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Re: Ruling On Shaking Hands With The Opposite Sex by Alennsar(f): 10:46am On Nov 13, 2020
Charleys:


Is he no longer the Custodian of the Two Holy Mosques?
Allah subhana uwa tahala is the custodian of the whole world not a powerless human being. Did you hear

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Re: Ruling On Shaking Hands With The Opposite Sex by segebase(m): 10:46am On Nov 13, 2020
Do you mean by doing this ...some one will not enter heaven ....u guys are brainwashed ...have been to Arab countries and seen good things there ...dunno the Allah that exist in Africa

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Re: Ruling On Shaking Hands With The Opposite Sex by Akpan107(m): 10:46am On Nov 13, 2020
AntiChristian:
May Allah let us see the truth and give us the strength to follow it. O Allah show us falsehood and Grant us the istiqama to avoid it.
What's the ruling on having SEX with a lady you are not married to?

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Re: Ruling On Shaking Hands With The Opposite Sex by lastempero: 10:47am On Nov 13, 2020
Alennsar:

Al-saud did not bring the religion to us but Prophet Muhammad (saw) did and he never strayed but wait a minute, how does my not shaking hands with opposite sex your problem? Why are you all crying more than the bereaved?

Because from my investigation, this is the main problem of Nigeria.

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Re: Ruling On Shaking Hands With The Opposite Sex by peppermint7(m): 10:48am On Nov 13, 2020
Bastards. I took the oath just to come here to tell you all that y’all fools. You pple can’t rule on underage marriage, rape bombings and jihad.
Y’all pussies. Ona papa. Keep fooling yourselves.

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Re: Ruling On Shaking Hands With The Opposite Sex by Charleys: 10:49am On Nov 13, 2020
Alennsar:

Allah subhana uwa tahala is the custodian of the whole world not a powerless human being. Did you hear

Lolz

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Re: Ruling On Shaking Hands With The Opposite Sex by mdchikezie(m): 10:50am On Nov 13, 2020
Alennsar:

Birds of the same feathers. You just describe yourself accurately.
Intolerant and haughty. You don't have any manners at all.

WHAT A CLUELESS WRITEUP

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Re: Ruling On Shaking Hands With The Opposite Sex by kogi2010: 10:50am On Nov 13, 2020
Barka00:
Hypocrisy go kill una
is that why u swear an oath just to comment dis rubbish?
Re: Ruling On Shaking Hands With The Opposite Sex by Alennsar(f): 10:51am On Nov 13, 2020
lastempero:


Because from my investigation, this is the main problem of Nigeria.

Really? If that's the case then I can can assure you that your problems will remain till eternity because you can only know peace when you learn to live and let others live as well.

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Re: Ruling On Shaking Hands With The Opposite Sex by abdulizom(m): 10:53am On Nov 13, 2020
Thank God Almighty for the beauty of Al-Islam, may Allah give us strength to follow is commandments.
Jazakumullahu khairan

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Re: Ruling On Shaking Hands With The Opposite Sex by rehi123: 10:55am On Nov 13, 2020
this is a big opportunity for you all because it free

Re: Ruling On Shaking Hands With The Opposite Sex by Mccullum: 10:55am On Nov 13, 2020
DennisEche:
AHA, ITS FRIDAY LET ME GRAB MY POP CORN AND MAT TO LISTEN, SOMEONE HELP ME WITH THE SAUDI KING HANDSHAKE WITH MERKEL. WAHALA IF YOU BE POOR HEADSLAMMER

It is very wrong to be hurting religious feelings of people, may God guide you to the right path.

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Re: Ruling On Shaking Hands With The Opposite Sex by Alennsar(f): 11:03am On Nov 13, 2020
Akpan107:
What's the ruling on having SEX with a lady you are not married to?
Any man who has a slave has free access to the slave and not only during the time of Muhammad (saw). The Prophet Abraham was one of the examples who had children from their slave.
Prophet Jacob the father of Prophet Joseph had two children each from his wives slaves. So God permitted that even the olden days tradition too. You can read about slave and the right of their owners.

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Re: Ruling On Shaking Hands With The Opposite Sex by Amumaigwe: 11:07am On Nov 13, 2020
Realismailakabir:

Is it allowable for a muslim woman to greet a muslim man by shaking hands?

Answer

Praise be to Allah.

For a man to shake hands with a non-mahram woman (one to whom he is not related) is haraam and is not permitted at all. Among the evidence for this is the hadeeth of Ma’qal ibn Yassaar (may Allaah be pleased with him) who said: “The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: ‘If one of you were to be struck in the head with an iron needle, it would be better for him than if he were to touch a woman he is not allowed to.”

