PreciousBro:

Lol

That can't possibly be your pain.

Anyway, check the Theological wise teachings of Jesus, Solomon and Joshua(Son of Sirach, one who wrote the book of Hebrew) The Ecclesiasticus.

Sirach chp 36 vs 21.

Contained in that holy book(GNTD version) but not for your scruffy hands to grab.

Again, Because none of what you claim is of God nor supported by His Word and Truth. So please leave His name out of this.

It is really that simple!

Kobojunkie:
Again, Because none of what you claim is of God nor supported by His Word and Truth. So please leave His name out of this.

It is really that simple!

Stop calling God like you're his P.A. lol

If you're a witch that doesn't know how to fly then of what use is your witchcraft talent? Stylishly lodging a sense of disacknowledgment on the points made. You asked for it,I showed you and now you're instructing yourself to stay out of it lol

Ashewo plus Junkie plus demonic plus feminist I mean you're a bundle of everything against the ordinance of God, devil must have had a hand in your creation(no pun intended), why should I be yoked with you,huh?

Koboko is what you need.

PreciousBro:

Stop calling God like you're his P.A. lol

If you're a witch that doesn't know how to fly then of what use is your witchcraft talent? Stylishly lodging a sense of disacknowledgment on the points made. You asked for it,I showed you and now you're instructing yourself to stay out of it lol

Ashewo plus Junkie plus demonic plus feminist I mean you're a bundle of everything against the ordinance of God, devil must have had a hand in your creation(no pun intended), why should I be yoked with you,huh?

Koboko is what you need.

Again, Because none of what you claim is of God nor supported by His Word and Truth. So please leave His name out of this.

It is really that simple!

Kobojunkie:
Again, Because none of what you claim is of God nor supported by His Word and Truth. So please leave His name out of this.

It is really that simple!

Woman of perdition, pretending herself to be God's Angel

By the way, why are you always knitting your brows? Hunger? Bitterness, or a dearth of man in your life ?

Desist from having a combative psych, it'd jeopardise your sadness. Go and sin no more, woman. A man will find you worthy. Life is good. If you're beautiful then stay humble and happy, men will linger in multitude at your father's doorstep.

Adios!

PreciousBro:

Woman of perdition, pretending herself to be God's Angel

By the way, why are you always knitting your brows? Hunger? Bitterness, or a dearth of man in your life ?

Desist from having a combative psych, it'd jeopardise your sadness. Go and sin no more, woman. A man will find you worthy. Life is good. If you're beautiful then stay humble and happy, men will linger in multitude at your father's doorstep.

Adios!

Again, Because none of what you claim is of God nor supported by His Word and Truth. So please leave His name out of this.

It is really that simple!

001spice:
free u ke.. I kidnap u ni. See me see wahala. Next b4 u comment think very.

smiles, u want me to start exchanging words with you, I'v got something important to do so feel free to spew anything but stop quoting me

debbydams:
smiles, u want me to start exchanging words with you, I'v got something important to do so feel free to spew anything but stop quoting me

Eeya..sorry madam.image na command abi na order..i shud stop quoting u. U be bible ? Laslas u will need to report me to the police or better still to the admin.

josite:



quite insightful. But you actually posited that our parents relationship works .and that is not quite correct ,what actually happened was the suppression of discontent by the couples especially the wives but this in turn leads to extreme preparation on the part of the discontent wives before she engages in adultery ,consequently only very few of them are caught but the results of the adulteries still persist in form of bastards.

then our fathers do not necessarily externalise the issue of wives caught in adultery and the bastards among their kids. Most of our fathers knew the bastards among their kids but chose to go about it wisely with many of them revealing the bastards in their WILL.MKO ABIOLA e.g knew there are bastards amongst his kids. He didn't make much noise about it but note the issue in his will and instructed some kids be subjected to the dna.

painfully the men of this generation are too lousy. Clever by half and never wise resulting in the extreme externalisation of the faults of the new wife and the wives has respondent with far better than lousiness eg ffks wife .

decadence i agree with you is what has resulted but happily now that men and women are now so bothered by the decadence ,a new day will spring up. Single parenthood only needs a WHO to declare it a pandemic. A relationship pandemic.

