I will be brief guys.
I met this lady during my university years like, 4 years back. Then I had nothing, I mean absolutely nothing.
I graduated from school, went for my NYSC and was through with it. I respect my girl a lot, though I am not perfect. My girl has the best part of my heart am not even sure any other lady has about 10% of it. The fact remains that, I haven't for a day deny she isn't my girl.
I have an attitude problem, which is I am very jealous and I do question her a lot but in other aspect, I am good. In short, I am a Cancer by the Zodiac sign- You will understand me better with my sign. My girl hates me been jealous a lot, but i know most guys who keeps one woman will, but then I can't just control myself over it even when I try. This act of mine became much last year as I often complain of certain things she does wrong; sometimes my feelings may be right, other times wrong. In all, I do apologize.
I started a biz last year and have been succeeding by God's Grace and have vowed within me never to leave her after all these years.
We have plans together, and by the end of this year, the plan is on to settle down finally as married couples.
Last week guys, we had an altercation, and she got so mad at me. She quit talking to me nor show any affection towards me.
I have since realize my mistakes and have been apologizing to her ever since, yet she asked me to give her time to recover.
Spoken to a friend and even mum who have been standing behind her, they weren't happy I had to apologize to her as a man; but then I know my nature, and I need to do that to clear my conscience.
I used to think of what happened a lot to an extent it even gives me sleepless night. Now the thought have reduced. I visited her yesterday to tell her to forgive me and made her know the more she keeps delaying, the more my feelings for her dwindles. She insisted I give her more time to think of it.
I love her dearly and I have respected her ever since she stood beside me when I had nothing, not to talk of now.
I have called her friend to explain, and I have also called her sister to explain and also apologize.
I think I have done enough for almost a week now. Deep within me, I have no alternative for her.
Guys I dont know what u guys think I should do. I am financially okay now, ladies come closer than before but they arent my concern.

I need her back but she has been so to herself not giving me quite enough hope. I do send her messages, but her responses have been cold.
Should I also quit messaging her and allow her to be through with her thoughts. How long is enough for her to think.
Your candid opinion please.

Just one week you are tired already? You wan jakpa bro’s. This is the best time, you are not here for any advise

Hmmm...

You're not yet married and it is this way, what will happen when you get married ??
You've begged her this far to forgive you, will you be able to be begging her this way when you are married...for the rest of your marital lives

Because definitely, you'll be getting her upset in marriage. It is inevitable.

I'm not after the solution to your problem now...after all, she may later forgive you.
I'm after your future together.

Pls give her time. She will come around

pretydiva:
Pls give her time. She will come around

same word a lot a friend have said. Thanks

Carchoice:
Just one week you are tired already? You wan jakpa bro’s. This is the best time, you are not here for any advise

no no. I just want to be brief. Don't need to be detailed. But I have no alternative for her right now

Bluezy13:
Hmmm...

You're not yet married and it is this way, what will happen when you get married ??
You've begged her this far to forgive you, will you be able to be begging her this way when you are married...for the rest of your marital lives

Because definitely, you'll be getting her upset in marriage. It is inevitable.

I'm not after the solution to your problem now...after all, she may later forgive you.
I'm after your future together.

yea, I understand you bro. But not happy I do that. She used same words ur used, but our heart is concealed and she may not know I won't love to do that when we are married.

Stop apologizing.
You've done that already.
So don't turn yourself into a pity show.

Is she the vengeful type?

I don't understand why it's taking her more than a week to decide; whether to reconcile or not to.

Man do nothing for now. Give her space.
No calls or texts. If she values you she'll forgive.

Ningen:
Stop apologizing.
You've done that already.
So don't turn yourself into a pity show.

Is she the vengeful type?

I don't understand why it's taking her more than a week to decide; whether to reconcile or not to.

Man do nothing for now. Give her space.
No calls or texts. If she values you she'll forgive.

thanks for your word. Its Bold. She is not the vengeful type.

Just give her time, she is actually tinkin if she could consider dat guy disturbing her cos ur wahala is becoming 2 much for her

highmood:
yea, I understand you bro. But not happy I do that. She used same words ur used, but our heart is concealed and she may not know I won't love to do that when we are married.

Well...
She is being realistic.
Perhaps with time she may come around.

highmood:
same word a lot a friend have said. Thanks

Your welcome

what was the altercation about?