i got this story off a friend and i wud describe it in the first person mode.


My name is bola, i am married with a 2 years old daughter, i am a staff nurse at a hospital in central london, i am tired of my husband, he irritates me now, i think i shd simply send him back to Nigeria.

I'm 33 and my husband Hassan is 42, i have realized now he is too too old for me. i dont like him any more but i have no doubt he loves me, luvs me so so much. His absolute love for me is killing me, making it very difficult for me to take the step i want to. jettison him.

I am so confused. i have been to counselling and was advised to leave him if it has gotten to the stage it is now. i just want to hurt him. But he has done nothing to me. He left his full time job at Tesco to take care of the baby since i earned more, he does everything in the house, takes care of the baby, does the dishes , the cooking and laundry, and still work at kfc part time now and again - mostly on Sunday night and Tuesday nights.   

The first time i cheated on him i felt so guilty and saddened that i told him. He cried, and cried, he never shouted or rained abuses on me, he didn't fight me or threaten to leave me, he simply cried. Strangely, the more he cried the better i felt. its crazy but i became really excited.

since then i have done everything i know i cud do to make him cry. really , not to hurt him but to have him cry and beg me.

Now, his Visa is expiring  and he wud have to be on mine- HSMP, i don't know, but i feel like send him back to Nigeria but im confused.

please what shd i do ?

Kaaaaiiii --- women are wicked ooo.

Who will assist her with the child, if she were to send him back ? Won't she miss having a companion ?

Nigeria is a hopeless country -- IMHO, I say she tell him to pack out of her house and he can find his way. If he doesn't like that, then she can send him back, this is a tough one.

My point is tht she can still help him with the visa but asking him for separation, so she can get her "FREAK" on, without causing him to go back to hopelessness.

When all the London boys are done boning her, she can come back to tell her story. I feel soory for both parties involved.

Why did he leave his full time job ? Looks like she's no longer attracted to him because he's not the provider ---- I mean, why he is he not working full time ?

just like a puppy that was nice and cute at the store, the minute it grows to a big dog, you simply discard it.
nonsense women with heavy self esteem issues.
now she realise he is too old but he was as old the first time they met, duh!

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Ahaha --- cc, funny! Sounds like ojukokoro woman. But it looks like she also resents him because he's not the main provider, he doesn't have a "full-time" job.

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Whaaaaat?

Wharris this 'Family Section' turning into?
There should be a mandatory law passed for psychogical tests carried out as a PREREQUISITE before ANY one gets married in this world from now on.

i have cheated on him. i felt so guilty and saddened that i told him. He cried, and cried, he never shouted or rained abuses on me, he didn't fight me or threaten to leave me, he simply cried. Strangely, the more he cried the more i felt better. its crazy but i began really excited

Just imagine the kon-kon-bi-ri-ty!
     

This must have been a 'battered' woman in her previous life I swear.

please what shd i do ? 

     

Not even gonna touch this one.

Mtchewwwwwwwwwwwwww!!!

Psycho!

chaircover:

Please she should send him back to Nigeria ASAP so that someone else can have him. Infact I don't mind paying for the ticket back.

I have many many friends, aburos, egbons, aunty's, colleagues, acquaintances, neighbours etc name it I have them who are looking for good decent men to marry.

Shebi his only crime is that he is too old at 42. . . . .  We will/can live with that.

Pls link me up fast fast before JK and BB start sniffing in here.  

Hmmm, he owns the franchise of KFC he works for and is the General Area Manager of all the Tesco's in central London. Me likey Jennykadry, back off, I saw him first What God has joined to BB let no Jenny or Tpiah put assunder

Blazay:

Wharris this 'Family Section' turning into?
There should be a mandatory law passed for psychogical tests carried out before ANY one gets married in this world.

life!

chaircover:

she should go and sit down and let us hear word. As a nurse who most likely works shifts, she will be paying an arm and a leg for childcare as she works unsocial hours.

The husband is worth his weight in gold

Let her send him back to Nigeria and she will see how much she has left from her nursing wages after she has paid childminders round the clock and she comes home after night duty to do her own vacumming and cook her own food with a screaming baby on one shoulder.