Solution will start with men being wise. Was told in times past, impotent men arranged for the sexual satisfaction of the wife and barren woman arrange for their husbands to have kids by other woman. But will the lousy husband of today be that wise and will the lousy wife of today be that wise?

now u see relationships are failing principally because of lack of wisdom to navigate difficult terrains encountered in relationships and our parents marriages endure not because there were not challenges but wisdom was majorly allowed e.g MKO ABIOLA.

ADULTERY is not a thing that wasn't present in our parent's marriage. The Yoruba traditional society has the ALE & OMO ALE concept well established. deterrence to adultery is what has been largely watered down, the mother in law you want to complain to about the adulterous way of your modern wives is herself a mega adulteress and the scriptures makes it clear, as the mother is so is the daughter and the bible talks about territorial spirits and say some tribes like the Laodiceans are liars.

beloved some tribes ,Yoruba o ,ibo o have their own evil tendencies.I am yoruba and i think the yoruba woman is largely adulterous.'OKO KAN KO KUN CUPBOARD.(ONE HIUSBAND WILL NOT FILL YOUR WARDROBE)

Study the mother in law before you marry her is one of the guide as 75 percent of women will eventually turn out to be a worse version of their mother and the mother's settings wiil be their default settings.

This is so true. I’ve had a first hand experience of this. Whenever the woman is going for her adulterous journey, she drops her kids of at her mother’s, she spend weeks, her husband lives in another state. Her mom knows her “concubines” (not one).
It’s true women with adultery in their dna give birth to chronic cheats.

I don watch my hand commot from relationship and love
The truth is that there is real and truthful relationship


I pray � I have one someday

dhiqson:

Story
Thanking God for my last relationship
The person that I thought I was gan spend the rest of my life with, taught me how to let toxicity go
I mean, she's the reason I'm redpilled
Rn I no even too dey send
If it ain't about me, you're just playing yourself
And maybe I have a problem, I dunno don't care I'm all to myself
Got great friends I could kill for
I go hard for them, they go harder for me
Life's Good
God's good



You date a mature lady
She feels she's always right
Younger one, just plain st*****
Omo abeg

Real talk

Nne be calming down

debbydams:
depending on the level of the lady maturity, a guy once told me 'lets be friends with benefits, I'm not ready for anything serious' I told him I can't do that, if we accidentally meet on the road we talk and go our separate ways, I personally so much appreciate sincereity, if a guy doesn't like to me it won't take up to a month before I find out and the kind of hatred I'll have for him ehn..I don't insult people because they express their feelings but I insult people when I already said I'm not interested and they still disturb me over it again, the kind insult I'll drop ehn.. we all have different personalities.

pansophist:


Will you blame them? Honestly, I sympathize with women sometimes. I'll explain.

When a female child is born, she started being valuable instantly. From the age of 13, she is desired by guys generally, music worships her, and every business targets her because she will rope in men to spend (eg, cinema). She is a child and all this attention are coming to her, not from her own hard work but just because she has the "f" gender. Same age frame young boys are facing suicidal rejections, for her, it's general acceptance and worship.

At that age, the sad reality is teaching boys valuable life skills such as dealing with rejections, being invincible, having to initiate, self-development, juggling the demands from yourself, others and God forbid, materialistic girlfriend. But in that painful experiences, he finds himself. This existential hardship though painful, fortifies him and makes him a tough nut, and this crucial skills will lead him to live a good life.

But for the women, many have gone through life on easy-mode, and have spoilt beyond repair without knowing. She has adopted all kinds of disgraceful attitudes such as entitlement, selfishness, high body count, being materialistic, emotional baggage, that mere mentioning of concept such as responsibility and accountability sounds like ancient Arabic. She has grown from childhood to maturity by others being responsible for her, while she can't be to herself, talk more to a man.

And you know what's ironic? She believe she is matured now. Now she knows what she wants, and any man that can't commit is a manchild who is afraid of responsibility. She has spiritually grown, and ready to settle down. And of course, men should ignore her past and "man-up". She can be broke, no problem, it's the heart that matters and it's a man duty to provide. She now has all the skills in her ammo to spin conversations in her favours.

