Good day ladies and gentlemen.
Let me spare you the details of the gist and go straight to the point.

For more than a year now, this girl and I have been casually chatting--mostly flirting on WhatsApp. I met her the last time I went visiting home. She also was in my shoes, but she came from Abuja.
From the very start of our convo, I had been straightforward with her (just for the nacks, and she was apparently cool with it). In fact, she mentioned that she was not the relationship type.
Last year, I was mobilized, and posted to Abuja for my service year. I thought it was the perfect opportunity to go down. On about three occasions, we planned to meet (strictly for knacking), but one thing or the other stopped it, (on my end actually)

Three days ago, she called me that she was in Lokoja, very close to Abuja, and that she can come over if I want her to. Of course, I wanted her to; so, I asked her to come over (for the knacks). I sent her the fare, and she came over yesterday. For reasons best known to me, I lodged her in a hotel. We chatted, flirted and ate, all till around 11PM. While we were chatting, I noticed she started denying her lifestyle, even without asking her. She forgot that she used to post all those on her WhatsApp status. Or maybe, she thought I forgot. It was at this point I discovered something was fishy.

Aunty, oya come to bed and let's get started na. She did. Then, as a guy na, I started touching her. Na so aunty talk say she no be my girlfriend, therefore, make I no dey touch her like that. In my mind, I said, na joke this sisi dey jare. She just dey form. I pressed further, but she kept on turning me down. It was at this point I had to choose between losing my grip or holding my grip.

I picked up my phone and called my guys in the compound if they will be able to open the gate for me. Luckily for me, the third guy I called was up. Stood up from the bed, dressed up, transferred the same amount of fare I she expended for coming to my place into her account. Gave her cash to find her way out of the estate.

Before I left, I told her she messed up big time, and that I cannot tolerate that. "Goodnight, and safe trip back to wherever you came from" I said. (This is because I discovered she didn't come to Abuja solely because of me)

Na so I commot. On my way home, I missed her call once and that even reminded me to block and delete her contact.

So, my question is, did I overreact?

I forgot to mention that she said no word after all my short soliloquy.

Wahala!!!

And I’m here thinking of how to invest 2000 naira to get 30k in return before tomorrow morning.

Maybe she don dey catch feelings or she wan use for billing....
That girl don see money... you for no even give her shishi

This one dey catch feelings for ashewo

From your story, it seems you have money.

Where in Abuja do you stay? let's meet . All bills on me

Well you did what I will probably have done.

I expect an agreement should be followed to the letter.

What nonsense?

You did fine.....giving her transport fare and some spending money. You also allowed her to lounge in that cosy hotel room.

The thing is you gave off signs you are made of money.

Anyway, nice touch though.

A very short story

Ufedolove:
Good day ladies and gentlemen.
Let me spare you the details of the gist and go straight to the point.

For more than a year now, this girl and I have been casually chatting--mostly flirting on WhatsApp. I met her the last time I went visiting home. She also was in my shoes, but she came from Abuja.
From the very start of our convo, I had been straightforward with her (just for the nacks, and she was apparently cool with it). In fact, she mentioned that she was not the relationship type.
Last year, I was mobilized, and posted to Abuja for my service year. I thought it was the perfect opportunity to go down. On about three occasions, we planned to meet (strictly for knacking), but one thing or the other stopped it, (on my end actually)

Three days ago, she called me that she was in Lokoja, very close to Abuja, and that she can come over if I want her to. Of course, I wanted her to; so, I asked her to come over (for the knacks). I sent her the fare, and she came over yesterday. For reasons best known to me, I lodged her in a hotel. We chatted, flirted and ate, all till around 11PM. While we were chatting, I noticed she started denying her lifestyle, even without asking her. She forgot that she used to post all those on her WhatsApp status. Or maybe, she thought I forgot. It was at this point I discovered something was fishy.

Aunty, oya come to bed and let's get started na. She did. Then, as a guy na, I started touching her. Na so aunty talk say she no be my girlfriend, therefore, make I no dey touch her like that. In my mind, I said, na joke this sisi dey jare. She just dey form. I pressed further, but she kept on turning me down. It was at this point I had to choose between losing my grip or holding my grip.

I picked up my phone and called my guys in the compound if they will be able to open the gate for me. Luckily for me, the third guy I called was up. Stood up from the bed, dressed up, transferred the same amount of fare I she expended for coming to my place into her account. Gave her cash to find her way out of the estate.

