When we criticize a lady for being financially insufficient, we should not forget that her financial downside could be as a result of anything even ranging to her family background.

Most guys would prefer the working class lady, some of which are born into wealth but majority of working class ladies work with working class men. Some were made or got to where they are because someone built the bridge they crossed over.

A girl's pocket is not her nemesis. To me, it seems prematured of any guy to castigate a lady based on her pocket. If you want her to be financially responsible then set the package for her, get her a job, get her ideas, just anything to change her to the taste you want....

My girl is not from a financially bouguos family and it pains me when i see what she faces, she lost her mum long ago and she is the first daughter, her dad is also trying his best but the economy is not helpful to him. You see, i am a student just like my girl, as a matter of fact, we study thesame course but from different university. I know what she goes through and i try all my possible best to make this life a heaven for her as best as i could....

I don't judge her because of her financial downside, it's not your job to say she's broke if i can't do anything about it for her.

To cut the thread short, only broke guys complain of a girl financial downside. Do your best if you love her, take care of her, shape her to your taste and don't ever feel you're entitled to her because of your contribution to her life....

If she breaks up tomorrow, i won't have any regret for everything i did for her..

Danielfx:
When we criticize a lady for being financially insufficient, we should not forget that her financial downside could be as a result of anything even ranging to her family background.

Most guys would prefer the working class lady, some of which are born into wealth but majority of working class ladies work with working class men. Some were made or got to where they are because someone built the bridge they crossed over.

A girl's pocket is not her nemesis. To me, it seems prematured of any guy to castigate a lady based on her pocket. If you want her to be financially responsible then set the package for her, get her a job, get her ideas, just anything to change her to the taste you want....

My girl is not from a financially bouguos family and it pains me when i see what she faces, she lost her mum long ago and she is the first daughter, her dad is also trying his best but the economy is not helpful to him. You see, i am a student just like my girl, as a matter of fact, we study thesame course but from different university. I know what she goes through and i try all my possible best to make this life a heaven for her as best as i could....

I don't judge her because of her financial downside, it's not your job to say she's broke if i can't do anything about it for her.

To cut the thread short, only broke guys complain of a girl financial downside. Do your best if you love her, take care of her, shape her to your taste and don't ever feel you're entitled to her because of your contribution to her life....

If she breaks up tomorrow, i won't have any regret for everything i did for her..

Everything you said here is rubbish. Garbage. Do well to flush it all down the drain. Trash man

Bro, Shut the Fvck Up!!!!

When we talk about broke babes, we mean those leeches who would readily fvck your best friend because of iPhone !!

So stop misconstruing it as girls from poor backgrounds!!

We mean ;

1. Remember that thing I asked you crew.
2. I want G string pant crew.
3. I need a new phone crew.
4. Lets go out crew.
5. “Those buy me this thing first" crew.

They are broke is not just the problem.
it becomes a problem if they are broke and entitled

@danielfx

Please stop making flimsy excuses for women. The men who are working, were they born into affluent families? A woman has 2 hands just like a man, 2 legs just like a man, a working brain and eyes just like men... So what excuse does a woman have for being a liability?

Please we must let Nigerians ladies understand that guys are tired of their entitlement mentality. The moment a woman can show you love without depending on your money, that's when you know true love.

PS: I have met a lot of hardworking Nigerian ladies who I am proud of. Let's separate the wannabe slay queens from the real slay queens that's all.

You see, i am a student just like my girl , as a matter of fact, we study thesame course but from different university . I know what she goes through and i try all my possible best to make this life a heaven for her as best as i could....

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After reading the above and especially the bolded, ALL I CAN SAY IS SORRY IN ADVANCE..
A PHRASE IS ENOUGH FOR THE WISE.

You are wise my friend.

Your opinion is spot on. Take advantage of this opportunity in my signature.

Very senseless post. You never see Milkose. Girl Wey sabi milk

I am not surprised you are making a case for broke and entitled women. There are quite a number of young guys who share your views.

When you are conditioned to think a boyfriend should be financially responsible for his girlfriend, you would express the same sentiments as the OP.

Broke and entitled girls would broke-shame you so that your ego would drive you to spend on your girlfriend. Spending on your babe is not a thing of pride. It is not a benchmark for financial freedom or maturity or masculinity.

Saying ONLY broke guys complain about a girl‘s “financial downside” (whatever that means) is a clear indication that you are firmly under manipulation and largely oblivious to the fact.

There is nothing wrong with guys refusing to settle for broke girls. Women routinely choose men who earn more than they do. You have no problem with that. Why then do you have a problem with men who want women who can at least “hold their side”?

Why is your claim to manhood attached to spending on a girlfriend? A man who needs to spend money to obtain a woman’s loyalty or love, is miserable. Your love life is pay as you go. The affection you get is only as good as the cash you spend on her. How can that be normal to you?

