it probably isn't worth it. Its like that grumpy kid that gives you a piece of the cake just because you gave a stare that seemed like the world would end if you didn't have it But resents you for having got it cause even if it it made no difference, he wanted it all to himself. So next time, he sneaks off so he wouldn't have to stand you. If it's not given out of will, you'd be better off without it.

3. Do not let what you had to do to survive at a particular phase of your life become your identity. Each level of life requires an improved mentality and mental energy. Most of our problems stem from being stuck permanently with temporary attributes. If it is serving no good anymore, its probably doing unnoticed damage.

4.To find peace, try as much as possible to avoid unnecessary drama and all forms of pressure which cause you to become anxious about your life's situation. Life is a process. Accept it, don't deny it. May be your best lesson yet.

5.What is good for the goose isn't always good for the gander. just because they enjoy their life doesn't mean you should adopt the same lifestyle. Its like watching a person eat snake. cause he/she enjoys it doesn't make it a nice treat for you. Yet that's what most people do for lack of focus on ourselves, rather always on others. We are different, so are our paths to happiness.

6.There's a saying: "No wind is the right wind for a ship with no destination." Direction is more important than speed. Find your purpose, follow it.

7. Not every advice is useful advice. Everybody is taking everybody's advice on everything without taking our needs into consideration. Going in every direction means going in no direction.

8. Showing off your achievements for being thankful isn't always bad. But if you had to do it to chase clout, then you're infected with the worst disease ever: the disease of seeking external validation.

9.Hard work, empathy, positivity, faith, love, perseverance, courage, and patience are some of the best virtues you can find.

10. We would rather blame someone else than confront ourselves. So we are often on the look out for things to distract us from us in the name of boredom. Learn to take a break from being amongst everyone else and the media to declutter, detoxify. Choose your sanity every time.

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Beautiful!

11) Don't anticipate any help from Nigerian government.

Oluromantic:
11) Don't anticipate any help from Nigerian government.

...If you want to live long.

Your comment got me laughing out loud.

Ariza:
...If you want to live long.

Your comment got me laughing out loud.

I swear bro.. every young Nigerian is on his own

Oluromantic:

I swear bro.. every young Nigerian is on his own

I'm not a bro

never get married

Ariza:
I'm not a bro

Ok sorry sis

[quote author=Oluromantic post=90570894]11) Don't anticipate any help from Nigerian government.[/qugote] Lol. That inclusive

Awesome tips.

never get attached to any religion