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How Pastors, Religious Leaders Have Been Ruining Relationships (true Story ) by Disclaimer12: 5:04pm On Nov 21, 2021
I read a post earlier on about a certain guy whose girlfriend left him because the pastor said they were not compatible, then I decided to share my many experiences here, it might help one or two people. I'll be as brief as possible.
FIRST INSTANCE
Back then at the university, I was in the third year, there was this tall, pretty lady that caught my attention, though we will all agree with me that most university relationships don't even end in marriages, it was more of lust than love honestly, I walked up to this lady and I asked her out, several months after I'm still meeting brick wall , her excuse was that she was dating a certain working class guy who was waiting for her to round up with school, her families and the guy's family know they were dating ! After many failed attempt, I subdued the pressure and ended up being friendzoned , fast forward to some months after I already gave up, the said lady started showing interest in me with the content of her messages, being a smart guy, I knew something was wrong with her cherished relationship, I asked her , she told me amidst sobs that unfortunately she have to call it quits because the pastor said the guy was not destined for her! In short the pastor asked her to break up with the guy , meanwhile they share the same Christian faith, I wasn't really convinced about the said pastor's prophesy, I was willing to test the pastor's spiritual prowess, I shoot my shot again, this time Elizabeth (not real name ) accepted my proposal on the condition that I have to give her my name for the pastor to pray about it, I hurriedly sent her full names, and waited for the outcome , the next Sunday, after the service, she called me and we hanged out together , she said the pastor saw it in the spirit that I was her chosen partner! I laughed ! I told her the honest truth , the full names I wrote were never my name's! She only knew me with my alias , so the three names were picked from a movie scene and the said oastie couldn't pick someone was messing with his calling ! Lol! I persuaded her to reunite with her boyfriend, but she believed the pastor so so much and didn't want to ruin her future , she decided to stick with me nonetheless, after a couple of bedroom activities and having satisfied my devilish fantasies , we broke up! She went back to her ex, the guy forgave her, today they both lived in Berlin Germany with 2 kids and as far as I know, they are happy together.
SECOND INSTANCE
Amaka( not real name) was my childhood neighbor in Okota Lagos, she was my younger sister's friend and I found out she had huge crush on me then, meanwhile back then in the secondary school, I was an extremely shy guy, I couldn't walk up to a girl and asked her out, I also like Amaka, but couldn't summon the courage to talked to her, so we both know we liked each other and waiting on anyone of us to make the move, fast forward to some years later , I was out of the secondary school, awaiting university admission, you know those period when you have to stay at home for over a year after WAEC and JAMB, I became a voluntary teacher, Amaka came to the house day knowing I was the only one always at home playing TV games, she asked that I helped her fill the JAMB form she just purchased , one thing led to another we found ourselves kissing, haven't missed before, haven't shagged before, before u say Jack her clothes were down already, apparently she was more experienced having been with older bros in the streets! I ran to aboki to get Condom, took me 10 minutes to wear it,lol ! When it was time to insert the rod, I was sweating and didn't even know where to put my thing! She was irritated and left ! She went around telling the neighbors that I was impotent ! People laughed at me and my ego was battered lol! Fast forward to many years after, I was done with the university , obviously Naija school will spoil u, I have turned to a pro in the game , the pain of missing out on Amaka hit differently! Luckily we met again, this time she was already a single mum, I asked her out, luckily she still liked me ! Meanwhile the only thing on my mind was a revenge! No iota of feeling anymore whatsoever ! She accepted to date him on the condition that I followed her to see her pastor who will pray about it! We went to meet the man, he asked me about my job and all that ! Afterward asked us to knee down and after prayers, he smiled and said Sis Amaka this is your husband, he's a noble man and honest ! Me? Noble? Honest ? Ah pastor Don help me tidy job o! That night we retired to her apartment and shagged like 2 hungry Souls, you know when you're out to prove you're not impotent! The strength will be on another level, it's been almost 10 years now, I have japa and I don't even know where she is again ! Meanwhile the same Pastor asked her to leave a certain guy in the past coz to him God wasn't happy with the relationship.

