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Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by doctore212(m): 4:00pm On Jul 07, 2021
Very simple .

Go any olosho house , enter any room , don't speak just bleep one olosho and refuse to pay.


By the time you are done . Am telling you that you will be very glad

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Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by MistaBabz: 4:00pm On Jul 07, 2021
Being an introvert makes you discover yourself, the great minds on earth were introverts. You can only discover your inner self when you are alone but flee from masturbation that's very deadly

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Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by raury23: 4:01pm On Jul 07, 2021
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Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by ReneDaniels: 4:02pm On Jul 07, 2021
Ur a quiet fellow not an introvert , joining a cult will be a wrong move, flow with the vibe, try loosen up a bit, I was like u, had no girlfriend nor fwens. Trying learning how to play basketball that game really got me mixed up with nice fellows. Then talking bout finding u a lady, trying settling for a girl close to u, one u get to c often then u can find a bond , it's not advisable bombing into random ladies for a relationship. Just take it easy, ur not just owk ur perfectly made and beautiful inside....

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Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by FBIBOT(m): 4:03pm On Jul 07, 2021
You mean you don't chat with ladies online? Am also an introvert too bt I flirt alot with these ladies alot so wen we meet she might be the shy one....
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by alaafin(m): 4:04pm On Jul 07, 2021
I truely feel your pain because I can relate well to your condition. In addition to what you stated, l was an accurate introvert. But nobody will ever guess that I was once like that. I simply train myself to be an extrovert. I join drama group and gradually came out of my shell. I started talking in tutorial classes; make more male and female friends with no immoral thought. I talk freely in church.
I carry object like pen with me that I can be pressings at will when anxiety show itself.
You just have to train yourself to be confident...
Don't ever join cult, it could end in sorrow and tears.

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Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by President99: 4:05pm On Jul 07, 2021
Facts111:
@ drizzle0007
Yes i forget to stated it. " i mastubate ". But finding it hard to stop.
Bros, stop masturbation, eat balanced diet and exercise ur confidence will SKYROCKET!

The problem with masturbation, it drains u of vital minerals and vitamins that are necessary for ur body to function well and too much of it make u to be nervous. Furthermore, masturbation gives u easy dopamine and destroy ur dopamine level, this causes u to be disinterested in talking to people. If u stop masturbating, even a walk in the neighborhood will make u happy and u will start enjoying talking to people

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Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by Cossybob(m): 4:05pm On Jul 07, 2021
Facts111:
@ drizzle0007
Yes i forget to stated it. " i mastubate ". But finding it hard to stop.
Damn nigga
Whatever you think you are passing through right now just know I was once in your shoes too... You just have to boost your morale and get yourself together.
Without you stating this, I already knew you do masturbate, that shit kills your self esteem, join this thread https://www.nairaland.com/5223408/masturbation-quitting-challenge-thread and thank me later.

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Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by vickydevoka(m): 4:07pm On Jul 07, 2021
Most quite introvert people are in cult in my area. Buh u will never know until u find dere trouble
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by freeman67: 4:08pm On Jul 07, 2021
Facts111:
Good day everyone..

I'll be 24 next month. The problem now is that am too shy. I don't have confidence. I don't have any girlfriend (am too shy to speak to a lady). You can wrongly accuse me and i will went away crying.

I am the first born of a family of six. A man once accused me of sleeping with his wife (the woman in question senior my mama) and i was like "me ? Me ? Me ? " and I went inside crying.

The only friend i have is my phone. The thing is affecting me seriously. I can't eat in public. I can't insult. I can't even look at your face to talk anything.... I talk alot inside... Am an online keyboard wariorr..

One boy was telling me yesterday to join 'cult' to improve. Though am thinking of it. People take me for a fool. Nairaland is my best website.

Please doctors in the house, is there any drug or medication that i can take to make me overcome shyness ?...

First off, do not go and join any cult. It will ruin your life.

You are too afraid to fail. You also think too much about what people will say if you don't succeed...that's your major problem.

