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Does Women Have Special Attraction To Married Men by Gang90: 12:54pm On Sep 01, 2020
So I hang a lot with my two brothers, one is 38 married with three kids, my second brother 35 also married but I think women are more inclined towards them, there is less hesitation when these two asks for a girls contact than when I do...

Most times on the drive, my brother pulls over and hey in few minutes he is already at the create new contact option but for me and I guess most other single young guys it a little different, cause the girl will be like I don't give out my line to strangers.

I can't say it about the looks, while my first brother looks a little taller than me or in a more realistic view a little more handsome than I may be, though I look more athletic and masculine, I'm arguably more handsome than my second brother but the big question is why does these two get the women despite being married.

My first brother is politically inclined and have this composure and oratory, like most first and second born, he is an astute leader then my second brother is a simple science inclined pragmatic and action oriented individual both are intelligent in their own way for me, just like most last born I may be subtly intelligent, inwardly stubborn and have this penchant for tech.

Now you may already be able to guess our personality, so why are the women more into them, is it an issue with their personality or women just prefer married men, I'm 25 years old now and few years back before they got married like 6 years ago, I used to get the girls, but how did things changed suddenly.

Did my personality depreciate, did their personality appreciate with marriage, I'm not going to downplay the impact of financial security but in this regards, I'm more likely to spend on a woman than either of them can do because at this stage in my life I don't tend for anybody, even my mum don't ask me for money.

Can anybody explain to me the sudden increase in these my married brothers attractiveness, don't get it wrong I'm not a pushover when it comes to the women's games, my friends frequently acknowledge me as a badass but how much I become nearly insignificant in the presence of my two married brothers is something strange

For instance, if we attend a party together, the fine single attendant is going to serve them with utmost respect and even personally offer to be called if they needed any further help but for me, I will waite until one concerned old lady from the other corner works up and say, my son have anyone attended to you...

I'm not going to downplay the impact of composure, charisma and other charms of individual make up but remember that we are chips of the same block, we have our differences but our similarity far outweighs.

Now would anyone be kind enough to tell me what have changed and remember it had not always been this way, I used to be the flame.

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Re: Does Women Have Special Attraction To Married Men by EmptyGarden(m): 1:02pm On Sep 01, 2020
So you're saying you have 2 philanderers as role models?

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Re: Does Women Have Special Attraction To Married Men by Gang90: 1:08pm On Sep 01, 2020
EmptyGarden:
So you're saying you have 2 philanderers as role models?
Na too much Eglish be your problem, why you no use word wey person fit understand without consulting goodle, wikipedia or oxford dictionary, why didn't you just use simpler word instead of philanderer.

Well from the screenshot below, I don't think they are philanderers, they could be in a classical case of victims of tempting attraction

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Re: Does Women Have Special Attraction To Married Men by DaddyRochie1642: 1:09pm On Sep 01, 2020
EmptyGarden:
So you're saying you have 2 philanderers as role models?




Oga to Slap you dey hungry me
Re: Does Women Have Special Attraction To Married Men by Exc2000: 1:13pm On Sep 01, 2020
cool



This is fact


Girls see married men as more responsible, some see them as easy to discard hence why they flirt with married men

Had this same conversation and observation with my married friends and they started opening up on this strange phenomena




.

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Re: Does Women Have Special Attraction To Married Men by Tocheagle(m): 1:14pm On Sep 01, 2020
Wear a fake ring and have the mannerisms of a married man. Girls will fall for you. I know of a man who refuses to wear his wedding ring to work cos according to him. It attracts women to him and he doesn't want to cheat on his wife. Ladies love married dudes. The excitement they derive from married men coming after them is unexplainable

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Re: Does Women Have Special Attraction To Married Men by extol1(m): 1:36pm On Sep 01, 2020
EmptyGarden:
So you're saying you have 2 philanderers as role models?
seconded, he has chosen dally as his role model truly
Re: Does Women Have Special Attraction To Married Men by EmptyGarden(m): 1:43pm On Sep 01, 2020
Gang90:

Na too much Eglish be your problem, why you no use word wey person fit understand without consulting goodle, wikipedia or oxford dictionary, why didn't you just use simpler word instead of philanderer.

Well from the screenshot below, I don't think they are philanderers, they could be in a classical case of victims of tempting attraction

From your own gist, and the definition you have so kindly provided, Philanderers seems to be apt.
Maybe you'd prefer adulterers?

Anyway, those are besides the issue on ground.
To help with your question, Ladies do claim that married men are better at taking care of women.
Like giving more and demanding less.
Some ladies are scared of absolute commitment, with a married man, you wouldn't worry about that I guess.