I know --- leaving her child with a stranger, who could potentially harm the child and the house down ----- people sha, never satisfied. Many women looking for men to help support, her she is opening her legs all over london --- for small boyz

A walking dead woman, WOMAN, born to be devil advocate

Now You see the limit these Nigerian nurses abroad can push their husbands.If the man suddenly react violently and it leads to something tragic like death,people will start talking.Turning your husband into a house boy,yet not satisfied you cheated on him and had the effontery to tell him.And now you are thinking of sending him broke ass back to Nigeria,because you think he is too old for your 35years old body.

What do women want?
I bet this woman would call the cops without bathing an eyelid if this man was beating her up. She would have also come here to complain that he was earning peanuts and yet would not help with the housework. Nigerian men this, Nigerian men that. It is pathetic.
Ihe onye metara, O si na mmadu mere ya.

macjive01:

i got this story off a friend and i wud describe it in the first person mode.


My name is bola, i am married with a 2 years old daughter, i am a staff nurse at a hospital in central london, i am tired of my husband, he irritates me now, i think i shd simply send him back to Nigeria.

I'm 33 and my husband Hassan is 42, i have realized now he is too too old for me. i dont like him any more but i have no doubt he loves me, luvs me so so much. His absolute love for me is killing me, making it very difficult for me to take the step i want to. jettison him.

I am so confused. i have been to counselling and was advised to leave him if it has gotten to the stage it is now. i just want to hurt him. But he has done nothing to me. He left his full time job at Tesco to take care of the baby since i earned more, he does everything in the house, takes care of the baby, does the dishes , the cooking and laundry, and still work at kfc part time now and again - mostly on Sunday night and Tuesday nights.   

The first time i cheated on him i felt so guilty and saddened that i told him. He cried, and cried, he never shouted or rained abuses on me, he didn't fight me or threaten to leave me, he simply cried. Strangely, the more he cried the better i felt. its crazy but i became really excited.

since then i have done everything i know i cud do to make him cry. really , not to hurt him but to have him cry and beg me.

Now, his Visa is expiring  and he wud have to be on mine- HSMP, i don't know, but i feel like send him back to Nigeria but im confused.

please what shd i do ?       

If this poster is telling the truth which i kinda doubt, then she should be ashamed of herself. If making your husband cry gets your P*ssy wet then you need a psychiatric help. It is women like you that makes some men think it alright to maltreat women.

macjive01:

i got this story off a friend and i wud describe it in the first person mode.


My name is bola, i am married with a 2 years old daughter, i am a staff nurse at a hospital in central london, i am tired of my husband, he irritates me now, i think i shd simply send him back to Nigeria.

I'm 33 and my husband Hassan is 42, i have realized now he is too too old for me. i dont like him any more but i have no doubt he loves me, luvs me so so much. His absolute love for me is killing me, making it very difficult for me to take the step i want to. jettison him.

I am so confused. i have been to counselling and was advised to leave him if it has gotten to the stage it is now. i just want to hurt him. But he has done nothing to me. He left his full time job at Tesco to take care of the baby since i earned more, he does everything in the house, takes care of the baby, does the dishes , the cooking and laundry, and still work at kfc part time now and again - mostly on Sunday night and Tuesday nights.   

The first time i cheated on him i felt so guilty and saddened that i told him. He cried, and cried, he never shouted or rained abuses on me, he didn't fight me or threaten to leave me, he simply cried. Strangely, the more he cried the better i felt. its crazy but i became really excited.

since then i have done everything i know i cud do to make him cry. really , not to hurt him but to have him cry and beg me.

Now, his Visa is expiring  and he wud have to be on mine- HSMP, i don't know, but i feel like send him back to Nigeria but im confused.

please what shd i do ?       

