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What Will Be Your Decision?? by Hoyhebusy(m): 10:49am On Aug 22, 2021
The question:
*Your husband/wife and your brother/sister are both applying for a 10million naira contract, and you are required to sign the contract as a seal on the contract, but you can sign for only one person, who will you sign for and WHY?*

Give a critical opinion with reasons please
Re: What Will Be Your Decision?? by chatinent: 10:53am On Aug 22, 2021
In a situation where I will benefit from one, I will honestly sign my wife's.


She is my superlative family here.

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Re: What Will Be Your Decision?? by SKhanmi: 11:06am On Aug 22, 2021
That depends on a whole lot of factors we can't even deliberate on.

E.g Your knowledge of the financial history & behaviour of both parties,

The reason they applied for they contract, the methods to be applied and the likely end result.

What you stand to gain/Lose from deciding for one party or not.

The maturity of the said individuals, external familiy ties etc.

You have to provide parameters for this kind of questions, else it's all a blind shot in the dark.

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Re: What Will Be Your Decision?? by RightToReject(m): 11:14am On Aug 22, 2021
Consortium exists for a situation as such; so, one will be formed officially or unofficially and everyone will benefit from the deal in the end.

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Re: What Will Be Your Decision?? by 2dice01: 12:31pm On Aug 22, 2021
My brother or Sister
They are my Blood grin
My wife isn't cool
Re: What Will Be Your Decision?? by Nobody: 5:11pm On Aug 22, 2021
There's going to be a written agreement with a legal binding between me and whoever I'll be signing for, that he / she will give me my own cut otherwise I'm not signing for any body. undecided grin.

Human beings can change. Trust no one.

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Re: What Will Be Your Decision?? by StPete: 5:24pm On Aug 22, 2021
Most women will sign for their brother/sister

Most men will sign for their wife
Re: What Will Be Your Decision?? by Karleb(m): 8:30pm On Aug 22, 2021
Somebody will just wake up and brings up a scenario to cause fight.

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Re: What Will Be Your Decision?? by ImaIma1(f): 9:32pm On Aug 22, 2021
2dice01:
My brother or Sister
They are my Blood grin
My wife isn't cool


So your mother isn't your father's blood. You would agree with your dad if he signs for his sister rather than your mum?

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Re: What Will Be Your Decision?? by ImaIma1(f): 9:35pm On Aug 22, 2021
I will sign for my husband. My siblings will not expect any different. In fact if my sense is not enough for me to know that I'm to pick my husband, they will advise me to sign for him.

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Re: What Will Be Your Decision?? by mastermaestro(m): 9:47pm On Aug 22, 2021
2dice01:
My brother or Sister
They are my Blood grin
My wife isn't cool

I am not sure you know that sexual intercourse is a blood exchange.
For your information once you marry, your spouse automatically becomes your number one blood relation.

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Re: What Will Be Your Decision?? by Hoyhebusy(m): 10:50pm On Aug 22, 2021
SKhanmi:
That depends on a whole lot of factors we can't even deliberate on.

E.g Your knowledge of the financial history & behaviour of both parties,

The reason they applied for they contract, the methods to be applied and the likely end result.

What you stand to gain/Lose from deciding for one party or not.

The maturity of the said individuals, external familiy ties etc.

You have to provide parameters for this kind of questions, else it's all a blind shot in the dark.

This one choke oo, u wan use oyinbo Kee me
Re: What Will Be Your Decision?? by Hoyhebusy(m): 10:51pm On Aug 22, 2021
CharisEleos:
There's going to be a written agreement with a legal binding between me and whoever I'll be signing for, that he / she will give me my own cut otherwise I'm not signing for any body. undecided grin.

Human beings can change. Trust no one.

Fact

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Re: What Will Be Your Decision?? by Hoyhebusy(m): 10:52pm On Aug 22, 2021
StPete:
Most women will sign for their brother/sister

Most men will sign for their wife

Raphsody of reality
Re: What Will Be Your Decision?? by Hoyhebusy(m): 10:52pm On Aug 22, 2021
Karleb:
Somebody will just wake up and brings up a scenario to cause fight.



As how please??
Re: What Will Be Your Decision?? by 2dice01: 11:43pm On Aug 22, 2021
ImaIma1:


So your mother isn't your father's blood. You would agree with your dad if he signs for his sister rather than your mum?
Yes
My mum isnt my father's Blood

Yes his sister is his Blood
Re: What Will Be Your Decision?? by 2dice01: 11:59pm On Aug 22, 2021
mastermaestro:


I am not sure you know that sexual intercourse is a blood exchange.
For your information once you marry, your spouse automatically becomes your number one blood relation .
My number one are my Parents if i have kids
They will be number 1

Your wife will be whatever you want her to be
Re: What Will Be Your Decision?? by ImaIma1(f): 12:20am On Aug 23, 2021
2dice01:
Yes
My mum isnt my father's Blood

Yes his sister is his Blood


cheesy

Chai!
There's nothing we won't hear from NL boys.
Re: What Will Be Your Decision?? by 2dice01: 8:51am On Aug 23, 2021
ImaIma1:


cheesy

Chai!
There's nothing we won't hear from NL boys.
Grandma cool
They are related by marriage

Google confirmed grin

Re: What Will Be Your Decision?? by bukatyne(f): 9:42am On Aug 23, 2021
ImaIma1:
I will sign for my husband. My siblings will not expect any different.

1. In fact if my sense is not enough for me to know that I'm to pick my husband, they will advise me to sign for him.

1. That's why my people (Yorubas) say a bad spouse is better than bad in-laws.

They figure that if a wife/husband doesn't have sense, their family would call them to order.

But if the in-laws don't have sense with a senseless spouse? It is finished!

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Re: What Will Be Your Decision?? by AFONAMARO: 9:53am On Aug 23, 2021
I don't mix business with pleasure. The most qualified and competent person gets the contract without blinking.

Contracts/business shouldn't be a thing to play politics with

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Re: What Will Be Your Decision?? by Lamanii22(f): 10:00am On Aug 23, 2021
My husband because he is my direct family.... Omooor I don't really know oooo..... Maybe my husband sha... It would be hard to ask for money from you siblings in the long run....

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Re: What Will Be Your Decision?? by ImaIma1(f): 10:33am On Aug 23, 2021
2dice01:
Grandma cool
They are related by marriage

Google confirmed grin


When you are of the age and you get the understanding, you won't need to search on google.

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Re: What Will Be Your Decision?? by 2dice01: 10:45am On Aug 23, 2021
ImaIma1:


When you are of the age and you get the understanding, you won't need to search on google.
Ancestor grin cheesy
No need arguing with you
You will never understand

Have a nice day

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Re: What Will Be Your Decision?? by ImaIma1(f): 11:10am On Aug 23, 2021
bukatyne:


1. That's why my people (Yorubas) say a bad spouse is better than bad in-laws.

They figure that if a wife/husband doesn't have sense, their family would call them to order.

But if the in-laws don't have sense with a senseless spouse? It is finished!


Exactly. Bad in-laws can destroy a marriage especially if the spouse too doesn't have sense.

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Re: What Will Be Your Decision?? by SKhanmi: 5:08pm On Aug 23, 2021
Hoyhebusy:


This one choke oo, u wan use oyinbo Kee me

No be so. Look at the answers on this thread, most are subjective.

Except for the guy that said not to mix business with pleasure.

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