(Reported by al-Tabaraani; classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Jaami’, 5045).

There is no doubt that for a man to touch a non-mahram woman is one of the causes of fitnah (turmoil, temptation), provocation of desire and committing haraam deeds. No one should say that their intention is sound or their heart is clean, because the one who was the purest of heart and the most chaste of all, the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) never touched a non-mahram woman, even when accepting bay’ah (oath of allegiance) from women. He did not hold their hands when accepting their bay’ah, as he did with men; their bay’ah was by words only, as was reported by his wife ‘Aa’ishah (may Allaah be pleased with her). She said that the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) would test the believing women who emigrated to him with the aayah (interpretation of the meaning): “O Prophet! When believeing women come to you to give you the bay’ah (pledge), that they will not associate anything in worship with Allaah, that they will not steal, that they will not commit illegal sexual intercourse, that they will not kill their children, that they will not utter slander, intentionally forging falsehood (i.e., by making illegal children belong to their husbands), and that they will not disobey you in any ma’ruf (Islamic monotheism and all that which Islam ordains), then accept their bay’ah and ask Allaah to forgive them. Verily Allaah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.” [al-Mumtahinah 60:12] ‘Aa’ishah said: “So whoever of the believing women agreed to these conditions, the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) would say to her: ‘I have accepted your bay’ah by words.’ By Allaah, his hand never touched the hand of any woman when accepting their bay’ah (Oath of allegiance) he accepted their bay’ah by saying ‘I have accepted your bay’ah on this basis.’”

(Reported by al-Bukhaari, 4512; according to another report: he accepted their bay’ah by words… the hand of the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) never touched the hand of any woman except a woman he owned . Reported by al-Bukhaari, 6674).

Some Muslims feel too embarrassed to refuse when a woman offers her hand to them. In addition to mixing with women, some of them claim that they are forced to shake hands with fellow-students and teachers in schools and universities, or with colleagues in the workplace, or in business meetings and so on, but this is not an acceptable excuse. The Muslim should overcome his own feelings and the promptings of the Shaytaan, and be strong in his faith, because Allaah is not ashamed of the truth. The Muslim could apologize politely and explain that the reason he does not want to shake hands is not to offend or hurt anybody’s feelings, but it is because he is following the teachings of his religion. In most cases this will earn him respect from others. There is no harm done if they find it strange at first, and it may even be a practical opportunity for da’wah. And Allaah knows best.

https://islamqa.info/en/answers/2459/ruling-on-shaking-hands-with-the-opposite-sex

Send this piece to Mohammed Salman of Saudi Arabia. He needs to update his knowledge on this latest revelation from Allah.

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Re: Ruling On Shaking Hands With The Opposite Sex by adams123: 11:17am On Nov 13, 2020
lastempero:
Una oga kpatapkata for saudi never apologise after shaking hands with the german chancellor, i mean the people that brought this religion to u guys,

I bessech you to see beyond your nose.me as a Christian no be all my pastor tell me i dey take .

WE MUSLIMS don't follow Saudi king neither following imams blindly but we follow the Qur'an and the saying of our prophet. U guys need to learn about ISLAM ooo... The issue of judgement day is not a joke .. I'm warning you o. Stop insulting and think about this religion that has over 1.8billion followers worldwide

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Re: Ruling On Shaking Hands With The Opposite Sex by femi4: 11:18am On Nov 13, 2020
Ola260:
It's not a must to come comment here. It's Islam ruling and not Christianity's. So it shouldn't affect u Christians
Funny how you believe every non Muslim comments here are from Christians

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Re: Ruling On Shaking Hands With The Opposite Sex by femi4: 11:20am On Nov 13, 2020
adams123:


WE MUSLIMS don't follow Saudi king neither following imams blindly but we follow the Qur'an and the saying of our prophet. U guys need to learn about ISLAM ooo... The issue of judgement day is not a joke .. I'm warning you o. Stop insulting and think about this religion that has over 1.8billion followers worldwide
Are you more Muslim than Saudi King? Unfortunately, you cannot separate culture from religion

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Re: Ruling On Shaking Hands With The Opposite Sex by Akpan107(m): 11:20am On Nov 13, 2020
Alennsar:

Any man who has a slave has free access to the slave and not only during the time of Muhammad (saw). The Prophet Abraham was one of the examples who had children from their slave.
Prophet Jacob the father of Prophet Joseph had two children each from his wives slaves. So God permitted that even the olden days tradition too. You can read about slave and the right of their owners.
Why will having hand shakes with females a problem, but having SEX with them a normal thing?