Before I left, I told her she messed up big time, and that I cannot tolerate that. "Goodnight, and safe trip back to wherever you came from" I said. (This is because I discovered she didn't come to Abuja solely because of me)

Na so I commot. On my way home, I missed her call once and that even reminded me to block and delete her contact.

So, my question is, did I overreact?

ME NO UNDERSTAND O<OOH!



I HOPE THIS IS NOT MY COUSIN BROTHER?
because we knew that the government sent you to serve ur father's land not to chase and do hook up.

Issokay!!!

Uzomacharles:
Maybe she don dey catch feelings or she wan use for billing....

That girl don see money...
you for no even give her shishi

I just didn't want to leave her stranded. Don't care if she had money on her. Just wanted to be sure she wasn't stranded.

alphaNomega:
This one dey catch feelings for ashewo

I can't catch feelings for a regular girl, talk less of a packaged olosho wey wan dey do good girl for me

Animegirl:
From your story, it seems you have money.

Where in Abuja do you stay? let's meet . All bills on me

I dey Gwarinpa, but na manage I dey manage my life abeg

Godada:



Well you did what I will probably have done.

I expect an agreement should be followed to the letter.

What nonsense?

You did fine.....giving her transport fare and some spending money. You also allowed her to lounge in that cosy hotel room.

The thing is you gave off signs you are made of money.

Anyway, nice touch though.

I guess I did.

Ufedolove:
Good day ladies and gentlemen.
Let me spare you the details of the gist and go straight to the point.

For more than a year now, this girl and I have been casually chatting--mostly flirting on WhatsApp. I met her the last time I went visiting home. She also was in my shoes, but she came from Abuja.
From the very start of our convo, I had been straightforward with her (just for the nacks, and she was apparently cool with it). In fact, she mentioned that she was not the relationship type.
Last year, I was mobilized, and posted to Abuja for my service year. I thought it was the perfect opportunity to go down. On about three occasions, we planned to meet (strictly for knacking), but one thing or the other stopped it, (on my end actually)

Three days ago, she called me that she was in Lokoja, very close to Abuja, and that she can come over if I want her to. Of course, I wanted her to; so, I asked her to come over (for the knacks). I sent her the fare, and she came over yesterday. For reasons best known to me, I lodged her in a hotel. We chatted, flirted and ate, all till around 11PM. While we were chatting, I noticed she started denying her lifestyle, even without asking her. She forgot that she used to post all those on her WhatsApp status. Or maybe, she thought I forgot. It was at this point I discovered something was fishy.

Aunty, oya come to bed and let's get started na. She did. Then, as a guy na, I started touching her. Na so aunty talk say she no be my girlfriend, therefore, make I no dey touch her like that. In my mind, I said, na joke this sisi dey jare. She just dey form. I pressed further, but she kept on turning me down. It was at this point I had to choose between losing my grip or holding my grip.

I picked up my phone and called my guys in the compound if they will be able to open the gate for me. Luckily for me, the third guy I called was up. Stood up from the bed, dressed up, transferred the same amount of fare I she expended for coming to my place into her account. Gave her cash to find her way out of the estate.

Before I left, I told her she messed up big time, and that I cannot tolerate that. "Goodnight, and safe trip back to wherever you came from" I said. (This is because I discovered she didn't come to Abuja solely because of me)

Na so I commot. On my way home, I missed her call once and that even reminded me to block and delete her contact.

So, my question is, did I overreact?

Nope you did alright

Ufedolove:

I can't catch feelings for a regular girl, talk less of a packaged olosho wey wan dey do good girl for me

so wetin make you come open thread?

Ufedolove:
Good day ladies and gentlemen.
Let me spare you the details of the gist and go straight to the point.

For more than a year now, this girl and I have been casually chatting--mostly flirting on WhatsApp. I met her the last time I went visiting home. She also was in my shoes, but she came from Abuja.
From the very start of our convo, I had been straightforward with her (just for the nacks, and she was apparently cool with it). In fact, she mentioned that she was not the relationship type.
Last year, I was mobilized, and posted to Abuja for my service year. I thought it was the perfect opportunity to go down. On about three occasions, we planned to meet (strictly for knacking), but one thing or the other stopped it, (on my end actually)

Three days ago, she called me that she was in Lokoja, very close to Abuja, and that she can come over if I want her to. Of course, I wanted her to; so, I asked her to come over (for the knacks). I sent her the fare, and she came over yesterday. For reasons best known to me, I lodged her in a hotel. We chatted, flirted and ate, all till around 11PM. While we were chatting, I noticed she started denying her lifestyle, even without asking her. She forgot that she used to post all those on her WhatsApp status. Or maybe, she thought I forgot. It was at this point I discovered something was fishy.