Decide in your mind to face your fears, then start facing it head long. Begin to try all those things your mind tells you that you can't achieve and in no time you will improve.

Talk more to people. If you are afraid or shy of people older than you, you can begin with the younger ones.. your siblings friends. Try to make friends etc.

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Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by 1sttruth: 4:08pm On Jul 07, 2021
"Never join Cult"
I sometimes damn the consequences and talk having at the back of my mind that insults could come with it
My advise:
Talk and damn the consequences
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by scally11: 4:08pm On Jul 07, 2021
Facts111:
Good day everyone..

I'll be 24 next month. The problem now is that am too shy. I don't have confidence. I don't have any girlfriend (am too shy to speak to a lady). You can wrongly accuse me and i will went away crying.

I am the first born of a family of six. A man once accused me of sleeping with his wife (the woman in question senior my mama) and i was like "me ? Me ? Me ? " and I went inside crying.

The only friend i have is my phone. The thing is affecting me seriously. I can't eat in public. I can't insult. I can't even look at your face to talk anything.... I talk alot inside... Am an online keyboard wariorr..

One boy was telling me yesterday to join 'cult' to improve. Though am thinking of it. People take me for a fool. Nairaland is my best website.

Please doctors in the house, is there any drug or medication that i can take to make me overcome shyness ?...
Jesus, please it is I will go away crying not went.
I think u just need to socialize first. When u move with people it will improve your self confidence
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by ewami: 4:08pm On Jul 07, 2021
Let me help you.
When I was in secondary school, I hardly talk and been bullied by my mates to the extent that I was lied against that I was part of a secret cult in school and expelled from
secondary school, I never spoke to defend myself .
I can't toast any girl. My padis toasted a girl and finished the work for me only for me to show up to tell the girl that I was sorry and never meant it.
My life changed the day I found purpose. Start with getting close to God and doing things meaningful. Move away from social media for now.
It won't bite if look at people in the eyes. Ask questions and try boldness. At your age YOU DON'T NEED A GIRLFRIEND. MAKE YOUR LIFE COUNT FIRST

All the best.








Facts111:
Good day everyone..

I'll be 24 next month. The problem now is that am too shy. I don't have confidence. I don't have any girlfriend (am too shy to speak to a lady). You can wrongly accuse me and i will went away crying.

I am the first born of a family of six. A man once accused me of sleeping with his wife (the woman in question senior my mama) and i was like "me ? Me ? Me ? " and I went inside crying.

The only friend i have is my phone. The thing is affecting me seriously. I can't eat in public. I can't insult. I can't even look at your face to talk anything.... I talk alot inside... Am an online keyboard wariorr..

One boy was telling me yesterday to join 'cult' to improve. Though am thinking of it. People take me for a fool. Nairaland is my best website.

Please doctors in the house, is there any drug or medication that i can take to make me overcome shyness ?...

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Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by DahLegend: 4:08pm On Jul 07, 2021
Facts111:
Good day everyone..

I'll be 24 next month. The problem now is that am too shy. I don't have confidence. I don't have any girlfriend (am too shy to speak to a lady). You can wrongly accuse me and i will went away crying.

I am the first born of a family of six. A man once accused me of sleeping with his wife (the woman in question senior my mama) and i was like "me ? Me ? Me ? " and I went inside crying.

The only friend i have is my phone. The thing is affecting me seriously. I can't eat in public. I can't insult. I can't even look at your face to talk anything.... I talk alot inside... Am an online keyboard wariorr..

One boy was telling me yesterday to join 'cult' to improve. Though am thinking of it. People take me for a fool. Nairaland is my best website.

Please doctors in the house, is there any drug or medication that i can take to make me overcome shyness ?...

Used to be like that . Send me a dm . Will give you a few tips that helped me overcome it .
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by vickydevoka(m): 4:09pm On Jul 07, 2021
MistaBabz:
Being an introvert makes you discover yourself, the great minds on earth were introverts. You can only discover your inner self when you are alone but flee from masturbation that's very deadly
Please brother help me explain. How is masturbation deadly and fornication not deadly. My first masturbation was in de hospital

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Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by na2016: 4:09pm On Jul 07, 2021
Facts111:
Good day everyone..

