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Re: My Heart Is Shattered � Battered And Scattered by shurch(m): 8:53am On Mar 23, 2022
If only you knew what God saved you from.
Just cook better soup, eat, sleep and pray .
Life will favour you again soon enough.

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Re: My Heart Is Shattered � Battered And Scattered by jimter44(m): 8:53am On Mar 23, 2022
Just take heart. The guy is not your husband. Your husband is coming!!! God just saved from your something that may have destroyed your entire life.

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Re: My Heart Is Shattered � Battered And Scattered by seanwilliam(m): 8:53am On Mar 23, 2022
advanceDNA:


People come and complain of heart breaks, saying they are amazing human beings, did everything right and don’t deserve to be treated bad...yeah, aren’t we all good people??

But the truth is we ignore a lot, and we assume we are doing everything right just becos the next person is smiling and the sex is great....

we allow little excitement impair our judgement, making us ignore red flags, and the things that truly matter.... when the bomb is now dropped on us we start to assume we were treated badly....

did we really do everything right?
were we really perfect for that person that left of for someone else??

Yeah some people can be mean...It still doesn’t change the fact that we ignore a lot of things that allow other to be mean to the us..

at the end of the day, what they did my be hurtful, but they are just doing what’s best for them......everyone is entitled to that.

as crazy as this might sound, it’s the reality.

Trust me, no man will leave an invaluable woman that adds positivity to his life. Also don’t forget there are two sides of a story. Some men would have seen the red flags in you but then will keep hitting the couchie if it’s sweet and will drop it like a hot yam when they see thd right person ..I don’t think any man will marry a woman out of pity.










5 years is too much though but then it’s what it is. Life is unfair. This same woman will dump him if she sees better offer

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Re: My Heart Is Shattered � Battered And Scattered by DoctorOlasDesk: 8:53am On Mar 23, 2022
OMG. Some humans are beasts o
Re: My Heart Is Shattered � Battered And Scattered by harmargedon: 8:53am On Mar 23, 2022
Graceihotu:
My question is "what do guys really want"
I am not saying I am perfect but I know I am surely the best girlfriend any guy could ever think of yet I am still experiencing heartbreak at 31���


Had issues with my boyfriend since last year April bkos of a particular girl he posted on Facebook addressing her as the mother of his house. I became angry and told him I was only going to continue the relationship if I spoke to the lady in question bkos same lady posted him too calling him her first love.


He told me the lady was his cousin sister and ofcourse I believed him bkos she bares same surname with his cousin brother whoose wedding we attended together, He addressed me as his wife to be throughout the occasion so I had everything to believe in him

Just five days ago I saw his wedding notification on Facebook with that same lady. My heart has never been this broken B4 in my life. I have cried out my soul to the extent that I barely see clearly this days. I tried not to cry but I just can't. I am seriously weeping as I am typing this.

I have tried to encourage myself but I just can't stop crying and WAILING.

Who have I ever offended and what exactly do guys want?

I have searched all through the 5 yrs of relationship and aswear with my life that I never stressed him but I only requested Love not Money from him

My heart is bleeding.
I only sent him his pre-wedding pics and congratulated him then he replied "thanks''

He feels I don't deserve an explanation �����
I'll tell you what probably no one will. If you've been through lots of relationship and non seems to work out, then it's either you've been dating the wrong guys or there's actually something they see in you that turns them off.
Try to change the type of guys you fall for, from the look of things, they are not for you. Don't give up, love will surely find you, Just calm down and it will come. I sent you a mail, please do reply me back.

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Re: My Heart Is Shattered � Battered And Scattered by Jagaban79: 8:54am On Mar 23, 2022
Sorry sis, that's not the end of the world, just be strong and focus, God will surely hear your cry, just thank God the relationship ended this way. Wherever he is, he will not have rest. Sorry dear.

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Re: My Heart Is Shattered � Battered And Scattered by AmazingELixir: 8:54am On Mar 23, 2022
Graceihotu:
My question is "what do guys really want"
I am not saying I am perfect but I know I am surely the best girlfriend any guy could ever think of yet I am still experiencing heartbreak at 31���


Had issues with my boyfriend since last year April bkos of a particular girl he posted on Facebook addressing her as the mother of his house. I became angry and told him I was only going to continue the relationship if I spoke to the lady in question bkos same lady posted him too calling him her first love.