But this is a result of disconnecting the female child from the broader culture, where she is free, and can do what she wants. [This is the consequence of what is known as "sexual liberation". Sadly, she suffers more, and this had become so normal in society, how much our culture have fallen. Sadly.

When most guys in their mid/late 30s go for younger ladies 19-25 yrs, most ladies in the Epiphany stage will say "men go for these younger ladies because they are easy to manipulate"

No! we go for younger ladies instinctively because some have less baggage, easy to relate with when you maneuver through the initial barrier...


They easily forget the saying "you can't eat your cake and have it"

josite:



quite insightful. But you actually posited that our parents relationship works .and that is not quite correct ,what actually happened was the suppression of discontent by the couples especially the wives but this in turn leads to extreme preparation on the part of the discontent wives before she engages in adultery ,consequently only very few of them are caught but the results of the adulteries still persist in form of bastards.

then our fathers do not necessarily externalise the issue of wives caught in adultery and the bastards among their kids. Most of our fathers knew the bastards among their kids but chose to go about it wisely with many of them revealing the bastards in their WILL.MKO ABIOLA e.g knew there are bastards amongst his kids. He didn't make much noise about it but note the issue in his will and instructed some kids be subjected to the dna.

painfully the men of this generation are too lousy. Clever by half and never wise resulting in the extreme externalisation of the faults of the new wife and the wives has respondent with far better than lousiness eg ffks wife .

decadence i agree with you is what has resulted but happily now that men and women are now so bothered by the decadence ,a new day will spring up. Single parenthood only needs a WHO to declare it a pandemic. A relationship pandemic.

Solution will start with men being wise. Was told in times past, impotent men arranged for the sexual satisfaction of the wife and barren woman arrange for their husbands to have kids by other woman. But will the lousy husband of today be that wise and will the lousy wife of today be that wise?

now u see relationships are failing principally because of lack of wisdom to navigate difficult terrains encountered in relationships and our parents marriages endure not because there were not challenges but wisdom was majorly allowed e.g MKO ABIOLA.

ADULTERY is not a thing that wasn't present in our parent's marriage. The Yoruba traditional society has the ALE & OMO ALE concept well established. deterrence to adultery is what has been largely watered down, the mother in law you want to complain to about the adulterous way of your modern wives is herself a mega adulteress and the scriptures makes it clear, as the mother is so is the daughter and the bible talks about territorial spirits and say some tribes like the Laodiceans are liars.

beloved some tribes ,Yoruba o ,ibo o have their own evil tendencies.I am yoruba and i think the yoruba woman is largely adulterous.'OKO KAN KO KUN CUPBOARD.(ONE HIUSBAND WILL NOT FILL YOUR WARDROBE)

Study the mother in law before you marry her is one of the guide as 75 percent of women will eventually turn out to be a worse version of their mother and the mother's settings wiil be their default settings.

Well put... It's a generational thing amongst humans. As a kid living in a face me I face you barrack apartment, all these things happen as it is happening now and those set of parents are in their 50s upward now and I still know a few in their 40s sef...

pansophist:


Exactly, hence I hammered on the concept of "deregulation of the sexual marketplace". What we have is purely romantic capitalism that is brutal, with no democratic elements to it. Its basically sexual oligarchy, survival of the richest, where you have to be rich first, and she wish you'll be a good person, and to be beautiful and hot first, then he wish she will make a good wife.

We never see anything yet. To guess what is yet to come, take a look at relationships in the African American communities, they are the first in this journey of decadence. To predict the future, the past is a good place go start.

Na wa ooooooo

deregulation of the sexual marketplace, romantic capitalism,democratic, sexual oligarchy, survival of the richest.

All inside relationship matter.

Na waaaaaaa

emmaodet:


Na wa ooooooo

deregulation of the sexual marketplace, romantic capitalism,democratic, sexual oligarchy, survival of the richest.

All inside relationship matter.

Na waaaaaaa

I wish it was not like that.

emmaodet:


Na wa ooooooo

deregulation of the sexual marketplace, romantic capitalism,democratic, sexual oligarchy, survival of the richest.

All inside relationship matter.

