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Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Publiuscrassus(m): 11:14am On Jan 12, 2022 |
Can a husband/wife rape his/her spouse? No! Could this scenario be termed as an assault? Yes Conjugal right is fundamental in marriage but it should not be exercised through force. 2 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by CSTRR: 11:14am On Jan 12, 2022 |
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Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Engrsilver1: 11:14am On Jan 12, 2022 |
I feel pity my bro but there is always a way out, we had to help one our cousin who found him self in such situation. 1 Like |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by aktolly54(m): 11:14am On Jan 12, 2022 |
InTheCloudySky:for how long he should keep begging her? That kind of woman don't look like someone who will accept apology for the next 6months , she has a stone heart like me but might have good sides(just like me) . The op should just learn how to cook by itself and find PAY-GIRL outside then he won't have problem with food and sex. She can continue to keep malice with her husband for as long as she want. NONSENSE AND INGREDIENTS PS: I don't support what the op did but he should have cheated immediately she denied him sex and there is nice restaurant outside where man can eat or maybe op didn't know anywhere 2 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by nedekid: 11:14am On Jan 12, 2022 |
Oga chill and don't over wound yourself ontop begging. Beg once and not 10 times (you get?). She is to blame as much as you also have your own fault for over reacting. In marriage a wife should submit her body to her oga. Why do you think it is said in church during marriage rites? That submit body in plain raw terms means fucking! How can you as a wife be in marriage and bone your hubby for 1 month? Not that he traveled oh, not that he has injury on his gbola. Marriage of few years when body should still be hot. What will we that have been in marriage for 20+ years do then? You have apologized, e don do, ignore her forming cry cry from reading mills and boons, relate with her as if noting happened. Buy you food from outside if you cannot cook yourself. Her head will set overtime. If not no be marriage you de. Nb: you reset her brain with slap, please don't do that again. Assault is a no no. 4 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Olaideolayemi(m): 11:14am On Jan 12, 2022 |
Some peoples were just bias in commenting..Rape definition doesn't include couple, at time,for husband to rape their wife show loyalty, love and marriage institutions unless,he would look for side chic..Am not supporting rape or domestic violence, this is how many woman turn their husband to chronic cheater,because of this attitudes.. Nothing good than expressing the reason for your action and reasonable husband will amend,but No..They see sex as power to achieved any of their aim..Very bad..I pray may God settled them..Op very morning.. Beg her and also write in paper to show your apology and call for more dialogue.. 2 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Slynation(m): 11:15am On Jan 12, 2022 |
I just can't comprehend some things in this union called marriage...!! This case is very critical, just call her parents and explain everything to them if they are still around...!! No two ways about it, both of you are wrong in this case, she was the architect of the whole issue and you went too extreme just to satisfy your sexual urge...!! That is why I like myself, you refused me kpekus, I will just sleep or enter binance trades, after all sex is overrated...!! Most mehn needs to learn how to tame ladies, there are different ways to do this, just master your acts and you see them coming back to apologize...!! 2 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Psoul(m): 11:16am On Jan 12, 2022 |
Noah9: Whenever pr!ck rises. Brain goes on holidays. Pr!ck don fall, Brain is active. How can you rape your wife? A woman that has given you a baby, did u raped her to get you that baby? A wife that you know say if she no give u today, she go give you tomorrow. Are you such a lousy and idle man that can't occupy his mind and time with another thing when he can't get sexual satisfaction he requested for? 2 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Stronghold91: 11:17am On Jan 12, 2022 |
you do well |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Kingcalls: 11:17am On Jan 12, 2022 |
cococandy: A man can't rape his wife...stop forming woke... a wife has no right to deny her husband sex...its a big sin if u don't know it... denying ur spouse sex can lead to adultery which is among the commandments of God....again the a spouse can ask for divorce and win the case if the partner is not performing his or or matrimonial duty ... it like give u money to keep for me, I later ask u for the money and u refuse to give me , I then search ur bag ,see money in ur back and forcefully take it and u go about telling people that I stole ur money... u women should start being logical for once and stop throwing emotions 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by gadgethead: 11:17am On Jan 12, 2022 |
ibechris: Most mature and sensible comment on such a sensitive subject 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Somke(m): 11:17am On Jan 12, 2022 |
A responsible wife who knows the meaning of being a wife is not supposed to deny her husband sex except in some situations where the two parties are in agreement or in a situation of III health. Furthermore abusing your wife to gain access to having sex is totally wrong. Both parties needs to apologise to each other especially the man and you too can also see a therapist. If all options to make the marriage work is exhausted then divorce is the last option because there's no need being in a marriage where there's no happiness. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by ASPIREX: 11:18am On Jan 12, 2022 |
Voluntarily you tied the notch...... voluntarily you can also untie the same knot. No need for violence or abuse. Life is too short for theatrics. Try and enjoy every moment of your life. I read somewhere and I believe it wholly "you are here to enjoy supreme happiness". Do not tolerate a partner you loved and have grown to 'unlove'. Summarily, if the relationship (both dating and marriage) becomes toxic pls do not allow it to degenerate into an irreparable situation....disengage as fast as possible. Your life will assume a better dimension ultimately. |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Nobody: 11:19am On Jan 12, 2022 |