He told me the lady was his cousin sister and ofcourse I believed him bkos she bares same surname with his cousin brother whoose wedding we attended together, He addressed me as his wife to be throughout the occasion so I had everything to believe in him

Just five days ago I saw his wedding notification on Facebook with that same lady. My heart has never been this broken B4 in my life. I have cried out my soul to the extent that I barely see clearly this days. I tried not to cry but I just can't. I am seriously weeping as I am typing this.

I have tried to encourage myself but I just can't stop crying and WAILING.

Who have I ever offended and what exactly do guys want?

I have searched all through the 5 yrs of relationship and aswear with my life that I never stressed him but I only requested Love not Money from him

My heart is bleeding.
I only sent him his pre-wedding pics and congratulated him then he replied "thanks''

He feels I don't deserve an explanation �����

Please desist from using "bkos for because" before you know it you'll start using it in official correspondences.

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Re: My Heart Is Shattered � Battered And Scattered by uchmannn(m): 8:54am On Mar 23, 2022
I think there is something about u he is not certain about or rather pushing him away.

Anyways take heart and move on.
LIFE GOES ON DEAR!!!!
Re: My Heart Is Shattered � Battered And Scattered by SirbobbyDgreat: 8:54am On Mar 23, 2022
From the way you type I can tell that guy has damage your self worth so bad, shake it up, upgrade yourself up, go out have fun and I bet you this your ex would beg to come back to you.

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Re: My Heart Is Shattered � Battered And Scattered by Mrbenny001: 8:54am On Mar 23, 2022
But people/ some guy wicked oo... How does guys like this sleep at night

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Re: My Heart Is Shattered � Battered And Scattered by alyarmouk(m): 8:54am On Mar 23, 2022
Sorry oo..such is life....just find good dick tk console yourself.

I can host u at ilashe beach resort for 2 days .if u no mind. Just so u can clear ur head. Ofcourse you can come with a female friend if u don't feel secured
Re: My Heart Is Shattered � Battered And Scattered by DryMouth: 8:54am On Mar 23, 2022
clockwisereport:


It could be your sister or cousin or daughter

Dont switch off your brain when you come online
Who cares if she is my sister?

Switch on your artificial sense wen coming online. At least e better pass your natural sense
Re: My Heart Is Shattered � Battered And Scattered by Johnboom: 8:54am On Mar 23, 2022
Trust God to give you decent husband not boy friend_ girl friend sinful act. This can only be achieved on your kneel. . . I invite you to any Apostolic Faith Church. God bless you.

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Re: My Heart Is Shattered � Battered And Scattered by mrdharkchild(m): 8:55am On Mar 23, 2022
I'm so sorry for what he did to u dear, but there are 2 sides to a story

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Re: My Heart Is Shattered � Battered And Scattered by Bashnigga(m): 8:55am On Mar 23, 2022
Graceihotu:
My question is "what do guys really want"
I am not saying I am perfect but I know I am surely the best girlfriend any guy could ever think of yet I am still experiencing heartbreak at 31���


Had issues with my boyfriend since last year April bkos of a particular girl he posted on Facebook addressing her as the mother of his house. I became angry and told him I was only going to continue the relationship if I spoke to the lady in question bkos same lady posted him too calling him her first love.


He told me the lady was his cousin sister and ofcourse I believed him bkos she bares same surname with his cousin brother whoose wedding we attended together, He addressed me as his wife to be throughout the occasion so I had everything to believe in him

Just five days ago I saw his wedding notification on Facebook with that same lady. My heart has never been this broken B4 in my life. I have cried out my soul to the extent that I barely see clearly this days. I tried not to cry but I just can't. I am seriously weeping as I am typing this.

I have tried to encourage myself but I just can't stop crying and WAILING.

Who have I ever offended and what exactly do guys want?