Na waaaaaaa

Pansophist no go kill person. Na so all the terminologies almost wunjure me too

DoctorOlasDesk:




Pansophist no go kill person. Na so all the terminologies almost wunjure me too

No vex. Some words are better fitted to pass emotions through words, for readers to feel it like I felt it, make the thing loud well well.

pansophist:


No vex. Some words are better fitted to pass emotions through words, for readers to feel it like I felt it, make the thing loud well well.

Sexual oligarchy. Smh vigorously

DoctorOlasDesk:



Sexual oligarchy. Smh vigorously

What i meant by that term is the sexual monopoly that a few have over the majority. For example, the tiny rich folks (politicians, celebrities, yahoo boys etc) monopolise sex to such an extent that the average Joe is left in the cold. His only idea of sex will probably be through masturbation or prostitution. Just as natural resources are in the hands of the government, sex is in the hand of the rich few.

The healthy dynamics of inter-gender relationship has been so messed up, as a consequence of the heavy monetization of sex, hence the term, sexual oligarchy. Its survival of the richest. Even an average well to do guy that earns x2 the minimum wage is struggling to survive, there is just no middle ground, or class, it's only the extreme of "the haves" and "have nots".

pansophist:


What i meant by that term is the sexual monopoly that a few have over the majority. For example, the tiny rich folks (politicians, celebrities, yahoo boys etc) monopolise sex to such an extent that the average Joe is left in the cold. His only idea of sex will probably be through masturbation or prostitution.

The healthy dynamics of inter-gender relationship has been so messed up, as a consequence of the heavy monetization of sex, hence the term, sexual oligarchy. Its survival of the richest. Even an average well to do guy that earns x2 the minimum wage is struggling to survive, there is just no middle ground, or class, it's only the extreme of "the haves" and "have nots".

I understand accurately. Just that all the whole terms almost felt like returning to school studying calculus and organic chemistry afresh

I guess age does something to women and men alike. Perhaps as al grow and soften our inner cores, our motivation, perspectives and actions would posture much differently than they are during our stiff periods

HitSong:

You are a HYPOCRITE!
That's why I detest most of you with passion.
You will claim to be dating one guy for like two years, yet your bodycount will be around 3-5 within that two years.
YET, YOU'LL CLAIM NOT TO BE A RUNS GIRL OR A PROSTITUTE... But you get "favour" from all the other affairs too... THEN WHAT ARE YOU??

You do unto others what you won't like them to do to you, yet you want peace, happiness and commitment...
You will never find those things until you become honest with yourself first.

YOU CAN NOT PLANT CASSAVA AND EXPECT TO REAP MANGO...

Damn!

Manlikechoba:
Me that is looking for a serious relationship and ready to be committed

I don dey find woman for almost 6 months, na insult I just dey recieve left,right and center.. some say if I'm willing to take care of their Bill's that they are ready....

I don weak

Those ones are liabilities. Thank the heavens they showed you their true colours otherwise you would have wasted all efforts and resources before you realise the mess you would have gotten into.

DoctorOlasDesk:




Pansophist no go kill person. Na so all the terminologies almost wunjure me too

pansophist:


Exactly, hence I hammered on the concept of "deregulation of the sexual marketplace". What we have is purely romantic capitalism that is brutal, with no democratic elements to it. Its basically sexual oligarchy, survival of the richest, where you have to be rich first, and she wish you'll be a good person, and to be beautiful and hot first, then he wish she will make a good wife.

We never see anything yet. To guess what is yet to come, take a look at relationships in the African American communities, they are the first in this journey of decadence. To predict the future, the past is a good place go start.

You are not far from the truth bro.
This situation as lead to sexual onshore/offshore dichotomy, a situation where the consumers(men) are fully at the mercy of the harsh and wicked suppliers(women) without using the consumers protection act to protect the consumers.
This is like a tale of 2 cities -
It is the best of times (for the rich guys having all the ladies) yet it is the worst of times(for the poor masses of men at the side-line looking and waiting desperately to be noticed by the female folks),
it is the age of wisdom (redpill, awareness etc) yet it is the age of foolishness (massive simping and women worship),
it is the season of Light (redpill, knowledge, advancement) yet it is the season of Darkness(massive ignorance, educated illiterates, sodomy, clubbing, group banging and overdosed drugs),
it is the spring of hope yet it is the winter of despair,
we have everything before us yet we have nothing before us

emmaodet:


