From my inbox. Please post this on Nairaland.

My last relationship ended last year Nov. Since then been up and doing about my life, career and trying to acquire more knowledge that would benefit me. From that Nov till now being on my own.
Even work would not allow me see front, I'm sorry I didn't tell you I'm now with a telecomm coy. I met a guy last year sha, he's been asking me out shortly after we met, just begging for a chance, then I was still in my last relationship but I humbly declined and told Him I can't double date, I can't cheat and the rest, of which the guy allowed me be.

But we chat once in a while, just Hi hi thingy. Even sometimes around March when he chatted me, he still asked about my guy I told Him we are fine even though we parted coz I don't even want Him to start going into the let's date stuff.

Fast forward to sometimes last month or thereabout, the guy chatted around again and was just asking about my well-being generally, asking if my bf is treating me well, I didn't have a choice than to tell Him that those things had become stories...

It was an avenue to start the date me stuff, meanwhile, between last year Nov and last month, I've had guys that want me and desire something serious with me, I just humbly declined as I'm not ready for any emotional attachment and I don't think I even like/love them enough to have something serious with them.
So I started considering this guy, I preferred Him to the numerous guys that came, I just have one special preference for Him, I like Him, infact I love Him... Then we started talking towards the dating topic. I decided to give Him a chance.

He's based in Abuja, while I'm in Lagos.
I suddenly realized he's not a good communicator, he may not even check up on me for 48hrs if I permit that.
It's a turn off for me, I understand he's an introvert, he's always busy with work, by profession, he's a Biochemist, Mol. Oncologist, Clinical Researcher and a Data Scientist.

For me, I'm an extrovert, a sanguine I always want to gist, talk with my man and all of those things, but he's not in for those things, I'm always bored�‍♀�‍♀

Now there is this other guy I've known for a year now, he just came around and started giving me this I want you, I love you, I want to marry you, thingy, but this guy is a companion, gives me attention and all that, but I'm confused on which to go for... This one is in Lagos and he's a HR expert.

So that's my predicament oooo, I have cried and cried. Think and thought

And again that first guy ehn, �‍♀�‍♀ he doesn't ask me questions o, you love person and you know nothing or little about the person, like I think he's into some other girls... When I discuss it with Him, he keeps telling me there's nothing he wants to gain from double dating that it's wastage of time and resources. Most times I don't believe..

Please, advice me��

go for the one that shows you more attention, and love you most, with time you will like him very much. I don't want you to come back to this forum to start crying by saying, one guy breaks your heart because you love him so much. Tor.

I think it's best to choose a man who shows you more attention and loves you more than you love him and never settle for a man that you chase or crave for his attention,my funky aunty and mentor told me this

Rozz:
I think it's best to choose a man who shows you more attention and loves you more than you love him and never settle for a man that you chase or crave for his attention,my funky aunty and mentor told me this

Rozz Rozz.

Rozz:
[s]I think it's best to choose a man who shows you more attention and loves you more than you love him and never settle for a man that you chase or crave for his attention,my funky aunty and mentor told me this[/s]

BS

The tone of your narration grates on my nerves. I couldn’t finish reading your tale.

i pray against every woman like op