I have searched all through the 5 yrs of relationship and aswear with my life that I never stressed him but I only requested Love not Money from him

My heart is bleeding.
I only sent him his pre-wedding pics and congratulated him then he replied "thanks''

He feels I don't deserve an explanation �����
Just take it that it just wasn't meant to be... U go dey alright
Re: My Heart Is Shattered � Battered And Scattered by MARYIAN(f): 8:55am On Mar 23, 2022
Just hang in there okay. It's only time it'll take but you'll surely heal.

He doesn't deserve you at all.

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Re: My Heart Is Shattered � Battered And Scattered by Ayoalhaja(m): 8:55am On Mar 23, 2022
make we wait and hear the beautiful side of the man story.. I Dont trust this gender...

but the guy no try, have never felt like this ever since have been reading series of heartbroken threads on nairaland.

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Re: My Heart Is Shattered � Battered And Scattered by boladale123: 8:55am On Mar 23, 2022
Most of us are jobless.
If not ,how could a grown-up person be crying all day (24hrs)?
People are not engaged anymore,na only to dey watch emotional Korean films.
How can you even date for 5yrs?
The guy gave you enough reasons to Japan but you ignored them.
Buhari never show us pepper,no wahala.

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Re: My Heart Is Shattered � Battered And Scattered by Kunleop: 8:55am On Mar 23, 2022
Graceihotu:
My question is "what do guys really want"
I am not saying I am perfect but I know I am surely the best girlfriend any guy could ever think of yet I am still experiencing heartbreak at 31���


Had issues with my boyfriend since last year April bkos of a particular girl he posted on Facebook addressing her as the mother of his house. I became angry and told him I was only going to continue the relationship if I spoke to the lady in question bkos same lady posted him too calling him her first love.


He told me the lady was his cousin sister and ofcourse I believed him bkos she bares same surname with his cousin brother whoose wedding we attended together, He addressed me as his wife to be throughout the occasion so I had everything to believe in him

Just five days ago I saw his wedding notification on Facebook with that same lady. My heart has never been this broken B4 in my life. I have cried out my soul to the extent that I barely see clearly this days. I tried not to cry but I just can't. I am seriously weeping as I am typing this.

I have tried to encourage myself but I just can't stop crying and WAILING.

Who have I ever offended and what exactly do guys want?

I have searched all through the 5 yrs of relationship and aswear with my life that I never stressed him but I only requested Love not Money from him

My heart is bleeding.
I only sent him his pre-wedding pics and congratulated him then he replied "thanks''

He feels I don't deserve an explanation �����


Its had happened already..I felt your pain, just get up and pray to God either u a muslim or Christian, and moved on with your life..
Every disappointment is a blessing in disguise.
There is a woman for every man and man for every woman ..
Don't be discourage, never relent, keep hoping and keep believing.
God is your strength sister.

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Re: My Heart Is Shattered � Battered And Scattered by Nobody: 8:55am On Mar 23, 2022
Maybe you no get big yansh that's why
Re: My Heart Is Shattered � Battered And Scattered by nigeriagospel(m): 8:56am On Mar 23, 2022
Graceihotu:
My question is "what do guys really want"
I am not saying I am perfect but I know I am surely the best girlfriend any guy could ever think of yet I am still experiencing heartbreak at 31���


Had issues with my boyfriend since last year April bkos of a particular girl he posted on Facebook addressing her as the mother of his house. I became angry and told him I was only going to continue the relationship if I spoke to the lady in question bkos same lady posted him too calling him her first love.


He told me the lady was his cousin sister and ofcourse I believed him bkos she bares same surname with his cousin brother whoose wedding we attended together, He addressed me as his wife to be throughout the occasion so I had everything to believe in him

Just five days ago I saw his wedding notification on Facebook with that same lady. My heart has never been this broken B4 in my life. I have cried out my soul to the extent that I barely see clearly this days. I tried not to cry but I just can't. I am seriously weeping as I am typing this.

I have tried to encourage myself but I just can't stop crying and WAILING.

Who have I ever offended and what exactly do guys want?

I have searched all through the 5 yrs of relationship and aswear with my life that I never stressed him but I only requested Love not Money from him

My heart is bleeding.
I only sent him his pre-wedding pics and congratulated him then he replied "thanks''

He feels I don't deserve an explanation �����
haaaaaaaaaa can a normal human being be this " heartless" how I wish we can hear his own part of the story.

