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What In Life Is Keeping You In This Confused Situation? [Picture] by iLegendd(m): 4:08pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
What In Life Is Keeping You In This Confused Situation? [Picture] Take a look at the picture below. Did you see how confused the guy is? I used to be in his position and I'll list 5 of them only. Typing...
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Re: What In Life Is Keeping You In This Confused Situation? [Picture] by iLegendd(m): 4:08pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
1. As a kid, I was more of a troublemaker and book wasn't my thing. I hated books or school. When I see other kids taking 1st position, I felt confused like the man in the picture. How do they do it? Do they have two heads? My quest led me into being among the top 2 students. Confusion handled. Search, and you shall find. Typing... 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What In Life Is Keeping You In This Confused Situation? [Picture] by iLegendd(m): 4:09pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
2. As a teenager, a girl will like me, but the moment I tell her I like her too, she'll start avoiding me. I was confused just like the man in the picture above. I went on a quest and found out that women friendzone men who profess love easily because they feel their freedom will be taken away from them if they become your girlfriend. Women love freedom more than men. They want you to start acting like their boyfriend without you asking, "Will you be my girlfriend?" You get? Since then, I have never and will never ask a woman to be my girlfriend — I just "act" as her boyfriend and everything falls in place without asking her out. Confusion handled. The keyword there is "ACT," not "ASK." It has never failed. After months or years and several sexual encounters, she'll be the one to ask, "Who am I to you? Let me know my stand. Let's define this relationship." You see, you have just bypassed being friendzoned (at the early stage) and she may end up being the one that'll be friendzoned by you if her character, IQ, and sex game is poor. Mystery demystified. No more confusion like the man above. Typing... 9 Likes |
Re: What In Life Is Keeping You In This Confused Situation? [Picture] by iLegendd(m): 4:09pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
3. As a teenager, I watched some porn videos and noticed the men lasted so long, but when it got to my turn, I couldn't even last 1 minute. I tried months later, but it was worse. I got confused and wondered why other men would last hours, but I couldn't handle ordinary 1 minute. At this time, I was the most intelligent student in class, but my academic intelligence couldn't translate into lasting long in bed. I was confused just like how some extremely handsome men hardly get women, but the rich and ugly ones easily do. (By the way, a man can never be ugly). Why? Some women think these handsome guys are gay, stingy, players, or already have too many women chasing him, so they don't want to be part of the "pretty-boy" headache. So, why can't I last long like everyone else? The confusion continues. Out of frustration and several research, I found the permanent and natural solution and today, 7 hours seems like 7 minutes. Confusion handled and mystery has been demystified. Typing... 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What In Life Is Keeping You In This Confused Situation? [Picture] by iLegendd(m): 4:09pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
4. Money was another confusion. I searched for work twice, but it didn't work out. Naturally, I hate working and waking up early just to prepare and head to work. That makes me feel like a slave, so I decided to look into working from home at my will and when I wish. This was more confusing than getting a job. I always wondered how people make legit money from home on the Internet. A man who doesn't take an action will never see a reaction, so I took action and today, making money from home while I sleep is no longer a mystery. Confusion demystified. Typing... 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What In Life Is Keeping You In This Confused Situation? [Picture] by iLegendd(m): 4:10pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
5. I was quite skinny, so I wondered how these macho guys became so muscular with six packs and lots of healthy ego. The confusion ended when I hit the gym and got my own piece of muscle and 6 packs. No pain, no gain. I don't want to carry last. Confusion handled. There are more to say, but let me stop at just 5 of them. Typing... 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What In Life Is Keeping You In This Confused Situation? [Picture] by iLegendd(m): 4:14pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
A. Now, my current confusion is how wicked humans are — especially Nigerians. B. Also, why do some Muslims easily kill those who don't believe in their God? It's quite confusing. Are they really humans? C. Why do some Christians pretend so much? They commit the highest sexual immorality (just as Muslims shed the highest blood), but will still pretend as if they are saints. How people easily kill because of money or religion and how God made me a Nigerian is quite confusing. Didn't He see better countries for me? Please, practice your religion, but don't pretend too much or shed innocent blood. Why must I be among these wicked people? That is my confusion. Typing... 8 Likes |
Re: What In Life Is Keeping You In This Confused Situation? [Picture] by iLegendd(m): 4:15pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
