Iam in a friendship dat grew frm family friends level to lovers. We havent seen since he opend up and it s close to 1 yr and 4 months. He hardly calls on his own except I call and ask. But once he does, he profeses how much he loves and care. So, I ask shud i continue like dis.

gal be wise,if he is too busy to call u only when u call u should knw that ,he doesn't want u but lacks the courage to tell,perphaps he has someelse.u had better move on and stop day dreaming of lover who is actually somelse lover.

@ ijeky, Just call him and ask him One simple Question The 'Guy" in qoute has forgetton I believe before asking you out I guess he calls three times a daily to find out wether u have taken ur breakfast, lunch and dinner! I had similar problem with my girlfriend she wont even flash but the moment she travel out that is when she will call. Just be patient with him ok. All the best.

Well you might need to chill out on the guy maybe he cant afford to make that much calls he might be broke or maybe not?

if he no call, you call him. like me my phone is for buisness not for calling babes.

osereka:

if he no call, you call him. like me my phone is for buisness not for calling babes.

Guy man that cruel
any sha for him not to call simply means he's not worth you

ol boy na una de spoil babe. wetin wrong if she is the one that always call

@Topic
Same advice I will give my daughters.

Quit acting needy and desperate!  The guy does not want you at the level you want him now!  Perhaps he is sampling others!  Please find something else to occupy your time!  You have a lot to work on---especially your self esteem!

If na Naija bobo, you know it takes them time to settle down! You guys are still in the "string along and sampling" phase of your relationships. If you have time and money to waste because you see something valuable, by all means keep him on your radar. If not, please hit the road and find something else to "perch" on! Your paths might cross again! If na me I no dey wait oh! Time na money oh!

If he doesn't call it can only mean he 's not thinking of you. Please move away from the phone and stop willing it to ring, he's not calling. Don't be his reserve, there are other guys out there ready to talk to you.

Try to bear with him and ask him why he doesnt call you,it may be that he doesnt v the money,and if he's calling you everytime,you guys may get tired of each other so just stay with him for some tym,dont leave him if you love him

Doris B: Try to bear with him and ask him why he doesnt call you,it may be that he doesnt v the money,and if he's calling you everytime,you guys may get tired of each other so just stay with him for some tym,dont leave him if you love him

thank you o jare. don't mind all thesee girls will the mentality that if if doesn't call , he doesn't love . how many guys have called and called you during relationship yet broke your heart at the end. omoges yarinya life is not black and white. there is no litmus test for love . considers everything he tells you and ask question then you'll know if you should stay.