Aunty, oya come to bed and let's get started na. She did. Then, as a guy na, I started touching her. Na so aunty talk say she no be my girlfriend, therefore, make I no dey touch her like that. In my mind, I said, na joke this sisi dey jare. She just dey form. I pressed further, but she kept on turning me down. It was at this point I had to choose between losing my grip or holding my grip.

I picked up my phone and called my guys in the compound if they will be able to open the gate for me. Luckily for me, the third guy I called was up. Stood up from the bed, dressed up, transferred the same amount of fare I she expended for coming to my place into her account. Gave her cash to find her way out of the estate.

Before I left, I told her she messed up big time, and that I cannot tolerate that. "Goodnight, and safe trip back to wherever you came from" I said. (This is because I discovered she didn't come to Abuja solely because of me)

Na so I commot. On my way home, I missed her call once and that even reminded me to block and delete her contact.

So, my question is, did I overreact?

Well, u no do bad o. But u fit send guy like me 2k ma take hold body small I no too sure but u show d banny say u pass her level and at dat point she go know say she don cast

I see a lot of myself in you because I would've done exactly what you did. I don't tolerate nonsense from people of that gender. The only thing I wouldn't do is coming here to seek people's validation, I have zero emotion like that.

Over try dey worry you OP...
Me liadis ehn...
Shi Shi, you no go see ...
Even that hotel bill sef, it'll be on you ...

OP, you seem like the gentle and quit type
What nonsense!

That ashawo wanted to use you and cash out and after which she'll dump you and move on.

You fall my hands big time by giving her that money, someone you could've ordered to get out of your room the moment she fumbles
Vomit all the food she has eaten and then return back your money And then send the Olosho out immediately.

OP, if you continue being gentle and nice like this, girls go dey use you play!

Op you are a small king. But normal normal you for no give any money again to sort herself..
next time dress up and leave
No time my man

Animegirl wan chop you ni? Lol

Ufedolove:
I forgot to mention that she said no word after all my short soliloquy.

alphaNomega:
so wetin make you come open thread?

Lol. I really don't have an answer to this question

Xainttee001:



Well, u no do bad o. But u fit send guy like me 2k ma take hold body small I no too sure but u show d banny say u pass her level and at dat point she go know say she don cast

Baba, make me sef send aza

Nonexisting:
I see a lot of myself in you because I would've done exactly what you did. I don't tolerate nonsense from people of that gender. The only thing I wouldn't do is coming here to seek people's validation, I have zero emotion like that.

Thanks

Favfables1:
Over try dey worry you OP...
Me liadis ehn...
Shi Shi, you no go see ...
Even that hotel bill sef, it'll be on you ...

Hahaha! You na bad man na

GoodHardDick:
OP, you seem like the gentle and quit type
What nonsense!

That ashawo wanted to use you and cash out and after which she'll dump you and move on.

You fall my hands big time by giving her that money, someone you could've ordered to get out of your room the moment she fumbles
Vomit all the food she has eaten and then return back your money And then send the Olosho out immediately.

OP, if you continue being gentle and nice like this, girls go dey use you play!

I'm not gentle. She just wasn't worth any effort at all. And my reputation can't be risked in the hands of one St. Olosho

arthurwillia:
Op you are a small king. But normal normal you for no give any money again to sort herself..
next time dress up and leave
No time my man

Animegirl wan chop you ni? Lol

There won't be a next time with that girl. And I don't hope to meet with her type till I leave this earth.

..

She no well

How can a banny agree to follow a guy to enter a hotel room and the same time insist say she no wor lash...Who does that?

Ufedolove:


Baba, make me sef send aza

Hahaha u no serious

Ufedolove:


There won't be a next time with that girl. And I don't hope to meet with her type till I leave this earth.

You can not d without so far you are in the street, you will always meet them
Just use your head.

She I was in school
I invited a babe all the way from lag to ife
She came and said no sex
I didnt touch her
Day break
Took her to bus garage
Told her to sit so I can use ATM
Haha you know the rest

arthurwillia:


You can not d without so far you are in the street, you will always meet them
Just use your head.

She I was in school
I invited a babe all the way from lag to ife
She came and said no sex
I didnt touch her
Day break
Took her to bus garage
Told her to sit so I can use ATM
Haha you know the rest

Yes o. I know the rest. You be sabi guy