My main question is: What is currently confusing you and needs an urgent answer? Is it lack money, Buhari's poor leadership, hardship, how to make money, the spiritual battle you're facing, the nightmares you regularly have, marriage issues, relationship, sex, self-esteem issue, academic stress, or what? Bare your mind and tell us what is confusing you like the confused man in the picture above. You can share the full story or half of it. Also, if you have solved the confusion already, you can still share it and how you solved it. No fighting... 2 Likes |
Re: What In Life Is Keeping You In This Confused Situation? [Picture] by chatinent: 4:22pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
All I wanted was a bank give me a loan and leave me alone as a kid. 9 Likes 1 Share
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Re: What In Life Is Keeping You In This Confused Situation? [Picture] by iLegendd(m): 4:33pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
chatinent: Lol SokoLoan app will give you, but I heard they won't leave you alone. They'll even drag your unborn grandchildren into it. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What In Life Is Keeping You In This Confused Situation? [Picture] by chatinent: 4:35pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
iLegendd: I have never attempted a loan ever since I used that 9mobile loan app. I couldn't meet up the day, and went to shift it plus the interest till a week after. These people went ahead to send sms to all my contacts and email! The day I was paying was all pains. |
Re: What In Life Is Keeping You In This Confused Situation? [Picture] by amidel(m): 6:14pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
chatinent:Warris dis |
Re: What In Life Is Keeping You In This Confused Situation? [Picture] by amidel(m): 6:31pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
1. Ways of Making money: [/b]Here, I've been learning about crypto currency but it's time consuming considering that I'm a student. I will have to give priority to one. I also trade FX and it's been good so far but I don't know how to merge this with my academics. 2. [b]Bad grades: I study quite well but my last semester grades weren't as impressive as I expected but in all, we move. 3. I don't know how to say No when a person requests for something that I can do, even if it affects me. 4. Academics again: I belong to a group which contains students from the western world studying same course as myself. Most times when they're having discussions, I do contribute but I feel inferior based on what they say and the things they're taught over there... It makes me hate my school and department that at times I just feel like dropping out. Outdated syllabus/curriculum, wack practical sessions and all. Some weeks back, I went to meet a Prof in my department and spoke to him about Nano-chemistry but baba was mute just nodding his head and after everything he said "I don't know much about all these new things going on". I said okay and quietly took my leave. I feel I'm not gaining knowledge here, the little I know is from what I read about. I'm tired 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What In Life Is Keeping You In This Confused Situation? [Picture] by Nobody: 8:55pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
Why some people, after helping u or doing u a favour, feels like u should be indebted to them 4life. The annoying part of it is that, once they ask something from u and u don't fulfill their demands, they term u a bad, ungrateful person 1 Like |
Re: What In Life Is Keeping You In This Confused Situation? [Picture] by iLegendd(m): 10:50pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
chatinent: Sorry — it is what it is. Terms and conditions apply. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What In Life Is Keeping You In This Confused Situation? [Picture] by iLegendd(m): 11:31pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
amidel: 1. You're ahead of you're peers for being in school and putting you hands in Cry.pto and FX. I wish I was into Cry.pto when I was in school. I'd suggest you focus more on Cry.pto than FX. Though, they have similar charts and technicalities. Merging it with academics means you should stop day trading and focus on HODL'ing. 2. The real world is not about grades, but what you know, can offer, and luck. In SS 2, there was this new student that joined us. He was an art student and knows English more than English itself. When he speaks, everyone listens. With this, everyone thought he was the most intelligent. In SS 3, he ended up as our SP and had great grades. Today, he is a teacher receiving just 50k per month. This is way less than what my book, Lasticle (which costs 10k per PDF copy) makes in a month. That is 5 copies of the book = his salary. He can write books if he wants to, but he isn't into it. So, the real world is not about grades, but what you can offer the world. Yes, good grades boost a man's ego and raises his confidence, but the real world cares only about what you can offer it even if you have poor grades. 3. If you want to learn how to say no, get hurt by people either online and offline, then transfer 10% of the anger on everyone and you'll master how to say no. People have abused me on this forum, so I decided to stop replying DMs because these abusers are still the ones using different monikers to message me. So, distribute 10%, not 50 or 100 of the pains people caused you on everyone and you'll develop the balls to say no. All my years watching YouTube videos, I never clicked the dislike button of a video. I always feel those who click dislikes on people's good videos are evil and enemies of progress. I published books on Amazon and I regularly check the reviews. Sadly, I have gotten demoralizing 1 star reviews just the same way I have gotten tons of 5 and 4 stars reviews. Guess what? The 1 star reviews hurt me, but not anymore. I no longer care. How did I handle it? When I watch a YouTube video I don't like, I click the dislike button now without giving a f*ck if the owner gets hurt or not. With time, I said to myself, "You dislike people's videos on YouTube, so