I'll be 24 next month. The problem now is that am too shy. I don't have confidence. I don't have any girlfriend (am too shy to speak to a lady). Y
Please doctors in the house, is there any drug or medication that i can take to make me overcome shyness ?...

I used to be very shy. Even at 32, I couldn't toast any lady despite always getting numerous advances and compliments from females back then. I tried to work on myself to overcome it. You need to work on yourself and over come it. Else so many things will pass u by. Although shyness, has it advantages, but I think the disadvantages outweighs the advantages

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Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by RichieGrassi(m): 4:10pm On Jul 07, 2021
Don't be an idiot
doctore212:
Very simple .

Go any olosho house , enter any room , don't speak just bleep one olosho and refuse to pay.


By the time you are done . Am telling you that you will be very glad

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Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by SenatePresdo(m): 4:10pm On Jul 07, 2021
Facts111:

10/10/1998

Hmm, you are Libra.

By default, most Librans are not known to be very confident. So I wouldn't say it's your fault, because that's the way you were born.

For you to conquer your Timidity, I would advise you start hitting the gym.
Body building has a way of making people feel confident about their self and look.

And you know, self-confidence is the elixir of Boldness.

Stop thinking of what people would say about you.
Don't care if people would say you are a good or bad person. Take Buhari as an example.

People can only talk, they won't do shit...

Whenever you notice someone is trying to take advantage of you, tell them straight up.

Nobody is a perfect gentleman, and you shouldn't expect yourself to be.

The bottom line is, stop trying to impress people at your own detriment.
Let your happiness be your first Agenda.

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Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by Livesimple: 4:11pm On Jul 07, 2021
OnlyDeCapPlease:


First of all. Don't join cult. It won't change anything.

Shy people alway take themselves too seriously and think that everybody is watching them or has time for them. Wrong!

Shy people tend to think that other people are easily doing things but it's difficult for them. Wrong!

Learn not to take yourself too seriously. It's not that important. It's ok to be wrong or foolish or mumu or be rejected. Shy people have a problem dealing with rejection. So you get rejected? Fvck em all! You get told off? Fvck em all! Someone laughs at You? Fvck em all! Someone gives you "that look"? Fvck em all! Someone insults you? Fvck em all! All these things don't kill, e nor go commot anything for your body. People often do those things to embarrass you or get a reaction from you. They get annoyed when they can't get any visible reaction from you. That's not your problem.

Pick one day. Call that day you "fvck ya'll" day. On that day do or say anything that comes to your mind. Damn the consequences and just do it for that day. If anyone gets angry, just say I'm sorry, but in you mind say "fvck you", and then carry on doing things. Just don't break the law or physically fight anyone.

Try it and let me know how it went.













What a great human u are i hv been following ur comments n i must say u r a genius thumb up man

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Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by ford101: 4:12pm On Jul 07, 2021
Facts111:
@ drizzle0007
Yes i forget to stated it. " i mastubate ". But finding it hard to stop.
Ha ha ha. That shit kills a man's self motivation to do anything.

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Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by Olaideolayemi(m): 4:13pm On Jul 07, 2021
Divija:
Go and take Igbo grin grin and thank me Leta
Nawaa for you ooo..
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by Olaideolayemi(m): 4:14pm On Jul 07, 2021
SonofGod231:
Weed is a remedy to shyness.
Nawaa for una..
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by ikorodureporta: 4:14pm On Jul 07, 2021
Facts111:
Good day everyone..

I'll be 24 next month. The problem now is that am too shy. I don't have confidence. I don't have any girlfriend (am too shy to speak to a lady). You can wrongly accuse me and i will went away crying.

I am the first born of a family of six. A man once accused me of sleeping with his wife (the woman in question senior my mama) and i was like "me ? Me ? Me ? " and I went inside crying.

The only friend i have is my phone. The thing is affecting me seriously. I can't eat in public. I can't insult. I can't even look at your face to talk anything.... I talk alot inside... Am an online keyboard wariorr..

