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What could have been considered love for 23-year-old Comfort Peter as turned sour as her soldier lover who promised to marry her and deflowered her at the age of 19 flees after having a son for him

This is the story of a secondary school drop out who narrates how a Nigerian soldier who was deployed to Bauchi state, impregnated her in 2017 and disappeared.

Comfort who is now appealing to the Nigeria Army to assist her in finding her estranged lover who she identified as Sergeant Julius Simon, disclosed that the soldier who she claimed was serving with Biu Regiment of the Army, defiled her at the age of 19 after arriving Bauchi state for a special operation in 2017.

She also claimed that the woman she was working with disapproved of the affair. Comfort who revealed that Simon was 30 at that time, recounted choosing marriage over her education after her father made her chose between the two.

She said, “She told me that if Julius actually loves me then he should come to our house. When I told him (Simon), he agreed and started coming to our house.

“My father said he desired that I go for further studies because I just finished secondary school but Julius promised to marry me."

Alleging that Julius told her father that he had intentions of marrying her, Comfort added that he defiled her shortly after inviting her to his house after claiming that they have completed their assignment in Bauchi and are planning to return to Biu.

She said, “I went to his house and he prevented me from going back to my father’s house that day. I told him that if he did not want me to return to my father’s house, then he would marry me and I would stay with him. He agreed. He seized my phone and he forced me to have sex with him that day."

She further told journalists she approached at the Press Centre of the Nigeria Union of Journalists (NUJ), Bauchi on Thursday November 4, that she was a virgin prior to this.

Comfort added, “I told him that was not our agreement. He promised to get back to me and take me to live with him. When I came home my father almost killed me for sleeping outside.

“Few days later, I started vomiting. My father noticed and asked my mother. My mother said it was just malaria.”

She revealed that after she realized that she was pregnant, she ran out of the house to her aunt’s house in Tafawa Balewa since her father had been warning his female children that any of them who becomes pregnant in his house would be disowned.

She explained that she visited Sergeant Simon twice in Biu but each time she went, he became furious and threatened not to marry her again.

Comfort also disclosed that since she gave birth to a baby boy in June, 2019, she has not seen the soldier and his telephone number has been switched off.

She said, “I communicated with one of his friends who told me they have been posted to Maiduguri . The friend told me that Julius said he would not marry me again,” adding that she regretted going out with Simon.

“How can you treat someone that you said you love like this?”she asked rhetorically, adding that her soldier lover had cheated her.

Asked what she wants, the mother of one simply retorted that all she wants is justice, adding that the soldier should take responsibility for his child.

“I want justice. Let him come and be a father to his son because the boy is two years old now and has started asking for his father.

“Julius was the one that deflowered me. He promised to marry me but deceived me. I will never love or trust any man again but he must take care of his son."

Comfort who was in company of her father, pleaded with Army authorities to help her to locate the father of her son and also make him take responsibility for the child.

She said, “As for me, l no longer love him. I have forgiven him but won’t marry him again."

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Hmmmm

Chai

Common occurrence with soldiers. Most of them live a nomadic life - always on the move from place to place. Date them at your own risk.

Eiya.Ladies who are too emotional and quick to believe deceitful words from men always end up like this. The more a man is over you with all of the zeal,the more you should put your brains at work,drag him till his zeal and lust(which is what it is most times) has subsided and by then his real and original self begins to manifest.I almost loved a nairalander but I played a fast one on him till he unconsciously began to manifest his true and original self after quenching the hush hush he came with,I later deduced that he has big anger issues and sees nothing too bad in punching a woman and I had to silently cut him off.I wish I can adopt this child then patiently wait for when the sperm donor will come claim him as his son.

Keep opening the pu.s.s.y

That's their specialty, going about war torn regions sowing seeds everywhere.

Only God knows wetin innocent girls dey face for IDP Camps

Instead of her to choose school she choosed marriage, well that's her choice so she should deal with it. Forget the man, hustle and take care of her son...

When you were busy collecting prick, dont you think of repercussion?! If normal guy had toasted, you girls will be looking for something higher like ready made. I almost feel sorry for you. But I dont.

Julius Simon come and carry your proceeds of war ..... you don't just go about getting ladies pregnant with marriage sweet talks and absconding........


it's not fair please

Forgetting the Nigerian army that's still behaving like the dark ages army...

A 19 year old defiled? Are you effing kidding me?
This lady at a whole 19 ans chose dick over education and come out now to shout defiled.

You willingly went to his house, collected the d from different locations with shouts of "harder" disturbing the neighbors.

He deceived you no less but the deceit was not in the sex matter but in dumping your whole sorry brain that chose dick over education.

Women want to always paint a colorful picture of themselves...

May u find help in life.

proxitaly:
Forgetting the Nigerian army that's still behaving like the dark ages army...

A 19 year old defiled? Are you effing kidding me?
This lady at a whole 19 ans chose dick over education and come out now to shout defiled.

You willingly went to his house, collected the d from different locations with shouts of "harder" disturbing the neighbors.

He deceived you no less but the deceit was not in the sex matter but in dumping your whole sorry brain that chose dick over education.

Women want to always paint a colorful picture of themselves...

I couldn't agree less...