Is she commodity? Are you paying her in gratitude for stooping low to date you? Are you that undesirable? Look man, you don’t have to prove anything. If she draws parallels between your money and her involvement in the relationship then she is the commodity. Your relationship is a mere transaction and is only as good as your last payment.

Don’t play yourself.

See bah.
Once I entered that thread I quickly exited.
Cause in the end it became a bunch of simp men complaining about their inability to provide for themselves and pretending like it is the woman's fault that she needs and wants things.
If they don't have the balls and bar to take care of a woman why are they now chasing after women and still complaining.
Is that not madness?
The girl is broke, yet you are still following her. Bros you sure say no be your ego dey broke.
This is not an excuse for broke women too bad oh! Carry ya broke ass out of this arena abeg. Stop being a leech, is it by force to tax every man in your life?
In the end it's all about money.

Lalasticlala mynd44 come and say something

Anyway, get my point. Asking for money to spend on extravagant commodities is a no no for me(at least for now...) And i have no challenge with money for judicious use...

Get it, i only give her money i approved of, that is money meant for a course that seems reasonable to me....

Danielfx:
When we criticize a lady for being financially insufficient, we should not forget that her financial downside could be as a result of anything even ranging to her family background.

Most guys would prefer the working class lady, some of which are born into wealth but majority of working class ladies work with working class men. Some were made or got to where they are because someone built the bridge they crossed over.

A girl's pocket is not her nemesis. To me, it seems prematured of any guy to castigate a lady based on her pocket. If you want her to be financially responsible then set the package for her, get her a job, get her ideas, just anything to change her to the taste you want....

My girl is not from a financially bouguos family and it pains me when i see what she faces, she lost her mum long ago and she is the first daughter, her dad is also trying his best but the economy is not helpful to him. You see, i am a student just like my girl, as a matter of fact, we study thesame course but from different university. I know what she goes through and i try all my possible best to make this life a heaven for her as best as i could....

I don't judge her because of her financial downside, it's not your job to say she's broke if i can't do anything about it for her.

To cut the thread short, only broke guys complain of a girl financial downside. Do your best if you love her, take care of her, shape her to your taste and don't ever feel you're entitled to her because of your contribution to her life....

If she breaks up tomorrow, i won't have any regret for everything i did for her..

You're doing a charity and pity work...is different from what the other op talked about...it' was so clear ..no need for a counter thread

Danielfx:
When we criticize a lady for being financially insufficient, we should not forget that her financial downside could be as a result of anything even ranging to her family background.

Most guys would prefer the working class lady, some of which are born into wealth but majority of working class ladies work with working class men. Some were made or got to where they are because someone built the bridge they crossed over.

A girl's pocket is not her nemesis. To me, it seems prematured of any guy to castigate a lady based on her pocket. If you want her to be financially responsible then set the package for her, get her a job, get her ideas, just anything to change her to the taste you want....

My girl is not from a financially bouguos family and it pains me when i see what she faces, she lost her mum long ago and she is the first daughter, her dad is also trying his best but the economy is not helpful to him. You see, i am a student just like my girl, as a matter of fact, we study thesame course but from different university. I know what she goes through and i try all my possible best to make this life a heaven for her as best as i could....

I don't judge her because of her financial downside, it's not your job to say she's broke if i can't do anything about it for her.

To cut the thread short, only broke guys complain of a girl financial downside. Do your best if you love her, take care of her, shape her to your taste and don't ever feel you're entitled to her because of your contribution to her life....

If she breaks up tomorrow, i won't have any regret for everything i did for her..

Aren't they fellow guys passing through the same shit like your gal...who cares about them? Ok I guess they're meant to suffer because they're men

famulan:
@danielfx

Please stop making flimsy excuses for women. The men who are working, were they born into affluent families? A woman has 2 hands just like a man, 2 legs just like a man, a working brain and eyes just like men... So what excuse does a woman have for being a liability?

Please we must let Nigerians ladies understand that guys are tired of their entitlement mentality. The moment a woman can show you love without depending on your money, that's when you know true love.

PS: I have met a lot of hardworking Nigerian ladies who I am proud of. Let's separate the slay queens from the real slay queens that's all.

you took the word right out of my mouth bro.

Good one.

It will end in tears..these girls are never loyal.one i met told me how is she supposed to be taking care of herself...

If u date a broke girl out of pity,she will dump u out of pity when she meets a richer guy..wit stupid words..like..I dont deserve u,u too nice for me

What of broke guys

1. Being broke is temporary, it's the mentality that counts. Are you entitled to another person's money? Is it your right?

2. Money doesn't buy affection. So trying to impress a person with wealth is like putting water in a basket.

3. What are you doing to come out of that broke state. Are you comfortable in it because someone else is throwing small change at you or are you striving for yours?

And to think that you are still a student taking up the responsibility of fending for a girl, your fellow student tells her ignorant, foolish and irresponsible you are.

Dis one na another Ekeletu, I swear. Disgracing men upandan...

MejiLoyon:
Very senseless post. You never see Milkose. Girl Wey sabi milk

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