One boy was telling me yesterday to join 'cult' to improve. Though am thinking of it. People take me for a fool. Nairaland is my best website.

Please doctors in the house, is there any drug or medication that i can take to make me overcome shyness ?...

Go join Nigerian army

The training go reset your head
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by Olaideolayemi(m): 4:14pm On Jul 07, 2021
AbujaAgent:
Nothing will boost your confidence like having plenty money in your account, so forget everything and concentrate on your work. Try and make money. Employ people who are loyal to you and make more money. Your confidence will grow from there
Lol..
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by kunleiky(m): 4:15pm On Jul 07, 2021
I can tell you're an introvert.
I was once there. When I was a teacher in a sec. school and the students called me to come and dance during the party, people were shocked to see I could face such crowd.
I was very shy also. It's self-esteem problem. A lady once told me: "please be looking into people's faces when talking to them." Lol
Not been able to ask people for the money they owe you; not be able to stand up to bullying and taking BS are the problems that come with shyness.
Do this:
Go out and talk to at least someone a day. Viewing center is not bad.
Rea books on self confidence, e.g. How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie
Look people in the face when talking to them.

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Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by Cousin9999: 4:15pm On Jul 07, 2021
RiceProducers:

Remember, it is really dumb people that are never shy.

lol
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by Mysmartnetwork: 4:15pm On Jul 07, 2021
Used to be very shy too like I can’t approach any lady . But somehow I overcame it . Now I don’t even think twice before approaching ladies I like . Ladies aren’t that difficult to roll with . Last week I met some ladies in the cab they were eatin snacks while waiting for cab to fill up , at my first approach they had that what’s wrong with this one look . Shy me then would have back off n feel very embarrassed. But to cut the long story short. I ended collecting their number. One of em even slept on my laps during the journey. Girls aren’t difficult it’s all about mindset and self esteem so work on it .

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Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by Facts111: 4:15pm On Jul 07, 2021
Elock1:
Oga trust me I understand you.. I was so shy too.

Couldn't talk to girls, can't just say shxt bck then.
But trust me I'm 70% free from all that rubbish shyness.

Yeah I don't have a gf at the moment, but it's now a matter of choice.. Girls way dy flock around me plenty, on like b4 but right now I no come even dy interested again.

I'm going out of it you too can.
If interested I can just give you my little tips.
You really need a friend to start with.
Am interested pls
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by kunkelhanspeter(m): 4:16pm On Jul 07, 2021
If you are thinking of drug or medication weed or TM is your best friend but don’t abuse it .
You need make money it will build your confident I was once in your shoe I only talk talking to woman when I started seeing money.

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Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by Munzy14(m): 4:17pm On Jul 07, 2021
Facts111:
Good day everyone..

I'll be 24 next month. The problem now is that am too shy. I don't have confidence. I don't have any girlfriend (am too shy to speak to a lady). You can wrongly accuse me and i will went away crying.

I am the first born of a family of six. A man once accused me of sleeping with his wife (the woman in question senior my mama) and i was like "me ? Me ? Me ? " and I went inside crying.

The only friend i have is my phone. The thing is affecting me seriously. I can't eat in public. I can't insult. I can't even look at your face to talk anything.... I talk alot inside... Am an online keyboard wariorr..

One boy was telling me yesterday to join 'cult' to improve. Though am thinking of it. People take me for a fool. Nairaland is my best website.

Please doctors in the house, is there any drug or medication that i can take to make me overcome shyness ?...
You are just an Introvert, though on the extreme case...Almost 24...At this age...You need more of self confidence, boldness and good looking...

Next, you should be targets oriented, this will help stir your mind off irrelevance and set up on mind blowing achievements.
Nothing deh woman, I wonder where the fear come from...They are humans like you..

Be polite and welcoming...The right lady will come around.

Lastly, eat healthy and exercise regularly...For your healthy looks....@24 no babe is not a bad sign..if u really have something doing good people will come around..

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