Edit: those labels were on a much lighter note.
Re: Does Women Have Special Attraction To Married Men by EmptyGarden(m): 1:47pm On Sep 01, 2020
DaddyRochie1642:





Oga to Slap you dey hungry me

Notice me! You have been duly noticed, be happy.
Re: Does Women Have Special Attraction To Married Men by Gang90: 2:07pm On Sep 01, 2020
Tocheagle:
Wear a fake ring and have the mannerisms of a married man. Girls will fall for you. I know of a man who refuses to wear his wedding ring to work cos according to him. It attracts women to him and he doesn't want to cheat on his wife. Ladies love married dudes. The excitement they derive from married men coming after them is unexplainable

Do you think it will just be possible to wear the mannerism of a married man, like for me now, when I'm not wearing Jean (torn or normal) with shirt, I'm wearing three piece suite or shirts with plain, or just about any cool combo, don't see myself wearing those Ankara, Senate, isiagu or babariga etc more associated with the responsible and groomed family men, also, I'm not ready to treat a woman like an egg anytime soon, Well I still do open car doors for the ladies but that's when the handle is broken and the car can't open from the inside...lol don't mind me oo, atimes I can just be silly

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Re: Does Women Have Special Attraction To Married Men by Gang90: 2:15pm On Sep 01, 2020
EmptyGarden:


From your own gist, and the definition you have so kindly provided, Philanderers seems to be apt.
Maybe you'd prefer adulterers?

Anyway, those are besides the issue on ground.
To help with your question, Ladies do claim that married men are better at taking care of women.
Like giving more and demanding less.
Some ladies are scared of absolute commitment, with a married man, you wouldn't worry about that I guess.

Edit: those labels were on a much lighter note.

I can guarantee you that my brothers are responsible family men, see one fact remains that 60% of married man cheats or have the tendency to cheat, 30% are likely restrained by some factors like financial instability, the fear of consequences and the desire for a peace of mind the remaining 10% could just be fateful because it is their nature to be or maybe they are really into their wives, coming to that, I can bet you that my brothers are really responsible, it is not my job to monitor their relationship life but it is my duty to claim ownership of the CD when they are finally cought with one that's brothers for you,

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Re: Does Women Have Special Attraction To Married Men by Deicide: 2:30pm On Sep 01, 2020
EmptyGarden:
From your own gist, and the definition you have so kindly provided, Philanderers seems to be apt.
Maybe you'd prefer adulterers?
I think he prefers olosho
Re: Does Women Have Special Attraction To Married Men by czarr(m): 2:33pm On Sep 01, 2020
Let's look at it from two angles, first spiritually the devil is fighting against marriages and would always make it easier for married men to get women just so he can mess things up....have you asked yourself why pastors find it easy to get women and even sleep with members wives, the devil is the ruler of this world.

Secondly it because they don't appear needy and desperate, if you notice there is always a cool, calm vibe about them, where it seems like they don't really care about the outcome of the interaction, that non-neediness, lack of desperation and indifference is incredibly attractive to women because they can sense pusssy is not your problem in life.....and that's because your brothers have vagina at home, so either way they will empty their balls that night whether she gives them number or not and those girls may not even know they are married but that chill non needy vibe around them conveys to the ladies sub consciously that other women give them play and that is social proof enough for the ladies, women are very intuitive.

It happens in relationships too, when you are single, no play for you but as soon as you enter a relationship, even women who don't know that you are in a relationship would start giving you play......so in conclusion it is not that they are married it's the chill that comes with knowing you have standby vagina to relieve your tension that women can subconsciously sense.

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Re: Does Women Have Special Attraction To Married Men by Nobody: 2:41pm On Sep 01, 2020
Gang90:
So I hang a lot with my two brothers, one is 38 married with three kids, my second brother 35 also married but I think women are more inclined towards them, there is less hesitation when these two asks for a girls contact than when I do...

Most times on the drive, my brother pulls over and hey in few minutes he is already at the create new contact option but for me and I guess most other single young guys it a little different, cause the girl will be like I don't give out my line to strangers.

I can't say it about the looks, while my first brother looks a little taller than me or in a more realistic view a little more handsome than I may be, though I look more athletic and masculine, I'm arguably more handsome than my second brother but the big question is why does these two get the women despite being married.

My first brother is politically inclined and have this composure and oratory, like most first and second born, he is an astute leader then my second brother is a simple science inclined pragmatic and action oriented individual both are intelligent in their own way for me, just like most last born I may be subtly intelligent, inwardly stubborn and have this penchant for tech.

Now you may already be able to guess our personality, so why are the women more into them, is it an issue with their personality or women just prefer married men, I'm 25 years old now and few years back before they got married like 6 years ago, I used to get the girls, but how did things changed suddenly.

Did my personality depreciate, did their personality appreciate with marriage, I'm not going to downplay the impact of financial security but in this regards, I'm more likely to spend on a woman than either of them can do because at this stage in my life I don't tend for anybody, even my mum don't ask me for money.

