So this lady wants her husband to contribute to her brother's wedding and he refused then she says he's not responsible.

As seen on Twitter.

Feel free to share your opinion on this matter.

Cc lalastica,seun,mynd44

This matter need settlement . I don't blame the guy sha. After raising 580k on a 70 k salary, he needs at least one year to recover!

We never talk of his own white wedding o.

See what men are going through......

hmmm





https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F7PLL1bMTb8

What did I just read?

You for kuku draft out the whole wedding expense and give him the list and even ask him to place your family on monthly salary , just because he mistakenly married to a broke ass family.

Shit!!

You can talk to him.
Let him see this issue from another angle that he’s trying to save your situation and he should not see it as an obligation.

Your husband is not comfortable with your idleness. It happens in marriage

HE HUSTLED FOR HIS OWN MONEY FOR MARRIAGE WHY CANT UR BROTHER DO THE SAME
IF NA ME ONE NAIRA I NO GO SPEND HE WANTS TO GET MARRIED HE SHOLD BE READY

Irony of life.
The man gave listvof 580k without consideration, now his son was given only 400k and he is taxing his inlaw of 120k.
Blue thunder where are you.

Some families are indeed unshameful..

Ah ah una no read about shame for una dictionary ?

Early grave inlaws..

Ontop 70k salary o... And the wife too know the pay.. Wukked family.

I'm angry at the husband simply because his no was in small letters. I had expected to read a big N and a big O.

please how can I unread this

You definitely have many unrealistic demands and expectations, you are currently unemployed, he takes care of you and he's not complaining about you not contributing to the upkeep of this nucleus family.
He paid his bride price without your family's concession and he shouldered the wedding without you contributing anything. He's not obligated to either give your parents monthly upkeep or help with your brother's dowry. That should be your brother's responsibility. If your brother is not capable of this responsibility, then he's not man enough to take a woman's hand in marriage.
You are creating unnecessary friction in your relationship, you should be helping in building this home up, if care is not taking, you will ruin the little you have invested in the relationship.

If I write what I have in my head , you will surely regret posting this disgraceful thing here...are you mad? Did he marry you to take care of your family or is he your family's meal ticket? Your foolish father has the audacity to mandate him to even pay an amount and your black brain allowed you to call a man who takes care of you irresponsible? You're lucky you're not back to your poverty stricken home because that man is actually a good man..if It where me, you'd have been long gone typing this In your dad's house!!! Now I see reasons why rich families won't let their sons marry from poor homes..y'all are too entitled abeg...so he should die because he married you?!!! Tueh!!!!!!!!!

46arcadez:
Irony of life.
The man gave listvof 580k without consideration, now his son was given only 400k and he is taxing his inlaw of 120k.
Blue thunder where are you.

The matter self tire thunder

This is what happens when you marry into a poor home. They see you as their meal ticket for everything.

Beware of leeches

What kind of nonsense is this?

Woman u n ur family are mad!!!

Life of a man with plan

I can't believe this bullshit. It has to be made up.

Do you guys now see the reason why I always tell you guys to avoid broke ass women? They’ll run you into debt cos they have absolutely nothing to offer you or your life but some of y’all are just plain stupid & will never learn. Why should a man struggling to build his life be made to part with money he barely has? God will never allow me meet such a useless girl from such a hungry & greedy family.

See how irresponsible some women are... If dis isnt stupidity I dont know what is... U ppl are asking him to pay over 25% of anoda person's own marriage expenses afta single handedly paying his... Both the gal, and her family are shameless leeches.. Afta paying part of d broda price for dem, he shld b ready to also start taking care of part of their bills

He is a fool and so are you..

When your family sold you for cash, did anyone hear or come to his aid. Ipob people and their sense of entitlement.
I'm sure the foolish husband can't boast of any savings yet went ahead to marry a broke ass lady from a broke ass family.
Nonsense!

Your husband earns 70k and coughed out 580k to wed you...

That shows he most likely spent most of his savings probably even borrowed to wed you...

Baba never recoup himself financially but your family is bringing more Bills for him and ou expect him to be happy...

With all due respect your father should have some self respect and not even bring such things to your husband... it's your brother that wants to wed... he should man up and pay the Bill's or cut his coat according to his material...

You should be grateful he went ahead and married you in the first place, that's his first mistake. Now you're in, you better save the marriage which you were lucky to have.

Bro this is emsco. you told me to contact you