She never loved the man,she married him for selfish reasons best known to her.
When u don't love someone and he/she is suffocating you with love,the next step is to feel really pissed and disgusted.
Why is the man wasting his time with this lady,why save up all ur love for someone that is not and wud not reciprocate and appreciate it ? While the lady is doing everything she can to make the man leave the man is going to extremes to make her love him.
Does this man have people sef?I hope he does not get tired and fed up one day and commit suicide or homicide
Someone close to him shld help knock him back to senses.

macjive01:

i got this story off a friend and i wud describe it in the first person mode.


My name is bola, i am married with a 2 years old daughter, i am a staff nurse at a hospital in central london, i am tired of my husband, he irritates me now, i think i shd simply send him back to Nigeria.

I'm 33 and my husband Hassan is 42, i have realized now he is too too old for me. i dont like him any more but i have no doubt he loves me, luvs me so so much. His absolute love for me is killing me, making it very difficult for me to take the step i want to. jettison him.

I am so confused. i have been to counselling and was advised to leave him if it has gotten to the stage it is now. i just want to hurt him. But he has done nothing to me. He left his full time job at Tesco to take care of the baby since i earned more, he does everything in the house, takes care of the baby, does the dishes , the cooking and laundry, and still work at kfc part time now and again - mostly on Sunday night and Tuesday nights.   

The first time i cheated on him i felt so guilty and saddened that i told him. He cried, and cried, he never shouted or rained abuses on me, he didn't fight me or threaten to leave me, he simply cried. Strangely, the more he cried the better i felt. its crazy but i became really excited.

since then i have done everything i know i cud do to make him cry. really , not to hurt him but to have him cry and beg me.

Now, his Visa is expiring  and he wud have to be on mine- HSMP, i don't know, but i feel like send him back to Nigeria but im confused.

please what shd i do ?       

DEVIL INCARNATE,  GOD PASS YOU

Now i realize that( who brought you up can easily bring you down)
I wish the victim knows who you are,

I'm afraid if the child belongs to this man, african woman with their bas.tar.d kids.

Person wey get cap no get head. Person wey get head no get cap. Thank God y daddy' didn't raise a fool.

Advice to the woman:
I dont support cheating but since thats what you doing. Best is to keep doing it andkeep your marriage but dont tell him. COntinue underG

she doesnt need help if she doesnt love him anymore divorce him simple as but since she is being irritated it roughly mean she still loves him though she might be influenced by freedom of west now she thinks hubby is too old etc

many woman worry to have a husband like your who help with house chores etc

We see it here in black and white but.
How many of our brothers and sisters are going through the same just because they do not have valid papers.

Na wa!some one has a good husband and isnt satisfied!!!You can never please people o!!

its such stories that put men off marrying.

This is One reason i will always regard C. RONALDO as the best decision maker in the world.

if you don`t know then Read about his wife and Baby and see how smart the guy can be.

poster, like Jesus said to the woman with 5 husbands (it seems that's the path you want to be on if care is not taken),

10 Jesus answered her, “If you knew the gift of God and who it is that asks you for a drink, you would have asked him and he would have given you living water.”

11 “Sir,” the woman said, “you have nothing to draw with and the well is deep. Where can you get this living water? 12 Are you greater than our father Jacob, who gave us the well and drank from it himself, as did also his sons and his livestock?”

13 Jesus answered, “Everyone who drinks this water will be thirsty again, 14 but whoever drinks the water I give them will never thirst. Indeed, the water I give them will become in them a spring of water welling up to eternal life.”

15 The woman said to him, “Sir, give me this water so that I won’t get thirsty and have to keep coming here to draw water.”

john 4



May God guide you.

Wow she quotes the bible. . .nice

^^you're new to the forum?

What a mixture! I never knew you were a pastor

^^a mixture of what.

I've always been a pastor.

btw, what's bringing you to my side? Hope you no miss road?

just asking.

tpiah!:

^^a mixture of what.

I've always been a pastor.

btw, what's bringing you to my side? Hope you no miss road?

just asking.

A mixture of unsolicited aggression and Bible.
Are you excited? Just asking. .

^no, I'm not.

i just do not like windups, that's all.

na my own I dey jejely.

that's why I asked if you accidentally replied my post or something.

you might have been headed somewhere else.

When did you repent?