5 PERSONAL BRANDING SKILLS
PERSONAL BRANDING IS NOT JUST PACKAGING
It’s time I talk about this.
Some people think that personal branding is just all about ‘packaging’
While ‘packaging’ may be important there is however much more to personal branding than that.
Personal Branding is all about promoting yourself.
Promoting what you have inside you for the world to see.
It could be your skills, knowledge, passion or story.
It’s all about telling the world about you and why they should listen to you
If you have nothing which is highly impossible
You have no business promoting yourself because you can’t give what you don’t have.
You can say personal branding is all about:
– Being the part
– Looking the part
Sadly a lot of people think Personal Branding is just about the second.
It’s true a lot of people have positioned themselves to ‘look the part’ when they are not the part.
This is just like seeing a beautifully designed product with nothing inside.
Nobody is telling you not to ‘Package‘ yourself well after all this is very important to attract people to you.
But beyond packaging make sure you are who you say you are.
Don’t use those beautiful pictures, stunning websites, copied content etc to deceive us.
Work more on being that person of immense value and communicating that value.
This is what personal branding is all about
Again I warn,
Don’t promise to give us ‘Honey’ only to give us ‘Bitter Kola’ when we come
If not you will chew it on our behalf.
As being done with that aspect, we will consider another stuff related closely to the previous one
Love matters considering relationship issues .
Understanding what one is into and clearing the negative mindset.
SEX, LOVE AND VIRGINITY!!!


A lot of girls complain that guys walk away from them simply
Because,they refused giving them sex,some are even tempted to give away their virginity just to keep the guys
– Let_me_be_very_blunt_here…
Virginity may not be the real reason why the guys go away, yes, no doubt,
There are several guys who want sex, and if they don’t get it, they walk away…�
The problem may not be the virginity or the sex…
The story of the Ten virgins in the Bible reveals that both the wise and the foolish were virgins;
The other Five were not allowed seeing the bridegroom
Not because they were virgins or because they lost their virginity…
NO! But because they were foolish and they were called foolish because they had no EXTRA_OIL .
And the EXTRA OIL here is CHARACTER!
Most girls do not have extra oil to sustain any relationship,
while many brag about their virginity, that’s all they have to offer.
Aside your virginity, what do you have to offer to a man?
– Can you support him spiritually?
– Can you support him physically?
– How about mentally?
He who never thinks , can never be wise – sparkyflux
All you do is demand money for bag , shoes, clothes , and outing, making him spend unnecessarily.
Have you ever sit him down, and you help him plan about his future?
Has he ever seen you as someone he can confide in?
How many times has he come being in a state of dilemma seeking advice from you?
Rather than jumping from one club to another.
And for the virgins, they forget that virginity ends after the wedding, but EXTRA OIL continues…
Yes… Nobody is perfect…
We all have our bad sides..
BUT…
Try to be a woman that a man will always regret losing for the rest of his life…
Be that woman that your man can never afford to lose to another man .
Build your man to your taste…
And stop looking for a ready made husband .
* Force yourself on that rich dude that you didn’t work with to achieve what he has…,
And hear the story of your life from him one day .
– Did You Work With me to achieve all I’ve got?
– Ever since you’ve entered this house… What has added to what you met?
* Note:


– There’s just nothing as best as building up your man yourself.
– And you will forever earn his respect .
I hope this piece of advice is useful to all singles and married?


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