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This Is Why Most Peopje Are Not Succesfull by Thebest5(m): 9:16am On Mar 06, 2022
Being succesful is not easy as the word "sUcCesFuL" only people that are determine, hard working and self displine can be succesful, being succesful does not actually mean making money because you can be rich but your business is not succeful, you might be rich but your career is lacking hence you're not succesful.

you can percieve a succesful person by his/her deaminor and way of reaction to the outcome, probably a succesful person can not be spotted in un pleasant places that have nothing good in the outcome. a succesful person is very rare to see because he/her are chasing their goals in the long run, if you can't see any succesful person is because you're not succesful. Succesful people always create a circle that only include succesful persons.

THE REASON WHY YOU ARE NOT SUCCESFUL:
being succesful depend on your habit, keeping good habit help's you to communicate with your positive energy inside your posibility that you can use to manifest the reality you are craving for, if you want to know how succesful you will become in life then minus your bad habit away from your good habit then see for yourself. you can become anything you want to be in life because it depend on you, your choice, knowledge and actions towards your goals.

keep good habit consistently and discipline yourself towards your goals.

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Re: This Is Why Most Peopje Are Not Succesfull by xtremeTall(m): 10:01am On Mar 06, 2022
Re: This Is Why Most Peopje Are Not Succesfull by Thebest5(m): 10:17am On Mar 06, 2022
xtremeTall:

what's that?
Re: This Is Why Most Peopje Are Not Succesfull by xtremeTall(m): 10:42am On Mar 06, 2022
Thebest5:

what's that?
oh it was just my preferred emoji to react to your thread.
Feel inspired bro .happy Sunday
Re: This Is Why Most Peopje Are Not Succesfull by Thebest5(m): 10:49am On Mar 06, 2022
xtremeTall:
oh it was just my preferred emoji to react to your thread.
Feel inspired bro .happy Sunday
okay, thanks, same to you, check my latest post about willpower.
Re: This Is Why Most Peopje Are Not Succesfull by xtremeTall(m): 11:14am On Mar 06, 2022
Thebest5:

okay, thanks, same to you, check my latest post about willpower.
Great knowledge sir.
Just go through it ,
U get site ?
Re: This Is Why Most Peopje Are Not Succesfull by xtremeTall(m): 11:15am On Mar 06, 2022
xtremeTall:
Great knowledge sir.
Just go through it ,
U get site ?
I can visit there often for your contents
Re: This Is Why Most Peopje Are Not Succesfull by Thebest5(m): 11:19am On Mar 06, 2022
xtremeTall:
Great knowledge sir.
Just go through it ,
U get site ?
i don't have site but i type write for blogers.
Re: This Is Why Most Peopje Are Not Succesfull by xtremeTall(m): 11:49am On Mar 06, 2022
Thebest5:

i don't have site but i type write for blogers.
okay ,
I’m just an ordinary reader,
Okay I go follow up for ur more contents
Re: This Is Why Most Peopje Are Not Succesfull by Thebest5(m): 1:38pm On Mar 06, 2022
xtremeTall:
okay ,
I’m just an ordinary reader,
Okay I go follow up for ur more contents
okay glad to know.
Re: This Is Why Most Peopje Are Not Succesfull by LarryA1(m): 5:28pm On Mar 06, 2022
Thebest5:
Being succesful is not easy as the word "sUcCesFuL" only people that are determine, hard working and self displine can be succesful, being succesful does not actually mean making money because you can be rich but your business is not succeful, you might be rich but your career is lacking hence you're not succesful.

you can percieve a succesful person by his/her deaminor and way of reaction to the outcome, probably a succesful person can not be spotted in un pleasant places that have nothing good in the outcome. a succesful person is very rare to see because he/her are chasing their goals in the long run, if you can't see any succesful person is because you're not succesful. Succesful people always create a circle that only include succesful persons.

THE REASON WHY YOU ARE NOT SUCCESFUL:
being succesful depend on your habit, keeping good habit help's you to communicate with your positive energy inside your posibility that you can use to manifest the reality you are craving for, if you want to know how succesful you will become in life then minus your bad habit away from your good habit then see for yourself. you can become anything you want to be in life because it depend on you, your choice, knowledge and actions towards your goals.

keep good habit consistently and discipline yourself towards your goals.
Thanks brother . Bad habit is a curse
Re: This Is Why Most Peopje Are Not Succesfull by jaxxy(m): 6:24pm On Mar 06, 2022
Success routine/habits. Nice
Re: This Is Why Most Peopje Are Not Succesfull by Thebest5(m): 7:51pm On Mar 06, 2022
LarryA1:

Thanks brother . Bad habit is a curse
you're welcome.
Re: This Is Why Most Peopje Are Not Succesfull by Thebest5(m): 7:52pm On Mar 06, 2022
jaxxy:
Success routine/habits. Nice
yeah.
Re: This Is Why Most Peopje Are Not Succesfull by kennylagos(m): 8:44pm On Mar 06, 2022
True talk
Re: This Is Why Most Peopje Are Not Succesfull by Anon4: 8:53pm On Mar 06, 2022
Habits and friends
Re: This Is Why Most Peopje Are Not Succesfull by CharlotteFlair: 11:46pm On Mar 06, 2022
Thebest5:

okay, thanks, same to you, check my latest post about willpower.
Please can you expand this huge topic for more content and readers delight?

It's a very interesting topic but too compact. Eg, you can outline what you mean by bad habits standing against success, and the good ones which must be sustained. You can cite a case study for better appreciation.

