Jossyfine:
All these long epistles isn’t gonna solve a shit.
The bottom line is husbands should burst this ‘men are polygamous in nature’ and remain faithful to their partners because most women are sick and tired of fighting their husbands because of promiscuity so in turn they are learning their husbands skills.

Please, am not supporting adulterous wives ooo. But men’s own are tooooo much. Most of the men have killed the love and trust their wives have for them because of cheating , so any random guy that shows them green light, they will just fall yakata.

Marriages can be spiced by couples, if they so wish .

If you can’t stick to one woman, you don’t have any biz getting married.

QuinModah:

purehustle101:
I cant stick to one woman and am married come and beat me

dontrulee:


You sound correct but unfortunately, marriage is hard and monotonous and boring.

purehustle101:
I cant stick to one woman and am married come and beat me

Bobloco:
I don't think men are being "talkertive" here per say rather these men have found a platform where they can really express themselves.

thorpido:
Moral decadence and social media...ease of hooking up.
The biggest problem I think is a lack of love on the husbands' part.The sex especially is poor or rarely happens.

Jossyfine:


You can spice yours Bro, all the stuff you see on these slay queens are just packaging. Invest in ur wife and mark out time for just you both.Aswear you will enjoy it.

Hubby is located in one of the rigorous states in the South south while am based else where but he’s always eager to fly down to see us( I mean he comes almost every week unless work ties him down)and we have been married for close to ten years.

We garnish our relationship with a lot of orishirishi �. I encourage you to do same. All the best�

LadyRosa:



Next month.... Second marriage.

babajeje123:

Oh... what happened to the first one? I'm sorry to ask, just curious to know.

LadyRosa:



In heaven.

RightToReject:
It has always been happening long before this new era. It has only gotten worse in this new era, however, due to the following mentioned and unmentioned factors:

- Easier access to information, contact, and connection.

- Nonsense philosophies being propagated by small-minded elements in the name of wokeness, for example, most men now want to be chosen by women for a relationship/marriage; wanting to be loved by the women in their lives rather than being the ones to love their women and having them reciprocate through submission as that's where their forte lies.

- Most women now mistake equality/liberty for rights to unscrupulousness, while having some men supporting the same in the name of wokeness.

thorpido:
Moral decadence and social media...ease of hooking up.
The biggest problem I think is a lack of love on the husbands' part.The sex especially is poor or rarely happens.

Saintmary:



It rarely happens because these men have spent their energies on numerous side-chicks.


But they forgot that the wives are women who will become desirable to other men for sex at least.


Because the grass always looks greener on the other side.

Acidosis:


No, I didn't say that. We are talking about married women who commit adultery and the reasons for such act. Asides from multiple sexual experiences, I cited other reasons.

But to clear the doubts, having multiple sexual experiences certainly increases the likelihood to cheat. It applies to both men and women. You can't certainly tell me that a man who cheats and sleeps with anything under a skirt before marriage will be as faithful as a timid guy who rarely approach women.

This is not a virgin Vs nonvirgin issue, but go and check the stats of women who complain about their husband's cheating habit. How many of them married virgin men?

Saintmary:



Haaaa. Acidosis, a virgin man in Nigeria above the age of 30, maybe we have one or two left out of 200 million.


You're funny.

thorpido:
Sadly so.Both sexes are to blame though.

babajeje123:

Oh my! I'm so sorry.

LadyRosa:



Lol,it's ok.Was painful then.
Life goes on.

McStoic:
Mtcheew. Our generation is something else

LadyRosa:



Hmmm...With cream to taste bro.
But the society is getting really messed up.

Trueprophet91:


These things are not new, you're just getting to know.


This kind of conversation also went on years ago in Lagos Nigeria, just before the independence declaration... also just before amalgamation!
Heck even during the pre-colonial times , it never gets old!

LadyRosa:
Well,it's no news that there is now a surge in women, married women committing adultery in today's Nigeria.Out of
10 adultery cases on nairaland, more than half has got women as the culprit.Infact, only this week on Frontpage,more than 10 cases from nairalanders has been recorded.

