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empress101:
Hi everyone..
So I met this guy online, we started talking..We got really comfortable with each other although he didn't ask me out yet and he promised to visit my city soon..
Fast forward to last week, he visited, we finally saw each other and I think he liked me(Note : We didn't have sex)..
So the thing now is, since he left back to his base,he stopped calling (infact, he didnt tell me if he got home safely or not) . I tried calling and he wouldn't pick either...
For 2days now, he wouldn't pick or call ,he ignores my messages on whatsApp...
I'm really confused on what could be wrong..

NB: I dont look different from pictures online..

The dude saw you and didn't like you... probably disappointed... LET HIM BE

Post your pictures. Lemme quickly check something . Pls i don't want filtered or make up pics. Just natural

Three Things;

1) Dude didn't get home safely

2) He is playing the bread crumbing game.

3) He is married or in a serious relationship.

Palema007:
Three Things;

1) Dude didn't get home safely

2) He is playing the bread crumbing game.

3) He is married or in a serious relationship.

Bread crumbing game?? How

empress101:

Bread crumbing game?? How

Lol... this is where the guy ghost you to keep you on the edge. It's like an attraction technique though manipulative and unpleasant.

Palema007:
Lol... this is where the guy ghost you to keep you on the edge. It's like an attraction technique though manipulative and unpleasant.

You be mad man bros... why you tell her na

Na wa for you ooo comrade. Oya kneel down, raise up your two hands and close your eyes

Palema007:
Lol... this is where the guy ghost you to keep you on the edge. It's like an attraction technique though manipulative and unpleasant.

oh wow,that's his plan?? Lol DOA..

McEphiks:


You be mad man bros... why you tell her na

Na wa for you ooo comrade. Oya kneel down, raise up your two hands and close your eyes

I gat to save a fellow Sis, I no be bros. I be Lady o

Palema007:
Lol... this is where the guy ghost you to keep you on the edge. It's like an attraction technique though manipulative and unpleasant.

Then what happened after he did that, will he start chatting her up and will she suddenly wants him so bad after the ghosting.

One more question, do a lot of guys do that

Palema007:


I gat to save a fellow Sis, I no be bros. I be Lady o

No wonder... you may be right or perhaps the guy just wan ghost.

How about her sense of humor, how well did she handle the conversation. What was discussed and how did she appear. A lot could have happened aside from the game part of it

You can't always be sure lol

empress101:
oh wow,that's his plan?? Lol DOA..

You can't be so sure.... As soon as you are certain he got home safely and he gives no reasonable reason for his actions, turn his game against him. Act like he is getting you then ghost him when he lose guard. .

That's if you have the time sha, because I ignore such people. No time.

Might be that you don't have the features he was expecting or you're short.. meeting someone physically is usually a different ball game from seeing filtered and edited pictures.

McEphiks:




No wonder... you may be right or perhaps the guy just wan ghost.

How about her sense of humor, how well did she handle the conversation. What was discussed and how did she appear. A lot could have happened aside from the game part of it

You can't always be sure lol

Lol... I gave 3 options, she only asked for more information on what she doesn't understand. Lol, I only explained better.

Yeah... A lot could have happened but it's coward to ghost on a person instead of dealing with the issues head-on.

Palema007:
Lol... I gave 3 options, she only asked for more information on what she doesn't understand. Lol, I only explained better.

Yeah... A lot could have happened but it's coward to ghost on a person instead of dealing with the issues head-on.

Lol... no be you go tell me wetin good or not.

You can't be sure of her choice of words that had made the guy decide to ghost it that was to be the case.

For instance, if she had said "I can't can't change for anyman" there wouldn't be need to tell her anything.

Lastly, ghosting saves stress especially since the conversation is still fresh and no emotional investment has been made.

Saves the time and stress.

SurvivorM:
Then what happened after he did that, will he start chatting her up and will she suddenly wants him so bad after the ghosting.

One more question, do a lot of guys do that

Well, most times women get more intrigued and infatuated with what they do not understand. When a guy acts different from norms (dating after meeting) it tends to raise their curiosity and sometimes makes them insecure. They can hardly take rejection too. That way, the woman's guard is down and she is asking what she's done wrong, why the guy is acting the way he is? etc..
Continuous thoughts about the guy raises the lady's interest and once the guy shows up out of the blues, she subconsciously sought him.