And provide evidence of where Jacob gave his children women to have sex with, without first marrying as wives!

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Re: Ruling On Shaking Hands With The Opposite Sex by Turantula(m): 11:22am On Nov 13, 2020
Aha!

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Re: Ruling On Shaking Hands With The Opposite Sex by Oketwin(m): 11:24am On Nov 13, 2020
Abdunzhaleel:
That question isn't as important as you saving your Ass from hell by accepting the religion all prophets including jesus practiced.
hip hip hip hypocrites

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Re: Ruling On Shaking Hands With The Opposite Sex by adams123: 11:38am On Nov 13, 2020
femi4:
Are you more Muslim than Saudi King? Unfortunately, you cannot separate culture from religion

I can't judge anyone. But I try hard to follow the teachings of my religion. what do you meant by "I cannot separate culture from religion? I'm advising you again, just drop your ego and seek for a rightful Islamic knowledge. I do study Christianity to enable me know the truth, you should all try to so because the journey ahead is tough.

HELL FOREVER, PARADISE FOREVER! THIS IS THE ISSUE THAT REQUIRES BOTH MUSLIMS AND CHRISTIANS TO DIALOGUE PEACEFULLY TO ENABLE US KNOW THE TRUTH & FOLLOW, MAY BE WE WOULD BE REWARDED WITH PARADISE. WHY HATING ONE ANOTHER, WHY INSULTING ONE ANOTHER?? YOU HAVE BEING WITNESSING PEOPLE THAT HAVE BEING DYING AND IF U DIED U HAVE GONE FOREVER.

PLZ, LET'S DIALOGUE TODAY & STOP HATRED!

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Re: Ruling On Shaking Hands With The Opposite Sex by lastempero: 11:43am On Nov 13, 2020
adams123:


WE MUSLIMS don't follow Saudi king neither following imams blindly but we follow the Qur'an and the saying of our prophet. U guys need to learn about ISLAM ooo... The issue of judgement day is not a joke .. I'm warning you o. Stop insulting and think about this religion that has over 1.8billion followers worldwide

Go sit down for gutter mugu!!! I go first cut ur prick if u try that nomsense with me.

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Re: Ruling On Shaking Hands With The Opposite Sex by Takuruku4: 11:44am On Nov 13, 2020
Jaapu:

You are a disgrace to Christianity
REPEAT AFTER ME...
JESUS IS LORD. JESUS IS THE ONLY WAY.. HE'S THE ONLY SON OF GOD.

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Re: Ruling On Shaking Hands With The Opposite Sex by lastempero: 11:44am On Nov 13, 2020
Alennsar:


Really? If that's the case then I can can assure you that your problems will remain till eternity because you can only know peace when you learn to live and let others live as well.

When una no want make we drink our beer rest yet u people still collect and share tax from the same haram

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Re: Ruling On Shaking Hands With The Opposite Sex by Takuruku4: 11:48am On Nov 13, 2020
Alennsar:

Any man who has a slave has free access to the slave and not only during the time of Muhammad (saw). The Prophet Abraham was one of the examples who had children from their slave.
Prophet Jacob the father of Prophet Joseph had two children each from his wives slaves. So God permitted that even the olden days tradition too. You can read about slave and the right of their owners.
And yet he was busy fuccking minors...

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Re: Ruling On Shaking Hands With The Opposite Sex by adams123: 11:52am On Nov 13, 2020
lastempero:


Go sit down for gutter mugu!!! I go first cut ur prick if u try that nomsense with me.

Are you ok? if yes, thank you!
Re: Ruling On Shaking Hands With The Opposite Sex by womenareapes: 11:59am On Nov 13, 2020
Realismailakabir:

Is it allowable for a muslim woman to greet a muslim man by shaking hands?

Answer

Praise be to Allah.

For a man to shake hands with a non-mahram woman (one to whom he is not related) is haraam and is not permitted at all. Among the evidence for this is the hadeeth of Ma’qal ibn Yassaar (may Allaah be pleased with him) who said: “The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: ‘If one of you were to be struck in the head with an iron needle, it would be better for him than if he were to touch a woman he is not allowed to.”

(Reported by al-Tabaraani; classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Jaami’, 5045).

