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Please What Advice Can You Give To A Friend Going Through This From His Wife by Babsojimjim: 12:43pm On Dec 05, 2021
Dear All,

The write up below is exactly what a friend is going through from his wife. Please what sort of action can he take?


Thanks


Despite, all I have done to please my wife, called Reverend fathers and pastors to counsel her, my wife is still indifferent to me, citing accumulated pains of the past.

Currently, she says she wants to go back to her parents house else she will die or commit suicide. I calle her parents, and their advise was that since she is my wife, I should decide if to allow her leave my house or stay in my house that the decision is mine.

At this juncture am confused and dont know what to do again.

Even the unmarried friend of my wife who came to stay with us is not helping matter at all as she seems to be enjoying the challenge between me and my wife.

Please advise needed. Thanks.

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Re: Please What Advice Can You Give To A Friend Going Through This From His Wife by Mariangeles(f): 12:50pm On Dec 05, 2021
Tell your friend to make himself emotionally unavailable.
Tell him to become indifferent. To not care anymore.
That way, whatever she does, can't and won't hurt him.
Let him not attempt to play her game.
The only way to beat a manipulator at their game is to distance yourself from them emotionally.

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Re: Please What Advice Can You Give To A Friend Going Through This From His Wife by Ryda(m): 1:03pm On Dec 05, 2021
Most importantly


Mariangeles:
Tell your friend to make himself emotionally unavailable.

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Re: Please What Advice Can You Give To A Friend Going Through This From His Wife by ipobarethieves: 1:50pm On Dec 05, 2021
sad Refuse to be a dummy,dumbo,toy,mumu,clueless,hopeless man of the house .Be a man of Authority not to be manipulate,control by a wife/even the wife family.Shake off ur WEAKNESS

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