Can anybody explain to me the sudden increase in these my married brothers attractiveness, don't get it wrong I'm not a pushover when it comes to the women's games, my friends frequently acknowledge me as a badass but how much I become nearly insignificant in the presence of my two married brothers is something strange

For instance, if we attend a party together, the fine single attendant is going to serve them with utmost respect and even personally offer to be called if they needed any further help but for me, I will waite until one concerned old lady from the other corner works up and say, my son have anyone attended to you...

I'm not going to downplay the impact of composure, charisma and other charms of individual make up but remember that we are chips of the same block, we have our differences but our similarity far outweighs.

Now would anyone be kind enough to tell me what have changed and remember it had not always been this way, I used to be the flame.

Well they are married now so they are likely to earn more respect..and maybe you look very young and small... Women like matured men...

Some women like married men not most..
Marriage is not written in the face..
The only thing that sometimes shows a man is married is the ring which the ladies may not see atimes..

Well their is absolutely nothing wrong with you so don't feel that way..
You're hanging out with your brothers who are more matured in looks and attitude so who do you think ladies who go for?
They will think you're still a small boy nah..
And some ladies might not want to talk to u in front of your Bros cos they don't know if you will appreciate it..

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Re: Does Women Have Special Attraction To Married Men by Nobody: 2:50pm On Sep 01, 2020
grin THE SIMPLE REASON IS BECAUSE WOMEN ARE A WEIRD CREATURE, EVERYTHING ABOUT THEM IS JUST WEIRD, CROOKED AND CRUDE. KEEP THAT IN MIND ALWAYS.

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Re: Does Women Have Special Attraction To Married Men by Happyfela(m): 3:08pm On Sep 01, 2020
Which kind kill joy be this person, Ozwo.
EmptyGarden:
So you're saying you have 2 philanderers as role models?
Re: Does Women Have Special Attraction To Married Men by Nobody: 3:30pm On Sep 01, 2020
globalmart:


Well they are married now so they are likely to earn more respect..and maybe you look very young and small... Women like matured men...

Some women like married men not most..
Marriage is not written in the face..
The only thing that sometimes shows a man is married is the ring which the ladies may not see atimes..


Well their is absolutely nothing wrong with you so don't feel that way..
You're hanging out with your brothers who are more matured in looks and attitude so who do you think ladies who go for?
They will think you're still a small boy nah..
And some ladies might not want to talk to u in front of your Bros cos they don't know if you will appreciate it..

You reminded me of my NYSC days a friend with an obvious ring in hand was getting all the chicks.

The outstanding thing is that, he intentionally wore the ring thinking it will desuade ladies, keep them at bay. The Guy wasn't married then but was about to. His reason was that he didn't want any form of distraction. The ring thing ended in vain. Women are good at seeking to reap from where they did not sow.

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Re: Does Women Have Special Attraction To Married Men by austine4real(m): 3:32pm On Sep 01, 2020
grin grin grin




Let the ashawo brothers kontinu


It will end in tears
Re: Does Women Have Special Attraction To Married Men by Accardo419(m): 3:39pm On Sep 01, 2020
Girls love a relationship that will head to no where.
Re: Does Women Have Special Attraction To Married Men by 2dice01: 3:48pm On Sep 01, 2020
Your Brothers have gotten to age where their sexual attraction value is at the Peak

For ladies from 17 - 23
For guys 30 - 50/55

Women have limited time
But men are fĂșcking evergreen

So you see that girl doing shakara for you now when your get to your Peak her younger sister that is probably writing WAEC/JAMB now will be your Spec

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Re: Does Women Have Special Attraction To Married Men by fati2001(m): 5:19pm On Sep 01, 2020
EmptyGarden:
So you're saying you have 2 philanderers as role models?

Re: Does Women Have Special Attraction To Married Men by Gang90: 5:21pm On Sep 01, 2020
2dice01:
Your Brothers have gotten to age where their sexual attraction value is at the Peak

For ladies from 17 - 23
For guys 30 - 50/55

Women have limited time
But men are fĂșcking evergreen

So you see that girl doing shakara for you now when your get to your Peak her younger sister that is probably writing WAEC/JAMB now will be your Spec
This one give me hope die, so I'm yet to peak
Re: Does Women Have Special Attraction To Married Men by Gang90: 5:21pm On Sep 01, 2020
austine4real:
grin grin grin




Let the ashawo brothers kontinu


It will end in tears
Guy better warn yourself oo
Re: Does Women Have Special Attraction To Married Men by 2dice01: 7:38pm On Sep 01, 2020
Gang90:
This one give me hope die, so I'm yet to peak
Yes bro
You will be the running away from temptation back to back like your Brogrin

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