What are ur thought about this ?

No she shouldn't marry she needs someone with PHD or a Prof!

Do not marry a man educationally below you ... as a woman, it will always ...ALWAYS end bad !

A man's Identy is strongly tied with his ego. And a woman's identity is strongly tied to attention ...

The fact that the man is below her will automatically take some of the attention e.g. ojuaye. Off from her and then resentment creeps in mostly unsuspecting.

The next thing you as a woman will be using it as a tool to shame him and it will hit his ego the wrong way next thi've you both can't stand each other .. Next thing your ex is sliding in your dm and you can't wait to see em.

Marriage la mort! Se fini!

Another Chinamanda disciple. By no degree, I'm sure you mean illiterate
Men don't care about your degrees or career. It doesn't increase your femininity. It doesn't make you more sexy or attractive.

Na degree go feed una? Marry a responsible person that all.
If a person character is bad degree won't change that.
Degree can't make you to be ambitious its an individual thing.
As long as the man you man marry have goals dream degree or no degree he will not stop till he achieve.
All this scammers and lecturer sorters Na go call themselve graduate.
Madam Aunty many go to school but school no go through them.
A gambler, an Alcoholic will be same degree or no degree.

w1n5t0n:
Another Chinamanda disciple. By no degree, I'm sure you mean illiterate
Men don't care about your degrees or career. It doesn't increase your femininity. It doesn't make you more sexy or attractive.

that’s not what I asked

Damn Niggar!!!!!


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Franzinni:
Do not marry a man educationally below you ... as a woman, it will always ...ALWAYS end bad !

A man's Identy is strongly tied with his ego. And a woman's identity is strongly tied to attention ...

The fact that the man is below her will automatically take some of the attention e.g. ojuaye. Off from her and then resentment creeps in mostly unsuspecting.

The next thing you as a woman will be using it as a tool to shame him and it will hit his ego the wrong way next thi've you both can't stand each other .. Next thing your ex is sliding in your dm and you can't wait to see em.

Marriage la mort! Se fini!

hmmmmm

yuping:
Na degree go feed una?

degree no go feed us, but I feel it can mess things up , funny enough it’s not even about his ego but the lady , how’s she going to tell her friends her man has no degree. Just a sec school result , tho the guy is very intelligent but those things do matter

falcon01:
No she shouldn't marry she needs someone with PHD or a Prof!

not far from the truth

Liliantalks:
degree no go feed us, but I feel it can mess things up , funny enough it’s not even about his ego but the lady , how’s she going to tell her friends her man has no degree. Just a sec school result , tho the guy is very intelligent but those things do matter

If he is willing to learn, he can still go to school.

Liliantalks:
What are ur thought about this ?

why not? the important question IS: whats wrong if they do indeed get married?

IMHO there is nothing wrong with them getting married, so long as they are compatible. just because someone as a master and the man she fancies does not, wont make their love for one another any better/worse.

here is a simple clue: before 2 people get married, they have to get to know one another, spend valuable time dating one another, then fall in love with one another, then become fiancee for a few more years and THEN down the line think of marriage. so, if that man was good enough as a mate through all this process, then i can assure you that he will be good as a husband (whether with a degree or without)

Mtchewww bullshit!

Lillian things have changed o...

There are many careers that does not require u to acquire a university degree to pursue.

The president is not degree holder but rose to the rank of a general and 2/3 time/term president.

I understand that anybody can become anything without degree but it is tough in our part of the world to be relevant without college education. I wouldn't advice you to go into it because you will see your type later in the nearest future and that will lead to adultery and ended up with divorce. There are many things attach to love, love is a product of many things; education, Information, coordination, and physical outlook.

VeeVeeMyLuv:
Lillian things have changed o...

There are many careers that does not require u to acquire a university degree to pursue.

The president is not degree holder but rose to the rank of a general and 2/3 time/term president.

very encouraging

adexpa:
I understand that anybody can become anything without degree but it is tough in our part of the world to be relevant without college education. I wouldn't advice you to go into it because you will see your type later in the nearest future and that will lead to adultery and ended up with divorce. There are many things attach to love, love is a product of many things; education, Information, coordination, and physical outlook.

this is the biggest fear .

Franzinni:
Do not marry a man educationally below you ... as a woman, it will always ...ALWAYS end bad !

