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Did I OverReact by OkoNDOoBo: 3:42pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
I' called it off with my Gf because she allows her male friends to disrespect me and our relationship. she is fond of having naughty chat with them and calling her love names.I confronted her and she said their is nothing too serious with them. told her wasnt comfortable with it , that she should set boundaries ,chat with them normal like friends and let them know i'm no longer comfortable with the nature of their chats, her response was she can't do that. maybe others doesn't care but i'm not comfortable with it. because i found it disrespectful for a lady in serious relationship and still be having naughty chat with other guys. i' have complained several times but all fell in deaf ears, her defense always is that i'm insecure.i guess her loyalty lies is to naughty chats with her male friends, this leave me no option than to part ways with her. i hope my reaction is not overboard. 2 Likes |
Re: Did I OverReact by schoolboymatt(m): 3:54pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
you did the right thing.
trust me. 13 Likes |
Re: Did I OverReact by InfernoNig: 3:56pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
Good thing you called it off. It goes down in the DM, before you know it, you are sharing her with them, that's if it's not happening already or has been happening. No Jonzing 10 Likes |
Re: Did I OverReact by Sundrus: 3:59pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
Naughty chats to nude sharing...from nude sharing to the real deal. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Did I OverReact by Nobody: 4:03pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
OkoNDOoBo:Oga, Stop Complaining. 4rm Ur Post, It's Obvious Dat Ur Relationship With Her Is Very Boring. There Is Probably No Fun In Ur Relationship. If U Don't Make Ur Relationship With Her Lively, Her Chance Of Being With U Is 2%. She Will Dump U. 1 Like |
Re: Did I OverReact by OkoNDOoBo: 4:12pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
Truvel:boring ke We talk on phone average of 3 hours per day.she is not even far away from me. We meet at least 4/5 times a week. My problem with her is not setting boundaries with her male friends probably because he gets financial benefits from them. Besides I have part ways with her. If simps like you tolerate your gfs having naughty chats with their males friends I cant. 6 Likes |
Re: Did I OverReact by paschalj4(m): 4:15pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
Op you made the right decision by ending your relationship with her, no need to feel so bad or regret your decision, trust me if i were in shoes i will do the same. 2 Likes |
Re: Did I OverReact by ogashman(m): 4:17pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
OkoNDOoBo: u did the right thing man......she should choose between u and her male friends 1 Like |
Re: Did I OverReact by OkoNDOoBo: 4:45pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
ogashman:i tried to look away but I just cant ignore the red flag. I really love her but that is not enough 1 Like |
Re: Did I OverReact by EzegeNdiigbo: 5:04pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
It's obvious she can't obliged to your word Man Gotta leh her go |
Re: Did I OverReact by ORIENTATION101: 5:27pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
Obviously she want to eat her cake and have it 1 Like |
Re: Did I OverReact by OkoNDOoBo: 5:32pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
EzegeNdiigbo:I've already part ways with her, just want to know if my actions werent overboard 1 Like |
Re: Did I OverReact by OkoNDOoBo: 5:34pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
ORIENTATION101:Exactly i see no reasons why she can't caution Her male friends, set boundaries and Have decent chat with them. |
Re: Did I OverReact by merieam16(f): 5:34pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
Lolzz...when u see anoda girl that's nt doin wat u want, u ll still part ways with her. keep parting ways with them until u marry a wrong person if u like quote me, u re so on ur own |
Re: Did I OverReact by OkoNDOoBo: 5:42pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
merieam16: I made concessions in the course of relationship , but she is not willing to do same. Before I get married to an average Nigeria lady she must tick all my boxes. And I set the pace and the rules 1 Like |
Re: Did I OverReact by merieam16(f): 5:47pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
OkoNDOoBo:continue...u go grow iron bear bear |
Re: Did I OverReact by OkoNDOoBo: 6:03pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
merieam16:mtcheew, marriage is not for everybody, some of us will eventually get a babymama then continue with life. I have both physical attraction and the resources to throw around, this girl made me chase away a lot of p-ussies just to get serious with her now i'm going back to my bitches , at least no commitment is involved this time around. 1 Like |
Re: Did I OverReact by Jack005(m): 6:07pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
OkoNDOoBo:Relationships these days can be waste of time and resources at times. Welcome to the hood bro. With time you gonna forget about her..Cheer up! 2 Likes |
Re: Did I OverReact by EzegeNdiigbo: 6:14pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
OkoNDOoBo: For whia |
Re: Did I OverReact by BarrSly: 6:14pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
Sticking to one person is a waste of time. One of my girls out of the many I have was talking to me about serious relationship not knowing that I had gone through her phone and found some naughty chats as well which I held to myself as evidence should she come and complain of my unserious nature towards her. Today she finally brought up the conversation about my unserious nature and I gave her the warning of her life as well as furnished her with enough evidence. As I speak to you she has acknowledged her place in my life as one of my many bitches lol. We move. Welcome to the club brother. OkoNDOoBo: 2 Likes |
Re: Did I OverReact by extol1(m): 6:19pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
why do men really say they love their girlfriend when she misbehave? you did the right thing. let her go and meet I need urgent 2k guys 1 Like |
Re: Did I OverReact by BlenzTalk: 6:22pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
ogashman: exactly, my point. |
Re: Did I OverReact by SeunOSEWApenis(f): 6:37pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
Continue parting ways Unatoto |
Re: Did I OverReact by OkoNDOoBo: 6:48pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
BarrSly:thanks bro |
Re: Did I OverReact by Nato008(m): 6:51pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
Truvel:honestly u just abused the privilege we all have of been stupid...if relationship is boring u quit!!!!!!!! simple no long talk, if u can't work on it quit, is not by force...not for u to come and be stressing someone's son |
Re: Did I OverReact by MrFollowFollow(m): 6:54pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
Good decision, it is from mere chatting that it will turn to something else |
Re: Did I OverReact by Nato008(m): 6:54pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
merieam16:from naughty chats...to nudes...to quickies..because OP love stress abi |
Re: Did I OverReact by Nobody: 8:34pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
OkoNDOoBo:U Just Insecure & Jealous. Dat's Ur Problem. |
Re: Did I OverReact by Isokoson1: 8:52pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
Bros Nah the best decision you take so ,if she no fit respect your decision make she pack one side... Girls self... I hate those girls calling Dia male friends bestie... If any girl dey call you bestie... Thunder fire you |
Re: Did I OverReact by OkoNDOoBo: 8:59pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
Truvel:Simp you have been noticed |
Re: Did I OverReact by Nobody: 9:20pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
OkoNDOoBo:Dat's Who U Are. |
Re: Did I OverReact by OkoNDOoBo: 9:36pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
Truvel: |
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