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| How Do I Address This? by Akintundexxy: 6:58pm On Oct 20, 2021 |
Good day everyone. Good day everyone. Let me hit the nail on the head, I'm a semi-introvert, but I swing between extrovert and semi-introvert depending on my environment. 1. I have friends that we do see and talk casually, but something I notice is; I do get betrayed often by people. I'm not dull, I wouldn't say I'm intelligent. As people would say, I have a good sense of humour. I'm humble as people do comment about this also. But I find it very difficult to gain the loyalty of people. At this stage of my life, I think I need not only people's loyalty but also how to indirectly manipulate them. 2. People are shy when talking to me, I'm not rich for now nor do I possess anything special, even those that are older than I am. They seem not to be comfortable when discussing with me as touching the reason I gave above. I'm in my early 20s. I need advice please... lalasticlala abeg |
| Re: How Do I Address This? by Davash222(m): 6:59pm On Oct 20, 2021 |
You need advice on why people are shy talking to you  1 Like |
| Re: How Do I Address This? by flokii: 7:04pm On Oct 20, 2021 |
@OP you need to up your game.. never allow them know your next move. No be only you your mama born? or friends follow join?? We live in a world where people use people and love for the moment and what they stand to gain. My people will say 'owo epo laraye ba ni la'. Na success get friends for this life but still you can keep a small circle of friends and be okay. |
| Re: How Do I Address This? by Authority1o1(m): 7:04pm On Oct 20, 2021 |
Okay... You're a young adult, and a Nigerian. So if I'm guessing right, no one has run off with your millions, neither has any one of your men defected from your Corleone camp to a rival Tattaglia circle. Which begs the question, how have people been betraying you? Do they lash your girlfriend behind you? To address the second one, I'd say that in a world where respect is hard to earn, having people treat you with such regard is a possible pointer that they could be in awe of your charisma. And I don't see that as something you should be sad about. |
| Re: How Do I Address This? by lomprico(m): 7:21pm On Oct 20, 2021 |
what advice do u seek? |
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