You are not far from the truth bro.
This situation as lead to sexual onshore/offshore dichotomy, a situation where the consumers(men) are fully at the mercy of the harsh and wicked suppliers(women) without using the consumers protection act to protect the consumers.
This is like a tale of 2 cities -
It is the best of times (for the rich guys having all the ladies) yet it is the worst of times(for the poor masses of men at the side-line looking and waiting desperately to be noticed by the female folks),
it is the age of wisdom (redpill, awareness etc) yet it is the age of foolishness (massive simping and women worship),
it is the season of Light (redpill, knowledge, advancement) yet it is the season of Darkness(massive ignorance, educated illiterates, sodomy, clubbing, group banging and overdosed drugs),
it is the spring of hope yet it is the winter of despair,
we have everything before us yet we have nothing before us

Omo, see poet. I thought you're a sailor, I no sabi say you're also a poet in a Shakespearean level.

emmaodet:


You are not far from the truth bro.
This situation as lead to sexual onshore/offshore dichotomy, a situation where the consumers(men) are fully at the mercy of the harsh and wicked suppliers(women) without using the consumers protection act to protect the consumers.
This is like a tale of 2 cities -
It is the best of times (for the rich guys having all the ladies) yet it is the worst of times(for the poor masses of men at the side-line looking and waiting desperately to be noticed by the female folks),
it is the age of wisdom (redpill, awareness etc) yet it is the age of foolishness (massive simping and women worship),
it is the season of Light (redpill, knowledge, advancement) yet it is the season of Darkness(massive ignorance, educated illiterates, sodomy, clubbing, group banging and overdosed drugs),
it is the spring of hope yet it is the winter of despair,
we have everything before us yet we have nothing before us

Make una kuku scatter my devices screen. Na which one be sexual onshore/offshore dichotomy again

DoctorOlasDesk:



Make una kuku scatter my devices screen. Na which one be sexual onshore/offshore dichotomy again

pansophist:


Omo, see poet. I thought you're a sailor, I no sabi say you're also a poet in a Shakespearean level.

pansophist:
Two words here, hypergamy and polygamy, the two vices of that have captivate most people, and they don't want to heal themselves from of it. Our selfishness and "whats in for me?", instead of "what can I give?", is what has brough us to this mess.

For women, it's hypergamy on steriods. They may have boyfriend, even a husband, but his validity ends when a better (understand it as richer) dude shows up, she will dump the boyfriend, or cheat if she is married. Her loyalty, commitment is conditional, for better for stay, for worse for astray. It's exactly what Naira Marley meant when he said "she is not your girlfriend, it's just your turn".

For men, its destructive polygamy. For example, traditional polygamy holds such polygamous men to husbandry responsibilities and by law, he has to fulfil legal, parental, and paternal duties to the children/wives. But now, a man may even be married to one, but have unlimited mistress and no responsibility towards them either, basically ejaculate and evacuate, the women are merely a tool.

Although no matter how we mourn about the cesspit romantic marketplace, its as a result of our own doing, and this has been well explained in the doctrines of "the deregulation of the sexual marketplace". Quote me if you want me to write about it, to explain why its a mess. The bad news is that it will only get worse, not better, worse. Its common sense. When you throw away old cultures that works (your parent's relationship is an evidence), then you'll arrive at one that doesn't work.

Relationships by its very definition should be regulated in a societal level, then the individuals participating in it will abide by ordained protocols and traditions that are passed down from past generations who have tested all models and arrived at one that works. Not now where a kid of 13 that is not just naive and naturally inexperienced, is expected to make decisions as lifelong as Relationship, navigating the sea of toxic people all in the name of freedom and liberalism. It has a price, and its called decadence.

Word of wisdom

debbydams:
God will not come down to help, even God will partners still divorce..pastors are not left out

Then stay on your own,make money and enjoy,relationship is not a do or die affair...

MadamOk:
I don watch my hand commot from relationship and love
The truth is that there is real and truthful relationship


I pray � I have one someday

Love don't exist.