Nlanders can you have a serious relationship with someone that leaves in the same estate with you? What is your general perception about this kind of relationship. I am asking because there is a girl I am considering going into a relationship with and coincidentally we stay in the same estate.


Waiting for your responses.


Lalasticlala please I need more inputs

Na,na ...capital "No". If her t.fare no reach 700 to & fro..I no do o

My fiancé lives in my estate, our house isn't far from each other's.... It's even easier.. I can't date someone that lives far from me the relationship won't last....


I think you should give it a try if the lady's worth it...

You assume she will accept to date you, anyway to answer your question, personally I think such relationship is the best tbh you don’t have to spend much when konji calls , married men still coordinate outside affairs without getting caught under same roof, so same estate should be a breeze. Perfect scene to gain experience for the future I’d say.

I tried,it ended in premium tears

Lamanii22:
My fiancé lives in my estate, our house isn't far from each other's.... It's even easier.. I can't date someone that lives far from me the relationship won't last....


I think you should give it a try if the lady's worth it...

Thanks

justscorchone:
You assume she will accept to date you, anyway to answer your question, personally I think such relationship is the best tbh you don’t have to spend much when konji calls , married men still coordinate outside affairs without getting caught under same roof, so same estate should be a breeze. Perfect scene to gain experience for the future I’d say.

Please leave sex out of it...... any other advantage?

SmellySperm:
I tried,it ended in premium tears

What happened?

Olajydeey:
Na,na ...capital "No". If her t.fare no reach 700 to & fro..I no do o

Just know you are joking

Lamanii22:
My fiancé lives in my estate, our house isn't far from each other's.... It's even easier.. I can't date someone that lives far from me the relationship won't last....


I think you should give it a try if the lady's worth it...

Did you ever care how people in the neighborhood perceived it? Were you at any point shy?

Emuf:


Please leave sex out of it...... any other advantage?

Maybe free food and gist partner but then the gist will tire you at some point, so yeah more sex

justscorchone:



Maybe free food and gist partner but then the gist will tire you at some point, so yeah more sex

Funny dude

justscorchone:



Maybe free food and gist partner but then the gist will tire you at some point, so yeah more sex

So how will you cope when you get married?

Tomide007:

So how will you cope when you get married?

For those that want to marry in this generation, good luck.

Nothing bad in it but you need to apply wisdoms so you don't be come simp

SeunDobo:
Nothing bad in it but you need to apply wisdoms so you don't be come simp

Thanks.

it depends bt e no easy o because "see finish" go enter and you both need high level of maturity to fight jealousy..

Me personally, I can not even date a lady that lives in the same area. U must enter bus 2 times to reach my house. I value my respect and dignity in my Street biko

chelseamann:
Me personally, I can not even date a lady that lives in the same area. U must enter bus 2 times to reach my house. I value my respect and dignity in my Street biko

What is disrepectful about this? Or you will miss a good lady because she stays in the neighborhood?

Emuf:


Did you ever care how people in the neighborhood perceived it? Were you at any point shy?

Yeah I was.... But then he is a very nice guy... My mom was like must I marry or date in the estate... I was like do I know how an outsider would treat me....



I found the peace I wanted so..... It's no longer a secret.. I'm proud of him...I can show him off

Lamanii22:




Yeah I was.... But then he is a very nice guy... My mom was like must I marry or date in the estate... I was like do I know how an outsider would treat me....



I found the peace I wanted so..... It's no longer a secret.. I'm proud of him...I can show him off

Very good.

If its worth the try though. But personally i cant date a girl in my area let alone same compound or Estate. I jst feel it comes with alot of packages some u can take some u cant.

Emuf:



Just know you are joking

Am serious, I dont date ladies in the neighborhood..
If her tfare no reach at least 400 to & fro..I no do

Emuf:
Nlanders can you have a serious relationship with someone that leaves in the same estate with you? What is your general perception about this kind of relationship. I am asking because there is a girl I am considering going into a relationship with and coincidentally we stay in the same estate.


Waiting for your responses.


Lalasticlala please I need more inputs

No, I can only date someone coming back on the same estate with me.