Ageing gracefully, in her forties and divorced. I've always suspected that she's attracted to me but this neighbour of mine with grown-up children has finally invited me to spend a night with her. What do I do?

Are you attracted to her? How old are her grown up children?

idk , wat do u want to do ?

[b]wonders shall never end , sleep with her for the night or marry her, Which one,
 If na marry, No palaver,but u go fit??Eh!  Sleep with her risky deal,dont allow the ghost of the late to hunt u and u put a curse on ur head, There are some places our d**k shuld not think of venturing , Get it.[/b]

She has a 27yr old married woman, a 24yr old boy those are all I know of. Yes she's very hot and classy not to mention comfortable. She says everyone in her house will be travelling for a burial on friday and she's isnt accompanying them. She says I shouldnt be scared that she is not interested in marrying me. That she has never begged a younger man for sex but cant help it.

oh boy!!! if U feel say ur mind carry am!, carry go!!! but be ready to face them if there are any consequences. Looks like she's only asking for a one-night stand and maybe she heard gists about how 'huge' u are and how much satisfaction u give, If na me sha, i go run!!!

Yes she's very hot and classy not to mention comfortable.

do i sense materialism in that? abeg no chop wetin go kill u o!!!

@ nimi-k
wat do u mean she is comfortable?
well ur both adults, do u like her? remember that she is ur neighbour, if things go wrong u will be seeing her nearly everyday.

Try and be very careful, It really a risky deal, If i were u ,i go run o,

nawwww I don't need her money I mentioned it to clear any thought of her doing it to support her family or anything like that. Well I give good head. And come to think of it she knows my girl. I hope its not a set-up. Naww she's too mature for that. As you can figure I'm a bit tempted but can't sustain it if she gets carried away.

she knows ur girl

Yes she does, my gf admires her a lot, cos shes independent and can hold her own anywhere. She'll be shocked to hear this. I couldnt sleep yesterday when she told me. She knows she's hot. Kept sayign 'I've never begged for a man's company, I cant get it if I wanted, but I want you'. Scopping

that is why men disgust me.
U have a girlfriend yet u come here asking if u should sleep with another women.

Dont be disgusted Bluesky. How old are you? You must be open-minded ok. I aint a saint and thank God this forum isnt for saints only. I'm trying to be honest with my feelings and there you go scolding me. I have a gf and not a wife.

ok im sorry, i seem to be offending a lot of people today, wat right have i to judge.
But dont u think it is unfair to ur girlfriend if u cheat on her, r u in a serious relationship? Dont give in to the temptation. It might be a trick.

Now your talking. Thanks

@ nimi-k
Oooops, I didn't realise you had a girlfriend, and even worse, she knows this lady! Well I definitely don't think it's a good idea! It seems to me it's only for sex, don't you get that from your girl I think you're playing with fire, and you know what they say . . . . . . . . . if you play with fire, you'll get burned!

This is a very great temptation b4 u.A very great one indeed,because ur c**k wl be itching by now,bt there is a lot of danger in doing this.Think of the ages of children,matured enof to set u up if they get to know about it.If u know how to play ur card then no problem.But WATCH OUT MY BROTHER! 'Awufu dey run bele'

I consider that to be a sugar mummy oooooooooooooooooooooooooo

so many guys on this nairaland do this thing, yet they come here pretending to be saints.

nimi my brother.
all i can say is go on if u have a good reason for doing it. afterall its in the blood of Rivers State guys, u no borrow am at all. and make sure its just one nite. make the whole thing no carry the lady head she begin think of marriage. and most importantly, use a CONDOM.

If you find her attractive and she is single and available then why not?

But then think about it if its soemthing you can handle cause you may be a bit insecure about the whole idea.

If you arent digging the whole idea then dont do it.

@nimi-k

Don't give into temptation!

How would you like it if you found out your girlfriend had done the same.

As the saying goes,

Treat people the way you want to be treat.

nosillA xx

My feelings told me a second ago that this is not right, t'may be a set up, and something i forgot to say, After yawa gas, you'll lose something precious like your girl. Bet that with me. Hold on, show your love to your girl by staying away from the old woman Ok?

Very important, valid and helpful perspectives to my situation. Well I dont know if its in my blood to sleep-around but ladies no man wouldnt be tempted. I particularly like the talk of her children being old enough to set me up _{with militants} .It would have been funny if it wasnt possible. My solution right now is to avoid her since she's expecting an answer. My greatest fear is that she doesnt get carried away and says we should do regularly, I would love the adventure but definetely not the commitment. Wow I didnt think I would be able to turn down such a mouth-watering proposition. Things we do for our Girl friends

well reading thru yours', one can see that you are seriously contemplating this move.
you seem to have a head on your shoulders, so this would be a good time to use it.
if you feel you can handle this without complicating things between your girl, then i will say go on,
but ultimately, its' really not about what ever advice you get here, if you mean to do this, no-one can stop you,
its your call man, and its your life.

child abuss

ice234:

child abuss

He said 15 years Older not 15 years Old

nimi-k:

nawwww I don't need her money I mentioned it to clear any thought of her doing it to support her family or anything like that. Well I give good head. And come to think of it she knows my girl. I hope its not a set-up. Naww she's too mature for that. As you can figure I'm a bit tempted but can't sustain it if she gets carried away.

Thought that line is predominantly used for women doing the nasty on guys. Or am I wrong and u truly give head? Any ways bruh I gat one rule, Keep away from neighbors and co-workers, It backfires. I am speaking from experience.

And what do you want to do with that loose poonani? You just nasty

190 i digged the sorry from NL trash. trust me

didnt know 15 yrs doesnt mean she was 15. sorry girl