A friend of mine lost her husband last year. she is still very young was married for less than 2 years and has a baby girl. i want to know what guys think. Can u fall in love with such a person?

Sure, why cant you fall in love with her?

y is there sumtin wrong wit her?

there is nothing definitely wrong with her. i just want opinions.

ofcourse there is nothing wrong with falling in love with her

@ danny babe

i will say nothing is wrong and as well as something is wrong

1. u need to know what causes the death of the husband.

2. circumstances surrounding the death of her first husband.

3. In the african way of life such a young woman nedds to perform some certain rights (depends on the tribe which she is) no matter religion or amount of civility.

4.lastly she needs to be full of prayers likewise the man.

so u can fall in ove with a young widow if u can really checkmate what causes the death of the earlier hubby

Nothing is wrong with it, just be sure there is no unsolved question surounding the death of the husband such that the family of both will not start to think you cleared the way  for your self.also  also be ready to love the duaghter like your own child and lastly be ready to adjust because she already has an experience of what marriage  looks like, so you should be ready for serious adjustment as there is bound to be a little imbalance at first. There shouldn't be problem though cos now you know and before then you should have been prepared. Go ahead only if you  have perfect peace in your spirit concerning that. Wish you the best.

yes to be my 2nd, 3rd or 4th wife never to be my first wife

The child or what? It is not a factor o.

Hard for me to consider marrying a woman already with a kid. So proly not.

na 2 first know wetin kill her husband,b4 u sef turn victim