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Some Things To Expect When Dating A Girl Who Has Poor Uneducated Parents by thalpy(m): 2:02pm On Mar 18, 2022
Omor relationship with different educational background has a lot of role to play in a relationship. Sometimes people tends to say you are dating her and not her family . I guess that no longer go well with me again.. even in biology to form a zygote it requires both the gene of mother and father. If the father is porous or mum is porous one of the children will be, most expecially if they were raised up by same parents .
Two of my ex's omor ! Am not trying to bellitle uneducated parents who are really not well to do. But I still dated a lady who has educated parents that are still not well to do.
There was a huge difference which I am about to state below.

Though it can't be genaralised but to some extent most have similar trait . They have the ability to do anything they like and the parents have zero control over them .And if you as a guy were brought up by parents that are disciplined just know it's going to cause huge chaos.
Most of the things you see as wrong they see as normal. And ones you try to educate them you hear my parents never bothered me about this.lolz.
Now if you are dating a lady from religious background it will cause quarrel but they will listen and be submissive but those that their parents don't give a damn about that omor one correction is like you telling them go find another guy.

Their parents never question how they got things they themselves can't afford, if they bring 3 guys within a month home as long as there is cash they praise them then few father's/mother's will be like ""is this the way you want to live your life, na you know"". No forceful sanction towards their children they make Dem feel like they are above 30 years who have started staying on their own mean while they are still very young.

They lack courtesy, they stay up late till night like normal, they can sleep anywhere for days and still go back home, their parents will only talk but no action. They can eat anywhere without thinking twice (well that is understandable since no food for house )

The funniest thing is they ask for things that won't help them. Things like phones ,many new clothes, outing . But most of the ladies who came from uneducated parent but went to private schools or good schools where they interact with kids or students brought up by educated parents tends to learn from them and deviate gradually from the typical way children of uneducated parents behave.
And lastly if you dating any of such, just know you are like their parents(many billing) if their parents are not doing well. Food, clothes,phones everything their parents leave everything for their kids ( unlike educated poor parents who no matter what will still fed for their children no matter how small and to an extent still question something huge they know they can't afford, Critizise their kids when post, when they follow different guys up and down . Infact they call their chidred to other ). These ladies look stingy but they might not be because they have so many needs so any little cash that enters their hand they sought out. So it looks like they don't like giving but too much things needs to be sought out.
So if you are brought up by educated parents and you intend dating a girl who didn't attend a good school from scratch and is from an uneducated poor background just be ready for initial misunderstanding because of different idea about life.
So when you know the background of a girl you are dating it gives more info about the character you should expect to see in her. That's why I hardly encourage online dating. When you eventually meet ,that quarrel wen una avoid must showcase because without it there won't be strong understanding

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Re: Some Things To Expect When Dating A Girl Who Has Poor Uneducated Parents by LordIsaac(m): 2:08pm On Mar 18, 2022
You are 100% correct. I speak from experience. So with girls whose mothers do runs.
I didn't know these infallible truths many years ago when I dated one like that. I just wasted 5years of my life on her. This is a great lesson many will not know. Kudos OP.

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