Thank you.
Re: This Is Why Most Peopje Are Not Succesfull by ZhanVeera(f): 5:36am On Mar 07, 2022
Discipline!!!
Re: This Is Why Most Peopje Are Not Succesfull by Thebest5(m): 7:32am On Mar 07, 2022
CharlotteFlair:
Please can you expand this huge topic for more content and readers delight?

It's a very interesting topic but too compact. Eg, you can outline what you mean by bad habits standing against success, and the good ones which must be sustained. You can cite a case study for better appreciation.

Thank you.
okay i'll update it in this thread.

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Re: This Is Why Most Peopje Are Not Succesfull by Thebest5(m): 10:37am On Mar 07, 2022
WHY BAD HABITS CAN STOP YOU TO ATTAIN SUCCES
Bad habit and good habit are negativity and positivity, life can not be stable whitout bad things happening and good things but will be unstable if bad occur the most or if good occur the most, same flaw goes to habit too.

to be succesful you need to have more good habit than bad habit because bad habit can keep you in your comfort zone for long or forever if you wish to.

bad habit like smoking or hard drugs can restrain you from succes if your good habit is below your bad habit, for instance you run a big company, your good habit is to pay attention to your business and you don't have any good habit apart from that, while your bad habit is to smoke and take hard drugs consistently, in this case your business will definately run down.

being lazy is not a bad habit neither a good habit, it's because your willpower has drain and you need to refill it, bad and good habit is what makes you, you only need to regulate both of them or push your good habits above.

i know a guy that claim to be near pefection when it comes to good habit, he claims he have no bad habits and i wanted to figure it out for myself, sometimes i saw him write notes, draw pictures and watch doctrines, sometimes meditate to ease stress and increase his willpower but when his friends visited, he starts to backbite some guys which simply mean he also have bad habits but he always hide it.

THESE ARE THE WAYS BAD HABITS CAN STOP YOU TO ATTAIN SUCCES
*smoking always will definately hold you down.
*taking hard drugs without paying attention to your career will hold you down
*gossiping about others without noticing yourself will hold you down
*womanizing with your last cash will hold you down
*feeling comfortable without ambitions will hold you down

so many ways of it can hold you down.

typing....
Re: This Is Why Most Peopje Are Not Succesfull by Thebest5(m): 11:16am On Mar 07, 2022
What is success? It's different from one person to the next, but one thing we all have in common is that we love to progress. Nobody is happy being stagnant. And, as distinguished psychologist Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi notes, we are happiest when we are doing work--but that work has to be challenging and invigorating.
However, few people actually achieve their dreams. But it's not for lack of ability.

The truth is that bad habits keep many people from ever achieving the kind of success they dream about.


1. Caring what others think and allowing this to cloud decision-making
This is a really hard one. We are community-oriented creatures and crave interaction with others. We need to feel connected to people in order to thrive, and it is in our nature to want acceptance from others.
However, making career decisions only to look good to others is a success killer. For true success, you need to tap into your own truth and follow your instinct. What is truly right for you may be different from what your parents, community, or society thinks is right. These outside forces will push you in a direction that is right for them, not you.
Break the habit: Let go of what others think. It's hard, but your truth is what will lead you in the right direction. Follow your instinct.


2. Liking your job but not loving it
A job you like can feel like a comfortable couch: There's no pressing reason to get up, and it keeps you in your comfort zone. The couch may be comfy, but soon you will become a couch potato. A comfortable job will slowly drain you of your creative energy and your zest for life. In a comfortable job, you aren't challenged to the hilt. Without these things, you can't achieve greatness.
Greatness comes from growth and going deep into your potential. You can't be all that you can if you are on cruise control. So stop being OK with liking your job. Ask yourself--do you really love this job?
Break the habit: Identify what truly sets you on fire at work, and dedicate yourself to making changes to your work situation to bring in more opportunities for growth and challenge. This could involve talking to your manager about increasing your responsibilities, moving into a different department, or even leaving your current jobfor a new one.


3. Not believing you can achieve your dreams
The idea of a "dream job" is confusing--we often think of it as a dream that we secretly don't believe could ever happen.
Guess what: if you don't believe in your ability to make dreams come true, it will 100 percent not happen. We all have negative mental chatter that fights to keep us down, and the only thing that can combat this is the daily, ritualistic belief that you can do whatever you have set your sights on. This belief in yourself is grit--a fantastic mix of courage, resolve, and strength of character. As Angela Duckworth said in her TED Talk, grit is the number one criteria for success.
Break the habit: Whenever you find yourself thinking that you'll never achieve your dream job, stop yourself. Instead, identify one thing you can do next to further yourself along the path to your ideal career.

this is all for this topic. Have a blessed day.
Re: This Is Why Most Peopje Are Not Succesfull by Thebest5(m): 11:18am On Mar 07, 2022
CharlotteFlair:
Please can you expand this huge topic for more content and readers delight?

It's a very interesting topic but too compact. Eg, you can outline what you mean by bad habits standing against success, and the good ones which must be sustained. You can cite a case study for better appreciation.

Thank you.
updated^^.
Re: This Is Why Most Peopje Are Not Succesfull by CharlotteFlair: 11:49am On Mar 07, 2022
"Greatness comes from growth and going deep into your potentials"

Thanks for this great reminder not to rest on my oars Op.

Lalasticlala mynd44 Seun please kindly take this to front page and perhaps our teeming youths who are all bent on getting lost these day can have a rethink.

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