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Re: My Heart Is Shattered � Battered And Scattered by Nobody: 8:56am On Mar 23, 2022
Graceihotu:
My question is "what do guys really want"
I am not saying I am perfect but I know I am surely the best girlfriend any guy could ever think of yet I am still experiencing heartbreak at 31���


Had issues with my boyfriend since last year April bkos of a particular girl he posted on Facebook addressing her as the mother of his house. I became angry and told him I was only going to continue the relationship if I spoke to the lady in question bkos same lady posted him too calling him her first love.


He told me the lady was his cousin sister and ofcourse I believed him bkos she bares same surname with his cousin brother whoose wedding we attended together, He addressed me as his wife to be throughout the occasion so I had everything to believe in him

Just five days ago I saw his wedding notification on Facebook with that same lady. My heart has never been this broken B4 in my life. I have cried out my soul to the extent that I barely see clearly this days. I tried not to cry but I just can't. I am seriously weeping as I am typing this.

I have tried to encourage myself but I just can't stop crying and WAILING.

Who have I ever offended and what exactly do guys want?

I have searched all through the 5 yrs of relationship and aswear with my life that I never stressed him but I only requested Love not Money from him

My heart is bleeding.
I only sent him his pre-wedding pics and congratulated him then he replied "thanks''

He feels I don't deserve an explanation �����
Heartbreak is normal in today's world. We, humans, are now so selfish that we make decisions without caring how it affects others.
Just be strong.

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Re: My Heart Is Shattered � Battered And Scattered by Hamziyah(m): 8:56am On Mar 23, 2022
Graceihotu:
My question is "what do guys really want"
I am not saying I am perfect but I know I am surely the best girlfriend any guy could ever think of yet I am still experiencing heartbreak at 31���
My candid advice to you is not to get frustrated, a broken relationship is far better than a broken marriage. I knew of ladies who married in their late 30s and their marriage is still intact, i also knew of ladies who married at teens or early 20s and their marriage is nothing to write home about or are now singles. All these doesn't mean their are no early marriages that are doing good and that late marriages don't crash. Stand your grand, maintain your calm but don't make your taste infeasible. Dont just fall for anything that approah you else men would turn you to public utility. I dont care what religion you practice, but don't underestimate the power of supplication in prayer to the most High.

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Re: My Heart Is Shattered � Battered And Scattered by Emmanuel30a: 8:56am On Mar 23, 2022
Try me&I won't hurt your heart let alone break your heart. Only if you have interest.
Re: My Heart Is Shattered � Battered And Scattered by CSTRR: 8:56am On Mar 23, 2022
When they tell you people to date men with a genuine relationship with God, una go think say na joke.

Dem never serve una breakfast finish.

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Re: My Heart Is Shattered � Battered And Scattered by Sunnybabe(m): 8:56am On Mar 23, 2022
Chaii... The is so heartbreaking..

Nwanne ndo

The Lord will be with u

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Re: My Heart Is Shattered � Battered And Scattered by seanwilliam(m): 8:56am On Mar 23, 2022
@ op, cry all you want ( you can’t escape it), you need to cry .. then pick yourself up . The bitter truth is he might still have access to your couche for life , you’re obsessed with him. May God send you the perfect man . Amen
Re: My Heart Is Shattered � Battered And Scattered by MuteMute(m): 8:56am On Mar 23, 2022
Stop dating tall guys with handsome look or Better still beard beard


But some guy and ladies wack o una dey Bleep each other and u still get mouth call another woman wife whereas nah you the guy go marry

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Re: My Heart Is Shattered � Battered And Scattered by MonkeyMods(m): 8:56am On Mar 23, 2022
Fake story. Show us the wedding IV or fuc.k off

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Re: My Heart Is Shattered � Battered And Scattered by Priscyj1(f): 8:57am On Mar 23, 2022
My sister the Lord is your strength
Everything we be fine

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Re: My Heart Is Shattered � Battered And Scattered by Nobility247(m): 8:57am On Mar 23, 2022
Send ur contact let talk[color=#000000][/color]

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