My advice. Stop marrying people you don't know. So you don't end up in prison facing multiple life sentences or at worst on Death row. There is a reason why a long courtship is recommended. This way you get to know who you are dealing with. Time is the revealer of all things. Don't be in rush to tie the know when you barely know the man or the woman. Your partner did not change... You are the one who changed; you are now willing to see things from an objective point view hence all your partners flaws are now visible. Subjectivity leads to exaggeration and herein lies the problem... KiNg0G: |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by yinkeys(m): 11:19am On Jan 12, 2022 |
adisabarber:Very bad advice You’re a novice bro |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by tiswell(m): 11:20am On Jan 12, 2022 |
Oga quickly run a DNA on your daughter asap... e get why |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by thesolutions(m): 11:20am On Jan 12, 2022 |
socialmediaman:That guy is a Tecno marketer. Tecno is no longer paying so they are using their skills to play with people's minds and emotions. How can he not be concerned about being sued for rape by the imaginary wife. All he cared about was his daughter and people reaction. Just another sensational paid post. |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by BigBashiru: 11:21am On Jan 12, 2022 |
AlphaAlex: the side chick needs to be born again and there needs to be a connection between you both. #teampolygamy! |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by usah4(m): 11:22am On Jan 12, 2022 |
KiNg0G: Denying a man sex for a month is that right for a wife?? I know he went too far but she's guilty at first or would you rather prefer he cheats on her or what |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Charlestotle22(m): 11:22am On Jan 12, 2022 |
Good morning brother, I have had this same experience of sexual starvation fueled by family planning, but God helped me not to go down to rape or cheating. Consider these options as it stands. 1. Avoid looking for sexual satisfaction elsewhere. It will further destroy your home. 2. Please speak to your pastor and seek his counsel together with your wife. This will help her trust your accountability. 3. If she did family planning, encourage her to change the options for child spacing. 4. If you have brought this matter here. I believe you are a child of God no matter your religion. Just pray about it and focus your energy in providing for her. 5. Also consider if her current work or study is stressful and has fueled her less desire for sex. 6. And finally, consider your behaviour towards her. Because African men see sex as right but women sees it as reward for care. Handle her as your girl friend. Thank you. NB: This are my own opinion and not a professional guide. God bless you 2 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Ikem11(m): 11:22am On Jan 12, 2022 |
In as much a married woman suppose be submissive to her husband but you having heart to "rape" your "wife" it means you don't have a heart. Your wife should be like your mother with same respect. If she refuse you sex believe me there is a reason for that and the problem is from you. What stopped you from talking to her, finding out why the sudden change. And you foolishly think because she is your "wife" you have power to do whatever you pleases as if she is a dog you bought. Better go amend your mistakes before it's too late for you and next time... Learn to be communicative with your wife. Anu ofia 1 Like |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Das1mama: 11:22am On Jan 12, 2022 |
gfon:A B C D E F G H I J K L M N O P Q R S T U V W X Y Z..... U gerit... Understand b4 using them..... |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by wildikeman(m): 11:23am On Jan 12, 2022 |
Noah9: You need to leave that house !!! How dare you. Keep begging her and doing other things for her. But, leave that house and wait for her decision. |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by elmas(m): 11:23am On Jan 12, 2022 |
Maximus85: Arrange for ur own kidnap?? Has it gotten to that ? >: |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Maximus85(m): 11:24am On Jan 12, 2022 |
elmas: Drastic measures oooo |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Ten06(m): 11:25am On Jan 12, 2022 |
Guy you are still a bachelor |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Nobody: 11:25am On Jan 12, 2022 |
BigBashiru:Not necessarily, I will only deal with a side chick that can adhere to My rules Simple she doesn’t have to be born again she just has to have common sense to understand her role finish I won’t be begging any woman to behave herself when I know I have the resources and ability to get another one better than her.. she can live her life but when I want sex she has answer it’s not like I will treat her anyhow but she has follow my simple rules . |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by charlypoker(m): 11:25am On Jan 12, 2022 |
It's bad that you hit her. You have apologized and you need to give her time to heal and forgive you. the part where you call it rape is what I still find hard to believe that having your way in having sex with your wife is rape. If you married her, fulfilled traditional custom in making her your wife. I don't see that has rape. Why will a wife deny her husband sex without explaining to him, why will she push him off when she knows that he needs it? Y'all might be saying men are scum, and I know most of you will not agree with me. In as much as I don't support hitting your wife, I also, do not support woman sex starving their husband. Did your pastor told you not to give me sex? Now that the man who doesn't want to commit adultery has made his way forcefully to have sex with his wife, you are now calling it rape. Don't blame the man alone, blame the woman also. and for you the man, saying you raped your wife, you need more sense. 2 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by emapeteum(m): 11:26am On Jan 12, 2022 |
ibechris:Very intelligent advice,unlike always putting the blame on the man alone.Though what the man did is bad,but the woman brought out the beast in her husband. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by ENIGMATIC2023(m): 11:28am On Jan 12, 2022 |
What pussy cannot kill does not exist. 1 Like |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by sammirano: 11:28am On Jan 12, 2022 |
You are a very weak man. Thats why, you still online seeking solution to the problem 1 Like |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by elmas(m): 11:28am On Jan 12, 2022 |
ayindejimmy: Why he developed that animalistic trait is because he has vowed never to cheat on his wife, if to say na sidechick e for cool down |
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