deal with it when people dislike your books or your videos on YouTube too." Case settled. Be you an asshole or a kind person, there is always someone who will like or dislike it. 4. While in school, I never felt inferior around other foreign students — in fact, I felt superior, but I do respect them when it comes to technology. Nigerian lecturer? That is funny. Anyway, I'm glad he's honest. Do you think it's his calling to be a lecturer? No! He just wants to feed his 8 children and nothing more. Yes, being a Nigerian and studying in Nigeria is demoralizing, but you just have to make do with what you currently have. The funny thing about life is: when you feel confident about yourself, they'll say you're arrogant, but when you feel inferior, those same people that called the confident guy arrogant will call you Mr. Low Self-esteem and encourage you to be confident. In summary, no matter how you feel about yourself or your country, someone will complain, so just do what will take you to the next level even if you're feeling inferior or confident about it. 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What In Life Is Keeping You In This Confused Situation? [Picture] by iLegendd(m): 11:37pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
Chycebel: That's humans for you and that's one of the reasons I always work day and night to provide for myself and never ask anyone for financial help. It feels good knowing I owe no one, but this doesn't stop me from giving back to the universe even if I don't owe. This is the lifestyle everyone should embrace to avoid indebtedness or being called ungrateful. 4 Likes |
Re: What In Life Is Keeping You In This Confused Situation? [Picture] by amidel(m): 12:34am On Jun 27, 2021 |
iLegendd: Thank you so much for the reply. I'll follow these steps 5 Likes |
Re: What In Life Is Keeping You In This Confused Situation? [Picture] by nimeb50153: 1:38am On Jun 27, 2021 |
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Re: What In Life Is Keeping You In This Confused Situation? [Picture] by ESANMEA(f): 2:48am On Jun 27, 2021 |
I'm a good girl but I wonder why.... 1 Like |
Re: What In Life Is Keeping You In This Confused Situation? [Picture] by iLegendd(m): 12:27pm On Jun 27, 2021 |
ESANMEA: Keep it up. A girl being a good girl is a good thing. It's only a boy being too much of a good boy that is a bad thing for him in the dating world. 3 Likes |
Re: What In Life Is Keeping You In This Confused Situation? [Picture] by Yemialade(f): 2:55pm On Jun 27, 2021 |
Illegend,am now a kano corper,i want to start my online business and am yet to buy a laptop and collect my payooner card.someone suggest i use skrill. |
Re: What In Life Is Keeping You In This Confused Situation? [Picture] by iLegendd(m): 4:28pm On Jun 27, 2021 |
Yemialade: Congrats, gurl! But hmmm, Kano? I hope you're safe. Yet to start Yet to buy a PC and Yet to choose a payment platform... The Lord is your strength. I pray all your "yet" will turn to "I have," before you return from Kano. About Skrill, I have never used it. |
Re: What In Life Is Keeping You In This Confused Situation? [Picture] by Nobody: 4:54pm On Jun 27, 2021 |
Yemialade:which side in kano? |
Re: What In Life Is Keeping You In This Confused Situation? [Picture] by Nobody: 4:55pm On Jun 27, 2021 |
ilegendd bleep you jobless cunt |
Re: What In Life Is Keeping You In This Confused Situation? [Picture] by iLegendd(m): 5:08pm On Jun 27, 2021 |
Yemialade: For your sanity, kindly ignore that depressed kid that just quoted you above. Act as if he doesn't exist. If you give him attention, you'll regret. He's too emotional and too attached. Everything about him is demonic, terrible, and negative. 1 Like
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Re: What In Life Is Keeping You In This Confused Situation? [Picture] by nelson7777: 7:36pm On Jun 27, 2021 |
Good thread |
Re: What In Life Is Keeping You In This Confused Situation? [Picture] by Loonyy(m): 10:08pm On Jun 27, 2021 |
Read through the whole piece and replies like my life depends on it. Thanks for your advice and information Am at crossed roads Need help forging a new path 8-5 isn't my thing Really Need information on making money online Any help would be greatly appreciated 2 Likes |
Re: What In Life Is Keeping You In This Confused Situation? [Picture] by Umaruxoxo(m): 10:44pm On Jun 27, 2021 |
U are doing a wonderful job . Godbless.i really have the problem of not being able to say no to request, especially to friends .those I can't fulfill make people see me as not honest ,and this really huts my ego 1 Like |
Re: What In Life Is Keeping You In This Confused Situation? [Picture] by iLegendd(m): 6:01am On Jun 28, 2021 |
Loonyy: @bold is one of the hardest thing for successful people to do. They don't have time for 1-on-1 teaching, but if you pay them, some of them will teach. Unfortunately, there are too many scammers who'll run the moment you pay them. The solution is to use Google and YouTube to learn. Do some research based on your skill or the new skill you want to acquire. 1 Like |
Re: What In Life Is Keeping You In This Confused Situation? [Picture] by Unclesamo(m): 7:21am On Jun 28, 2021 |
LEGEND 1 Like |
Re: What In Life Is Keeping You In This Confused Situation? [Picture] by ZeddyR: 9:01am On Jun 28, 2021 |
You're doing a nice job. I read through every post and replies. I need something to do to earn money. I was teaching initially, it's something I love to do but the pay is too low, so I left. Now I go to offices or meet people to sell oil perfume and slippers, but it's really not my thing. I wish to relocate to another place to leave family house but the only money I have is about 70k. I've been thinking of how I can achieve that because I have no friend I can squat with for the time being. I still want to ask you a few personal questions. Can I send you a dm please. |
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