Why now?What went wrong? What could be the reasons for the skyrocketing cases of cheating wives?

Revenge?

Bad xxxx?
Economic limitations and the need to keep up financial independence in gender competitive Nigeria?
Domestic abuse and subjugation?
Religious ingenuity by respected clerics?
Age?
Social media and it's larger than life attributes,a platform where disadvantaged persons can paint a picture perfect life and get away with it?

OR?
Has men become really effeminate?

I now noticed this ugly strain in NL, disgusting yet calls for deep reflection.Our men are becoming more and more loquacious than their female counterpart,they complain too much.This bantle of 'bitterness' associated with Nigeria women as been thrown to the men.Its really disgusting to say the least,I think women are supposed to be the talkatives here and not the men.Omo,the rants are getting worst with the males ñot even giving the women chance to express themselves EVEN on threads that are specifically for the women.I believe that it shows there are more jobless men than women in Nigeria.Loads and lot of verbal assault been hurled and women who have now decided to see nothing wrong in being a baby mama or a LovePeddler.Now,many of them glorifies the word.We can see that with the way a lady exposed her white pant in a birthday photoshoot recently.

So many damaged marriages.Single women and men competing in corporations, having illicit Bleep,going home to sleep like nothing happened , resuming next day competing with each other all over again.I have friends in the island who live like this.The married ones still sleep around,the single ones keep late nights with different guys and in all I noticed they value money more than marriage.As long as the money keeps rolling in,Omo _penis no hard to get,na money be de Koko.
And it is what it is.As long as _vagina ain't free,_penis is and so for the women,it's a win win for them You pay to get mine by cash or otherwise,I get yours any damn time I want.So?

Marriage in general is truly overrated.

It will surely get worst.

LadyRosa:


Not entirely true.
In my location here in the FCT, many married rich women sleeps around at will.Infact,my former boss used to sleep with one,a politician wife then in the Estate.She comes around at night,do her thing and drive off.We attend same church and she carries herself well like she does no shit.

LadyRosa:



Well,our traditional society felt marriage is all women needs.Alas,I found out that Nigeria women are evolving and infact in the most drastic way.
I have a former acquittance, a very very intelligent guy who now lives in Canada with his family who confided in me that his boss,a woman fired him because he refused to sleep with her.She is rich,married and influential.

Fresno:
When you tell men that their wives should never have male besties they think we are joking . There is nothing like bestie in any friendship between male and female , 98% of the time besties are usually their fvckbuddies.

It's just so bad that women are very promiscuous this days , I myself have had my fair share of married women, God have mercy on me. I'd still blame the husbands though because when this women narrates what they go through though the narration might be one-sided.

No care, love attention, sexless marriage are some of the things married women go through, their husbands are no where to be found, am talking about well to do women not paupers , but all the same husbands in the house let's love our wives and show them care and attention, if they begin to look outside trust lots of young Guns like me are ever-ready to give them what they want.

LadyRosa:




I bet you enjoy every bit of it knacking someone's wife .Im not the one to judge as long as it's a mutual affair

But your citations are true with married men's dispositions towards their wives.Lack of love and care tops it all.Many marriages are just too terrible to look at, nothing attractive to make the single get hooked.Little wonder the trend of baby mamaism.I see lots of women who are trying to get out after a kid or two and when they finally do,few years later they are swimming in money they lacked when they were married.

immortalmortal:
Most ladies these days go into marriage for the wrong reason. They rush into marriage either because of pressure or for financial stability. They realise afterwards, that its not all "happy-ever-after". Married Women cheat for so many reasons, Some for fun, some for emotional gratification(mostly with their ex or someone who has captured them emotionally), some cheat for money, most who cheat do so because their husdand cant satisfy dem sexually. If its okay for a man to get what ever satisfaction with another woman, i see no reason why a woman should not do same.