A man's Identy is strongly tied with his ego. And a woman's identity is strongly tied to attention ...

The fact that the man is below her will automatically take some of the attention e.g. ojuaye. Off from her and then resentment creeps in mostly unsuspecting.

The next thing you as a woman will be using it as a tool to shame him and it will hit his ego the wrong way next thi've you both can't stand each other .. Next thing your ex is sliding in your dm and you can't wait to see em.

Marriage la mort! Se fini!

so a woman with an Msc should not marry a man with a Bsc? una funny

Liliantalks:
What are ur thought about this ?

No degree is different from Lower Degree. Marry your type. Water always find its level. Be careful

The guy's gonna feel so insecure. The situation will hurt his ego hence the reason they gonna have marital problems.

shege45:
so a woman with an Msc should not marry a man with a Bsc? una funny

I said no degree, not bsc

Op dey there dey ask question. Hope say u get shock absorber because e go shock u when u get to know that it's happening already.

Degree is just formal qualification that even the man can still acquire at any age, to the extent of getting it beyond the Masters you talked about.

See kweshion. So long d pocket z deep, they can marry anything.

adexpa:
I understand that anybody can become anything without degree but it is tough in our part of the world to be relevant without college education. I wouldn't advice you to go into it because you will see your type later in the nearest future and that will lead to adultery and ended up with divorce. There are many things attach to love, love is a product of many things; education, Information, coordination, and physical outlook.

lead to adultery because someone has a degree that her husband doesnt?!?!??! lol!!!!

if someone is a cheating wh0re then no matter the degree or not, they will cheat regardless...

BTW love has absolutely NOTHING to do with education.

MufasaLion:
The guy's gonna feel so insecure. The situation will hurt his ego hence the reason they gonna have marital problems.

thats because you automatically assume that a man with no degree will have a worse position/job in life than a master degree holder... while we all know that many of these Masters degree holders are jobless, doing shitty jobs and/or are unhappy in their career, so long as they "both" can feed their family, her degree is irrelevant.

Why not.. if he has all the qualities the lady wants in a man and a functional preek

MufasaLion:
The guy's gonna feel so insecure. The situation will hurt his ego hence the reason they gonna have marital problems.

I disagree with this.. the money and prestige some of these so called men without degrees have, some PhD holders don't have.
I think the degree she is talking about here is level of education and refinement which the person can get through part-time and distance learning programmes.

Liliantalks:
degree no go feed us, but I feel it can mess things up , funny enough it’s not even about his ego but the lady , how’s she going to tell her friends her man has no degree. Just a sec school result , tho the guy is very intelligent but those things do matter

how will she tell her friends her man has no degree! Really?
But it won't matter if he is an obi Cubana, dangote or otedola right?

MrBrownJay1:


thats because you automatically assume that a man with no degree will have a worse position/job in life than a master degree holder... while we all know that many of these Masters degree holders are jobless, doing shitty jobs and/or are unhappy in their career, so long as they "both" can feed their family, her degree is irrelevant.

Well, you got my point wrong!

Most men in such situation will always feel insecure and their ego will be bruised most times because the wife will definitely be meeting with men of all kinds that are well educated. She's gonna be doing businesses and all sorts mostly with educated men and any mistake by the wife would always be seen as being disrespectful or being proud or whatever by the husband.

I never berated any uneducated men. I only stated the fact! Even educated men still feel insecure about their women especially if the lady is doing better than them talk less of uneducated men. It's natural thing even if the woman is not doing well as the husband.

flokii:


I disagree with this.. the money and prestige some of these so called men without degrees have, some PhD holders don't have.
I think the degree she is talking about here is level of education and refinement which the person can get through part-time and distance learning programmes.

And how many men without degrees have money, and prestige? Few men!

MrBrownJay1:


lead to adultery because someone has a degree that her husband doesnt?!?!??! lol!!!!

if someone is a cheating wh0re then no matter the degree or not, they will cheat regardless...

BTW love has absolutely NOTHING to do with education.

I have been to few countries where education is not a factor but not in our own part of the world( Nigeria). You have to look into every possible outcome because what turns out to be problem in some marriages are just minor/trivial things that were no holistically put into consideration from onset. Educational differences is a big deal in Nigeria settings and must be thoroughly looked into.