Three weeks ago, I went to a popular Gas Station where I normally get fuel. The pump attendant has been nice to me so I promised to get her something. Two days later, I got her some snacks and boom the next question is where is your house. Damn, I never had it in mind to ask her out.

Yesterday, a lady was introduced to me as my community neighbor by my landlady's daughter. I am not directly from her community but I can speak her dialect to an extend. We spoke a bit and because I was about to go out to meet some colleagues at work, something we normally do by meeting at base 4 to arhhh herbal roots together, I asked her if she can join. She told me to hold on and then went in to carry a guy and two of her friends. She told me that they would be coming with us. I said no way, I will not be going out with you ahh. We just met and this. I was to take her out without no condition of anything. We arrrh men in base 4 normally do this when we want. Also, I take roots thrice a week. I called her aside and gave her a friendly money for drink since I won't be going with them. What I heard next was "I go come see you tomorrow evening". Jesu, it wasn't part of the plan Biko and my woman would be coming that same tomorrow. I just told her that I would be very busy with my woman, please don't come.
Why would an act of kindness be misinterpreted by most women.

Lolz

Wetin be ur problem self

providencia:
Wetin be ur problem self

been mishnterpreted.

providencia:
Wetin be ur problem self

Nigeria youth and stupidity is like 5/6, if this guy talk as a girl cheat on him and try to forgive her you will call him SIMP , can you people ever have sense

donbachi:
been mishnterpreted.

There is no misinterpretation here. The ladies in these scenerio are just interested in him. Its absolutely normal for a lady who likes a guy to show interest. He must have been kind to other ladies too who didn't ask about where he lives. Even some he didnt show act of kindness to must have given him green light too. So there is no problem here

To some of them if u wink ur eyes at them u are already dating them... If u blow a kiss u Don almost marry them na to go pay bride price remain...

Qatar2022:

Nigeria youth and stupidity is like 5/6, if this guy talk as that a girl cheat on him and try to forgive her you will call him SIMP , can you people ever have sense

Where in my writeup did i ask him to cheat?

habsydiamond:
To some of them if u wink ur eyes at them u are already dating them... If u blow a kiss u Don almost marry them na to go pay bride price remain...

Lolz just imagine.

lessonsoflife:


Why would an act of kindness be misinterpreted by most women.

Aren't you misinterpreting their simple inquiries? Maybe the gas attendant just wanted to know where you live to tell her friends that a guy from ehmmm.... Sambisa was so different from other guys.... he fulfilled his promise to her. Were you thinking she wanted to spend the night with you? Well the other one... hmmmm.... that one ...ehmmmm.... let me not say what I'm almost sure of.

Bro... in general... especially in these times... guys doing what you did without without trying to make a connection is rare. It is also a matter of low self esteem .... many ladies are used to be seen and treated like dirt so when a person wayyy above their status can notice them... and offer them something for free..... it means a whole lot to them and they will try be your friend. It's more they seeking friendship that a relationship. Keep doing what you do... as long as it is from the heart....and keep it moving.

lessonsoflife:
Three weeks ago, I went to a popular Gas Station where I normally get fuel. The pump attendant has been nice to me so I promised to get her something. Two days later, I got her some snacks and boom the next question is where is your house. Damn, I never had it in mind to ask her out.

Yesterday, a lady was introduced to me as my community neighbor by my landlady's daughter. I am not directly from her community but I can speak her dialect to an extend. We spoke a bit and because I was about to go out to meet some colleagues at work, something we normally do by meeting at base 4 to arhhh herbal roots together, I asked her if she can join. She told me to hold on and then went in to carry a guy and two of her friends. She told me that they would be coming with us. I said no way, I will not be going out with you ahh. We just met and this. I was to take her out without no condition of anything. We arrrh men in base 4 normally do this when we want. Also, I take roots thrice a week. I called her aside and gave her a friendly money for drink since I won't be going with them. What I heard next was "I go come see you tomorrow evening". Jesu, it wasn't part of the plan Biko and my woman would be coming that same tomorrow. I just told her that I would be very busy with my woman, please don't come.
Why would an act of kindness be misinterpreted by most women.

U no c male fuel attendant show kindness

You just bought a share in her business nau why are you complaining??

Wait first what am I seeing

I foresee you banging DAT fuel attendant soon

This I have seen

drmikeadams:

U no c male fuel attendant show kindness

for my area, all the Gas Station, na only female pump attendant dey.

drmikeadams:

U no c male fuel attendant show kindness

i wonder,maybe men are ingrate fellows...

It's because most guys of nowadays rarely do something nice for women without expecting sexual favors in return

LadyTiannah2:
It's because most guys of nowadays rarely do something nice for women without expecting sexual favors in return

who tell u ,?

drmikeadams:


U no c male fuel attendant show kindness

Lol, they are not visible to the human eyes. That's the struggle most dude go through everyday, you have to set your own pace else no one sets it for you.

drmikeadams:


U no c male fuel attendant show kindness

I tell u brother
They don't help we their fellow men
Idiat

lessonsoflife:
Three weeks ago, I went to a popular Gas Station where I normally get fuel. The pump attendant has been nice to me so I promised to get her something. Two days later, I got her some snacks and boom the next question is where is your house. Damn, I never had it in mind to ask her out.

Yesterday, a lady was introduced to me as my community neighbor by my landlady's daughter. I am not directly from her community but I can speak her dialect to an extend. We spoke a bit and because I was about to go out to meet some colleagues at work, something we normally do by meeting at base 4 to arhhh herbal roots together, I asked her if she can join. She told me to hold on and then went in to carry a guy and two of her friends. She told me that they would be coming with us. I said no way, I will not be going out with you ahh. We just met and this. I was to take her out without no condition of anything. We arrrh men in base 4 normally do this when we want. Also, I take roots thrice a week. I called her aside and gave her a friendly money for drink since I won't be going with them. What I heard next was "I go come see you tomorrow evening". Jesu, it wasn't part of the plan Biko and my woman would be coming that same tomorrow. I just told her that I would be very busy with my woman, please don't come.
Why would an act of kindness be misinterpreted by most women.

You are the one doing Mr Nice Guy to them

Keep attracting them to yourself

You are equal to the task

You are doing exactly the same thing you are accusing them of doing. Asking where you live does not mean I’m coming to nack you.

You are misinterpreting an act of care.

As a man gotta be flexible it's not every girl you meet dat will form for ya. Sometimes You meet the ones that will show you high interest immediately and probably they want to get down with you asap just play your cards wisely. Remember life no get manual