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Re: How Pastors, Religious Leaders Have Been Ruining Relationships (true Story ) by Disclaimer12: 5:19pm On Nov 21, 2021
THIRD INSTANCE
My very good friend who's a Muslim have an Alfa friend, most of her clients were young ladies looking for husband. He will asked for names and pray and select for them, most times it end well, the other time it won't ! It's all guessing game! Then I realised my friend was always coming home with different classy girls, ranging from Nurses, Bank staffs and different working class girls, meanwhile I know my guy and his ability to speak to ladies, he wasn't even fluent enough grammatically, how he was convincing these ladies was a mystery , u til he opened up to me! The said Alfa , whenever he has client looking for husband, he will make his fake consultations after collecting money , he will then describe how the lady future husband will look like, where she will meet him, the first word he will say to her and all that! With a warning that she must never say NO whenever he comes her way or otherwise she will be single for life! The same Alfa will tell my guy where to find the lady , the cloth she wore, the first thing to say to her and all that! My guy will simply follow the lead from the Alfa, walk up to those ladies and if course she will be thrilled that what Alfa said was coming to past! That was how my guy was changing different girls and shagging different ladies for many years until he left the community!
FOURTH INSTANCE
My uncle was 35 years then, he refused to settle down despite having a good paying job! When he eventually wanted to get married, the mother was against his choice ,the reason was that the said lady was from Another tribe , mama did all to convince bros to leave the lady! That their Church pastor said he will regret it if he marry the lady! Meanwhile the said pastor was a very popular and respected in the community ! I told my uncle about my last experiences with all these pastors, Seers! He decided to play my trick on mama! He called mama and told her that he left the lady, he has 3 ladies in his life now, but that it was difficult to chose which one was right! Together we picked three random names abd gave to mama! She went back to 'pray about it's eventually came back and pick the middle name , that the pastor said that's who the Lord has chosen as his partner ! We both burst into a loud laughter , mama was confused! We sat her down and told her those three names were fake! If the pastor was seeing clearly he should have picked up the lies we told! Mama was embarrassed beyond words! My uncle got married to the lady the said pastor was against! It's been many years with beautiful kids and endless happiness.

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Re: How Pastors, Religious Leaders Have Been Ruining Relationships (true Story ) by yuping(m): 5:20pm On Nov 21, 2021
Hmmm you gave pastor 3 different names from three different movie Scene you sure say you go make heaven..

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Re: How Pastors, Religious Leaders Have Been Ruining Relationships (true Story ) by Rossonero: 5:22pm On Nov 21, 2021
I think you are right but on the hand, it still requires prayers before you choose a partner and am sure you can do it on your own after several and thorough Spiritual guidance and counselling. God help us all.

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Re: How Pastors, Religious Leaders Have Been Ruining Relationships (true Story ) by Disclaimer12: 5:23pm On Nov 21, 2021
You can imagine how many homes these so called seers have ruined! It's so sad that many ladies and men still fall for these till today! Many are arranged marriages in the church and are staying together with bitterness, but they dare not leave each other because of the warning of the pastor! I pray one day we will all be able to liberate our minds and know that we are spirit and have access to talk to God directly by ourselves without the many so called Men of God or prophets of these days! Meanwhile I'm a good Christian and I speak to my God as well!
Re: How Pastors, Religious Leaders Have Been Ruining Relationships (true Story ) by Disclaimer12: 5:24pm On Nov 21, 2021
grin grin if I no do like that , how I wan take know the pastor sef Na guyman like me ?
yuping:
Hmmm you gave pastor 3 different names from three different movie Scene you sure say you go make heaven..

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Re: How Pastors, Religious Leaders Have Been Ruining Relationships (true Story ) by Disclaimer12: 5:25pm On Nov 21, 2021
Yes you have the power to talk to God and also have to access your partner for some times as well! That's why there's courtship period ! If need be, you can go for counselling and guidance ! Simple
Rossonero:
I think you are right but on the hand, it still requires prayers before you choose a partner and am sure you can do it on your own after several and thorough Spiritual guidance and counselling. God help us all.
Re: How Pastors, Religious Leaders Have Been Ruining Relationships (true Story ) by Disclaimer12: 5:27pm On Nov 21, 2021
Pastor Righteousness2, we need your attention here, please come and help us she's more light
Re: How Pastors, Religious Leaders Have Been Ruining Relationships (true Story ) by Righteousness2(m): 5:44pm On Nov 21, 2021
The summary of your Epistle is that Deceivers and Fornicators jam themselves.