I can't say a lot of guys do that, I can't say little number of boys do it. I haven't been with all guys but the only guy that ever tried it with me failed. Thank God for information plus I don't play games.

Why didn't you give him the forbidden fruit to eat . Dude was disappointed after spending so much only for you to be stingy with your pussy

McEphiks:


Lol... no be you go tell me wetin good or not.

You can't be sure of her choice of words that had made the guy decide to ghost it that was to be the case.

For instance, if she had said "I can't can't change for anyman" there wouldn't be need to tell her anything.

Lastly, ghosting saves stress especially since the conversation is still fresh and no emotional investment has been made.

Saves the time and stress.

Okay.... You are Right.

Palema007:
Well, most times women get more intrigued and infatuated with what they do not understand. When a guy acts different from norms (dating after meeting) it tends to raise their curiosity and sometimes makes them insecure. They can hardly take rejection too. That way, the woman's guard is down and she is asking what she's done wrong, why the guy is acting the way he is? etc..
Continuous thoughts about the guy raises the lady's interest and once the guy shows up out of the blues, she subconsciously sought him.

I can't say a lot of guys do that, I can't say little number of boys do it. I haven't been with all guys but the only guy that ever tried it with me failed. Thank God for information plus I don't play games.

Thanks

Palema007:
Okay.... You are Right.

Lol


You missed the humor in that I guess.

That said, we can't handle every situation the same way. The young man is handling it to the best of his ability. Either right or wrong, he feels he's doing what's best for him.

McEphiks:


Lol


You missed the humor in that I guess.

That said, we can't handle every situation the same way. The young man is handling it to the best of his ability. Either right or wrong, he feels he's doing what's best for him.

I guess so.


I hope this liberal ideology of yours applies to both gender.

Palema007:
I guess so.


I hope this liberal ideology of yours applies to both gender.

It applies to humans. Most times we do what we feel is the best to do. That's why mistakes are inevitably necessary in our growth.

Like I said, either right or wrong; humans take decisions based on what they feel is right to do.

empress101:
Hi everyone..
So I met this guy online, we started talking..We got really comfortable with each other although he didn't ask me out yet and he promised to visit my city soon..
Fast forward to last week, he visited, we finally saw each other and I think he liked me(Note : We didn't have sex)..
So the thing now is, since he left back to his base,he stopped calling (infact, he didnt tell me if he got home safely or not) . I tried calling and he wouldn't pick either...
For 2days now, he wouldn't pick or call ,he ignores my messages on whatsApp...
I'm really confused on what could be wrong..

NB: I dont look different from pictures online..

If someone is ghosting you, ghost them back in return. We are currently 7 billion in population, and 1 person is far too insignificant to toy with your emotions.

Not everyone will like you, even if you're 100% perfect. You can do everything right and still fail. That's life in a nutshell.

Get up, and think about the possibilities before you.

McEphiks:


It applies to humans. Most times we do what we feel is the best to do. That's why mistakes are inevitably necessary in our growth.

Like I said, either right or wrong; humans take decisions based on what they feel is right to do.

I agree with you on this.

empress101:
Hi everyone..
So I met this guy online, we started talking..We got really comfortable with each other although he didn't ask me out yet and he promised to visit my city soon..
Fast forward to last week, he visited, we finally saw each other and I think he liked me(Note : We didn't have sex)..
So the thing now is, since he left back to his base,he stopped calling (infact, he didnt tell me if he got home safely or not) . I tried calling and he wouldn't pick either...
For 2days now, he wouldn't pick or call ,he ignores my messages on whatsApp...
I'm really confused on what could be wrong..

NB: I dont look different from pictures online..

just be grateful you didn't have sex. Ignore him.such things happen.

He didn't like you simple

empress101:
So the thing now is, since he left back to his base,he stopped calling (infact, he didnt tell me if he got home safely or not) . I tried calling and he wouldn't pick either...
For 2days now, he wouldn't pick or call ,he ignores my messages on whatsApp...
I'm really confused on what could be wrong..
NB: I dont look different from pictures online..

Come on, I hope you have no plans or hopes to date someone who did what you claim here, right?