There is no doubt that for a man to touch a non-mahram woman is one of the causes of fitnah (turmoil, temptation), provocation of desire and committing haraam deeds. No one should say that their intention is sound or their heart is clean, because the one who was the purest of heart and the most chaste of all, the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) never touched a non-mahram woman, even when accepting bay’ah (oath of allegiance) from women. He did not hold their hands when accepting their bay’ah, as he did with men; their bay’ah was by words only, as was reported by his wife ‘Aa’ishah (may Allaah be pleased with her). She said that the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) would test the believing women who emigrated to him with the aayah (interpretation of the meaning): “O Prophet! When believeing women come to you to give you the bay’ah (pledge), that they will not associate anything in worship with Allaah, that they will not steal, that they will not commit illegal sexual intercourse, that they will not kill their children, that they will not utter slander, intentionally forging falsehood (i.e., by making illegal children belong to their husbands), and that they will not disobey you in any ma’ruf (Islamic monotheism and all that which Islam ordains), then accept their bay’ah and ask Allaah to forgive them. Verily Allaah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.” [al-Mumtahinah 60:12] ‘Aa’ishah said: “So whoever of the believing women agreed to these conditions, the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) would say to her: ‘I have accepted your bay’ah by words.’ By Allaah, his hand never touched the hand of any woman when accepting their bay’ah (Oath of allegiance) he accepted their bay’ah by saying ‘I have accepted your bay’ah on this basis.’”

(Reported by al-Bukhaari, 4512; according to another report: he accepted their bay’ah by words… the hand of the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) never touched the hand of any woman except a woman he owned . Reported by al-Bukhaari, 6674).

Some Muslims feel too embarrassed to refuse when a woman offers her hand to them. In addition to mixing with women, some of them claim that they are forced to shake hands with fellow-students and teachers in schools and universities, or with colleagues in the workplace, or in business meetings and so on, but this is not an acceptable excuse. The Muslim should overcome his own feelings and the promptings of the Shaytaan, and be strong in his faith, because Allaah is not ashamed of the truth. The Muslim could apologize politely and explain that the reason he does not want to shake hands is not to offend or hurt anybody’s feelings, but it is because he is following the teachings of his religion. In most cases this will earn him respect from others. There is no harm done if they find it strange at first, and it may even be a practical opportunity for da’wah. And Allaah knows best.

https://islamqa.info/en/answers/2459/ruling-on-shaking-hands-with-the-opposite-sex
but no ruling of sleeping with child in Islam? undecided

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Re: Ruling On Shaking Hands With The Opposite Sex by Alennsar(f): 12:01pm On Nov 13, 2020
lastempero:


When una no want make we drink our beer rest yet u people still collect and share tax from the same haram
As much as Islam is against consumption of alcohol, it has not given anyone the right to harass those taking it instead it encourages us to tell them about the adverse effects of taking alcohol in a polite way. But the kano government is the one doing that not all Muslims.

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Re: Ruling On Shaking Hands With The Opposite Sex by Alennsar(f): 12:04pm On Nov 13, 2020
Takuruku4:
And yet he was busy fuccking minors...
How please? Because for every reasonable question there is an answer.
Re: Ruling On Shaking Hands With The Opposite Sex by Akfrenzy(m): 12:14pm On Nov 13, 2020
grin hypocrisy association AKA religion of piss , they destroy beer crates but can kill if u put a stop from them benefiting from beer tax , their abolition kettle is filled with beer always , they ELITES shakes hand with any woman they want ,even knack kpekus while the poor ones ar busy claiming over righteous and once you try to let them understand where their elites has gone wrong booom one imam will press their mumu button ,they'll pick up arm and attack and justify the act of their so called elites that are impoverishing them

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Re: Ruling On Shaking Hands With The Opposite Sex by Midas01: 12:16pm On Nov 13, 2020
Pls keep quiet....That Allah accepted that doesn't mean our God did. Our God will never lower his standards to suite a randy false prophet that can't control his urges.

The christian God in the bible only permitted sex between a man and his wife. In the case of slaves God admonished unmarried men who captured slave girls to marry them properly and treat them like they should rightly treat a wife.

In the case of Abraham, God never permitted him to bed Hagar... That was the beginning of her doom as God was unhappy about it and sent the woman and his child away.

Alennsar:

Any man who has a slave has free access to the slave and not only during the time of Muhammad (saw). The Prophet Abraham was one of the examples who had children from their slave.
Prophet Jacob the father of Prophet Joseph had two children each from his wives slaves. So God permitted that even the olden days tradition too. You can read about slave and the right of their owners.

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