All of you are Same of the same.
You are also like the "Pastors" you are talking about.
Re: How Pastors, Religious Leaders Have Been Ruining Relationships (true Story ) by Disclaimer12: 5:51pm On Nov 21, 2021
Sir, I didn't deny I played a trick to get to know the truth and all these happened many years ago! My question here is, is it possible for a man of God to pick your partner for you, just by writing his or her name? Without knowing the person characters and all that ! That's what we want you to shed lights to her pastor
Righteousness2:
The summary of your Epistle is that Deceivers and Fornicators jam themselves.

All of you are Same of the same.
You are also like the "Pastors" you are talking about.
Re: How Pastors, Religious Leaders Have Been Ruining Relationships (true Story ) by Disclaimer12: 6:21pm On Nov 21, 2021
Pastor, why is it that if we asked questions, you men of God get angry ? Why are we configured never to ask if we are confused ? I'm only asking a question with due respect and knowing well that you are the most respected or known MOG on this forum! I'm a Christian and we all have our past! I only said mine, many other people also have the past! That doesn't mean they can't be called Christian after knowing and accepting Christ, but this culture of never question a man of God is what I really don't understand
Righteousness2:
The summary of your Epistle is that Deceivers and Fornicators jam themselves.

All of you are Same of the same.
You are also like the "Pastors" you are talking about.

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Re: How Pastors, Religious Leaders Have Been Ruining Relationships (true Story ) by 22o62021: 7:11pm On Nov 21, 2021
I don’t go to pastors

I rather take the name to my Ancestors


Well my father will suggest I go to a traditional seer to find out everything about her family

He doesn’t want me to bring a girl that has a generational madness or sickness home

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Re: How Pastors, Religious Leaders Have Been Ruining Relationships (true Story ) by Righteousness2(m): 7:50pm On Nov 21, 2021
Disclaimer12:
Pastor, why is it that if we asked questions, you men of God get angry ? Why are we configured never to ask if we are confused ? I'm only asking a question with due respect and knowing well that you are the most respected or known MOG on this forum! I'm a Christian and we all have our past! I only said mine, many other people also have the past! That doesn't mean they can't be called Christian after knowing and accepting Christ, but this culture of never question a man of God is what I really don't understand

Angry ?
For what?
My Brother I am not angry ooo...
I just relayed what I understood by your Epistle.
Re: How Pastors, Religious Leaders Have Been Ruining Relationships (true Story ) by Olunmercy56(f): 7:57pm On Nov 21, 2021
Stop putting all your believe in any man calling himself a pastor, go directly to God in prayers.

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Re: How Pastors, Religious Leaders Have Been Ruining Relationships (true Story ) by Disclaimer12: 8:22pm On Nov 21, 2021
So you saying the traditional seers don't lie?those ones that always demand for outrageous stuffs and giving u many times and regulations
22o62021:
I don’t go to pastors

I rather take the name to my Ancestors


Well my father will suggest I go to a traditional seer to find out everything about her family

He doesn’t want me to bring a girl that has a generational madness or sickness home

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Re: How Pastors, Religious Leaders Have Been Ruining Relationships (true Story ) by Disclaimer12: 8:23pm On Nov 21, 2021
Okay sir! I understand you don't want to get involved with the topic, I respect your decision sir ! More grace
Righteousness2:


Angry ?
For what?
My Brother I am not angry ooo...
I just relayed what I understood by your Epistle.
Re: How Pastors, Religious Leaders Have Been Ruining Relationships (true Story ) by Disclaimer12: 8:25pm On Nov 21, 2021
It's a shame many fake pastors or spiritualist outnumbered the real ones ! Its getting out of hand
Olunmercy56:
Stop putting all your believe in any man calling himself a pastor, go directly to God in prayers.
Re: How Pastors, Religious Leaders Have Been Ruining Relationships (true Story ) by Olunmercy56(f): 8:37pm On Nov 21, 2021
Disclaimer12:
It's a shame many fake pastors or spiritualist outnumbered the real ones ! Its getting out of hand
real prophets are very scarce
Re: How Pastors, Religious Leaders Have Been Ruining Relationships (true Story ) by Disclaimer12: 8:41pm On Nov 21, 2021
It's scary ! Do u also notice most of these guys now don't refer to themselves as pastor or evangelist like in the past! Almost all churches now are presided over by so called prophets, because prophesy is what's in vogue now! Misleading people in the name of religion
Olunmercy56:
real prophets are very scarce

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Re: How Pastors, Religious Leaders Have Been Ruining Relationships (true Story ) by 22o62021: 7:14am On Nov 22, 2021
Disclaimer12:
So you saying the traditional seers don't lie?those ones that always demand for outrageous stuffs and giving u many times and regulations


The ones I go to don’t demand anything
Re: How Pastors, Religious Leaders Have Been Ruining Relationships (true Story ) by Disclaimer12: 4:43pm On Jul 25, 2022
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Re: How Pastors, Religious Leaders Have Been Ruining Relationships (true Story ) by Softmirror: 5:10pm On Jul 25, 2022
Disclaimer12:
You can imagine how many homes these so called seers have ruined! It's so sad that many ladies and men still fall for these till today! Many are arranged marriages in the church and are staying together with bitterness, but they dare not leave each other because of the warning of the pastor! I pray one day we will all be able to liberate our minds and know that we are spirit and have access to talk to God directly by ourselves without the many so called Men of God or prophets of these days! Meanwhile I'm a good Christian and I speak to my God as well!

NA SO DEM PROPHESIED THAT TINUBU WILL NOT WIN APC PRIMARY.
Re: How Pastors, Religious Leaders Have Been Ruining Relationships (true Story ) by Disclaimer12: 5:12pm On Jul 25, 2022
Lol! Imagine
Softmirror:


NA SO DEM PROPHESIED THAT TINUBU WILL NOT WIN APC PRIMARY.

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Re: How Pastors, Religious Leaders Have Been Ruining Relationships (true Story ) by Softmirror: 5:14pm On Jul 25, 2022
Disclaimer12:
Lol! Imagine
grin
Re: How Pastors, Religious Leaders Have Been Ruining Relationships (true Story ) by drnoel: 5:59pm On Jul 25, 2022
Rossonero:
I think you are right but on the hand, it still requires prayers before you choose a partner and am sure you can do it on your own after several and thorough Spiritual guidance and counselling. God help us all.

BS
Re: How Pastors, Religious Leaders Have Been Ruining Relationships (true Story ) by Koralords: 6:05pm On Jul 25, 2022
Let me add mine ,a friend who already had 5 kids from 2different ladies was doing part time in uni,met this lady banker who was doing very well,she took his name to her pastor who told her he is her husband,the girl started spending like mad for this guy that's already married and had another baby mama outside ,
She collected a car gave this guy,bough a land is his name ,the guy almost finished this girl
Funny enough the guy is now a pastor
Re: How Pastors, Religious Leaders Have Been Ruining Relationships (true Story ) by Disclaimer12: 6:48pm On Jul 25, 2022
All these so called seers and pastors ehn, they've done more than enough evil
Koralords:
Let me add mine ,a friend who already had 5 kids from 2different ladies was doing part time in uni,met this lady banker who was doing very well,she took his name to her pastor who told her he is her husband,the girl started spending like mad for this guy that's already married and had another baby mama outside ,
She collected a car gave this guy,bough a land is his name ,the guy almost finished this girl
Funny enough the guy is now a pastor
Re: How Pastors, Religious Leaders Have Been Ruining Relationships (true Story ) by baretalk: 7:41pm On Jul 25, 2022
Women na mugu for psstors.
Re: How Pastors, Religious Leaders Have Been Ruining Relationships (true Story ) by cavreek: 8:13pm On Jul 25, 2022
No genuine religious leader will choose a partner for you instead they will guide you

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